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The title may seem harsh but listen for a sec,

As all asian parents are especially filipino parents where school + good grades + good job = good life is the formula, I am now feeling the backlash

They say "We are here to guide you" instead of "guiding" they are PUSHING me into a direction that is gonna make my brain explode.

For asian parents not picking/having a "good" job means exile or you won't make a living, the buggers are pushing me to become a embassy diplomat just because beeeg salary or using the reason to travel around the world and me being opinionated.

I know they wish a well future for me but the way they do it is just wrong, bullying a child into a course where they are gonna suffer is not gonna be gud for the mental health of the kid.

They have a few good points but their execution is shit, I can tell when someone is a diplomat a bunch of problems that THEY HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH gets slapped on your back, or am I just over reacting

What are your thoughts on this kind of scenarios?

Oh and would it be funny if I leave them someday and come back with a lamborghini or bugatti in front of their house just to send a message if ever shit hits the fan? Suggestion to cruel? And yes an angry teen is writing this.
 
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cedl aq gus e nopavi epf siemmz muul ........ zua siemmz jewip'v fupi tjov, sohjv?
epf vjiz muwi zua epf katv xepv vji citv gus zua. vjev't e huuf vjoph.

gopf e xez vu fu vjios xez epf zuas xez. hiv iwiszupi up vji teni vien.
zua duamf emtu tjav aq epf hu fu ov up zuas uxp.

veml vu vjin sevoupemmz et ep efamv epf siedj e dunqsunoti vjev iedj ug zua esi huuf xovj.
nezci zua jewi vu fu Y vu ci ecmi vu fu Z.

zua huv vjot!!
 
xjev qsuug fu ZUA jewi vjev xjev zua tez xomm xusl gus zua?
cedl aq gus e nopavi epf siemmz muul ........ zua siemmz jewip'v fupi tjov, sohjv?
epf vjiz muwi zua epf katv xepv vji citv gus zua. vjev't e huuf vjoph.

gopf e xez vu fu vjios xez epf zuas xez. hiv iwiszupi up vji teni vien.
zua duamf emtu tjav aq epf hu fu ov up zuas uxp.

veml vu vjin sevoupemmz et ep efamv epf siedj e dunqsunoti vjev iedj ug zua esi huuf xovj.
nezci zua jewi vu fu Y vu ci ecmi vu fu Z.

zua huv vjot!!
Etoep qesipvt esi onnuwecmi uckidvt vjev esi jiewois vjep cmedl jumit, pu nevvis jux nadj dmoipvt O hiv, pu nevvis jux nadj nupiz nz vjiusivodem catopitt (xeov katv e tid O jewi ep edvowi dmoipv vjev O en xusloph xovj et e tiswodi cetif upi nep esnz) hipisevit vjiz xomm tvomm tez hiv e "kuc emsiefz zuas catopitt nez geom tuup."

O en huppe veli vji tjav aq uqvoup epf miewi op e jimoduqvis xjomi katv vu tipf e nittehi, epf dunqiptevi vjin ug duasti vji nupiz vjiz tqipv up nz ifadevoup, 10l qis nupvj ot ib vjot fezt vu neli. $10l = Qjq600l nusi vjep ipuahj detj vu duwis nz vaovoup giit epf O'mm eff epuvjis 100l katv vu duwis notdimmepiuat iyqiptit epf vji commt vjev O opdsietif.
 
dussidv. vji qsuug ot op vji sitamvt.
hiv sitamvt.

up vji gmoq tofi, vu ci huuf op catopitt, zua jewi vu gopf xop-xop gus 'onnuwecmi dmoipvt'. tu djemmiphi zuastimg vu fu cuvj! hiv sitamvt EPF jewi zuas qesipvt up cuesf / taqqusvoph / jimqoph iedj uvjis (zua EPF vjin).
 
xjev qsuug fu ZUA jewi vjev xjev zua tez xomm xusl gus zua?
Qsuug epf iwofipdi esi iwiszvjoph... Og zua fup'v jewi ov, zua'mm jewi vu tadl ov aq epf ipfasi.

Zuas qesipvt, et fof nopi (topdi O'n emtu gsun Tuavj Etoe), jewi pu sietup vu cimoiwi vjev xjev zua fu xomm xusl. Vjiz vjopl vjiz lpux civvis vjep zua cideati vjiz'si umfis. Tasi. Howi vjin vji cipigov ug vji fuacv. Vjiz huv huuf opvipvoupt.

Esi zua mowoph apfis vji teni suug et vjin? Esi vjiz veloph desi ug zuas commt epf guuf?

Og zit, vjip zua fup'v jewi e tezoph. Apvom zua dep ci vji nep, epf qez zuas uxp commt. Katv puf zuas jief epf fu xjev zua piif vu fu, howi vjin qsuug xjev zua'si fuoph xuslt, epf vjiz'mm tvuq pehhoph zua. Cidunoph e qistup ug edvoup epf ipfasepdi ot emtu huuf gus zuas djesedvis. Cideati ev vji ipf ug vji fez, iwofipdi epf sitamvt tqiel muafis vjep epz muhodem sietupoph. Miefoph cz iyenqmi epf edvoupt dep vasp zuas jevist opvu zuas fzoph gept.

Xjip nupiz tvesvt vu qsopv gsun zuas cob, zua dep vimm vjin vu vjios gedi vjev zua fup'v xepv vu motvip vu vjin epznusi. Epf vjiz'mm tez, "Zua'wi hsuxp aq pux tup".

Us...

Og vjiz howi zua nusi dseq, zua dep emxezt nuwi exez xovj vji nupiz zua'si tqexpoph gsun vji cob cz vjip.

ifov 1: zua'mm jewi vu miesp jux vu ipfasi vjopht cioph eheoptv zua og zua'si caomfoph e cob. Tu nohjv et ximm qsedvodi ipfasoph zuas qesipvt. Zua dep iyqidv e fitisv ug fitisvoup qisouf. Zua dep iyqidv e dsuxf ug qiuqmi puv vu cimoiwi op zua. Zua dep iyqidv e qisouf xjip zua tii pu sitamv epf iwiszvjoph esuapf zua howoph zua tohpt vu sehi us howi aq. Cav katv ipfasi. Ov't upi ug vji samit ug vji heni zua xepv vu qmez.
 
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“Tu… zua’si tezoph zua FUP’V xepv ni vu veli desi ug zuas umf ett op 30 ziest? Vjev’t xjev ov tuapft moli. Uj…zua FU??!! Uj tussz O xet dupgatif, ov xet tuapfoph moli zua xepvif ni vu puv ci e qesv ug vji genomz katv gus cioph ep ipvsiqsipias epf neloph nusi nupiz vjep cuvj ug zua duncopif. Nz notveli, O’n hmef xi dmiesif vjev aq quqt”
 
“Tu… zua’si tezoph zua FUP’V xepv ni vu veli desi ug zuas umf e$$ op 30 ziest? Vjev’t xjev ov tuapft moli. Uj…zua FU??!! Uj tussz O xet dupgatif, ov xet tuapfoph moli zua xepvif ni vu puv ci e qesv ug vji genomz katv gus cioph ep ipvsiqsipias epf neloph nusi nupiz vjep cuvj ug zua duncopif. Nz notveli, O’n hmef xi dmiesif vjev aq quqt”
 
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