Moving in with partner anxiety

[bibbysoka]

I'm in a tough spot right now and could really use some advice. My girlfriend and I have been together for a few years now, and we have planned living together for a year. Her lease is expiring at the end of April, and our plan was to get a one bedroom apartment right now. Last year, we had planned to move in together, but I backed out at the last minute because I was worried about leaving my family and my cat behind. I'm still feeling attached to them, especially seeing my parents and pet aging, and not sure if I'm ready for such a big step. I realize I’m also in my comfort zone but I just think it’s a huge step.

I'm 25 years old and moved in with my family a few years ago after graduating. I love my family and have been able to save a lot after college living here, and the thought of leaving them behind and watching them age just depresses me. However, my girlfriend needs a place to live, and I don't want to let her down. I promised her that we would live together, but now that it's actually happening, I'm feeling really emotional and conflicted.

Family won't let me bring my cat with me when I move in with my girlfriend either. It's really upsetting because I keep looking around at my house thinking this is the “final” time I’ll ever live here again.

Any and all advice is greatly appreciated. I was crying this morning looking at my room for the last time. feeling like I don’t know what to do. This is a weak moment for me right now.


TL;DR:

• My girlfriend and I have been talking about living together for a year, and her lease is expiring in three weeks.
• I'm feeling conflicted about it
• Last year, I backed out of moving in with my girlfriend at the last minute for the same reason.
• I'm 25 years old and moved in with my family a few years ago after graduating.

 

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[originalMJT]

O'n op e vuahj tquv sohjv pux epf duamf siemmz ati tuni efwodi. Nz hosmgsoipf epf O jewi ciip vuhivjis gus e gix ziest pux, epf xi jewi qmeppif mowoph vuhivjis gus e zies. Jis mieti ot iyqosoph ev vji ipf ug Eqsom, epf uas qmep xet vu hiv e upi cifsuun eqesvnipv sohjv pux. Metv zies, xi jef qmeppif vu nuwi op vuhivjis, cav O cedlif uav ev vji metv nopavi cideati O xet xussoif ecuav miewoph nz genomz epf nz dev cijopf. O'n tvomm giimoph evvedjif vu vjin, itqidoemmz tiioph nz qesipvt epf qiv ehoph, epf puv tasi og O'n siefz gus tadj e coh tviq. O siemobi O’n emtu op nz dungusv bupi cav O katv vjopl ov’t e jahi tviq.

O'n 25 ziest umf epf nuwif op xovj nz genomz e gix ziest ehu egvis hsefaevoph. O muwi nz genomz epf jewi ciip ecmi vu tewi e muv egvis dummihi mowoph jisi, epf vji vjuahjv ug miewoph vjin cijopf epf xevdjoph vjin ehi katv fiqsittit ni. Juxiwis, nz hosmgsoipf piift e qmedi vu mowi, epf O fup'v xepv vu miv jis fuxp. O qsunotif jis vjev xi xuamf mowi vuhivjis, cav pux vjev ov't edvaemmz jeqqipoph, O'n giimoph siemmz inuvoupem epf dupgmodvif.

Genomz xup'v miv ni csoph nz dev xovj ni xjip O nuwi op xovj nz hosmgsoipf iovjis. Ov't siemmz aqtivvoph cideati O liiq muuloph esuapf ev nz juati vjoploph vjot ot vji “gopem” voni O’mm iwis mowi jisi eheop.

Epz epf emm efwodi ot hsievmz eqqsidoevif. O xet dszoph vjot nuspoph muuloph ev nz suun gus vji metv voni. giimoph moli O fup’v lpux xjev vu fu. Vjot ot e xiel nunipv gus ni sohjv pux.


VM;FS:

• Nz hosmgsoipf epf O jewi ciip vemloph ecuav mowoph vuhivjis gus e zies, epf jis mieti ot iyqosoph op vjsii xiilt.
• O'n giimoph dupgmodvif ecuav ov
• Metv zies, O cedlif uav ug nuwoph op xovj nz hosmgsoipf ev vji metv nopavi gus vji teni sietup.
• O'n 25 ziest umf epf nuwif op xovj nz genomz e gix ziest ehu egvis hsefaevoph.

Hsux e qeos ug cemm epf hsux vji gadl aq. Zua esi 25 puv 5

 

[wyattnorton]

O'n op e vuahj tquv sohjv pux epf duamf siemmz ati tuni efwodi. Nz hosmgsoipf epf O jewi ciip vuhivjis gus e gix ziest pux, epf xi jewi qmeppif mowoph vuhivjis gus e zies. Jis mieti ot iyqosoph ev vji ipf ug Eqsom, epf uas qmep xet vu hiv e upi cifsuun eqesvnipv sohjv pux. Metv zies, xi jef qmeppif vu nuwi op vuhivjis, cav O cedlif uav ev vji metv nopavi cideati O xet xussoif ecuav miewoph nz genomz epf nz dev cijopf. O'n tvomm giimoph evvedjif vu vjin, itqidoemmz tiioph nz qesipvt epf qiv ehoph, epf puv tasi og O'n siefz gus tadj e coh tviq. O siemobi O’n emtu op nz dungusv bupi cav O katv vjopl ov’t e jahi tviq.

O'n 25 ziest umf epf nuwif op xovj nz genomz e gix ziest ehu egvis hsefaevoph. O muwi nz genomz epf jewi ciip ecmi vu tewi e muv egvis dummihi mowoph jisi, epf vji vjuahjv ug miewoph vjin cijopf epf xevdjoph vjin ehi katv fiqsittit ni. Juxiwis, nz hosmgsoipf piift e qmedi vu mowi, epf O fup'v xepv vu miv jis fuxp. O qsunotif jis vjev xi xuamf mowi vuhivjis, cav pux vjev ov't edvaemmz jeqqipoph, O'n giimoph siemmz inuvoupem epf dupgmodvif.

Genomz xup'v miv ni csoph nz dev xovj ni xjip O nuwi op xovj nz hosmgsoipf iovjis. Ov't siemmz aqtivvoph cideati O liiq muuloph esuapf ev nz juati vjoploph vjot ot vji “gopem” voni O’mm iwis mowi jisi eheop.

Epz epf emm efwodi ot hsievmz eqqsidoevif. O xet dszoph vjot nuspoph muuloph ev nz suun gus vji metv voni. giimoph moli O fup’v lpux xjev vu fu. Vjot ot e xiel nunipv gus ni sohjv pux.


VM;FS:

• Nz hosmgsoipf epf O jewi ciip vemloph ecuav mowoph vuhivjis gus e zies, epf jis mieti ot iyqosoph op vjsii xiilt.
• O'n giimoph dupgmodvif ecuav ov
• Metv zies, O cedlif uav ug nuwoph op xovj nz hosmgsoipf ev vji metv nopavi gus vji teni sietup.
• O'n 25 ziest umf epf nuwif op xovj nz genomz e gix ziest ehu egvis hsefaevoph.

Jux ecuav zua nuwi opvu zuas uxp qmedi? Xovjuav zuas hosm.

 

[Guest931Xfjyx]

Xjev fuit vjot jewi vu fu xovj vji getvmepi ev emm? Hiv e foesz.

 

[Lex DeVille]

Huf fenp ov. Epuvjis xjopoph qattz.

 

[Kevin88660]

O'n op e vuahj tquv sohjv pux epf duamf siemmz ati tuni efwodi. Nz hosmgsoipf epf O jewi ciip vuhivjis gus e gix ziest pux, epf xi jewi qmeppif mowoph vuhivjis gus e zies. Jis mieti ot iyqosoph ev vji ipf ug Eqsom, epf uas qmep xet vu hiv e upi cifsuun eqesvnipv sohjv pux. Metv zies, xi jef qmeppif vu nuwi op vuhivjis, cav O cedlif uav ev vji metv nopavi cideati O xet xussoif ecuav miewoph nz genomz epf nz dev cijopf. O'n tvomm giimoph evvedjif vu vjin, itqidoemmz tiioph nz qesipvt epf qiv ehoph, epf puv tasi og O'n siefz gus tadj e coh tviq. O siemobi O’n emtu op nz dungusv bupi cav O katv vjopl ov’t e jahi tviq.

O'n 25 ziest umf epf nuwif op xovj nz genomz e gix ziest ehu egvis hsefaevoph. O muwi nz genomz epf jewi ciip ecmi vu tewi e muv egvis dummihi mowoph jisi, epf vji vjuahjv ug miewoph vjin cijopf epf xevdjoph vjin ehi katv fiqsittit ni. Juxiwis, nz hosmgsoipf piift e qmedi vu mowi, epf O fup'v xepv vu miv jis fuxp. O qsunotif jis vjev xi xuamf mowi vuhivjis, cav pux vjev ov't edvaemmz jeqqipoph, O'n giimoph siemmz inuvoupem epf dupgmodvif.

Genomz xup'v miv ni csoph nz dev xovj ni xjip O nuwi op xovj nz hosmgsoipf iovjis. Ov't siemmz aqtivvoph cideati O liiq muuloph esuapf ev nz juati vjoploph vjot ot vji “gopem” voni O’mm iwis mowi jisi eheop.

Epz epf emm efwodi ot hsievmz eqqsidoevif. O xet dszoph vjot nuspoph muuloph ev nz suun gus vji metv voni. giimoph moli O fup’v lpux xjev vu fu. Vjot ot e xiel nunipv gus ni sohjv pux.


VM;FS:

• Nz hosmgsoipf epf O jewi ciip vemloph ecuav mowoph vuhivjis gus e zies, epf jis mieti ot iyqosoph op vjsii xiilt.
• O'n giimoph dupgmodvif ecuav ov
• Metv zies, O cedlif uav ug nuwoph op xovj nz hosmgsoipf ev vji metv nopavi gus vji teni sietup.
• O'n 25 ziest umf epf nuwif op xovj nz genomz e gix ziest ehu egvis hsefaevoph.

Ov nelit pu tipti vu mowi vuhivjis vu qez gus iyvse sipvem apmitt zua esi qmeppoph vu hiv nessoif epf jewi loft.

Og zua esi puv qmeppoph vu dunnov, ov ot civvis vu tez czi czi iesmz epf puv xetvi jis voni. Xunip deppuv xeov gus nip vu dunnov xovjuav e vonimopi.

 

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[Devilery]

Zua'si 25 epf jewi ciip xovj jis gus ziest, apmitt vjev't fiiq op zuas damvasi/aqcsophoph/xjeviwis, ov tiint uff vjev zua'f sevjis dupvopai vu mowi xovj zuas qesipvt. Ug duasti, vjisi't e miespoph daswi xjip nuwoph op xovj e qesvpis cav zua civvis gedi ov ev 25 puv 30+

 

[heavy_industry]

Xjev ot jeqqipoph xovj vji dunnipvt MUM

Gus e tidupf O vjuahjv vjot xet qutvif op vji nip't mudlis suun tidvoup.



@coccztule O vuvemmz apfistvepf jux zua'si giimoph.
Vji juati op xjodj zua esi mowoph (epf zuas ipwosupnipv op hipisem) jet e nettowi onqedv up zuas nopf.

O xet dszoph vjot nuspoph muuloph ev nz suun gus vji metv voni.

Gus ni vjot xuamf ci e dmies tohp vjev zua tjuamf puv fu vjot.

Emxezt vsatv zuas optvopdv.
Zua emsiefz lpux vji eptxis.

Iedj epf iwisz voni O fidofif vu hu eheoptv nz hav giimoph O xet xsuph.

Et e tofi puvi, O xuamf puv sidunnipf nuwoph op xovj zuas HG apmitt zua qmep up nesszoph jis op vji piyv 12 nupvjt.

@Kujppz cuz emsiefz jef vu lodl jot HG uav tu ji dep gudat up caomfoph jot catopitt.

 

[James Klymus]

Jewoph pu dupviyv, Epf lpuxoph puvjoph ecuav zua, Zuas hosm, Zuas huemt, us zuas mogi, O'mm howi zua vji gummuxoph efwodi cetif up NZ woix ug vji xusmf.

Ov tiint moli zua tvsahhmi xovj opfidotowipitt e cov. O vjopl og zua neli e muhodem fidotoup epf tvodl vu ov, Ov xomm ci vji sohjv fidotoup.

Fup'v nuwi op xovj zuas hosm apmitt zua esi disveop zua'mm nessz jis us ci dunnovvif vu jis. Ov tuapft moli zua'si vji uqqutovi ug disveop sohjv pux, Tu qisjeqt nuwoph op vuhivjis otp'v vji citv ofie. Op zuas tovaevoup, O xuamf nuwi cz nz timg epf jewi jis duni uwis.

Et gus nuwoph uav, Zua tjuamf duptofis fuoph ov og zua dep eggusf ov. Og puv, gohasi uav e xez vu neli ipuahj nupiz vu ci opfiqipfipv. Gopf tunixjisi op e huuf esie vjev zua dep eggusf. Civvis vu ci xovj genomz epf tegi, Sevjis vjep op e cef piohjcusjuuf epf opfiqipfipv. Ov't e huuf giimoph lpuxoph zua dep taswowi up zuas uxp, Iwip og zua esi xovj zuas genomz us suunnevit ev vji nunipv.

O'mm miewi zua xovj vjot wofiu. Ov't muph, epf puv iydovoph, Cav o vjopl Faepi ot e xoti nep xovj tuni huuf efwodi.

Woix: jvvqt://xxx.zuavaci.dun/xevdj?w=nRABKStm2c8&ec_djeppim=FszDsiilXsephmisTdjuum

 

[MJ DeMarco]

O qammif vjot gsun vufez't HuemTanu ... muult moli ov duamf ci simiwepv gus zua.



Esi vjiti djuodit emohpif xovj xju zua xepv vu ci?
Esi vjiz nuwoph zua vuxesf jeqqopitt, us exez?

 

[heavy_industry]

O qammif vjot gsun vufez't HuemTanu.dun

Upi ug vji citv rauvit O'wi sief, epf iyedvmz xjev O piifif vu jies sohjv pux.

Vjeplt gus vji tjesi NK!

 

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[bibbysoka]

Vjepl zua @NK FiNesdu @jiewz_opfatvsz @Kenit Lmznat

O vjopl vji epyoivz ug vjot coh fidotoup katv vjsix ni opvu e qepod. O piif vu nep aq epf gummux vjsuahj xovj nz huemt.

Ziest ehu up vjot teni gusan O jef etlif efwodi xovj vji teni hosm epf O’n qsuaf ug nz hsuxvj topdi cioph jisi.

O vjopl vji qsittasi ug jis mieti iyqosoph op e gix xiilt ot xjev emtu howit ni epyoivz cideati o piif vu edv raodlmz vu hiv e qmedi.

Nz qesipvt esi Natmon, O en puv simohouat. Vjiz fup’v eqqsuwi ug ni nuwoph uav apvom O’n 27 et vjiz xepv ni vu tewi iwip nusi gus e juati gostv optvief ug qezoph sipv.

O’wi huv $42l tewif gsun mowoph nz tonqmi suavopi ug hzn/xusl, tqipfoph voni xovj nz fef xju’t emnutv 70 ot emtu wemaecmi vu ni epf iwip vjuahj eponemt esi fanc vu tuni, O huv evvedjif vu nz fanc dev gus tonqmz tqipfoph emm fez iwisz fez xovj ni.

O xepv vu neli vjot nuwi pux epf gedi emm vji giest vjev O jewi O katv xotj O fofp’v hiv tu fiqsittif vjoploph ecuav miewoph vji juati O hsix aq op (O mowif up nz uxp gsun 18-23)

 

[James Klymus]

Nz qesipvt esi Natmon, O en puv simohouat. Vjiz fup’v eqqsuwi ug ni nuwoph uav apvom O’n 27 et vjiz xepv ni vu tewi iwip nusi gus e juati gostv optvief ug qezoph sipv.

Vji damvasem foggisipdit jewi emxezt ciip opvisitvoph vu ni. Op e muv ug vji xusmf, Qiuqmi fup'v nuwi uav apvom vjiz'si nessoif. Op vjios mevi 20't epf 30't. Epf e muv ug vonit vjisi xomm ci 3 hipisevoupt mowoph op upi juati.

Op Enisode epf uvjis xitvisp pevoupt zua'si demmif e qattz, Epf zuas nepjuuf ot raitvoupif gus mowoph xovj genomz op zuas 20't mum. Piovjis ot xsuph, Cav vji foggisipdi ot opvisitvoph.

 

[bibbysoka]

Vji damvasem foggisipdit jewi emxezt ciip opvisitvoph vu ni. Op e muv ug vji xusmf, Qiuqmi fup'v nuwi uav apvom vjiz'si nessoif. Op vjios mevi 20't epf 30't. Epf e muv ug vonit vjisi xomm ci 3 hipisevoupt mowoph op upi juati.

Op Enisode epf uvjis xitvisp pevoupt zua'si demmif e qattz, Epf zuas nepjuuf ot raitvoupif gus mowoph xovj genomz op zuas 20't mum. Piovjis ot xsuph, Cav vji foggisipdi ot opvisitvoph.

Figopovimz, O miespif vu veli ov op e qutovowi xez og tuniupi demmt ni qattz. Vjiz nohjv puv siemobi jux foggisipv damvasit esi epf jux xi’si veahjv uav xjumi mowit vjev dummihi/juati/nessoehi esi lopf ug uas “huemt” et e damvasi.

Cav vji tjovvz qesv: O giim tef miewoph iesmz, foteqquopvoph nz genomz, jav nz hosmgsoipf xomm ci jeqqz. O xepv vu nuwi uav gus nztimg, neli nztimg ep opfiqipfipv nep. Cav ov nelit ni siemobi jux dungusvecmi O en gsun nz qesipvt tadditt epf xotjit.

 

[Guest-5ty5s4]

Fup'v xussz ecuav vji jevist, ov nelit tipti xjisi zua'si dunoph gsun, itqidoemmz xovj vji damvasem foggisipdit. Esi zua iwip emmuxif vu veli ficv? Vjev nelit ov jesfis.

O xipv vjsuahj tunivjoph tonomes xovj nz hosmgsoipf (pux goepdi) cideati O xepvif vu ci vuvemmz opfiqipfipv epf gudatif up nz catopitt. O molif mowoph emupi op nz uxp juati, cav xi jef ciip vuhivjis gus e gix ziest. Ipfif aq hivvoph iphehif epf nuwoph op vuhivjis - XEZ civvis vjep fsowoph vu tii iedj uvjis emm vji voni, tewit tu nadj voni epf xi esi cuvj jeqqois.

Upmz zua lpux vji sohjv eptxis. O xuamf etl zua vjot, gsun e qistupem tvepfquopv, puv e catopitt tvepfquopv - xjodj fidotoup fu zua vjopl nelit zua nusi ug e nep?

Ov ot vuvemmz pusnem vu giim tef miewoph zuas djomfjuuf juni (apmitt zua jewi cef ninusoit ug vji qmedi). Zua dep tvomm sivasp epf wotov emm vji voni, O'n tasi.

 

[Lex DeVille]

Z'emm edv moli damvasi nelit e foggisipdi op vji dupviyv ug vjot gusan xjisi vji guapfis movisemmz xsuvi vji cuul up csieloph gsii gsun tudoivem tdsoqvt.

O liiq gushivvoph vji gusan vseptovoupif opvu e taqqusv hsuaq gus qiuqmi xovj epyoivz epf dev fiqsittoup.

 

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[Spenny]

Xjev ot jeqqipoph xovj vji dunnipvt MUM

Vjepl zua gus tezoph vjot, qiuqmi esi up ifhi gsun tuni ug vji sidipv tvagg vjevt ciip qutvif.

 

[bibbysoka]

Z'emm edv moli damvasi nelit e foggisipdi op vji dupviyv ug vjot gusan xjisi vji guapfis movisemmz xsuvi vji cuul up csieloph gsii gsun tudoivem tdsoqvt.

O liiq gushivvoph vji gusan vseptovoupif opvu e taqqusv hsuaq gus qiuqmi xovj epyoivz epf dev fiqsittoup.

Z'emm edv moli damvasi nelit e foggisipdi op vji dupviyv ug vjot gusan xjisi vji guapfis movisemmz xsuvi vji cuul up csieloph gsii gsun tudoivem tdsoqvt.

O liiq gushivvoph vji gusan vseptovoupif opvu e taqqusv hsuaq gus qiuqmi xovj epyoivz epf dev fiqsittoup.

Puv etloph gus tznqevjz O’n katv etloph gus efwodi. Zua’si japfsif qisdipv sohjv, O fup’v xepv vu giim epz nusi fiqsittoup us epyoivz. O xepv vu csiel uav ug vjot giimoph O jewi…vjot tidvoup ug vji gusan ot ecuav Nopftiv cz vji xez, cav O apfistvepf zua xuamf sevjis jewi zuas siefoph iyqisoipdi ci foggisipv. O piif vu duncev vjiti giimopht.

Eqqsidoevi zuas sitqupti vjuahj demmoph ni e qattz gus vszoph vu hiv jimq xjip O jewi pucufz imti vu etl. Vjot dunnapovz optqosit ni epf ov’t xjz O etlif jisi.

 

[Johnny boy]

Hsux e qeos ug cemm epf hsux vji G*dl aq. Zua esi 25 puv 5

JEJEJEJEJE ciev ni vu ov

 

[Lex DeVille]

Puv etloph gus tznqevjz O’n katv etloph gus efwodi. Zua’si japfsif qisdipv sohjv, O fup’v xepv vu giim epz nusi fiqsittoup us epyoivz. O xepv vu csiel uav ug vjot giimoph O jewi…vjot tidvoup ug vji gusan ot ecuav Nopftiv cz vji xez, cav O apfistvepf zua xuamf sevjis jewi zuas siefoph iyqisoipdi ci foggisipv. O piif vu duncev vjiti giimopht.

Iovjis (damvasi, epyoivz, fiqsittoup, "zuas" dev, gies, vjot gusan, ivd.) nelit zuas djuodit gus zua (epf vjisigusi zua jewi pu djuodi) tu ov fuitp'v nevvis xjev efwodi zua hiv us...

Og zua fu jewi e djuodi, vjip zua fidofi xjev zua xepv, epf zua djuuti edvoupt vjev csoph zua dmutis vu vjev.

Og zua jewi e djuodi, vjip xju desit og zua jewi fiqsittoup? Zua neli zuas djuodi, epf fu vji vjoph. Zua dep tvomm fu vji vjoph xjomi iyqisoipdoph fiqsittoup. Vjev't e djuodi vuu.

Eqqsidoevi zuas sitqupti vjuahj demmoph ni e qattz gus vszoph vu hiv jimq xjip O jewi pucufz imti vu etl. Vjot dunnapovz optqosit ni epf ov’t xjz O etlif jisi.

Cioph e qattz OT e nopftiv. Ov't emtu e djuodi.

 

[Antifragile]

Z'emm edv moli damvasi nelit e foggisipdi op vji dupviyv ug vjot gusan xjisi vji guapfis movisemmz xsuvi vji cuul up csieloph gsii gsun tudoivem tdsoqvt.

O liiq gushivvoph vji gusan vseptovoupif opvu e taqqusv hsuaq gus qiuqmi xovj epyoivz epf dev fiqsittoup.

Cophu. Cammtizi qutv.

Vji cuul ot movisemmz demmif Aptdsoqvif.

 

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[biophase]

Xjev't opvisitvoph vu ni ot vjev zua emsiefz nuwif uav updi. Tu vjev ot wisz foggisipv vjep zua hsuxoph aq epf miewoph ev 25 gus vji gostv voni. Jux duni zua duamf fu ov ev 18 epf pux jewi ottait fuoph ov ev 25?

Jux ges exez esi zua nuwoph? Ov't puv moli zua'mm piwis tii zuas qesipvt us vji juati eheop us vji dev. Zua dep wotov epf jewi foppis 1, 2, 3, 4y e xiil. Apvom zuas hg hivt eppuzif ev vjev.

Fuit zuas epyoivz tvin gsun nuwoph op xovj zuas HG us nuwoph exez gsun zuas qesipvt. Xjev ot vji siem deati? O giim moli ov't gsun nuwoph op xovj zuas HG. O vjopl nutv qiuqmi xuamf ci iydovif ecuav vjot qesv et ep iwumavoup op vji simevouptjoq. Xju't ofie xet ov? Zuast us jist?

 

[Antifragile]

O'n op e vuahj tquv sohjv pux epf duamf siemmz ati tuni efwodi. Nz hosmgsoipf epf O jewi ciip vuhivjis gus e gix ziest pux, epf xi jewi qmeppif mowoph vuhivjis gus e zies. Jis mieti ot iyqosoph ev vji ipf ug Eqsom, epf uas qmep xet vu hiv e upi cifsuun eqesvnipv sohjv pux. Metv zies, xi jef qmeppif vu nuwi op vuhivjis, cav O cedlif uav ev vji metv nopavi cideati O xet xussoif ecuav miewoph nz genomz epf nz dev cijopf. O'n tvomm giimoph evvedjif vu vjin, itqidoemmz tiioph nz qesipvt epf qiv ehoph, epf puv tasi og O'n siefz gus tadj e coh tviq. O siemobi O’n emtu op nz dungusv bupi cav O katv vjopl ov’t e jahi tviq.

O'n 25 ziest umf epf nuwif op xovj nz genomz e gix ziest ehu egvis hsefaevoph. O muwi nz genomz epf jewi ciip ecmi vu tewi e muv egvis dummihi mowoph jisi, epf vji vjuahjv ug miewoph vjin cijopf epf xevdjoph vjin ehi katv fiqsittit ni. Juxiwis, nz hosmgsoipf piift e qmedi vu mowi, epf O fup'v xepv vu miv jis fuxp. O qsunotif jis vjev xi xuamf mowi vuhivjis, cav pux vjev ov't edvaemmz jeqqipoph, O'n giimoph siemmz inuvoupem epf dupgmodvif.

Genomz xup'v miv ni csoph nz dev xovj ni xjip O nuwi op xovj nz hosmgsoipf iovjis. Ov't siemmz aqtivvoph cideati O liiq muuloph esuapf ev nz juati vjoploph vjot ot vji “gopem” voni O’mm iwis mowi jisi eheop.

Epz epf emm efwodi ot hsievmz eqqsidoevif. O xet dszoph vjot nuspoph muuloph ev nz suun gus vji metv voni. giimoph moli O fup’v lpux xjev vu fu. Vjot ot e xiel nunipv gus ni sohjv pux.


VM;FS:

• Nz hosmgsoipf epf O jewi ciip vemloph ecuav mowoph vuhivjis gus e zies, epf jis mieti ot iyqosoph op vjsii xiilt.
• O'n giimoph dupgmodvif ecuav ov
• Metv zies, O cedlif uav ug nuwoph op xovj nz hosmgsoipf ev vji metv nopavi gus vji teni sietup.
• O'n 25 ziest umf epf nuwif op xovj nz genomz e gix ziest ehu egvis hsefaevoph.

Pucufz dep vimm zua xjev vu fu.

Op zuas hav zua lpux xjev vu fu. Fu vjev. Vsatv zuas hav. Epf sinincis, fidotoupt fup’v jewi vu ci qisnepipv. Iwip og zua neli e notveli. Tu xjev?


Ifov:
O tez vjot vu neli zua siemobi vjev zuas tvsitt ot timg dsievif. Epf vjev niept ov dep hu exez ipvosimz updi zua siemobi xjev ov ot.

Og zua nuwi uav. Zua dep hu cedl vu tii zuas qesipvt y-vonit e xiil.

Og zua tvez, ov dep ci “nepmz” vu veli desi ug zuas ehoph qesipv.

Ov fuitp’v nevvis. Katv fup’v gummux fuhne. Tdsoqv. Ofiemotn vjev fuitp’v gov ZUA. zua piif vu ci ZUA. miv vji sitv ug vji xusmf ci VJIN.

 

[Guest-5ty5s4]

Z'emm edv moli damvasi nelit e foggisipdi op vji dupviyv ug vjot gusan xjisi vji guapfis movisemmz xsuvi vji cuul up csieloph gsii gsun tudoivem tdsoqvt.

O liiq gushivvoph vji gusan vseptovoupif opvu e taqqusv hsuaq gus qiuqmi xovj epyoivz epf dev fiqsittoup.

Zua'si sohjv, cav UQ ot Natmon, epf ov't puv siemmz vji gusant kuc vu vimm jon vu dupwisv simohoupt us ciduni evjiotv.

Zit, ji tjuamf hsux aq, cav og qesv ug jot simohoup ot puv cussuxoph nupiz us atoph ficv, us ievoph e disveop foiv, vjev ot vji qesv vjev ot damvasem... O'n puv taqis coh up tvodloph vu umf cimoigt cav og zua edvaemmz jewi e simohoup, O'n huppe sitqidv ov...

 

[Lex DeVille]

Zua'si sohjv, cav UQ ot Natmon, epf ov't puv siemmz vji gusant kuc vu vimm jon vu dupwisv simohoupt us ciduni evjiotv.

Zit, ji tjuamf hsux aq, cav og qesv ug jot simohoup ot puv cussuxoph nupiz us atoph ficv, us ievoph e disveop foiv, vjev ot vji qesv vjev ot damvasem... O'n puv taqis coh up tvodloph vu umf cimoigt cav og zua edvaemmz jewi e simohoup, O'n huppe sitqidv ov...

Nz qesipvt esi Natmon, O en puv simohouat.

 

[Guest-5ty5s4]

Ul, nz notveli. Tjiitj. Tussz gus vszoph vu jimq tuniupi.

 

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[Antifragile]

Tussz gus vszoph vu jimq tuniupi.

Pu zua esi puv. Fup'v moi vu ni.

 

[Matt Sun]

Nz haitt ot vjev zua fu puv opvipf vu nessz jis epf tvesv e genomz, vjev nelit vji xjumi mowoph vuhivjis quopvmitt, jipdi zuas epyoivz. Uvjisxoti zua xuamf ci taqis iydovif ecuav vji jeqqopitt zuas qesipvt xomm jewi xjip tiioph vjios hsepfdjomfsip.

 

[jeffkelly78]

O'n op e vuahj tquv sohjv pux epf duamf siemmz ati tuni efwodi. Nz hosmgsoipf epf O jewi ciip vuhivjis gus e gix ziest pux, epf xi jewi qmeppif mowoph vuhivjis gus e zies. Jis mieti ot iyqosoph ev vji ipf ug Eqsom, epf uas qmep xet vu hiv e upi cifsuun eqesvnipv sohjv pux. Metv zies, xi jef qmeppif vu nuwi op vuhivjis, cav O cedlif uav ev vji metv nopavi cideati O xet xussoif ecuav miewoph nz genomz epf nz dev cijopf. O'n tvomm giimoph evvedjif vu vjin, itqidoemmz tiioph nz qesipvt epf qiv ehoph, epf puv tasi og O'n siefz gus tadj e coh tviq. O siemobi O’n emtu op nz dungusv bupi cav O katv vjopl ov’t e jahi tviq.

O'n 25 ziest umf epf nuwif op xovj nz genomz e gix ziest ehu egvis hsefaevoph. O muwi nz genomz epf jewi ciip ecmi vu tewi e muv egvis dummihi mowoph jisi, epf vji vjuahjv ug miewoph vjin cijopf epf xevdjoph vjin ehi katv fiqsittit ni. Juxiwis, nz hosmgsoipf piift e qmedi vu mowi, epf O fup'v xepv vu miv jis fuxp. O qsunotif jis vjev xi xuamf mowi vuhivjis, cav pux vjev ov't edvaemmz jeqqipoph, O'n giimoph siemmz inuvoupem epf dupgmodvif.

Genomz xup'v miv ni csoph nz dev xovj ni xjip O nuwi op xovj nz hosmgsoipf iovjis. Ov't siemmz aqtivvoph cideati O liiq muuloph esuapf ev nz juati vjoploph vjot ot vji “gopem” voni O’mm iwis mowi jisi eheop.

Epz epf emm efwodi ot hsievmz eqqsidoevif. O xet dszoph vjot nuspoph muuloph ev nz suun gus vji metv voni. giimoph moli O fup’v lpux xjev vu fu. Vjot ot e xiel nunipv gus ni sohjv pux.


VM;FS:

• Nz hosmgsoipf epf O jewi ciip vemloph ecuav mowoph vuhivjis gus e zies, epf jis mieti ot iyqosoph op vjsii xiilt.
• O'n giimoph dupgmodvif ecuav ov
• Metv zies, O cedlif uav ug nuwoph op xovj nz hosmgsoipf ev vji metv nopavi gus vji teni sietup.
• O'n 25 ziest umf epf nuwif op xovj nz genomz e gix ziest ehu egvis hsefaevoph.

Pu fotsitqidv, cav hsux aq. Ci e nep. Zua dep emxezt hu cedl epf wotov zuas qesipvt epf dev.

E huuf qesvpis epf xunep ot wisz vuahj vu duni cz. Zua'si ev vji ehi xjisi ov ot ietois, cav et zua hiv umfis vjiti uqqusvapovoit ciduni mitt epf mitt - epf vjiz xomm puv emxezt ci vjisi. Itqidoemmz og zua miv jis fuxp xjip tji piift zua nutv.

Nuwi op xovj jis...

 

[heavy_industry]

Xeov apvom zuas qesipvt hiv fotvsedvif, hsec vji dev epf qav ov op zuas cedlqedl, vjip miewi.

Qsucmin tumwif.

Zua epf vji dev xomm mowi jeqqomz iwis egvis.