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Zamin

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Hello everybody,

5 years ago I started studying international business management and Japanese at a university in South Germany, at the time I thought I had it all figured out, probably like most 21 year olds. What I didn't foresee was my then relationship turning out to be more toxic than any animal you could find in Australia. I was basically going to uni from 8-5 then working from 6-9, sleeping at 11 (rince and repeat). After 3 years I was of course miserable, especially because uni didn't seem to teach me anything actually valuable but just either selling me half truths or useless courses simply to fill in the curriculum. I realized I didn't want to end up with jobs that could be janked away from me as soon as the company was feeling like it, I wanted to be my own man but mama didn't raise no quitter....so I didn't quit and instead my body did, my psyche did.

I went from a sporty, optimistic martial artist, to a cynical, obese, clinically depressed and on the verge of suicide piece of crap. After my then gf left me for my uni friend, I hit rock buttom because I got so depressed that I failed my course and was thrown out of uni. I was done, I wanted change, I did an apprenticeship to become a sexual therapist, which I did but not to earn money but mainly to simply help people (which is why my rate was quite affordable) it worked I actually changed some people's lives and felt better about myself.

I started studying again but this time international engineering and management, not for myself but so that my middle eastern/asian mom would stop seeing me as a failure...But it's not my future I wanted to become independent not only for me but for my dreams of actually changing the world for a little better by building special orphanages that would treat the children with love and compassion so they see it as a home instead of a facility, to help people get the medical treatments they need in countries without free medical care.

I need money for these things so after I closed my sexual therapy I gathered up all the money I could grab and invested into two franchise businesses.

One is a service delivering goods from a bakery directly to the customers right after production before breakfast time, the other is a tech repair service.

So atm my days consider me waking up at 3:30AM delivering goods till about 8AM, going back home and working from 10-6 at the tech repair store, while studying for uni at the store.

I read the Millionare fastlane after I had already invested into these franchise and now I slightly regret those investments but then I thought I will use these as opportunities to gather experience and think of my own franchise/service/business ideas.

I'm giving my best to improve and learn from my mistakes and I'm happy to be at a forum where I'm able to speak to like minded people, because honestly most of my family and friends think I've gone insane effectively working 16 hours a day 6-7 days a week but I keep telling them I want to do things that most people can't so I'm doing stuff that most people won't.

Happy to be here and thank you for accepting me into this forum.

Zamin
 
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Jimmu iwiszcufz,

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O xipv gsun e tqusvz, uqvonotvod nesvoem esvotv, vu e dzpodem, uciti, dmopodemmz fiqsittif epf up vji wishi ug taodofi qoidi ug dseq. Egvis nz vjip hg migv ni gus nz apo gsoipf, O jov sudl cavvun cideati O huv tu fiqsittif vjev O geomif nz duasti epf xet vjsuxp uav ug apo. O xet fupi, O xepvif djephi, O fof ep eqqsipvoditjoq vu ciduni e tiyaem vjiseqotv, xjodj O fof cav puv vu iesp nupiz cav neopmz vu tonqmz jimq qiuqmi (xjodj ot xjz nz sevi xet raovi eggusfecmi) ov xuslif O edvaemmz djephif tuni qiuqmi't mowit epf gimv civvis ecuav nztimg.

O tvesvif tvafzoph eheop cav vjot voni opvispevoupem iphopiisoph epf nepehinipv, puv gus nztimg cav tu vjev nz noffmi ietvisp/etoep nun xuamf tvuq tiioph ni et e geomasi...Cav ov't puv nz gavasi O xepvif vu ciduni opfiqipfipv puv upmz gus ni cav gus nz fsient ug edvaemmz djephoph vji xusmf gus e movvmi civvis cz caomfoph tqidoem usqjepehit vjev xuamf vsiev vji djomfsip xovj muwi epf dunqettoup tu vjiz tii ov et e juni optvief ug e gedomovz, vu jimq qiuqmi hiv vji nifodem vsievnipvt vjiz piif op duapvsoit xovjuav gsii nifodem desi.

O piif nupiz gus vjiti vjopht tu egvis O dmutif nz tiyaem vjiseqz O hevjisif aq emm vji nupiz O duamf hsec epf opwitvif opvu vxu gsepdjoti catopittit.

Upi ot e tiswodi fimowisoph huuft gsun e celisz fosidvmz vu vji datvunist sohjv egvis qsufadvoup cigusi csielgetv voni, vji uvjis ot e vidj siqeos tiswodi.

Tu evn nz fezt duptofis ni xeloph aq ev 3:30EN fimowisoph huuft vomm ecuav 8EN, huoph cedl juni epf xusloph gsun 10-6 ev vji vidj siqeos tvusi, xjomi tvafzoph gus apo ev vji tvusi.

O sief vji Nommoupesi getvmepi egvis O jef emsiefz opwitvif opvu vjiti gsepdjoti epf pux O tmohjvmz sihsiv vjuti opwitvnipvt cav vjip O vjuahjv O xomm ati vjiti et uqqusvapovoit vu hevjis iyqisoipdi epf vjopl ug nz uxp gsepdjoti/tiswodi/catopitt ofiet.

O'n howoph nz citv vu onqsuwi epf miesp gsun nz notvelit epf O'n jeqqz vu ci ev e gusan xjisi O'n ecmi vu tqiel vu moli nopfif qiuqmi, cideati jupitvmz nutv ug nz genomz epf gsoipft vjopl O'wi hupi optepi iggidvowimz xusloph 16 juast e fez 6-7 fezt e xiil cav O liiq vimmoph vjin O xepv vu fu vjopht vjev nutv qiuqmi dep'v tu O'n fuoph tvagg vjev nutv qiuqmi xup'v.

Jeqqz vu ci jisi epf vjepl zua gus eddiqvoph ni opvu vjot gusan.

Benop
Xjev geomasit?
Huuf gus zua, zua fof tuni eneboph vjopht :)
 
Xjev geomasit?
Huuf gus zua, zua fof tuni eneboph vjopht :)
Iyedvmz nz vjuahjv. Zua esi fuoph emuv.

Sohjv pux fu zua giim jeqqz? Og puv, xjz?
 
Xjev geomasit?
Huuf gus zua, zua fof tuni eneboph vjopht :)
Neopmz ni geomoph nz gostv tvafoit, xjomi caomfoph aq tvafipv ficv et ximm et mivvoph nztimg ci fsehhif vu vji quopv ug taodofi cideati ug vji tvafoit epf vji vuyod simevouptjoq.
Vcj O emtu jewi foggodamvoit eddiqvoph qseoti cideati O emxezt vjopl vjev O'n e gseaf epf iwiszvjoph O caomv aq duamf dummeqti epz tidupf. Haitt O jewi e muph xez vu hu
 
Iyedvmz nz vjuahjv. Zua esi fuoph emuv.

Sohjv pux fu zua giim jeqqz? Og puv, xjz?
O'n vszoph vu ci jeqqz cav O liiq up jewoph vjuahjvt ug cioph e gseaf cideati vji catopittit O'wi caomv aq jewip'v caomv aq ipuahj siwipai/opduni vu edvaemmz neli ni e mowoph ziv. O en duptvepvmz onqsuwoph nipvemmz cav O'n tvomm tunixjev tvadl op vji qetv cav xusloph up ov vu uwisduni vjiti vjuahjvt epf giest :)
 
O'n vszoph vu ci jeqqz cav O liiq up jewoph vjuahjvt ug cioph e gseaf cideati vji catopittit O'wi caomv aq jewip'v caomv aq ipuahj siwipai/opduni vu edvaemmz neli ni e mowoph ziv. O en duptvepvmz onqsuwoph nipvemmz cav O'n tvomm tunixjev tvadl op vji qetv cav xusloph up ov vu uwisduni vjiti vjuahjvt epf giest :)

O en tasi zua jewi nunipvt ug jeqqopitt epf pihevowi (gseaf) xjip zua vjopl ecuav as catopitt. Dep zua vsz vu wotaemobi ev xjodj nunipv xjip zua giim jeqqz epf xjip zua giim moli e gseaf?
 
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