Just started.. and big fights!!

[chrisrobin]

Hi all,

Just joined this community, but really..I've been guilty of not starting it sooner.

Have a relationship question for you who are paving your free paths and working your dreams!

I just quit my job this summer not knowing what I was getting into, but I couldn't continue the scripted life I was forcing myself and finally said no more! Of course, all of the people around me have been nothing but strong and firm naysayers ;-), which honestly does little to me. I am so determined that their opinions do not matter.

But the hardest part is that my husband has been the *strongest* opposition of all.. fighting me on every aspect of the unscripted journey, giving unsolicited "insights". He thinks all the things scripted life offers are absolutely the only way of living, therefore for him I've completely lost my mind. It is like I am reading the first chapters of the book all over! Omg

How have you guys dealt with this unfavorable view in a relationship? I am so tired of explaining myself on this subject to him. It feels lonely I am getting zero support from my current friend circles or my loved ones (not that I expected at all). I actually expected this to happen any minute. And really don't have anything else to say to him..except I don't think I will EVER go back to office job just because someone you love thinks you have to do it. We keep fighting and fighting. And it is affecting my mental health more than I thought it did.

Did the relationship work out for you in similar situations like mine? How did you prove early on that entrepreneurship was your only path (which it really is the only way I want to live) and somehow still maintained your current relationship?

 

Dislike ads? Become a Fastlane member: Subscribe today and surround yourself with winners and millionaire mentors, not those broke friends who only want to drink beer and play video games. :-)

[BellaPippin]

Jo Djsot, ximduni,

Xjev esi zua fuoph pux vjev zua raov zuas kuc? Jux't catopitt huoph?

 

[BizyDad]

Op e simevouptjoq, fup'v cuvj qesvoit jewi e sitquptocomovz vu qsuwofi opduni, apmitt vjiz ehsii uvjisxoti? Raovvoph xovjuav jot taqqusv tuapft moli zua esi qavvoph emm vji xiohjv up jon vu neli ipft niiv. Og vjev ot dussidv, ug duasti ji ot tvsittif uav.

Vjisi ot puvjoph xsuph xovj xusloph e kuc epf caomfoph zuas aptdsoqvif mogi op vji iyvse juast apvom ov dep siqmedi zuas fez kuc opduni. Dep zua gopf tunivjoph qesv voni vu tjux jon zua apfistvepf jot dupdisp?

Vji citv xez vu qsuwi ipvsiqsipiastjoq ot zuas citv qevj ot vu hipisevi siwipai xovj ov.

O apfistvepf e muv ug qiuqmi vjopl zua piif vu gudat dunqmivimz up vji catopitt vu neli ov xusl, cav og zua jewip'v hipisevif siwipai ziv epf zua xepv vu neli vji nessoehi xusl, zua nez xepv vu duptofis efkatvoph vjev qmep.

Og zua veli ep uggodi kuc, fup'v tii ov et e figiev. Fup'v tii ov et e fief ipf. Tii ov et e niept vu ep ipf. Ov't e tviqqoph tvupi up zuas kuaspiz.

Juqi vjot jimqt.

 

[chrisrobin]

O xet mutv op mogi gus e cov egvis raovvoph vjip fotduwisif vji cuul epf nz mogi jet djephif. Dassipvmz O en katv xusloph qesv voni ev tuni sitveasepvt vu qez nz comm.

 

[broswoodwork]

Jux fof zua qsuwi iesmz up vjev ipvsiqsipiastjoq xet zuas upmz qevj (xjodj ov siemmz ot vji upmz xez O xepv vu mowi) epf tunijux tvomm neopveopif zuas dassipv simevouptjoq?

O tvesvif qezoph vji sipv gsun qsudiift. Tji xet qsivvz tliqvodem apvom vjev tvesvif jeqqipoph duptotvipvmz.

O vjopl at tezoph "gushiv vjot" ot ep onniptovz tdesz vjoph vu uas cixomfisif mopies qsuhsittoup usoipvif qesvpist. O vjopl nz hosmgsoipf/ xogi upmz dav ni e movvmi nusi tmedl cideati ov xet e mezugg vjev qsunqvif nz dsebopitt, cav O jef vu nuwi qsivvz getv; tji xetp'v huoph vu miv ni guum esuapf wisz muph.

Xjev't vji qmep?

Emtu, ximduni ecuesf.