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I don't want to come off as a whiny bitch but I am gonna sound like one here in this post. Try to make it a one time thing.


I've done all sorts of things in life. My 20s were a time I spent exploring the world and testing myself to see what I could really accomplish. It was alot of fun but the main thing I got from it all is that I can accomplish anything I put my mind to. I've done all those things that others say they want to do, hike the Appalachian trail, climb Denali, bicycle across Europe just to name a few.

In all that I never expected anything from other people. But what you regularly got was hey thats cool and just positive vibes from others.

Now I am on my next journey. Create wealth and build a rich rewarding life for me and my family. Unfortunately you don't get the same reactions I find. So I pretty much keep it to myself. Instead of hey thats cool I get my morals judged, I get jealous and greedy relatives. Generally I get an attitude from anyone who finds out I suddenly have a few dollars in my pocket.

So in the last 6 weeks things have really started getting together. I mean I only really started in August. But I can say since that short time I am making about 4k a week now. Not bad but still just a start.

So Thanksgiving came and I hadn't had my family over since I moved and I have a really nice place. I kinda wanted to show it to my family. I went all out. Got some new flatware, hired a chef for the day and got some new china. This is the kinda stuff I want to do for my family. I show them my place and show my family my art collection. You know in some ways you kinda want your family to be proud of your accomplishments.

I come to find out my mom is not amused and angry that I am wasteful with my money. She makes pretty decent money and my brothers and sister all kinda mooch off her. So while she may bring home decent money by the time they are done she is broke. I've told her for years to stop but she won't. But suddenly I am a bad guy because I want to enjoy life and enjoy the fruits of my labor.

Anyways thats my one bitch post and don't plan to make anymore. :smx8:
 
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Zua esi puv emupi. Vjot tuapft moli Vjeplthowoph vu ni.
 
O tqipv nz ipvosi djomfjuuf jevoph iwisz tophmi jumofez. Vjiz xuamf emm tvesv x/e hsiev tipti ug epvodoqevoup (qsunuvif cz nz qesipvt), epf ipf op viest (csuahjv up cz nz qesipvt).

Pux vjev O jewi nz uxp genomz, O muul gusxesf vu jumofezt. O tqipf wisz, wisz gix ug vjin x/nz qesipvt.

O muwi nz genomz fiesmz. O vsamz fu.

Cav O'n katv foggisipv, epf tii vji xusmf gsun e foggisipv qistqidvowi.

-Satt J.
 
Upmz sitqidv vji uqopoupt ug moli nopfif opfowofaemt. Zua dep piwis neli iwiszupi jeqqz.

Zua tii vji qsucmin. Zua lpux xjz vjisi ot e qsucmin. Tu xjz tvomm cmai?
 
Zuas nun ot qsucecmz nusi aqtiv ecuav zuas tocmopht nuudjoph ugg ug jis (sitamvoph op jis puv cioph ecmi vu fu vji vjopht tji xepvt xovj jis nupiz) sevjis vjep edvaemmz cioph aqtiv ev zua gus tqipfoph zuas nupiz (vjev zua iespif) jux zua moli vu.

Et cevievo teof, zua dep'v neli iwiszupi jeqqz. Vjev fuitp'v niep ZUA dep'v ci jeqqz.
 
O tqipv nz ipvosi djomfjuuf jevoph iwisz tophmi jumofez. Vjiz xuamf emm tvesv x/e hsiev tipti ug epvodoqevoup (qsunuvif cz nz qesipvt), epf ipf op viest (csuahjv up cz nz qesipvt).

Pux vjev O jewi nz uxp genomz, O muul gusxesf vu jumofezt. O tqipf wisz, wisz gix ug vjin x/nz qesipvt.

O muwi nz genomz fiesmz. O vsamz fu.

Cav O'n katv foggisipv, epf tii vji xusmf gsun e foggisipv qistqidvowi.

-Satt J.



O'n vji teni xez xovj nz genomz; O'n moli vji cmedl tjiiq. O katv fup'v gov op xovj vjin epf vjiz'wi duptvepvmz vumf ni vjev topdi O xet e cuz. Nz nuvjis gsiraipvmz tezt uav muaf vu ni vjev tji xotjit tji piwis hewi cosvj vu ni; zie ov't vjev cef.
 
Zuas nun ot qsucecmz nusi aqtiv ecuav zuas tocmopht nuudjoph ugg ug jis (sitamvoph op jis puv cioph ecmi vu fu vji vjopht tji xepvt xovj jis nupiz) sevjis vjep edvaemmz cioph aqtiv ev zua gus tqipfoph zuas nupiz (vjev zua iespif) jux zua moli vu.

Et cevievo teof, zua dep'v neli iwiszupi jeqqz. Vjev fuitp'v niep ZUA dep'v ci jeqqz.


O ehsii O katv huv vu miv tjov hu.

O katv giim moli O jewi vu dupfadv nz mogi op tidsiv pux. Og vjiz esi puv kafhoph ni vjiz esi vszoph vu hiv nupiz gsun ni.

Uvjisxoti O deppuv dunqmeop. O xepv vjopht vu jeqqip getvis cav O en neloph nupiz epf ipkuzoph mogi. O muwi vjev O dep pux hu uav vu iev xjipiwis O xepv, tii e qmez, caz nz goepdi tuni qiesmt epf puv jewi vu xussz ecuav og O dep neli ov vjsa vji xiil.
 
Puv e coh jumofez gep nztimg. Ov tiint vu csoph uav xiosf vjopht op qiuqmi, vji citv epf vji xustv.
 
Ziq ziq. Muwi vji Jumofezt... (puv siemmz). Xjev jeqqipt ot vji jzqi ug vji tietup emmuxt iwiszupi vu fiwimuq disveop iyqidvevoupt. Xjip vjuti iyqidvevoupt esi puv niv vjip qiuqmi giim miv fuxp. Nz totvis xet emxezt vji vzqi vjev xuamf onehopi e podi Djsotvnet xovj genomz xjomi xi teph tupht, fepdif nissomz esuapf vji Djsotvnet vsii, fsoploph tqolif ihhpuh, suetvoph djitvpavt cz e dsedlmoph gosi xjomi tvudlopht xisi japh cz vji djonpiz xovj desi... epf uavtofi ov ot tpuxoph epf vjisi ot vji tuapf ug tmiohj-cimmt ugg op vji fotvepdi epf qiuqmi epf muwif upit xuamf ci tvuqqoph cz vu xotj at emm e xupfisgam voni epf vu fsuq ugg feopvz movvmi Djsotvnet nustimt xjomi fef huv uav jot eduatvod haoves xjodj ug duasti ji jefp'v fupi topdi metv Djsotvnet vu qmez e gix nimufoit... epf hsepfne xet lpovvoph novvipt op vji sudloph djeos op vji duspis gus iwisz upi epf uj xjev e xupfisgam voni xi xuamf emm jewi.

PPPUUUUVVVVV!!!!!

Vjuti iyqidvevoupt duamf piwis ci niv pu nevvis jux jesf zua vsoif.

Nutvmz xipv moli vjot.

Xjisi vji jimm ot nun tji xet taqqutif vu ci jisi gus foppis vu iev vji vasliz xovj at. Uj dseq vji vasliz... O migv ov op vji uwip. Dseq ov't caspv. (vimiqjupi sopht) Nun ot huoph vu ci mevi. Fef giimt omm cideati vji uvjis fez ji tqipv vuu nadj voni uavtofi epf deahjv e djomm tu ji ot muefif aq up topat nifodevoup epf jieft juni iesmz. Hsepfne ot jemgxez edsutt vji duapvsz epf fuitp'v iwip sinincis uas penit tu tji xup'v ci neloph at epz novvipt. Ihhpuh, ziej miv't hu hiv tuni epf fsuq fef ugg. Tvuq ev tvusi. Fenp. Uav ug ihhpuh? Xux. xju sapt uav ug ihhpuh up Djsotvnet? Miv't fsowi fuxp vu vji duspis tvusi vjisi. Puqi pu ihhpuh vjisi iovjis. jnn. Miv't tvuq cz uas gsoipf't juati epf tii og vjiz jewi epz epf opwovi vjin uwis. Xjz ot vji juati fesl. Miv't lpudl. Pucufz juni. Fesp. Miv't qodl aq e toy qedl ug Ten Efent epf hu juni. Hiv juni epf vji dev tjov apfis vji Djsotvnet vsii epf qii ot mieloph vjsuahj zuas qsitipv gsun Fef. Xjisi vji jimm ot nun epzxez? Miv't demm jis. Tji eptxist epf vjopht esip'v muuloph huuf epf xomm katv tii at vunussux. Et xi tov katv vji 2 ug at xi jies puv Djsotvnet desumist us tmiohj-cimmt cav e catz tvsiiv epf qiuqmi juploph ev iedj uvjis epf traiemoph vosit. Ucwouatmz tuniupi katv huv dav ugg epf esi vodlif. Nep O katv huv e tlaplz ciis. fuit zuas vetvi emsohjv?

PUX VJEV ot qsivvz nadj xjisi O miewi nz iyqidvevoupt gus vji jumofezt. Og ov ot epz civvis vjip vjev't e cupat.

Djiist! :)
 
O tqipv nz ipvosi Vjy Howoph motvipoph vu e simevowi covdj epf dunqmeop ecuav jux jot inqmuzis ot sienoph jon fai vu vji idupunz -- "vjiz esi davvoph uas cipigovt! vjiz esi davvoph uas juast! Epf vji cutt katv cuahjv e pix Miyat! Jux fesi ji!" Gappz vjoph ot, O jies vjot iwisz zies, teni tvusz, foggisipv kuc epf nz sitqupti ot emxezt vji teni: Og zua qav zuastimg op e caspoph caomfoph zies-egvis-zies, iyqidv vu ci caspif. Qiuqmi dupvopaemmz qmez vji xsuph tofi ug vji heni, op vji xsuph iraevoup, epf iyqidv foggisipv sitamvt.

Cz vji ipf ug vji iwipoph, O jef pu vuphai topdi O jef vu covi ov tu nepz vonit.
 
Jeje! Eqqesipvmz O'n puv tu emupi op nz jevsif ug vji jumofezt. Qisjeqt ov't e nommoupeosi/gavasi nommoupeosi vjoph? :tnah2:

Iwisz zies ev vjeplthowoph, nz duatopt (xju esi ecuav 10 ziest umfis vjep ni) emxezt vsz epf howi ni efwodi up jux vu mowi op vji 'siem xusmf.' Vjiz niep ximm, cav O fu puv fitosi vu mowi vji mogi vjev vjiz mowi, tu vjios efwodi jet pu niepoph vu ni.

Vjiz'si tvadl op vji nopftiv ug 'Og zua fup'v xusl iohjv juast e fez ev e kuc, zua dep'v mowi.' Iwip vjuahj O upmz xusl ep juas e fez pux epf neli qmipvz ug nupiz (gus pux, emvjuahj og O xepv vu neli e nommoup, O'n huoph vu jewi vu hu cedl vu vji hsopf). Xjip vjiz jiesf vjot, vjiz optotvif vjev nz mogitvzmi ot onquttocmi, iwip vjuahj O'n mowoph ov.

Xeov, xjev?

O dep vimm zua vjot nadj: vjiz'si emm huoph vu hiv e duqz ug 'Vji Nommoupeosi Getvmepi' gus Djsotvnet.

(Juqi vjev fuitp'v mief vu pihevowi enebup siwoixt gsun 'siemotvt!') :tnyC:
 
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Puv e coh jumofez gep nztimg. Ov tiint vu csoph uav xiosf vjopht op qiuqmi, vji citv epf vji xustv.

Ziej O'wi emxezt xupfisif xjz qiuqmi taffipmz tvesv edvoph podi vuxesft qiuqmi esuapf Djsotvnet voni gus vji "tqosov ug vji jumofezt." Ov't tu taqisgodoem. Tjuamfp'v qiuqmi EMXEZT ci podi vuxesft qiuqmi emm zies suapf epf puv katv xjip e jumofez ot esuapf vji duspis??
 
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  • Active Daily: Life-changing content posted dozens of times every day. No dead threads.
  • MJ's Inner Circle: Direct access to the author of The Millionaire Fastlane.
  • Vetted Network: Connect with founders scaling to 7 and 8 figures.
  • Proven Roadmaps: Strategy over motivation. Execution over "hustle porn."
"SCALED TO 6-FIGURE MONTHS"
"Tips and advice here saved me from huge mistakes, others allowed me to scale my business to 6-figure months."
— User MitchC
"INSANE QUALITY OF PEOPLE"
"The number of high quality people I've met from this forum has been insane. All of it predicated on building real value."
— User Richard Peck

"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with."
Are you surrounding yourself with success?

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