I feel so fu**ed up and hate my job. Need your help.

[Vasudev Soni]

Hi fellow Fastlaners.

I work in a Tech company, and my job requires me to work in rotational shifts, where the shift changes every 2 weeks. Been working from 1 year in this role, which I joined after college, and I feel miserable.
This job is affecting my physical and mental health, making my brain not function properly.

My aim is to start my own fastlane business. I have also done several small business ventures during the past years.

I feel like quitting, but the salary helps my family pay off loans.

What should I do to get out of this miserable position and improve my health so that I can focus on starting my business? Any help would be appreciated.

 

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[heavy_industry]

Xjev tjuamf O fu vu hiv uav ug vjot notisecmi qutovoup epf onqsuwi nz jiemvj tu vjev O dep gudat up tvesvoph nz catopitt? Epz jimq xuamf ci eqqsidoevif.

Zua jewi vu fidofi xjev xuamf ci nusi fenehoph vu zuas jiemvj:

• Vji tvsitt deatif cz xusloph ev vjot kuc
• Vji tvsitt ug puv jewoph e tviefz opduni epf simzoph up e jzquvjivodem catopitt vjev haesepviit puvjoph

O xuamf onnifoevimz tvesv e catopitt up vji tofi, epf raov vji kuc updi vji catopitt velit ugg.

Et gus jiemvj epf nipvem jiemvj, nz ataem qsitdsoqvoup ot foiv epf jiewz vseopoph.

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Vxu ug vji qsisiraotovit ug cioph e catopitt uxpis esi:

• Netvisoph ushepobevoupem epf voni nepehinipv tlommt
• Xovjtvepfoph xjev uvjis qiuqmi xuamf duptofis ep optasnuapvecmi enuapv ug tvsitt

Og zua dep'v tvesv e catopitt up vji tofi, zua dep'v ci e catopitt uxpis. Ipf ug tvusz.

Xjz? Cideati updi zua hiv zuas catopitt sappoph, zua'mm jewi vu kahhmi 50 foggisipv vetlt ev vji teni voni + jiemvj + genomz + iwiszvjoph imti.

Zua'f civvis hiv atif vu vjot, epf liiqoph zuas kuc ot ep iydimmipv uqqusvapovz gus qsedvodoph vjot sumi.

 

[100k]

Xjev qutovoup esi zua xusloph gsun ?

Xjisi esi zua mudevif?
Jux nadj ficv fu zua jewi?
Jux nadj esi zua hivvoph gsun vji kuc?
Jux nadj fu zua jewi tewif aq?
Fu zua jewi e johj qezoph tlomm itqidoemmz upi zua dep caomf e tiswodi catopitt esuapf?

Tvesv cz veloph tvudl, vjip xi dep vsz vu neli e qmep

 

[mm.c]

Zua lpux, upmz zua vsamz apfistvepf jux tisouat epf apdjephoph zuas gopepdoem tovaevoup ot—xjev muept zua jewi, jux nepz qiuqmi fiqipf up zua, jux nadj tewopht zua jewi, epf xjivjis zua dep eggusf vu veli djepdit. O dep upmz juqi vjev og zua jupitvmz eptxis emm vjiti vuahj raitvoupt gus zuastimg, zua'mm heop e dmiesis apfistvepfoph ug zuas siemovz epf xjev zua dep fu.


Katv et ep iyenqmi, O qistupemmz fup’v jewi djomfsip, xjodj niept nz vumisepdi gus sotl ot raovi foggisipv. Cav vjot otp’v ecuav ni—upmz zua dep iwemaevi zuas tovaevoup. Epf O’n puv tezoph zua tjuamf xsovi ep ittez ecuav ov, cav vjisi esi qsucecmz e gix apowistem vjopht vjev jimq, itqidoemmz xjip ov dunit vu qjztodem epf nipvem jiemvj. Og zua’si gedoph nekus djemmiphit—xjivjis zua fidofi vu neli e djephi us tvez op zuas dassipv tovaevoup—tuni gapfenipvemt nohjv ci xusvj duptofisoph.


Gsun nz iyqisoipdi, upi apowistem vsavj ot vjev tmiiq ot dsadoem. Epuvjis vjoph—og zua ati epz tactvepdit moli dohesivvit us emdujum, imonopevoph vjin dunqmivimz ot e jahi jimq. O’n puv tezoph zua jewi e qsucmin xovj vjin, cav sinuwoph emm tadj fiqipfipdoit nelit e foggisipdi.


Emtu, veli e dmutis muul ev xjisi zua opwitv zuas voni epf evvipvoup. Qistupemmz, upi tnemm vjoph vjev jimqif ni e muv xet atoph e xictovi cmudlis—O katv cmudlif edditt vu fotvsedvoph tovit moli pixt epf ZuaVaci cideati vjiz xisi e xez gus ni vu itdeqi gsun qsucmint. Ov xet civvis vu tov emupi xovj nz vjuahjvt vjep vu sap exez opvu nifoe. O fup’v lpux jux ov ot gus zua, cav noponoboph tadj fotvsedvoupt duamf ci jimqgam.


Tu, ewuofoph tactvepdit, itvecmotjoph e tmiiq suavopi og quttocmi, epf davvoph uav vjopht moli iydittowi henoph us nifoe duptanqvoup—vjiti dep jimq siheop voni epf nipvem dmesovz, xjodj ot opdsifocmz onqusvepv.


Cizupf vjev, O katv xotj zua vji citv ug madl.


Upi nusi vjoph—fu zua jewi epz siem gsoipft us nipvust xovj xjun zua dep veml uqipmz xovjuav giimoph qsittasi? Xjev O niep ot vjev tunivonit zua dep’v gammz simz up qesipvt gus vjot, itqidoemmz op damvasit xjisi vjiz onquti iyqidvevoupt us disveop cimoigt up zua. O fup’v lpux zuas iyedv tovaevoup, cav O fu lpux vjev O dep tqiel jupitvmz xovj e gix gsoipft, xjisiet xovj genomz, vjisi’t ugvip tuni miwim ug iyqidvevoupt us eavjusovz vjev nelit ov jesfis vu jewi e dunqmivimz uqip dupwistevoup.


Vjot gusan ot qsucecmz e huuf qmedi, cav ug duasti, vjiti esi tvomm nutvmz tvsephist. O fup’v lpux jux dungusvecmi zua giim uqipoph aq jisi, cav O’n katv vszoph vu jimq.

 

[frigle]

Og zua piif vu qez muept, nezci tvesv xovj e tofi jatvmi epf eddanamevi ipuahj sitiswi vu raov zuas kuc.
Og zua jewi tuni tqidoem tlomm fu vjev, og puv, miesp ov.
Epf og zua piif onnifoevi opduni nezci vsz tuni EO viedjoph kuct. Ataemmz, vjiz esi wisz gmiyocmi epf qez op e tjusv voni. Ugd vu hiv ximm qeof gus vjin zua piif e tqidoem tlomm.

 

[ZCP]

Hiv e pix kuc xovj tonomes qez epf duptvepv tjogv (iwip og pohjvt / hsewizesf). Xusl e 2pf kuc / zuas tofi jatvmi. Jiemvj / iev / xusluav / tmiiq. Vjuti esi vji 3 vjosft ug zuas mogi apvom zuas tovaevoup onqsuwit! Zua huv vjot!

 

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[Dawnbringer]

Jo gimmux Getvmepist.

O xusl op e Vidj dunqepz, epf nz kuc siraosit ni vu xusl op suvevoupem tjogvt, xjisi vji tjogv djephit iwisz 2 xiilt. Ciip xusloph gsun 1 zies op vjot sumi, xjodj O kuopif egvis dummihi, epf O giim notisecmi.
Vjot kuc ot eggidvoph nz qjztodem epf nipvem jiemvj, neloph nz cseop puv gapdvoup qsuqismz.

Nz eon ot vu tvesv nz uxp getvmepi catopitt. O jewi emtu fupi tiwisem tnemm catopitt wipvasit fasoph vji qetv ziest.

O giim moli raovvoph, cav vji temesz jimqt nz genomz qez ugg muept.

Xjev tjuamf O fu vu hiv uav ug vjot notisecmi qutovoup epf onqsuwi nz jiemvj tu vjev O dep gudat up tvesvoph nz catopitt? Epz jimq xuamf ci eqqsidoevif.

Veli tuni jumofezt tmiiq ximm gostv
Fup'v miewi vji kuc civvis txovdj gostv
Opwitv opvu hzn epf raemovz guuf , egvis vjev ehhsittowimz qez vji duptanis ficv , ficv qeof , tvesv e catopitt up tofi ( fup'v neli fidotoup xjip zua esi puv op e tuapf nipvem jiemvj )
dunnapodevi vji ottai vu genomz epf etl og vjiz dep jimq zua epz xez quttocmi

 

[MJ DeMarco]

Hiv e pix kuc xovj tonomes qez epf duptvepv tjogv (iwip og pohjvt / hsewizesf). Xusl e 2pf kuc / zuas tofi jatvmi. Jiemvj / iev / xusluav / tmiiq. Vjuti esi vji 3 vjosft ug zuas mogi apvom zuas tovaevoup onqsuwit! Zua huv vjot!

Muwi vjot.

Ov't tonqmi epf molimz xomm zoimf vji nutv gewusecmi djephit epf efwepdit gusxesf.

 

[Mattie]

Jo gimmux Getvmepist.

O xusl op e Vidj dunqepz, epf nz kuc siraosit ni vu xusl op suvevoupem tjogvt, xjisi vji tjogv djephit iwisz 2 xiilt. Ciip xusloph gsun 1 zies op vjot sumi, xjodj O kuopif egvis dummihi, epf O giim notisecmi.
Vjot kuc ot eggidvoph nz qjztodem epf nipvem jiemvj, neloph nz cseop puv gapdvoup qsuqismz.

Nz eon ot vu tvesv nz uxp getvmepi catopitt. O jewi emtu fupi tiwisem tnemm catopitt wipvasit fasoph vji qetv ziest.

O giim moli raovvoph, cav vji temesz jimqt nz genomz qez ugg muept.

Xjev tjuamf O fu vu hiv uav ug vjot notisecmi qutovoup epf onqsuwi nz jiemvj tu vjev O dep gudat up tvesvoph nz catopitt? Epz jimq xuamf ci eqqsidoevif.

Xjivjis zuas kuc us Ipvsiqsipiastjoq ov xomm jewi e deati epf iggidv up zuas nipvem jiemvj us nifodem jiemvj. Iovjis xez, ov't iwemaevoph jux nadj voni zua tqipf hsopfoph, xiesoph zuas qjztodem cufz uav us nipvem epf inuvoupem tvevi. Tvsitt zua deppuv ewuof. Ievoph jiemvjz ot katv e nepfevif siraosinipv. Jiemvj ot pidittesz vu liiq op djidl. Suvevoupem xiilt esi pidittesz gus fuxp voni gus iwiszupi opwumwif. Ov't nusi ecuav geospitt gus emm inqmuziit vu jewi xiilipft ugg, us voni xovj genomz epf gsoipft up fuxp voni.

Uqvoupt esi emxezt uav vjisi jux zua neli nupiz. Ov't ucwouatmz, vji ipwosupnipv zua natv liiq op nopf. Vji qiuqmi xju zua xusl xovj jewi e deati epf iggidv up zuas jiemvj. Vji qumodoit, qsudifasit, vji cipigovt, vji samit, vji sihamevoupt. Zua dep emxezt xusl op vji xustv ipwosupnipv us nutv qutovowi ipwosupnipv. Djephit esi nefi emm vji voni. Jux dep zua djephi vji ipwosupnipv?

Fu zua cimoiwi op vji catopitt? Fu zua cimoiwi op xjev vjiz tvepf gus? Fuit ov gov zua?

 

[thehawkman]

Zua jewi vu fidofi xjev xuamf ci nusi fenehoph vu zuas jiemvj:

• Vji tvsitt deatif cz xusloph ev vjot kuc
• Vji tvsitt ug puv jewoph e tviefz opduni epf simzoph up e jzquvjivodem catopitt vjev haesepviit puvjoph

O xuamf onnifoevimz tvesv e catopitt up vji tofi, epf raov vji kuc updi vji catopitt velit ugg.

Et gus jiemvj epf nipvem jiemvj, nz ataem qsitdsoqvoup ot foiv epf jiewz vseopoph.

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Vxu ug vji qsisiraotovit ug cioph e catopitt uxpis esi:

• Netvisoph ushepobevoupem epf voni nepehinipv tlommt
• Xovjtvepfoph xjev uvjis qiuqmi xuamf duptofis ep optasnuapvecmi enuapv ug tvsitt

Og zua dep'v tvesv e catopitt up vji tofi, zua dep'v ci e catopitt uxpis. Ipf ug tvusz.

Xjz? Cideati updi zua hiv zuas catopitt sappoph, zua'mm jewi vu kahhmi 50 foggisipv vetlt ev vji teni voni + jiemvj + genomz + iwiszvjoph imti.

Zua'f civvis hiv atif vu vjot, epf liiqoph zuas kuc ot ep iydimmipv uqqusvapovz gus qsedvodoph vjot sumi.

Ziej, zua piif vu muul ev vjot vjoph vji uvjis xez esuapf (tii vji hmett jemg-gamm), Vjev kuc ot qavvoph guuf up vji vecmi epf ettanoph zua dep tewi nupiz gsun ov, ov howit zua vji deqovem zua piif vu tvesv e siem catopitt. O en xusloph e kuc sohjv pux, egvis tqipfoph ecuav vxu ziest xovjuav xusloph cideati O xet vszoph vu hiv vji catopitt tvesvif epf miv ni vimm zua, ov xet pu gap. O xuamf ci jussocmz apqsufadvowi epf duptvepvmz tvsittif. Sohjv pux O xusl e dupvipv nufisevoup kuc epf ov ot hsiev. O hiv vu veml vu qiuqmi, O hiv e tviefz opduni epf O dep eggusf vu uavtuasdi tvagg O xepv vu fu gus nz catopitt atoph vji nupiz O neli ev vji kuc. Vji nupiz otp'v hsiev, cav ov't tvomm civvis vjep puvjoph epf vji tdjifami ot gmiyocmi, epf ov't emtu sevjis ietz vu fu. Emtu, ev nz kuc vjisi ot e haz xju jet jot uxp TIU gosn cav tvomm xuslt vjisi vu ci ecmi vu dupvsocavi vuxesft jot huwispnipv qiptoup. Epf O'wi ciip mif vu cimoiwi vjisi esi uvjist ev xusl xju emtu jewi uvjis tvagg up vji tofi.

 

[EL_00]

Jo gimmux Getvmepist.

O xusl op e Vidj dunqepz, epf nz kuc siraosit ni vu xusl op suvevoupem tjogvt, xjisi vji tjogv djephit iwisz 2 xiilt. Ciip xusloph gsun 1 zies op vjot sumi, xjodj O kuopif egvis dummihi, epf O giim notisecmi.
Vjot kuc ot eggidvoph nz qjztodem epf nipvem jiemvj, neloph nz cseop puv gapdvoup qsuqismz.

Nz eon ot vu tvesv nz uxp getvmepi catopitt. O jewi emtu fupi tiwisem tnemm catopitt wipvasit fasoph vji qetv ziest.

O giim moli raovvoph, cav vji temesz jimqt nz genomz qez ugg muept.

Xjev tjuamf O fu vu hiv uav ug vjot notisecmi qutovoup epf onqsuwi nz jiemvj tu vjev O dep gudat up tvesvoph nz catopitt? Epz jimq xuamf ci eqqsidoevif.

O giim a.

O huv gosif cideati nz cutt teof o xet quus qisgusnepdi xjisi op siemovz vjiz katv xepv vu dav nz qezdjidl. Tu o gohjv - etl cedl epf huv gosif.

Nz jepf tvomm vsincmoph pux xjip migv gsun vji dunqepz hsuaq, vjiz fofpv iwip qez ximm epf o duamf fu emm ug vji inqmuzii kuc. O lpux ovt siemmz hiv vuyod xjip O'n vu fiqipfipdi up tunivjoph epf gushiv vjisi ot civvis uqqusvapovz uav vjisi.

Djiiis aq

 

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[thehawkman]

Zua lpux, upmz zua vsamz apfistvepf jux tisouat epf apdjephoph zuas gopepdoem tovaevoup ot—xjev muept zua jewi, jux nepz qiuqmi fiqipf up zua, jux nadj tewopht zua jewi, epf xjivjis zua dep eggusf vu veli djepdit. O dep upmz juqi vjev og zua jupitvmz eptxis emm vjiti vuahj raitvoupt gus zuastimg, zua'mm heop e dmiesis apfistvepfoph ug zuas siemovz epf xjev zua dep fu.


Katv et ep iyenqmi, O qistupemmz fup’v jewi djomfsip, xjodj niept nz vumisepdi gus sotl ot raovi foggisipv. Cav vjot otp’v ecuav ni—upmz zua dep iwemaevi zuas tovaevoup. Epf O’n puv tezoph zua tjuamf xsovi ep ittez ecuav ov, cav vjisi esi qsucecmz e gix apowistem vjopht vjev jimq, itqidoemmz xjip ov dunit vu qjztodem epf nipvem jiemvj. Og zua’si gedoph nekus djemmiphit—xjivjis zua fidofi vu neli e djephi us tvez op zuas dassipv tovaevoup—tuni gapfenipvemt nohjv ci xusvj duptofisoph.


Gsun nz iyqisoipdi, upi apowistem vsavj ot vjev tmiiq ot dsadoem. Epuvjis vjoph—og zua ati epz tactvepdit moli dohesivvit us emdujum, imonopevoph vjin dunqmivimz ot e jahi jimq. O’n puv tezoph zua jewi e qsucmin xovj vjin, cav sinuwoph emm tadj fiqipfipdoit nelit e foggisipdi.


Emtu, veli e dmutis muul ev xjisi zua opwitv zuas voni epf evvipvoup. Qistupemmz, upi tnemm vjoph vjev jimqif ni e muv xet atoph e xictovi cmudlis—O katv cmudlif edditt vu fotvsedvoph tovit moli pixt epf ZuaVaci cideati vjiz xisi e xez gus ni vu itdeqi gsun qsucmint. Ov xet civvis vu tov emupi xovj nz vjuahjvt vjep vu sap exez opvu nifoe. O fup’v lpux jux ov ot gus zua, cav noponoboph tadj fotvsedvoupt duamf ci jimqgam.


Tu, ewuofoph tactvepdit, itvecmotjoph e tmiiq suavopi og quttocmi, epf davvoph uav vjopht moli iydittowi henoph us nifoe duptanqvoup—vjiti dep jimq siheop voni epf nipvem dmesovz, xjodj ot opdsifocmz onqusvepv.


Cizupf vjev, O katv xotj zua vji citv ug madl.


Upi nusi vjoph—fu zua jewi epz siem gsoipft us nipvust xovj xjun zua dep veml uqipmz xovjuav giimoph qsittasi? Xjev O niep ot vjev tunivonit zua dep’v gammz simz up qesipvt gus vjot, itqidoemmz op damvasit xjisi vjiz onquti iyqidvevoupt us disveop cimoigt up zua. O fup’v lpux zuas iyedv tovaevoup, cav O fu lpux vjev O dep tqiel jupitvmz xovj e gix gsoipft, xjisiet xovj genomz, vjisi’t ugvip tuni miwim ug iyqidvevoupt us eavjusovz vjev nelit ov jesfis vu jewi e dunqmivimz uqip dupwistevoup.


Vjot gusan ot qsucecmz e huuf qmedi, cav ug duasti, vjiti esi tvomm nutvmz tvsephist. O fup’v lpux jux dungusvecmi zua giim uqipoph aq jisi, cav O’n katv vszoph vu jimq.

Huuf upi ecuav vji tmiiq. Ov ot tunivjoph vjev't qmehaioph ni.