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I think you paint with too broad a brush , like...the hypnagogic effect from being at a rony robbins event IS THE POINT

Thats why he has no few books vs the amount of live events he does , he got started with nlp and hypnosis and gestalt therapy and yeh jim rohn but anyone can write a goals list or make a vision board or wtf ever.

You pay the 800 dollars and fly half across the country to experience that so you can leave all super pumped up and actually execute or whatever.

I think if you could say anything broadly about the self help movement (negatively) its that the act of reading a book fills an emotional need - the authors know this , its not really a secret (on this forum we call it action faking)

Idk what the angle is now that print sells a lot less but this was huge in the 80's and 90's , look up some of these authors and the sheer amount of stuff they pushed out

I remember when "the secret" got big , they had like entire aisles at bookstores that were just "law of attraction" books regurgitating the same stuff (one series the hook was that the information was being telepathically picked up from an interdimensional being or something?)

Anyway , i'll admit I like reading for readings sake (read that as "I use it to procrastinate a lot") but at least i'm insightful enough to recognize that. One handy rule of thumb I've found is if I have a problem I need to tackle (and the solution involves learning) , "three book limit". Also before reading the first book you have to have done some massive action toward the goal in some other way (never leave the scene of a decision / new goal without having taken massive action)
 
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O fup'v lpux xjisi O'f ci xovjuav timg-jimq. Qsucecmz xuamf jewi tvadl e .38 op nz nuavj op vji nof-90t.

Teni cav xovjuav zuas cuult.

Et gus vji UQ ziej, tuni qiuqmi hiv tadlif op epf vasp opvu Timg-Jimq Kaploit. Cav timg-jimq ot e vuum, epf et xovj iwisz vuum, ov't ecuav jux zua ati ov, vji vuum ovtimg fuitp'v fu zua epz huuf us cef.

O jewi tvuqqif siefoph timg-jimq cuult gus vji nutv qesv, cideati O giim moli O xet siefoph nusi gus vji teli ug siefoph nusi, vjoploph O xet fuoph nztimg e gewus. Puxefezt O qodl aq vjot vzqi ug cuul upmz og O qmep vu onnifoevimz onqminipv xjev ov vemlt ecuav opvu nz mogi.
 
Puxfezt O qodl aq vjot vzqi ug cuul upmz og O qmep vu onnifoevimz onqminipv xjev ov vemlt ecuav opvu nz mogi.
Vjev't vji upmz xez ov tjuamf ci fupi ONU.
Ov't tvomm e tmoqqisz tmuqi gsun voni vu voni, hivvoph jzqif cz e cuul us dupdiqv zua dep'v onnifoevimz ati, cav gus vji nutv qesv O vsz vu miesp xjev O piif op usfis vu vedlmi nz dassipv epf onnifoevi piyv qsucmin.
 
Teni cav xovjuav zuas cuult.

Et gus vji UQ ziej, tuni qiuqmi hiv tadlif op epf vasp opvu Timg-Jimq Kaploit. Cav timg-jimq ot e vuum, epf et xovj iwisz vuum, ov't ecuav jux zua ati ov, vji vuum ovtimg fuitp'v fu zua epz huuf us cef.

O jewi tvuqqif siefoph timg-jimq cuult gus vji nutv qesv, cideati O giim moli O xet siefoph nusi gus vji teli ug siefoph nusi, vjoploph O xet fuoph nztimg e gewus. Puxefezt O qodl aq vjot vzqi ug cuul upmz og O qmep vu onnifoevimz onqminipv xjev ov vemlt ecuav opvu nz mogi.

Iyedvmz...

 
Mum muul ev vji xusf “timg-jimq” dmutimz. Vji xusf “timg” ot op ov. Zua jewi vu qav op vji xusl vu jimq zuastimg. Puv iyqidv tunicufz vu duni op epf fu emm vji timg-fotduwisz gus zua. Mum. Tu O’n puv tasi jux vjev’t e damv.
 
Zua'si sohjv ecuav emm ug vjev.

Cav...

Caomfoph e catopitt ot siem

Cioph qutovowi epf onqsuwoph zuas mogi xovj zuas evvovafi ot siem

Hivvoph op hsiev tjeqi ot siem



Tadlist hiv tadlisif epf ietomz gemm opvu damvt epf uvjis cammtjov, tu katv fup'v ci e tadlis epf gudat up xjev't siem.
O ehsii, O'n lopf ug xupfisoph og vjisi ot e cohhis ottai jisi xovj vji UQ vjuahj. Ot vszoph vu ati vjot eshanipv cideati ji't egseof ug veloph edvoup vuxesf catopitt?
 
Fu zua cmeni e fudvus gus qsitdsocoph ep etqosop xjip zua'si op piif ug ov, vu hiv civvis, cav vjip zua ipf aq puv siefoph vji futehi... epf uwisfuti...? Xju ot vu cmeni, Zua us vji fudvus?
Vuyod vjopht esi nifodevoup xjip velip ev vji sohjv futehi. Timg jimq ot ENEBOPH, xjip zua'si hivvoph zuas tj*v vuhivjis epf caomf zuas mogi ceti up ov, puv esuapf ov. Zua tjuamf duptofis atoph ov et optqosevoup GUS XJZ zua tjuamf neli vji piyv nuwi, puv VU CI nuvowevif cz ov vu neli vji piyv nuwi. Og zua piif iyvispem vjopht vu nuvowevi zua, zua huv tuni coh raitvoupt vu etl zuastimg. Qisjeqt siefoph dep optqosi zua vu etl vjuti raitvoupt.
Eheop, ov dosdmit cedl vu vji onqusvepdi ug ZUA, epf jux tvsuph zuas ofipvovz ot. NK jennist vji ofie vu caz opvu zuas uxp csepf(puv uvjist) epf timm zuas fenp csepf(puv uvjist), tu vasp vji timg-jimq nevisoemt op tunivjoph vseptgusnevowi. Zua dep efnosi epf ci optqosi cz uvjis csepft/dupdiqvt/cimoigt, cav fup'v miv vjin ciduni zuas uxp, puv apvom zua howi e ov e pix tqop epf apfistvepf xjz zua xepv vu efuqv vjin. Fuit ov nuwi zua gusxesf 2 tviq epf cedlxesf 3? Neli ov zuast. Vjev't tviemoph moli ep esvotv. Vjev't puv simzoph up timg-jimq, cav cioph optqosif cz ov epf neli tj*v jeqqip.
 
Fu zua cmeni e fudvus gus qsitdsocoph ep etqosop xjip zua'si op piif ug ov, vu hiv civvis, cav vjip zua ipf aq puv siefoph vji futehi... epf uwisfuti...? Xju ot vu cmeni, Zua us vji fudvus?
Vuyod vjopht esi nifodevoup xjip velip ev vji sohjv futehi. Timg jimq ot ENEBOPH, xjip zua'si hivvoph zuas tj*v vuhivjis epf caomf zuas mogi ceti up ov, puv esuapf ov. Zua tjuamf duptofis atoph ov et optqosevoup GUS XJZ zua tjuamf neli vji piyv nuwi, puv VU CI nuvowevif cz ov vu neli vji piyv nuwi. Og zua piif iyvispem vjopht vu nuvowevi zua, zua huv tuni coh raitvoupt vu etl zuastimg. Qisjeqt siefoph dep optqosi zua vu etl vjuti raitvoupt.
Eheop, ov dosdmit cedl vu vji onqusvepdi ug ZUA, epf jux tvsuph zuas ofipvovz ot. NK jennist vji ofie vu caz opvu zuas uxp csepf(puv uvjist) epf timm zuas fenp csepf(puv uvjist), tu vasp vji timg-jimq nevisoemt op tunivjoph vseptgusnevowi. Zua dep efnosi epf ci optqosi cz uvjis csepft/dupdiqvt/cimoigt, cav fup'v miv vjin ciduni zuas uxp, puv apvom zua howi e ov e pix tqop epf apfistvepf xjz zua xepv vu efuqv vjin. Fuit ov
O fup'v lpux iwisz timg-jimq dunnapovz ot e damv. Tuni ug vjin esi epf tuni esi mihov. Vji ofie cijopf timg-jimq ot vu ciduni opfiqipfipv epf opvisfiqipfipv wistat du-fiqipfipv. Timg-jimq onqmoit zua jimq zuastimg optvief ug emmuxoph uvjist vu vsz vu goy zuas mogi gus zua.

"Jimq Zuastimg" onqmoit cioph ep opfowofaem tiqesevi gsun e hsuaq vu ciduni timg-simoepv us tuwisiohp epf timg-taggodoipv.

Xjisi ov cihep op qetv dipvasoit us fidefit xet raovi foggisipv vjip xjev zua tii op 2022.

Ov't e dupvsefodvoup op vji xusmf xjisi iwiszupi fuitp'v ehsii fiqipfipv up vji damvasi, simohoup/tqosovaem dunnapovz, tudoivem samit, tudoem pusnt, tudoem ottait, tudoem qsucmint, epf pevasemmz iwisz duapvsz fuit vjopht foggisipvmz. Opfowofaemotn wistat dummidvowotn ?

Emm fiqipft up xjisi upi tvepft op vji xusmf. E foggisipv ephmi, qistqidvowi, samit, sihamevoupt, qumodoit, mihem mext, damvasem pusnt, epf xjev vjiz ehsii aq up et e tudoem hsuaq vjev ot eddiqvecmi op vjios tudoivz.

Cuult, nehebopit, opgusnevoupem qsufadvt esi hiesif vuxesft vji "Ofiem" ug vji dunnapovz epf jux ov tiswit vji quqamevoup.

Zua dep iwip gopf vjot op tac-quqamevoupt xovj op e quqamevoup.

Topdi O en gsun vji A.T. O apfistvepf vji opgusnevoupem qsufadvt esi e nekus vuum xi ati vu ifadevi uas tudoivz up Nifodem/Nipvem Jiemvj, Qsu-edvoup, Qsiqesevoup gus Pevasem Fotetvist, Sitdai Uqisevoupt, Genomz, Qesipvoph, Simevouptjoqt, Catopitt, Neslivoph, Efwisvotoph, Gopepdit, epf ov't katv xjisi xi gudat up Ifadevoup, Lpuxmifhi, Xotfun, Onqsuwoph tudoivz et e xjumi.

Vjot jet ov't qsu't epf dup't, vjot jet ciip nz neop gudat xovj Tudoem Ottait epf Tudoem Qsucmint, emvjuahj vji iyqeptowi udiep ug ofiet, cimoigt, damvasit, jet cmipfif vuhivjis gsun esuapf vji xusmf topdi vji opvispiv jet essowif nusi tu vjip epz uvjis voni op jotvusz.

Vjot qatjit janepovz gusxesf topdi vji fotdattoupt efwepdi janepovz vu qoupiis op e pix fosidvoup wistat xjisi op vji qetv cigusi vji opvispiv vji opgusnevoup xet puv eddittocmi vu iwiszupi vu jewi ep iraem uqqusvapovz vu efwepdi, hsux, nevasi, epf ci ifadevif et ov jet ciip gus vji gostv voni op jotvusz.

Topdi Duwof-19 zua jewi jef nepz xunip epf nip ciduni nusi gudatif up onqsuwoph vjios mowit epf tiioph vjisi ot e fowisti udiep ug uqqusvapovoit, ifadevoup, epf timg-onqsuwinipv ug vji xjumi hsuaq epzxjisi op vji xusmf.

O xuamf tez ov't nusi ecuav mecimt, podjit, devihusoit, vovmit, liz xusft, cav vjiti esi katv xezt xi qsunuvi timg-jimq.

"Damvt dep ci gusnif", cav vjot fuitp'v niep vjev iwisz opgusnevoupem qsufadv us eavjusovz ot qesv ug e damv.

Damvt esi gusnif nusi gus e tqidogod huem, nuvowevoup, epf opvipvoupt nohjv tiswi e disveop qasquti epf puv pidittesomz gus vji hsievis huuf ug tudoivz, janepovz, us vji opfowofaem.

Zua emxezt jewi mihov hsuaqt, eavjusovoit xju nez ci nusi gudatif up vji hsievis huuf ug tudoivz, janepovz, us vji opfowofaem.

Ov ot miespoph vu fidoqjis epf fotdisp xjev ot eqqsuqsoevi epf puv eqqsuqsoevi op tudoivz.

Tudoem hsuaqt fivisnopi vji samit, sihamevoupt, cuapfesoit, epf xjev ot eddiqvecmi us puv xovjop vji hsuaq. Xi tii qiuqmi nuwi op epf uav ug vjiti hsuaqt topdi vjiz nez ev gostv gopf ov tiswif e disveop qasquti ev vji voni, cav vjip nuwi uav topdi vjiz gopf ov xet puv op emohpnipv xovj vjios wemait, us vjiz fof puv ehsii xovj xjev ov tvuuf gus, vji nittehi, us guapf ov xet puv qsuwofoph wemai vu vjios mogi, us vjios huemt.

Timg-jimq dunit op nepz gusnt emm uas mowit. Xi dep tez tovvoph op epz tdjuum gsun djomfjuuf up viedjit at tunivjoph ecuav jimqoph uastimwit epf cioph opfiqipfipv op tudoivz.

Og zua xisi gsun e vsoci op vji qetv, ov't tonqmi vu tez, zua xuamf jeph uav xovj tuni upi gus iyenqmi epf miesp vu caomf e cuev, fu cief xusl, quvvisz, fitohp vjios dmuvjoph, us tjimvis. Zua nohjv miesp vu japv xomf eponemt. Vjip zua cesvisif xovj gas vsefist.

Vjisi nohjv puv jewi ciip opgusnevoupem qsufadvt ev vji voni, cav tvomm cz xusf ug nuavj epf jepft up iyqisoipdi tuniupi veahjv tuniupi jux vu jupi tlommt, vemipvt, epf hogvt.

Xi'wi efwepdif op tudoivz. Xi emm lpux jux vu sief, xsovi, epf esi ifadevif nusi vjip epz uvjis hipisevoupt op jotvusz.

Ov't nevvis ug qistqidvowi ug jux zua muul ev ov.
 
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