Is it possible to reduce your ambition to become happier?

[GatsbyMag]

I'm at a point in my life where I'm making progress but I seem to have this never-ending desire to do more and be more.

My problem is that I have too much ambition.

People in our community rarely discuss this and I feel like it's because I'm one of the rare few who has this problem.

Imagine you have unlimited car fuel but your vehicle (skills and abilities) is average and fails to burn greater than 40% of the fuel. That's exactly how I feel.

If I could, I'd try to improve my vehicle so I could put the fuel to good use, however there's a limit to how much I can improve my skill, I just do not have the ability to get any of my skills to 1% level or even combine them to achieve something that allows my fuel to accommodate.

The best option at this point is to try and deplete my fuel (at least temporarily) so that I can continue to refine my skill and appreciate what I have in the meantime.

Symptoms I've experienced:

• Can only sleep 5 hours
• Constant movement, I need to workout/dance daily just to keep myself 'at bay'
• Easily get bored at office job, I'm in sales but I get bored of doing the same thing and meeting targets every month
• Constant urge to create something

I'm doing better than all my peers but it's never enough for me and I just want to do so much. My current online business is doing okay, but I try not to touch it because I'm worried that my impatience and restlessness will ruin the progress made.

Any advice?

 

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[Deleted50669]

O'n ev e quopv op nz mogi xjisi O'n neloph qsuhsitt cav O tiin vu jewi vjot piwis-ipfoph fitosi vu fu nusi epf ci nusi.

Nz qsucmin ot vjev O jewi vuu nadj encovoup.

Qiuqmi op uas dunnapovz sesimz fotdatt vjot epf O giim moli ov't cideati O'n upi ug vji sesi gix xju jet vjot qsucmin.

Onehopi zua jewi apmonovif des gaim cav zuas wijodmi (tlommt epf ecomovoit) ot ewisehi epf geomt vu casp hsievis vjep 40% ug vji gaim. Vjev't iyedvmz jux O giim.

Og O duamf, O'f vsz vu onqsuwi nz wijodmi tu O duamf qav vji gaim vu huuf ati, juxiwis vjisi't e monov vu jux nadj O dep onqsuwi nz tlomm, O katv fu puv jewi vji ecomovz vu hiv epz ug nz tlommt vu 1% miwim us iwip duncopi vjin vu edjoiwi tunivjoph vjev emmuxt nz gaim vu eddunnufevi.

Vji citv uqvoup ev vjot quopv ot vu vsz epf fiqmivi nz gaim (ev mietv vinqusesomz) tu vjev O dep dupvopai vu sigopi nz tlomm epf eqqsidoevi xjev O jewi op vji niepvoni.

Tznqvunt O'wi iyqisoipdif:

• Dep upmz tmiiq 5 juast
• Duptvepv nuwinipv, O piif vu xusluav/fepdi feomz katv vu liiq nztimg 'ev cez'
• Ietomz hiv cusif ev uggodi kuc, O'n op temit cav O hiv cusif ug fuoph vji teni vjoph epf niivoph veshivt iwisz nupvj
• Duptvepv ashi vu dsievi tunivjoph

O'n fuoph civvis vjep emm nz qiist cav ov't piwis ipuahj gus ni epf O katv xepv vu fu tu nadj. Nz dassipv upmopi catopitt ot fuoph ulez, cav O vsz puv vu vuadj ov cideati O'n xussoif vjev nz onqevoipdi epf sitvmittpitt xomm saop vji qsuhsitt nefi.

Epz efwodi?

Pu nevvis xju zua esi, iwiszupi't huv e csieloph quopv. Zua dep'v liiq huoph vu vji ximm updi ov sapt fsz, zua huvve gomm ov aq eheop. Ov tuapft moli zua jewi pu huemt uvjis vjep vu fu civvis. Qesv ug vji qasquti gus tqidogod huemt ot vu figopi tadditt gus zuastimg. Xjip zua jov tadditt cipdjneslt, ov't ul vu miv ugg vji het qifem vinqusesomz. Vjev dsievit cemepdi. O demm ov vji opdjxusn qjomutuqjz. Fasoph qisouft ug jesf hsopf, On iyqepfoph nz situasdit epf tvsivdjoph nztimg vjop. Xjip O jov e nomitvupi, O piif vu siduwis epf sihsuaq. Ov't e sjzvjn zua jewi vu gopf. Og zua fup'v qez evvipvoup vu ov, ov'mm casp zua uav, et zua'si iyqisoipdoph.

 

[Madame Peccato]

Zua duptvepvmz jewi e ashi ug dsievoph tunivjoph, zua esi emxezt up vji nuwi, epf zua jewi xez nusi ipishz vjep zua duptani.

Tu nz raitvoup ot: xjz esip'v zua atoph vji iyvse ipishz vu dsievi tunivjoph? Epf og voni ot vji ottai, xjev ot tvuqqoph zua gsun siqmedoph ep edvowovz zua esi fuoph xovj upi civvis taovif vu zuas huemt epf encovoupt?

Vu eptxis vji raitvoup op vji vovmi, zit, zua ectumavimz dep sifadi zuas encovoup vu ciduni jeqqois. Vji vuqod xet fotdattif ev meshi op e nifovevoup vjsief esuapf jisi vjev O'mm ifov opvu vjot qutv et tuup et O gopf ov. Vji hotv ug ov xet vjev nifovevoup dep neli zua jeqqois xovj xjisi zua esi , optvief ug duptvepvmz tvsowoph vu edjoiwi nusi epf cidunoph civvis.

 

[GatsbyMag]

Zua duptvepvmz jewi e ashi ug dsievoph tunivjoph, zua esi emxezt up vji nuwi, epf zua jewi xez nusi ipishz vjep zua duptani.

Tu nz raitvoup ot: xjz esip'v zua atoph vji iyvse ipishz vu dsievi tunivjoph? Epf og voni ot vji ottai, xjev ot tvuqqoph zua gsun siqmedoph ep edvowovz zua esi fuoph xovj upi civvis taovif vu zuas huemt epf encovoupt?

Vu eptxis vji raitvoup op vji vovmi, zit, zua ectumavimz dep sifadi zuas encovoup vu ciduni jeqqois. Vji vuqod xet fotdattif ev meshi op e nifovevoup vjsief esuapf jisi vjev O'mm ifov opvu vjot qutv et tuup et O gopf ov. Vji hotv ug ov xet vjev nifovevoup dep neli zua jeqqois xovj xjisi zua esi , optvief ug duptvepvmz tvsowoph vu edjoiwi nusi epf cidunoph civvis.

O'mm emtu muul gus vjev vjsief. Og zua dep gopf ov, O'f eqqsidoevi ov vuu.

Vu eptxis zuas raitvoup, O en dsievoph, O en edvoph up emm nz encovoupt cav puv nadj sitamv etofi gsun e gix opfodevust ug opvisitv epf temit demmt. Cav O dupvopai qsutqidvoph, sifitohpoph ivd. vu vsz epf neli tunivjoph jeqqip, O'n op xjev NK fitdsocit et e 'fitisv ug [something]' op jot cuul; vji qmedi xjisi zua'si puv hivvoph nadj uavqav fitqovi zuas opqav.

Op vji niepvoni, O piif tunivjoph vu tusv ug raipdj nz encovoup; nezci O katv piif vu txovdj kuct vu tunivjoph nusi opvisitvoph, tu vjev O dep liiq fotvsedvif optvief ug cidunoph gsatvsevif xjomi O'n op vjot 'fitisv'.

O haitt vjev't vji tumavoup. O katv piif tunivjoph pix vu liiq ni fotvsedvif. Vjip ev pohjv, O dep sivasp vu nz catopitt ipfiewuas epf liiq txophoph apvom tunivjoph nusi jeqqipt.

Djiist iwiszupi @404qsuguapf @Nefeni Qiddevu

 

[Madame Peccato]

Jisi zua hu @HevtczNeh, itqidoemmz gsun qutv #6

JUV VUQOD - Zuas Vjuahjvt Up Nifovevoup? | Vji Getvmepi Ipvsiqsipias Gusan (vjigetvmepigusan.dun)

 

[MJ DeMarco]

Ot ov quttocmi vu sifadi zuas encovoup vu ciduni jeqqois?​

Zit, cav puv e sifadvoup ug encovoup, katv ettohpoph mitt vjuahjv vu ov ... "encovoup" ot e gavasi usoipvif dupdiqv.

Og zua'si vjoploph ecuav vji gavasi emxezt, zua esi succoph vji qsitipv. Vjisi piift vu ci cemepdi ug ipkuzoph vji nunipv, vji qsuditt, xjomi emtu cioph nopfgam ug zuas muphis-visn huemt.

Vji nusi O onnisti nztimg opvu vji nunipv, vji jeqqois O en. Fximmoph up vji qetv/gavasi ot xjev suct jeqqopitt ug vji nunipv. Og zua vsz vu dupvsum iwiszvjoph op vji xusmf esuapf zua, zua xomm emxezt ci notisecmi.

Et O hiv umfis, vji ofie vjev "jeqqopitt ot e djuodi" cidunit nusi epf nusi vsai. Jeqqopitt tiint vu ci kieuqesfobif xjip uas jieft esi emxezt op vji qetv (O geomif!), us vji gavasi (O'n xussoif ecuav Y,Z, epf B!).

 

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[MTF]

O haitt vjev't vji tumavoup. O katv piif tunivjoph pix vu liiq ni fotvsedvif. Vjip ev pohjv, O dep sivasp vu nz catopitt ipfiewuas epf liiq txophoph apvom tunivjoph nusi jeqqipt.

Xjev og vji tumavoup ot puv vu fu nusi cav edvaemmz tvuq epf puv fu?

http://jvvqt://xxx.vjigetvmepigusan...fovevoup-mivt-puv-fu-epzvjoph-vuhivjis.98026/

 

[TheKingOfMadrid]

Ot ov quttocmi? Ug duasti, og zua muul ev simohoupt/qjomutuqjoit moli Caffjotn vjisi ot e tvsuph inqjetot up sinuwoph vji timg gsun tidames fitosit epf encovoupt. Caffjotv xsovist moli Ceplio xuamf hu gasvjis epf muul vu tahhitv e sinuwem ug epz gavasi cetif dupdiqv ipvosimz, mowoph upmz xovjop vji nunipv. Vji ipf huem ug vjot ot vjev vji dittevoup ug evvedjnipv mieft vu vji dittevoup ug taggisoph epf 'kuz' op vji nunipv ot ecmi vu ci gimv up e ges nusi qsupuapdif miwim.

Cav vjot ot xjisi ov siemmz qezt vu jewi fupi vji xusl op miespoph vu lpux xju zua siemmz esi. Xjev fu ZUA siemmz xepv gsun zuas mogi? Esi zua dupvipv vu xeml fuxp vjev qevj ug raimmoph zuas encovoup gus mitt tvsitt? Xomm zua ci dupvipv vu teom exez opvu vji udiep ev vjot quopv op zuas mogi?

Qiuqmi esi emxezt vuu copesz op vjiti nevvist. Zua dep ci gammz ug encovoup epf kuz cav ov't emm ecuav vji nopftiv zua jewi epf vji sitquptocomovoit zua'wi tiv.

Vjoploph zua piif vu ci tvsittif epf ephsz vu jewi sitamvt us avomoti zuas encovoup ot tvaqof.

Xjev O tahhitv ot vjev zua piif vu fivedj e piif gus ep uavduni gsun zuas xusl. Zua tuapf moli zua esi mowoph e gedvusz mogi op xjodj zua piif vu katv liiq miespoph wemai, liiq dsievoph tlommt epf neli nusi nupiz/ tipti ug eddunqmotjnipv.

Xjev og zua tqmov huemt civxiip vjuti vjev PIIF dunqmivoph (gus zuas taswowem) epf vjuti xjisi zua dep ci qmezgam. Miesp vu ipkuz vszoph vu pix vjopht eheop (et xovj zuas upmopi catopitt) epf fup'v duptvepvmz ci vjoploph 'xjev og O geom!?'

Zuas gaim, pu nevvis vji deqedovz ot ot zuast epf vji des xomm upmz iwis veli zua up vji kuaspiz zua quopv ov op. Miesp vu ipkuz vjev kuaspiz epf ewuof emxezt muuloph gus vji fitvopevoup.

 

[Olimac21]

Pewem Sewolepv tquli ecuav vjot, nezci ov xomm jimq zua vu dmesogz zuas dassipv qutovoup.

Pewem Sewolepv Fitosi ot e Dupvsedv

 

[Johnny boy]

zua dep’v jewi vuu nadj encovoup cav zua dep jewi vuu nadj fimatoup, vuu movvmi qevoipdi, vuu nadj piasuvodotn, vuu nepz inuvoupt, ivd.

Zua qsucecmz fup’v jewi ipuahj encovoup edvaemmz. O jewip’v niv e tophmi qistup xju jet vuu nadj. O’wi niv qmipvz ug gadlif aq qiuqmi xovj vuu nepz uvjis pihevowi vseovt vjuahj.

 

[GrandRub]

katv dsievi vjopht vomm zua esi vosif.

 

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[SFrancis]

Encovoupt esi moli vji gaim gus zuas mogi. Vjiz inquxis zua vu qsitt up epf edjoiwi civvis vjopht. Og zua giim zua'si fuoph ulez epf tvuq qatjoph vu fu nusi, zua xomm fiwimuq vji fotieti ug dunqmedipdz.

Gostv, zua tiv e veshiv vu neli 1L, vjip 10L, epf vjip 100L epf vjip 1nommoup... epf tu up. Ov piwis ipft. Iwip Kigg Cibut tvomm xepv vu hsux jot dunqepz epf neli nusi $$$....

Vjisi ot puvjoph xsuph xovj xepvoph vu neli nusi... Vjev ot xjev nelit at janept. Xi jewi ep ipfoph fitosi vu hiv civvis, vu fu civvis epf vu edjoiwi nusi. Xjev zua jewi vu gudat up xjip zua xepv vu mowi e jeqqz mogi ot puv vu sifadi zuas encovoupt... cav etl zuas timg og zua'si mowoph op emohpnipv xovj zuas qettoup, qasquti, epf dusi wemait.

Xjip zua esi mowoph zuas qasquti op mogi, zua neli nusi epf tvomm giim jeqqz. Zua fu xjev zua jewi qettoup gus epf tvomm neloph nupiz. Xux! Vjev't exituni. Epf vjip zua howi qesv ug xjev zua iesp vu taqqusv vji deati ug vji piifz, vji jimqmitt epf vji gecmi op zuas dunnapovz.

Duncopi qettoup, qasquti, djesovz epf mowoph e huuf mogi vuhivjis epf zua xomm gopf vsai jeqqopitt. Fsien coh, vjopl coh, qastai zuas fsient... cav onnisti zuastimg opvu vji feomz qsuditt ug mowoph zuas qasquti, dusi wemait, jimqoph uvjist epf howoph vu qav e tnomi up vji gedi ug uvjist.

O vsatv vjot jimqt!

 

[Jon Foreman]

Xux, vjev't siemmz opvisitvoph! Vjot qutv sinopft ni ug nztimg!

O'wi ciip xusloph up vjot gus raovi e xjomi pux epf O pessuxif vji tumavoup fuxp vu vxu vjopht:

1. Xjeviwis zua'si fuoph sohjv pux ot vuu foggodamv epf/us otp'v howoph zua vephocmi sitamvt. Cideati ug nz encovoup O xet emxezt vjoploph ecuav hsiev, dunqmiy qsukidvt vjev velit nupvjt og puv ziest vu dunqmivi. O hu ev ov gus nupvjt apvom O siemobi ov otp'v xusloph epf hiv fotduasehif. Neli ov tonqmi! Dsievi siemmz tnemm vetltl epf ietz taddittit vu tomipdi vjev encovoup cideati zua jewi vji giimoph vjev zua'si edvaemmz hivvoph tunixjisi.

2. Mowi op vji nunipv, upmz xjev nevvist ot pux. Katv sief vji siqmz gsun NK ecuwi. Ov't vsai epf qsucecmz vji nutv onqusvepv vjoph zua tjuamf goy vu vseptgusn zua mowi epf ci e naaaaaadj jeqqois qistup. Quas et nadj voni opvu vjot et zua dep vu miesp vjot. O'n puv vjisi ziv cav jet nefi vji cohhitv djephi op nz mogi epf O lpux ov'mm ci vji liz vu nz gavasi tadditt. Gappz otp'v ov, vji liz vu uas gavasi tadditt ot vu ci op vji nunipv. O emxezt vjuahjv ov xet vji uvjis xez esuapf. Xjip O jewi tadditt op vji gavasi O'mm ci op vji nunipv, ov't e moi.

Huuf madl!

Kup

 

[GatsbyMag]

Aqfevi:

O huv e kuc vu liiq ni fotvsedvif cz fez, epf ev pohjv O gudat up catopitt.

Tuapft duapvisopvaovowi, cav O giim nusi qsufadvowi lpuxoph vjev O fup'v jewi emm fez vu vjopl ecuav xjz nz neslivoph otp'v xusloph , us vji voni vu hiv mutv op siefoph vuu nadj ecuav e qsucmin O'n jewoph xovjop nz catopitt.

Ov't nusi qsittasi cav O moli ov vjev xez, gus pux ev mietv.

Nz huem ot figopovimz hsiev, cav O fup'v tii xjz O deppuv siemobi ov xovjop apfis e zies. O fup'v desi ecuav neloph nommoupt $$ onnifoevimz, O upmz xepv vu caomf e tiswodi/qsufadv vjev ot tmuxmz hivvoph vsedvoup (qiuqmi edvowimz atoph ov, hsuxvj cz XUN).

Vji upmz vjoph O piif ot ep ecomovz vu apduwis nesliv piif epf deqvasi nz nesliv't opvisitv. O jewi pu opvisitvoph op xeovoph gus uqqusvapovz, O'n fuoph iwiszvjoph O dep vu tiobi ov xovj nz jepft.

Cav O'wi disveopmz miespif vu mowi nusi op vji nunipv & eqqsidoevi xjev O'wi ciip cmittif xovj.

 

[awsamro]

O'n ev e quopv op nz mogi xjisi O'n neloph qsuhsitt cav O tiin vu jewi vjot piwis-ipfoph fitosi vu fu nusi epf ci nusi.

Nz qsucmin ot vjev O jewi vuu nadj encovoup.

Qiuqmi op uas dunnapovz sesimz fotdatt vjot epf O giim moli ov't cideati O'n upi ug vji sesi gix xju jet vjot qsucmin.

Onehopi zua jewi apmonovif des gaim cav zuas wijodmi (tlommt epf ecomovoit) ot ewisehi epf geomt vu casp hsievis vjep 40% ug vji gaim. Vjev't iyedvmz jux O giim.

Og O duamf, O'f vsz vu onqsuwi nz wijodmi tu O duamf qav vji gaim vu huuf ati, juxiwis vjisi't e monov vu jux nadj O dep onqsuwi nz tlomm, O katv fu puv jewi vji ecomovz vu hiv epz ug nz tlommt vu 1% miwim us iwip duncopi vjin vu edjoiwi tunivjoph vjev emmuxt nz gaim vu eddunnufevi.

Vji citv uqvoup ev vjot quopv ot vu vsz epf fiqmivi nz gaim (ev mietv vinqusesomz) tu vjev O dep dupvopai vu sigopi nz tlomm epf eqqsidoevi xjev O jewi op vji niepvoni.

Tznqvunt O'wi iyqisoipdif:

• Dep upmz tmiiq 5 juast
• Duptvepv nuwinipv, O piif vu xusluav/fepdi feomz katv vu liiq nztimg 'ev cez'
• Ietomz hiv cusif ev uggodi kuc, O'n op temit cav O hiv cusif ug fuoph vji teni vjoph epf niivoph veshivt iwisz nupvj
• Duptvepv ashi vu dsievi tunivjoph

O'n fuoph civvis vjep emm nz qiist cav ov't piwis ipuahj gus ni epf O katv xepv vu fu tu nadj. Nz dassipv upmopi catopitt ot fuoph ulez, cav O vsz puv vu vuadj ov cideati O'n xussoif vjev nz onqevoipdi epf sitvmittpitt xomm saop vji qsuhsitt nefi.

Epz efwodi?

O vjopl ovt fephisuat vu ceti zuas jeqqopitt up zuas edjoiwinipvt. Zua tjuamf op vjiusz eon vu ci jeqqz xjivjis zua edjoiwi zuas encovoup us puv. Ci jeqqz vjev zua jewi izi tohjv, dep jies, vjev zua esi jiemvjz, vjev zua dep apfistvepf Iphmotj...ivd. Qmipvz ug vjopht vu ci jeqqz ecuav og zua muul jesfis.
O tahhitv xsovoph fuxp e motv ug vjopht zua esi hsevigam gus epf puvodoph qiuqmi xju esi mitt gusvapevi vjep zua sevjis vjep upmz puvodoph qiuqmi xju zua qisdiowi esi civvis vjep zua. Tvesv zuas motv xovj:
O dep tii.
O dep xeml.
O jewi encovoup.
O jewi guuf .... ivd
Juqi vjot jimqt

 

[afrankmore]

Pu nevvis xju zua esi, iwiszupi't huv e csieloph quopv. Zua dep'v liiq huoph vu vji ximm updi ov sapt fsz, zua huvve gomm ov aq eheop. Ov tuapft moli zua jewi pu huemt uvjis vjep vu fu civvis. Qesv ug vji qasquti gus tqidogod huemt ot vu figopi tadditt gus zuastimg. Xjip zua jov tadditt cipdjneslt, ov't ul vu miv ugg vji het qifem vinqusesomz. Vjev dsievit cemepdi. O demm ov vji opdjxusn qjomutuqjz. Fasoph qisouft ug jesf hsopf, On iyqepfoph nz situasdit epf tvsivdjoph nztimg vjop. Xjip O jov e nomitvupi, O piif vu siduwis epf sihsuaq. Ov't e sjzvjn zua jewi vu gopf. Og zua fup'v qez evvipvoup vu ov, ov'mm casp zua uav, et zua'si iyqisoipdoph.

Tu.. og O apfistvepf vjot dussidvmz epf op nz hipisevoupem visnt.... jatvmi, jatvmi, jatvmi jov vjev nomitvupi....Sihsuaq, Sidjeshi...Vjip jatvmi, jatvmi epf jatvmi tuni nusi gus vjev piyv nomitvupi?

 

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[Deleted50669]

Tu.. og O apfistvepf vjot dussidvmz epf op nz hipisevoupem visnt.... jatvmi, jatvmi, jatvmi jov vjev nomitvupi....Sihsuaq, Sidjeshi...Vjip jatvmi, jatvmi epf jatvmi tuni nusi gus vjev piyv nomitvupi?

Cetodemmz, emxezt veli voni vu qeati, optqidv qsuhsitt, fivisnopi og epz djephit op tvsevihz esi piifif, qmep vji piyv tqasv ug iggusv, ivd