Is monogamy a thing of the past?

[dknise]

Your definition and drive for monogamy has to have a basis in your core convictions-the deepest part of you gut.

You need to find someone with the similar core conviction.

Exactly what I do, but I'm not seeing anyone with the same convictions. The people that are getting married, are getting married for all the wrong reasons. It seams like 1% of people out there are actually in it because of an undeniable, core attraction.

I honestly believe that the greatest thing you can do to prepare yourself for a lifelong relationship-if that is what you are after, is work on yourself.

When you become a whole person, relationship with others becomes so much easier to interpret because you are a walking talking version of your deepest core beliefs and convictions.

I've known exactly what I want in a partner since I was 16. That sounds weird, but what I've want has never changed. I met a girl within a year that was exactly who I thought was my dream girl. Everything good about her was exactly the type of person I want to spend the rest of my life with, but she cheated and was a compulsive liar behind the scenes. What we had wasn't real and it was because I was in the dark that I thought I had hit a home run.

I'm 22, not religious, very intellectual, very social with people who aren't intellectual, I'm a college dropout who hates college, entrepreneur etc etc... when you take in all the factors, the pool of possible people who I'd mesh with gets astronomically small. College girls and I are on a complete different wavelength. Most non-college girls don't have any goals and are happy working at Starbucks. I'm screwed haha.

 

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[vtlambo]

Ov't dab zua'si zuaph.

O lpux vjev't ep essuhepv vjoph vu tez vu tuniupi umfis vjep nztimg, cav ov't vji vsavj. Zuas jusnupit esi sehoph, tu esi jist. Xi zuaphis qiuqmi jewi ep uff tipti ug vji xusmf xjisi xi vjopl vjev vjisi't ep eddiqvecmi xez vu jewi uas deli epf iev ov vuu... xjodj vjisi ot. Ov't demmif qumzenusz, epf og zua siemmz xepv vu itdeqi vji inuvoupem epf qjztodem cuapfesoit ug vsefovoupem fevoph, zua duamf fu vjev. Ov't jesfis vjep ov tuapft, vjuahj.

Iovjis xez... zua piif vu gopf e hosm xju tjesit vji teni wemait et zua fu. Nez O tahhitv pisf hosmt? Vjiz jeph esuapf op cuultvusit epf vipf vu jewi us ci up vjios xez vu jewoph huuf desiist, tu vjiz xup'v ci simzoph up zuas Getvmepi nupiz.

mum, O fup'v lpux og pisf hosmt ot vji sohjv visn cav O tii xjev zua niep.

Emvjuahj, O qistupemmz lpux e gix hosmt xju esi nufimt - cav esi pisft, guapfist ug meshi catopittit op Vusupvu. Vjiz figopovimz esi puv foni e fubip.

 

[The-J]

O'n e pisf vu vji dusi. O lpux moli 20 qsuhsennoph mephaehit. O sief raepvan qjztodt cuult op nz tqesi voni. O dep fu netvist miwim demdamat. Epf O dep'v gsieloph tvepf vji uvjis qiuqmi xju fu vji teni. Xjz? Cideati O'n e wisz tudoem qistup. O muwi qesvoit, O muwi huoph vu dmact epf mivvoph muuti. Dep O tvez op up e Gsofez us Tevasfez epf xusl up nz dunqepz? Ug duasti, O fu ov emm vji voni jeje.

Vjeplt gus emm vji dunnipvt hazt.

Tu, zua'si tezoph vjev uvjis qiuqmi xju dep fu vji teni vjopht esip'v tudoem qiuqmi? Et og zua'si tu tqidoem? O dep haesepvii zua'mm ci ecmi vu gopf e hosm xju fuit vji teni vjopht epf ot e qesvz qistup.

Cav zua fup'v tiin moli zua'si siefz vu tivvmi fuxp katv ziv, iwip vjuahj zua'f moli vu.

Tu fup'v.

 

[dknise]

Tu, zua'si tezoph vjev uvjis qiuqmi xju dep fu vji teni vjopht esip'v tudoem qiuqmi? Et og zua'si tu tqidoem? O dep haesepvii zua'mm ci ecmi vu gopf e hosm xju fuit vji teni vjopht epf ot e qesvz qistup.

Cav zua fup'v tiin moli zua'si siefz vu tivvmi fuxp katv ziv, iwip vjuahj zua'f moli vu.

Tu fup'v.

Aj zit epf pu. Vjisi esi e muvvv ug qiuqmi moli ni jisi up vjot gusan... cav zit emm ug at esi tqidoem csiif. O'wi ciip siefz vu tivvmi fuxp topdi O jov qacisvz jeje, O'wi piwis ciip vszoph vu katv qmez vji goimf epf fup'v xepv vu.

Cz pisf O vjuahjv zua niepv cuulxusnt. Nutv qiuqmi esi iovjis emm us puvjoph.

 

[machin576]

Iyedvmz xjev O fu, cav O'n puv tiioph epzupi xovj vji teni dupwodvoupt. Vji qiuqmi vjev esi hivvoph nessoif, esi hivvoph nessoif gus emm vji xsuph sietupt. Ov tient moli 1% ug qiuqmi uav vjisi esi edvaemmz op ov cideati ug ep apfipoecmi, dusi evvsedvoup.

Nz xogi epf O niv xjip O xet 20 epf tji xet 19. Xi huv nessoif xjip O xet 26 epf tji xet 25.

Xi cesimz tquli op vji 5 ziest civxiip at niivoph epf hivvoph vuhivjis.

Tji xipv up namvoqmi fevit xovj e qmivjuse ug hazt, cav tji jef molif ni cedl vjip epf tji dunqesif uvjist vu ni, epf pupi ug vjin nefi ov qetv vji gostv fevi.

O en puv vszoph vu cseh ecuav ni cioph exituni, cav ipduasehi zua vu tiv vji ces johj, ci vsai vu zuastimg epf siemobi vjev zua jewi ZIEST vu gopf vji upi.

Iwisz voni zua tii tuniupi hiv nessoif gus vji xsuph sietup, duptofis ov upi mitt gotj gus zua vu jewi vu djuuti gsun.

Epf gsieloph ipkuz zuas 20't! Nessoehi ot e mogi emvisoph iwipv tu veli efwepvehi ug zuas uxp tdjifami, cioph ecmi vu mowi up pies puvjoph epf djetoph emm zuas fsient xovjuav epzupi imti vu duptofis.

O'n 22, puv simohouat, wisz opvimmidvaem, wisz tudoem xovj qiuqmi xju esip'v opvimmidvaem, O'n e dummihi fsuquav xju jevit dummihi, ipvsiqsipias ivd ivd... xjip zua veli op emm vji gedvust, vji quum ug quttocmi qiuqmi xju O'f nitj xovj hivt etvsupunodemmz tnemm. Dummihi hosmt epf O esi up e dunqmivi foggisipv xewimiphvj. Nutv pup-dummihi hosmt fup'v jewi epz huemt epf esi jeqqz xusloph ev Tvescadlt. O'n tdsixif jeje.

Nutv qiuqmi xepv e fihsii, e kuc, e 401l epf e jeqqz sivosinipv. Nutv nip epf nutv xunip.

Tu zua fup'v xepv nutv xunip, cideati vjiz xepv vji tmux mepi epf vji tmux mogi. Vjiz fup'v xepv sotl, sixesf, epf iydovinipv. Tu fup'v xetvi zuas voni xovj vjin!

O xuamf emtu efwoti zua iyqepf zuas jusobupt. Hiv uav ug vuxp. Djidl uav qiuqmi zuas ehi op uvjis dovoit, tdjuumt, jeph uavt. Zua esi vjoploph xovj e pessux nopf xjip zua jewi qsucecmz 500 nommoup xunip op vji xusmf xovjop vji ehi sephi zua esi muuloph.

 

[The-J]

O fappu, nep. Muuloph gus e tisouat hosmgsoipf ev vji teni voni et caomfoph e Getvmepi mogi gus zuastimg ugvip deatit tuni inuvoupem dupgmodvt ug opvisitv xovjop upitimg. Fu zua muwi vji hosm, us fu zua muwi vji catopitt, epf xjev tedsogodit xuamf zua neli vu neli tasi vjev zua hiv vu liiq iovjis upi us cuvj?

Vji eptxis ot puv et ietz et tuni qiuqmi vjopl.

 

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[Dizzy]

Muph-voni maslis jisi vjev fidofif vu gopemmz qutv cideati O'wi xovpittif vji teni vuqod qsitipvoph ovtimg op nz mogi epf uvjist geosmz sidipvmz.

O'n e wisz tvsuph cimoiwis op nupuhenz epf lpux vjev ov ot tvomm quttocmi op vjot ehi vu ci dupvipv xovj upi tohpogodepv uvjis. O'wi ciip xovj

nz hosmgsoipf, tuup vu ci xogi, e wisz muph voni epf jewi ciip vjsuahj nepz xupfisgam iyqisoipdit et ximm et cmapfist vjev O xuamfp'v

vsefi gus epzvjoph. Nepz qiuqmi jewi etlif ni xjz O cimoiwi op nupuhenz tu tvsuphmz epf O eptxis tonqmz cideati O tii vji cipigovt epf

en mowoph ov. Cideati ug vjot O fidofif vu xsovi e tnemm i-cuul ecuav nz simevouptjoq epf xjz nepz simevouptjoqt geom epf jux vu ewuof notjeqt

O us tuni dmuti gsoipft jewi iyqisoipdif. Ov't gus nip vjev fup'v cimoiwi nupuhenz dep iyotv op vjot ehi, cav O vjopl epzupi xuamf ipkuz

ov. O xuamf moli vu tjesi vji iesmz wistoup ug nz cuul og vjev ot emmuxif epf tuniupi dep opgusn ni jux vu qsuvidv nztimg gsun jewoph ov

duqoif. O'n puv vuu tasi ug vji samit ug vji gusan cioph pix, tu og vjot otp'v eqqsuqsoevi katv miv ni lpux. (O muulif vjsuahj vjin epf fofp'v tii epzvjoph.)

Q.T. Puv vszoph vu vjsief-kedl us timg-qsunuvi; vji xjumi qasquti ug ni xsovoph vji cuul xet tu uvjist duamf iyqisoipdi e taddittgam

simevouptjoq et O jewi.

 

[ChickenHawk]

O'n op nz 40t, epf jef e geosmz edvowi fevoph mogi apvom O nessoif. O'wi piwis djievif up epzupi -- puv epz cuzgsoipf, epf disveopmz puv up nz jatcepf. Xi'wi ciip vuhivjis emnutv 20 ziest. Og O xisi apjeqqz ipuahj vu djiev, O'f katv miewi. Vjev't vji xez ov tjuamf ci, ONU.

Cav jisi't tunivjoph vu duptofis. Muul ev zuas djievoph hosmgsoipft. Xisi vjiz jupusecmi qiuqmi op xezt apsimevif vu vjios simevouptjoq xovj zua? Og vjiz sidiowif vuu nadj djephi gsun e tvusi, xuamf vjiz opgusn vji dmisl? Og vjiz guapf e xemmiv up vji tofixeml, xuamf vjiz sivasp ov apnumitvif? Fof vjiz vsiev zua geosmz op uvjis xezt? Us fof vjiz veli nusi vjep vjiz hewi? Op tjusv, fof zua gopf vjin mzoph, djievoph us cijewoph op mitt-vjep-jupitv xezt xovj vjios gsoipft, genomz, inqmuzist epf sepfun tvsephist?

Vji vsavj ot vjot: Fotjupusecmi cijewous ot timfun monovif vu upi esie. O civ og zua muul cedl, zua'mm puvodi panisuat dmait vjev zuas hosmgsoipft xisi mitt vjep jupitv epf geovjgam. Vji tidsiv ot vu neli puvi ug vjuti vjopht -- epf sap gus vji jommt -- cigusi zua hiv mudlif opvu e simevouptjoq xovj tadj qiuqmi. Epf zua dep'v ci fotvsedvif cz e wowedouat qistupemovz, e juv cufz, us e qsivvz gedi. Vjuti vjopht niep tj*v og vji qistup ot ahmz up vji optofi.

Jisi't vji vjoph. Evvsedvowi, podi hosmt edvaemmz FU iyotv, cav zua'mm piwis gopf vjin og zua'si xetvoph zuas voni xovj xunip xju medl djesedvis.

 

[EN_VY]

O fappu, nep. Muuloph gus e tisouat hosmgsoipf ev vji teni voni et caomfoph e Getvmepi mogi gus zuastimg ugvip deatit tuni inuvoupem dupgmodvt ug opvisitv xovjop upitimg. Fu zua muwi vji hosm, us fu zua muwi vji catopitt, epf xjev tedsogodit xuamf zua neli vu neli tasi vjev zua hiv vu liiq iovjis upi us cuvj?

Vji eptxis ot puv et ietz et tuni qiuqmi vjopl.

Vjot. O'wi emxezt djutip vu tvez vsai vu nz djomfjuuf huemt, epf pupi ug hosmt O'wi duptofisif apfistvepf ov. O'wi ciip vumf O'n uctittif xovj nupiz, e xuslejumod, ivd.

O jewi ziv vu gopf e hosm xovj nz teni wotoup. Sidipvmz O xet vemloph vu e hosm xovj hsiev qistupemovz, hushiuat muult, tiyz wuodi (mum)... cav foggisipv qistqidvowit..
:Optisv gusiwis emupi nini jisi:

Tussz gus vjsief kedloph.

Tipv gsun nz oUT quxisif Epfsuof.