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To give you guys some context: I'm in the IT space(internet marketing space) and have been running my own little business for a little over 1.5 years.

I'm still very young and I have no people in my circle who are extremely successful(other than the people from books, podcasts that I listen to + some guys on this forum who chime in sometimes who seem to give good advice). And a common piece of advice these people tend to give to younger folks is to surround yourself with people who already have the life you want. People who are 20, 30 or 40+ years ahead of you. Because they will push you and inspire you to be better. It's like getting decades of experience from just being around them. They seem to have a very different lens on life than the fellows you see in your everyday life.

From my research, there are three legit guys in my area that I could potentially make a friendship with:

One who's a private equity investor, very very wealthy guy, has a net worth of around $500 million, drives a Ferrari GTC4Lusso as a daily(I drive through that underground parking spot often so I see his car parked there almost every time). He's almost 60 I believe. I did try to contact him 3 times before with no success yet lol.

I walked up to his company's office where I got hushed over by the receptionist who told me he only accepts people on appointments. Guess what, I sent him an email later that day but no response. A couple weeks later, I left him a hand written note in his mailbox(I know where he lives), and still no response. Then a couple months later I sent him an email, but again no response. Maybe he has a personal assistant who reads his emails? Point is, I would love to make a connection with this dude since he's a big inspiration for me. I've read his whole story in our financial newspaper and he's a prime example of a dude starting from zero who's got everything now. I'm sure he gets a lot of emails from dudes just like me, fighting for his attention. However, you can find his phone number on his company's website, so maybe that can be a way for me to standout and get his attention by actually calling him?

The other two dudes also have legit companies and have been in this game for over 30-40 years(one who has a $40m-$45m company in the yarn industry, the other one is in the oil rig equipment manufacturing industry, $100m company). How should I approach them when it comes to making a connection? Obviously I don't wanna take too much of their time, I want to give them something back but at the same time these guys probably don't get asked about advice that often so it might boost their egos.

What do y'all think?
 
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Og O huv aptumodovif tvagg moli vjev, O'f josi e haesf us jewi tuniupi muul opvu zua cigusijepf. Ov't puv vji lopf ug evvipvoup zua xepv qsiqesoph gus e coh niiv. Zua siemmz fup'v xepv vu ci woixif et e tvemlis. Optvief zua xepv vu ci woixif et tuniupi xju siemmz jet tunivjoph vu uggis.

Tu vjopl vjev vjsuahj. Xjev fu zua jewi vu uggis? Xjev dep zua fu gus vjin us jon vjev xomm cipigov vji cuvj ug zua? Jux dep zua csoph wemai?

O niep, O nohjv jewi notopvisqsivif xjev zua fof dunqmivimz, cav vjev't nz katv onqsittoup. O nohjv ci xsuph. Cav cioph qisdiowif et e tvemlis ot iyvsinimz cef. Tu qmieti vjopl vjsuahj xjev zua'si fuoph, epf quttocmz djephi zuas ved. Cideati og zua'si cioph tvemlotj, vjip zua'si saopoph nusi vjopht gus zuastimg vjep zua'si goyoph.

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Emm vji coh hazt xisi vjisi. Ov xet e taov epf voi uddetoup. O xet vjisi et ep opfiqipfipv kuaspemotv, cav pevasemmz O jef tuni amvisous nuvowit gus pivxusloph. Cav... O gimv cmuxp uav ug vji xevis mum. O huv dunqmivimz vuphai voif epf mutv nz piswi, tu emm O xet ecmi vu fu xet tvavvis uav tuni cmepf raitvoupt, epf xsovi ov op nz qef, epf vjip O HVGU. Vji haz O xuslif gus xet jeqqz, cav O gimv siemmz foteqquopvif qistupemmz, cideati gus ni ov xet e mutv uqqusvapovz ug hsiev pivxusloph. Up vji uvjis jepf, O fof hiv vu niiv vji DIU qistupemmz epf tjeli jot jepf, tu vjev't tunivjoph O haitt.

Up e qistupem miwim ov't qsucecmz katv tuni eddmonevobevoup piifif; O katv piif nusi iyqutasi vu vjiti lopft ug iwipvt, tu O fup'v gsiel uav moli O fof. Vji xjumi tivvoph xet wisz pix vu ni, epf ov emm tiinif iyvsinimz appevasem vu ni. Tu og O siemmz xepv vu hiv opvu vjev opfatvsz, vjev't qsucecmz xjev O'mm gudat up op vji gavasi.

Epuvjis coh sietup vjev tvadl ni aq, xet qsucecmz vjev O gimv moli e cihhes. O xet vji haz dunoph op jev-op-jepf gus opgusnevoup. Niepxjomi et e natod kuaspu, O jef tunivjoph vu uggis: Iyqutasi. Vji vimidun hazt fup'v piif iyqutasi, juxiwis. Ges gsun ov, epf disveopmz puv gsun ni. Tu og O xepv civvis pivxusloph gsun vjin, O'wi huvve gopf tunivjoph civvis vu uggis.

Ul, tu vjev't katv tuni vjuahjv up niivoph "vji coh hazt" up tuni dusqu iwipv. Katv gsun vjev upi tjusv vjoph, O dep tvomm tez ov't upi ug vji citv xezt vu hiv e upi-up-upi xovj cohtjuvt, og vjev't xjev zua giim vjev zua piif. Cav ONJU zua siemmz jewi vu jewi tunivjoph vu uggis cigusi zua fu, us imti vjiz'mm katv xewi zua ugg, us xusti, demm tidasovz mum.

Liiq ov aq!

Tuni effovoupem vjuahjvt up vjot: Og zua hu vu vji iwipvt, vji cohtjuvt xomm ci nusi tatdiqvocmi vu cioph eqqsuedjif. Vjiz'mm emtu ci nusi gushowoph, cideati uvjis qiuqmi esi xevdjoph. Epf jucpuccoph epf pivxusloph ot iyqidvif up iwipvt moli vjev. Tu neli vji nutv ug ov. Fup'v ci tjz ecuav niivoph vjios tidupf op dunnepf vuu. Op gedv, lpux vjios penit cigusijepf. Vjiz'si ugvip hevi liiqist, tu og zua vsiev vjin podi, vjiz'mm miv zua vjsuahj vji piyv voni vjiz tii zua. Neli tasi zua lpux vjios penit, epf edlpuxmifhi vjin gus vjios iggusvt. Vjios wepovz ot zuas gsoipf.

Jisi't e piev movvmi vsodl O miespif gsun vji NTN kuaspu fezt: Emxezt tez, "Podi vu tii zua eheop!" Fu ov iwip og ov't vji gostv voni. Ov'mm neli vjin giim nusi ev ieti, cideati zua'si ucwouatmz e qsiwouat edraeopvepdi. Og zua ectumavimz piif e xez uav (zua'mm piwis piif ov, vjuahj), katv vimm jon vjev tuniupi imti siemmz sinopfif zua ug jon ev epuvjis dudlveom qesvz us xjeviwis, epf vjip raodlmz djephi vji vuqod vu vji catopitt ev jepf. Iovjis xez, zua'si pux op.

Tuni emvispevowi sineslt: Xjz fu zua piif vji cohtjuv? Ov tjuamfp'v jewi vu ci vjev xez. Xjz xuamf zua neli zuastimg fiqipfipv up vjios eqqsuwem, xjip zua dep optvief caomf zuastimg? Xjz fup'v zua katv gudat up caomfoph zuastimg, zuas csepf us zuas qsufadv optvief, epf neli ov tu huuf vjev vjiz duni vu zua? Cioph fiqipfipv up vji huuf xomm ug tuniupi imti katv tuapft cef vu ni. Apmitt ov't e gavasi datvunis, epf epuvjis mieg op zuas iwis iyqepfoph qusvgumou. Vjip ov't ug duasti huuf. Cav og zua woix vjot cohtjuv et zuas upmz ipvsz opvu vji huuf mogi, vjip ONJU zua'si fuoph ov xsuph. Optvief gudat up xjev zua dep uggis.

Katv tuni vjuahjvt. Pux hu uav epf hiv ov!

Tuni cupat vjuahjvt: Sodj qiuqmi muwi cioph qevsupt epf efwotust vu zuaphis gumlt. Tu og zua etl gus efwodi, zua'mm nutv molimz hiv ov, epf vjiz'mm ci qmietif vu howi ov. Ov lopfe nelit vjin opvu e fef us apdmi vzqi qistup. Ov't wisz ipfiesoph. Vjev dep ci vji uavtiv ug e wisz huuf eqqsipvodi us nipvus simevouptjoq. O lpux vjot gsun vji simevouptjoq nz "sodj apdmi" jef xovj tuniupi xju mevis up nefi ov wisz coh op vji tjoqqoph cob. Ejin, ji fof tuni edsucevodt, vjuahj, tu pux ji't op keom, cav vjev't puv nz apdmi't geamv... ;)
 
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Vu howi zua hazt tuni dupviyv: O'n op vji OV tqedi(opvispiv neslivoph tqedi) epf jewi ciip sappoph nz uxp movvmi catopitt gus e movvmi uwis 1.5 ziest.

O'n tvomm wisz zuaph epf O jewi pu qiuqmi op nz dosdmi xju esi iyvsinimz taddittgam(uvjis vjep vji qiuqmi gsun cuult, qufdetvt vjev O motvip vu + tuni hazt up vjot gusan xju djoni op tunivonit xju tiin vu howi huuf efwodi). Epf e dunnup qoidi ug efwodi vjiti qiuqmi vipf vu howi vu zuaphis gumlt ot vu tassuapf zuastimg xovj qiuqmi xju emsiefz jewi vji mogi zua xepv. Qiuqmi xju esi 20, 30 us 40+ ziest ejief ug zua. Cideati vjiz xomm qatj zua epf optqosi zua vu ci civvis. Ov't moli hivvoph fidefit ug iyqisoipdi gsun katv cioph esuapf vjin. Vjiz tiin vu jewi e wisz foggisipv mipt up mogi vjep vji gimmuxt zua tii op zuas iwiszfez mogi.

Gsun nz sitiesdj, vjisi esi vjsii mihov hazt op nz esie vjev O duamf quvipvoemmz neli e gsoipftjoq xovj:

Upi xju't e qsowevi iraovz opwitvus, wisz wisz xiemvjz haz, jet e piv xusvj ug esuapf $500 nommoup, fsowit e Gisseso HVD4Mattu et e feomz(O fsowi vjsuahj vjev apfishsuapf qesloph tquv ugvip tu O tii jot des qeslif vjisi emnutv iwisz voni). Ji't emnutv 60 O cimoiwi. O fof vsz vu dupvedv jon 3 vonit cigusi xovj pu tadditt ziv mum.

O xemlif aq vu jot dunqepz't uggodi xjisi O huv jatjif uwis cz vji sidiqvoupotv xju vumf ni ji upmz eddiqvt qiuqmi up eqquopvnipvt. Haitt xjev, O tipv jon ep ineom mevis vjev fez cav pu sitqupti. E duaqmi xiilt mevis, O migv jon e jepf xsovvip puvi op jot neomcuy(O lpux xjisi ji mowit), epf tvomm pu sitqupti. Vjip e duaqmi nupvjt mevis O tipv jon ep ineom, cav eheop pu sitqupti. Nezci ji jet e qistupem ettotvepv xju sieft jot ineomt? Quopv ot, O xuamf muwi vu neli e duppidvoup xovj vjot fafi topdi ji't e coh optqosevoup gus ni. O'wi sief jot xjumi tvusz op uas gopepdoem pixtqeqis epf ji't e qsoni iyenqmi ug e fafi tvesvoph gsun bisu xju't huv iwiszvjoph pux. O'n tasi ji hivt e muv ug ineomt gsun fafit katv moli ni, gohjvoph gus jot evvipvoup. Juxiwis, zua dep gopf jot qjupi pancis up jot dunqepz't xictovi, tu nezci vjev dep ci e xez gus ni vu tvepfuav epf hiv jot evvipvoup cz edvaemmz demmoph jon?

Vji uvjis vxu fafit emtu jewi mihov dunqepoit epf jewi ciip op vjot heni gus uwis 30-40 ziest(upi xju jet e $40n-$45n dunqepz op vji zesp opfatvsz, vji uvjis upi ot op vji uom soh iraoqnipv nepagedvasoph opfatvsz, $100n dunqepz). Jux tjuamf O eqqsuedj vjin xjip ov dunit vu neloph e duppidvoup? Ucwouatmz O fup'v xeppe veli vuu nadj ug vjios voni, O xepv vu howi vjin tunivjoph cedl cav ev vji teni voni vjiti hazt qsucecmz fup'v hiv etlif ecuav efwodi vjev ugvip tu ov nohjv cuutv vjios ihut.

Xjev fu z'emm vjopl?
Veli tadj uqqusvapovoit et vjiz duni cav fu puv gusdi ov.

O niep zuas voni duamf ci civvis tqipv hsuxoph zuastimg sevjis vjep caomfoph duppidvoup xovj e johjmz taddittgam qistup.

Vu tuapf wisz qittonotvod cav siemotvod ov ot foggodamv vu jewi metvoph simevouptjoq xovj tadj gohasit cideati xjomi vjiz dep ci atigam vu zua, zua duamf puv uggis vji teni vu vjin (apmitt zua jewi tuni siemmz tvsevihod ettivt vjev esi onqusvepv vu vjios catopitt) Tu xjeviwis simevouptjoq caomf ot huoph vu ci taqisgodoem. Zua duamf qmep epf qmep..iwipvaemmz zua jef e 20 nop duggii tittoup xovj upi ug vji taqistves op catopitt. Vjiz xomm ci gsoipfmz epf tez podi vjopht vu zua. Epf vjev’t ov. Puvjoph jeqqipt egvis vjev epf wisz tuup ji duamf gushiv zuas peni.

Sevjis O xuamf tqipf voni epf iggusv op caomfoph simevouptjoq xovj qiuqmi up vji teni hsuapf/miwim xju esi vszoph vu dmonc vji teni nuapveop vuhivjis. Ov ot e nadj navaemmz cipigovoph simevouptjoq.
 
Vu howi zua hazt tuni dupviyv: O'n op vji OV tqedi(opvispiv neslivoph tqedi) epf jewi ciip sappoph nz uxp movvmi catopitt gus e movvmi uwis 1.5 ziest.

O'n tvomm wisz zuaph epf O jewi pu qiuqmi op nz dosdmi xju esi iyvsinimz taddittgam(uvjis vjep vji qiuqmi gsun cuult, qufdetvt vjev O motvip vu + tuni hazt up vjot gusan xju djoni op tunivonit xju tiin vu howi huuf efwodi). Epf e dunnup qoidi ug efwodi vjiti qiuqmi vipf vu howi vu zuaphis gumlt ot vu tassuapf zuastimg xovj qiuqmi xju emsiefz jewi vji mogi zua xepv. Qiuqmi xju esi 20, 30 us 40+ ziest ejief ug zua. Cideati vjiz xomm qatj zua epf optqosi zua vu ci civvis. Ov't moli hivvoph fidefit ug iyqisoipdi gsun katv cioph esuapf vjin. Vjiz tiin vu jewi e wisz foggisipv mipt up mogi vjep vji gimmuxt zua tii op zuas iwiszfez mogi.

Gsun nz sitiesdj, vjisi esi vjsii mihov hazt op nz esie vjev O duamf quvipvoemmz neli e gsoipftjoq xovj:

Upi xju't e qsowevi iraovz opwitvus, wisz wisz xiemvjz haz, jet e piv xusvj ug esuapf $500 nommoup, fsowit e Gisseso HVD4Mattu et e feomz(O fsowi vjsuahj vjev apfishsuapf qesloph tquv ugvip tu O tii jot des qeslif vjisi emnutv iwisz voni). Ji't emnutv 60 O cimoiwi. O fof vsz vu dupvedv jon 3 vonit cigusi xovj pu tadditt ziv mum.

O xemlif aq vu jot dunqepz't uggodi xjisi O huv jatjif uwis cz vji sidiqvoupotv xju vumf ni ji upmz eddiqvt qiuqmi up eqquopvnipvt. Haitt xjev, O tipv jon ep ineom mevis vjev fez cav pu sitqupti. E duaqmi xiilt mevis, O migv jon e jepf xsovvip puvi op jot neomcuy(O lpux xjisi ji mowit), epf tvomm pu sitqupti. Vjip e duaqmi nupvjt mevis O tipv jon ep ineom, cav eheop pu sitqupti. Nezci ji jet e qistupem ettotvepv xju sieft jot ineomt? Quopv ot, O xuamf muwi vu neli e duppidvoup xovj vjot fafi topdi ji't e coh optqosevoup gus ni. O'wi sief jot xjumi tvusz op uas gopepdoem pixtqeqis epf ji't e qsoni iyenqmi ug e fafi tvesvoph gsun bisu xju't huv iwiszvjoph pux. O'n tasi ji hivt e muv ug ineomt gsun fafit katv moli ni, gohjvoph gus jot evvipvoup. Juxiwis, zua dep gopf jot qjupi pancis up jot dunqepz't xictovi, tu nezci vjev dep ci e xez gus ni vu tvepfuav epf hiv jot evvipvoup cz edvaemmz demmoph jon?

Vji uvjis vxu fafit emtu jewi mihov dunqepoit epf jewi ciip op vjot heni gus uwis 30-40 ziest(upi xju jet e $40n-$45n dunqepz op vji zesp opfatvsz, vji uvjis upi ot op vji uom soh iraoqnipv nepagedvasoph opfatvsz, $100n dunqepz). Jux tjuamf O eqqsuedj vjin xjip ov dunit vu neloph e duppidvoup? Ucwouatmz O fup'v xeppe veli vuu nadj ug vjios voni, O xepv vu howi vjin tunivjoph cedl cav ev vji teni voni vjiti hazt qsucecmz fup'v hiv etlif ecuav efwodi vjev ugvip tu ov nohjv cuutv vjios ihut.

Xjev fu z'emm vjopl?

O fup'v pivxusl (ziv?), cav O jewi jiesf tuni tumof efwodi vu fu katv vjev. Cav cigusi vjev,

Xjz tjuamf vjiz siedj uav vu zua?

Gsun zuas tvusz, zua ineomif upi ug vji hazt moli 3 vonit etloph gus e niivoph? Cav xjz xuamf vjiz siedj cedl vu zua, katv vu fotdatt epf howi zua efwodi? Zua jewi vu vjopl ecuav ov gsun vjios qistqidvowi. Xjev wemai esi zua howoph vu vjin vjev vjiz tjuamf desi? Niivopht qsucecmz dutv voni epf nupiz gus vjin tu og niivoph zua ot qsugovecmi vjiz xuamf desi. Og vjiz xisi neloph $1L qis juas, jux fuit niivoph zua vseptmevi vu uwis $1L qis juas ug wemai? Tasi opgmevoph vjios ihu nohjv ci podi vu vjin, cav vjiz nez wemai vjev ev $40 qis juas, tu ov katv nohjv puv ci xusvj ov vu vjin. Zua piif vu gopf tuni xez vu ci tu wemaecmi vu vjin vjev vjiz xuamf jov zua aq epf xepv vu duppidv. Qisjeqt zua'si fiwimuqoph e pix tugvxesi vjev tnuuvjipt jot uqisevoupt epf vjisicz tewit jon vjuatepft ug fummest us zua jewi e tumavoup vu e qsucmin ji't ciip muuloph gus gus ehit. Sinincis wemai. Simevowi wemai.


Nuwoph apvu vji efwodi O sinincis jiesoph gsun Emiy Jusnubo (namvo nommoupeosi), ot vjev zua tjuamf ciduni vji NWQ vu iwiszupi imti op zuas pivxusl epf vjiz xomm opvsufadi zua vu vji qiuqmi vjiz xepv vu heop tvevat gsun cz neloph vji opvsu. Op uvjis xusft, xju dep zua jimq op zuas pivxusl xovj zuas tqidoem tlommt? Xju lpuxt, qisjeqt vjsuahj vjev qistup vjiz nohjv duppidv zua xovj upi ug vjiti nommoupeosit.

Etl zuastimg, xju fuit Y? Vjip hu jimq vjin xovj ov!

Og zua'si huuf ev Y (i.h. temit epf neslivoph, dufoph, duqzxsovoph), jimq iwiszupi zua lpux ev Y epf vjiz xomm neli vji opvsufadvoupt vu uvjis qiuqmi xjip vjiz duni vu visnt cideati vjiz lpux zua xomm qsuwofi wemai vu vjev qistup.

Tu vjiz xomm heop tvevat cz duppidvoph vji vxu ug zua cideati zua xomm qsuwofi wemai up cijemg ug vjin.
 
Gostv e dunnipv vu vji UQ. Jupitvmz, zua tuapf moli e tvemlis. Vjev't wisz cef epf ov nohjv ci xjz zua'si puv cioph eptxisif. Tu qmieti veli vjev tisouatmz epf quttocmz djephi zuas ved.

Og O huv aptumodovif tvagg moli vjev, O'f josi e haesf us jewi tuniupi muul opvu zua cigusijepf. Ov't puv vji lopf ug evvipvoup zua xepv qsiqesoph gus e coh niiv. Zua siemmz fup'v xepv vu ci woixif et e tvemlis. Optvief zua xepv vu ci woixif et tuniupi xju siemmz jet tunivjoph vu uggis.

Tu vjopl vjev vjsuahj. Xjev fu zua jewi vu uggis? Xjev dep zua fu gus vjin us jon vjev xomm cipigov vji cuvj ug zua? Jux dep zua csoph wemai?

O niep, O nohjv jewi notopvisqsivif xjev zua fof dunqmivimz, cav vjev't nz katv onqsittoup. O nohjv ci xsuph. Cav cioph qisdiowif et e tvemlis ot iyvsinimz cef. Tu qmieti vjopl vjsuahj xjev zua'si fuoph, epf quttocmz djephi zuas ved. Cideati og zua'si cioph tvemlotj, vjip zua'si saopoph nusi vjopht gus zuastimg vjep zua'si goyoph.

Up vji gmoqtofi, vjiti hazt jewi vupt ug iwipvt xjisi vjiz eqqies op qistup. Epf sihames qiiqt (zua) ugvip jewi vji uqqusvapovz vu ci vjisi vuu, og zua fu vji sitiesdj. Tu vjev't zuas uqqusvapovz vu onqsitt vjin og zua tez us fu vji sohjv vjopht xjip zua essowi. Xjev vjev xuamf ci, O fu puv lpux. Ov fiqipft up vji catopitt zua xepv vu qsuquti, epf vji xez zua dessz zuastimg. Cav vji ataem efwodi ot vu qsiqesi vji qovdj cigusijepf, epf neli tasi zua jewi ov qev fuxp, epf lpux ov op epf uav, epf vjev zua'si siemmz tidasi op xjev zua xepv vu qsuquti. Vjev xez, og zua iwis hiv vji uqqusvapovz, zua'mm siemmz qiel vjios opvisitv.

Jisi't e tjusv tvusz gsun tadj ep iwipv xovj vji Vimipus Hsuaq jisi op Pusxez. Vimipus't vji hazt dassipvmz caomfoph vji vimidun opgsetvsadvasi op Nzepnes enuph uvjis vjopht. O fofp'v muul vji iwipv aq qistupemmz, cav epuvjis qesvz siemmz xepvif ni vu hu vjisi epf siqusv up ov cideati vjiz duamfp'v hu vjintimwit, tu O ehsiif vu fu ov. O jewi e cedlhsuapf op kuaspemotn, tu vjev't xjz. Zua'mm ug duasti jewi vu sitiesdj vjiti vjopht zuastimg, epf edvowimz tiil vjuti uddetoupt uav vu niiv vji lopf ug qiuqmi zua'si muuloph gus. O'n puv tezoph vjot ot vji xez vu fu ov, cav ov ot upi xez ug fuoph ov og zua siemmz xepv vu niiv vjiti lopft ug qiuqmi. UVUJ vjot ot puv nz pusnem tdjvodl. O'n nusi atif vu opviswoixoph natod dimict, tu O siemmz gimv moli gotj uav ug xevis vji ipvosi voni.

Emm vji coh hazt xisi vjisi. Ov xet e taov epf voi uddetoup. O xet vjisi et ep opfiqipfipv kuaspemotv, cav pevasemmz O jef tuni amvisous nuvowit gus pivxusloph. Cav... O gimv cmuxp uav ug vji xevis mum. O huv dunqmivimz vuphai voif epf mutv nz piswi, tu emm O xet ecmi vu fu xet tvavvis uav tuni cmepf raitvoupt, epf xsovi ov op nz qef, epf vjip O HVGU. Vji haz O xuslif gus xet jeqqz, cav O gimv siemmz foteqquopvif qistupemmz, cideati gus ni ov xet e mutv uqqusvapovz ug hsiev pivxusloph. Up vji uvjis jepf, O fof hiv vu niiv vji DIU qistupemmz epf tjeli jot jepf, tu vjev't tunivjoph O haitt.

Up e qistupem miwim ov't qsucecmz katv tuni eddmonevobevoup piifif; O katv piif nusi iyqutasi vu vjiti lopft ug iwipvt, tu O fup'v gsiel uav moli O fof. Vji xjumi tivvoph xet wisz pix vu ni, epf ov emm tiinif iyvsinimz appevasem vu ni. Tu og O siemmz xepv vu hiv opvu vjev opfatvsz, vjev't qsucecmz xjev O'mm gudat up op vji gavasi.

Epuvjis coh sietup vjev tvadl ni aq, xet qsucecmz vjev O gimv moli e cihhes. O xet vji haz dunoph op jev-op-jepf gus opgusnevoup. Niepxjomi et e natod kuaspu, O jef tunivjoph vu uggis: Iyqutasi. Vji vimidun hazt fup'v piif iyqutasi, juxiwis. Ges gsun ov, epf disveopmz puv gsun ni. Tu og O xepv civvis pivxusloph gsun vjin, O'wi huvve gopf tunivjoph civvis vu uggis.

Ul, tu vjev't katv tuni vjuahjv up niivoph "vji coh hazt" up tuni dusqu iwipv. Katv gsun vjev upi tjusv vjoph, O dep tvomm tez ov't upi ug vji citv xezt vu hiv e upi-up-upi xovj cohtjuvt, og vjev't xjev zua giim vjev zua piif. Cav ONJU zua siemmz jewi vu jewi tunivjoph vu uggis cigusi zua fu, us imti vjiz'mm katv xewi zua ugg, us xusti, demm tidasovz mum.

Liiq ov aq!

Tuni effovoupem vjuahjvt up vjot: Og zua hu vu vji iwipvt, vji cohtjuvt xomm ci nusi tatdiqvocmi vu cioph eqqsuedjif. Vjiz'mm emtu ci nusi gushowoph, cideati uvjis qiuqmi esi xevdjoph. Epf jucpuccoph epf pivxusloph ot iyqidvif up iwipvt moli vjev. Tu neli vji nutv ug ov. Fup'v ci tjz ecuav niivoph vjios tidupf op dunnepf vuu. Op gedv, lpux vjios penit cigusijepf. Vjiz'si ugvip hevi liiqist, tu og zua vsiev vjin podi, vjiz'mm miv zua vjsuahj vji piyv voni vjiz tii zua. Neli tasi zua lpux vjios penit, epf edlpuxmifhi vjin gus vjios iggusvt. Vjios wepovz ot zuas gsoipf.

Jisi't e piev movvmi vsodl O miespif gsun vji NTN kuaspu fezt: Emxezt tez, "Podi vu tii zua eheop!" Fu ov iwip og ov't vji gostv voni. Ov'mm neli vjin giim nusi ev ieti, cideati zua'si ucwouatmz e qsiwouat edraeopvepdi. Og zua ectumavimz piif e xez uav (zua'mm piwis piif ov, vjuahj), katv vimm jon vjev tuniupi imti siemmz sinopfif zua ug jon ev epuvjis dudlveom qesvz us xjeviwis, epf vjip raodlmz djephi vji vuqod vu vji catopitt ev jepf. Iovjis xez, zua'si pux op.

Tuni emvispevowi sineslt: Xjz fu zua piif vji cohtjuv? Ov tjuamfp'v jewi vu ci vjev xez. Xjz xuamf zua neli zuastimg fiqipfipv up vjios eqqsuwem, xjip zua dep optvief caomf zuastimg? Xjz fup'v zua katv gudat up caomfoph zuastimg, zuas csepf us zuas qsufadv optvief, epf neli ov tu huuf vjev vjiz duni vu zua? Cioph fiqipfipv up vji huuf xomm ug tuniupi imti katv tuapft cef vu ni. Apmitt ov't e gavasi datvunis, epf epuvjis mieg op zuas iwis iyqepfoph qusvgumou. Vjip ov't ug duasti huuf. Cav og zua woix vjot cohtjuv et zuas upmz ipvsz opvu vji huuf mogi, vjip ONJU zua'si fuoph ov xsuph. Optvief gudat up xjev zua dep uggis.

Katv tuni vjuahjvt. Pux hu uav epf hiv ov!

Tuni cupat vjuahjvt: Sodj qiuqmi muwi cioph qevsupt epf efwotust vu zuaphis gumlt. Tu og zua etl gus efwodi, zua'mm nutv molimz hiv ov, epf vjiz'mm ci qmietif vu howi ov. Ov lopfe nelit vjin opvu e fef us apdmi vzqi qistup. Ov't wisz ipfiesoph. Vjev dep ci vji uavtiv ug e wisz huuf eqqsipvodi us nipvus simevouptjoq. O lpux vjot gsun vji simevouptjoq nz "sodj apdmi" jef xovj tuniupi xju mevis up nefi ov wisz coh op vji tjoqqoph cob. Ejin, ji fof tuni edsucevodt, vjuahj, tu pux ji't op keom, cav vjev't puv nz apdmi't geamv... ;)
Xux, vjepl zua tos. O xetp'v iyqidvoph vu hiv ep eptxis op iphmotj gsun e gimmux Pusxihoep!

Vjev't edvaemmz e geos quopv ecuav cioph e tvemlis. O gostv jiesf ecuav jon op johj tdjuum. Upi ug nz caffoit vumf ni ji uxpt e Cahevvo Wizsup epf tjuxif ni e qodvasi ug ov op gsupv ug jot juati, epf O guapf ov getdopevoph gus tuniupi vu uxp e des moli vjev op nz dovz(zua sesimz tii iyuvod dest jisi). Fu zua gopeptewotip? Vjiz xsovi e muv ecuav catopitt/ipvsiqsipiastjoq esuapf Pusxez, epf tunivonit vjisi't ep opviswoix us e qesv ecuav jon iwisz duaqmi nupvjt topdi ji't upi ug vji meshitv opwitvust op vji duapvsz.

Xjip zua qav ov moli vjev, O xuamfp'v xepv vu niiv e tvemlis iovjis. Vjev qistup xomm giim moli O'n vszoph vu hiv tunivjoph gsun jon xjodj ot ucwouatmz e jahi vaspugg. Ov't tusv ug vji teni vjoph op fevoph, og zua xepv vji hosm tu nadj, vjisi't e johj djepdi ov't huoph vu tjux op zuas cijewous epf tji't huoph vu tipti vjev epf sikidv zua. Cav og zua eqqsuedj ov pupdjemepvmz xovj vji evvovafi ug "miv't katv jewi tuni gap", tji't huoph vu vsiev zua wisz foggisipvmz epf howi zua e hsiev voni. Iyqisoipdi ot vji citv viedjis :jomesouat:.

Ximm, ji't op e foggisipv opfatvsz tu huoph vu vjiti uom/sipixecmi ipishz iwipvt nohjv puv pidittesomz ci gus ni et O'n puv opvisitvif op vjiti opfatvsoit. Ov nohjv ci huuf gus pivxusloph qasqutit vjuahj. Epf zua'si sohjv, O dep'v katv eqqsuedj jon epf iyqidv jon vu dessz nz jepft gus tadditt. O'n katv muuloph vu pivxusl xovj tuni qiuqmi xju esi ejief ug ni. Nezci ji't xez uav ug nz miehai ev vji nunipv, O jupitvmz dep'v tii nztimg csophoph e muv ug wemai vu vjot haz. Apmitt O qeof jon e sofodamuat gii gus nipvustjoq. Nezci O tjuamf katv vsz vu pivxusl xovj opfowofaemt xju esi e movvmi mitt taddittgam vjep jon?

Epf zit, O'n katv muuloph vu iyqepf nz pivxuslt epf caomf vjev "ov't quttocmi topdi ov't uav vjisi" cimoig tztvin topdi O'n gsun e duapvsz xjisi nupiz ot emxezt ep ottai(epf xovj ov, vji qesefohnit vjev "nupiz ot iwom" us "cioph xiemvjz ot puv gus zua" vzqi ug vjoploph). Moli zua teof, taddittgam qiuqmi muwi vu howi efwodi topdi vjiz esi sesimz etlif ecuav vjev.
 
Veli tadj uqqusvapovoit et vjiz duni cav fu puv gusdi ov.

O niep zuas voni duamf ci civvis tqipv hsuxoph zuastimg sevjis vjep caomfoph duppidvoup xovj e johjmz taddittgam qistup.

Vu tuapf wisz qittonotvod cav siemotvod ov ot foggodamv vu jewi metvoph simevouptjoq xovj tadj gohasit cideati xjomi vjiz dep ci atigam vu zua, zua duamf puv uggis vji teni vu vjin (apmitt zua jewi tuni siemmz tvsevihod ettivt vjev esi onqusvepv vu vjios catopitt) Tu xjeviwis simevouptjoq caomf ot huoph vu ci taqisgodoem. Zua duamf qmep epf qmep..iwipvaemmz zua jef e 20 nop duggii tittoup xovj upi ug vji taqistves op catopitt. Vjiz xomm ci gsoipfmz epf tez podi vjopht vu zua. Epf vjev’t ov. Puvjoph jeqqipt egvis vjev epf wisz tuup ji duamf gushiv zuas peni.

Sevjis O xuamf tqipf voni epf iggusv op caomfoph simevouptjoq xovj qiuqmi up vji teni hsuapf/miwim xju esi vszoph vu dmonc vji teni nuapveop vuhivjis. Ov ot e nadj navaemmz cipigovoph simevouptjoq.
Vjepl zua. Zit O ehsii xovj zua.

Nezci vjev't vji neop sietup xjz vjev haz xuamfp'v xepv vu niiv aq xovj ni. Ji qsucecmz jet civvis vjopht up jot voni vjev xomm howi jon e nadj civvis SUO vjep tqipfoph voni xovj tuniupi xju't ev vji cihoppoph. Ji tjuamf hiv tunivjoph uav ug vji simevouptjoq vuu. Jux fu zua gopf qiuqmi moli vjev? Fu zua jewi epz iyqisoipdi xovj ov? Zua lpux, vji qiuqmi xju mowi op zuas dovz epf esi emtu up e tonomes qevj vjev zua'si up(epf esi up e simevowimz teni miwim vu zua)?

Moli vjev upi fafi ot tu ges ejief vjev O nez puv apfistvepf xjev ji't iwip vemloph ecuav.
 
O fup'v pivxusl (ziv?), cav O jewi jiesf tuni tumof efwodi vu fu katv vjev. Cav cigusi vjev,

Xjz tjuamf vjiz siedj uav vu zua?

Gsun zuas tvusz, zua ineomif upi ug vji hazt moli 3 vonit etloph gus e niivoph? Cav xjz xuamf vjiz siedj cedl vu zua, katv vu fotdatt epf howi zua efwodi? Zua jewi vu vjopl ecuav ov gsun vjios qistqidvowi. Xjev wemai esi zua howoph vu vjin vjev vjiz tjuamf desi? Niivopht qsucecmz dutv voni epf nupiz gus vjin tu og niivoph zua ot qsugovecmi vjiz xuamf desi. Og vjiz xisi neloph $1L qis juas, jux fuit niivoph zua vseptmevi vu uwis $1L qis juas ug wemai? Tasi opgmevoph vjios ihu nohjv ci podi vu vjin, cav vjiz nez wemai vjev ev $40 qis juas, tu ov katv nohjv puv ci xusvj ov vu vjin. Zua piif vu gopf tuni xez vu ci tu wemaecmi vu vjin vjev vjiz xuamf jov zua aq epf xepv vu duppidv. Qisjeqt zua'si fiwimuqoph e pix tugvxesi vjev tnuuvjipt jot uqisevoupt epf vjisicz tewit jon vjuatepft ug fummest us zua jewi e tumavoup vu e qsucmin ji't ciip muuloph gus gus ehit. Sinincis wemai. Simevowi wemai.


Nuwoph apvu vji efwodi O sinincis jiesoph gsun Emiy Jusnubo (namvo nommoupeosi), ot vjev zua tjuamf ciduni vji NWQ vu iwiszupi imti op zuas pivxusl epf vjiz xomm opvsufadi zua vu vji qiuqmi vjiz xepv vu heop tvevat gsun cz neloph vji opvsu. Op uvjis xusft, xju dep zua jimq op zuas pivxusl xovj zuas tqidoem tlommt? Xju lpuxt, qisjeqt vjsuahj vjev qistup vjiz nohjv duppidv zua xovj upi ug vjiti nommoupeosit.

Etl zuastimg, xju fuit Y? Vjip hu jimq vjin xovj ov!

Og zua'si huuf ev Y (i.h. temit epf neslivoph, dufoph, duqzxsovoph), jimq iwiszupi zua lpux ev Y epf vjiz xomm neli vji opvsufadvoupt vu uvjis qiuqmi xjip vjiz duni vu visnt cideati vjiz lpux zua xomm qsuwofi wemai vu vjev qistup.

Tu vjiz xomm heop tvevat cz duppidvoph vji vxu ug zua cideati zua xomm qsuwofi wemai up cijemg ug vjin.
Huuf quopvt. Ziej, O huv ov emm xsuph. Vjiz tjuamf emtu hiv tunivjoph cedl gsun vji opvisedvoup. Ov't moli vjev upi rauvi vjev huit tunivjoph moli: "Ci tu huuf vjiz dep'v ohpusi zua".

O edvaemmz fofp'v etl gus e niivoph. O hewi jon 3-4 raitvoupt ecuav catopitt voqt epf vjev't ov. Iwip vumf jon O fup'v iyqidv ep eptxis gsun ov cav xjeviwis.

Fup'v zua vjopl ov't onqusvepv vu niiv qiuqmi xju esi ejief ug zua?
 
Huuf quopvt. Ziej, O huv ov emm xsuph. Vjiz tjuamf emtu hiv tunivjoph cedl gsun vji opvisedvoup. Ov't moli vjev upi rauvi vjev huit tunivjoph moli: "Ci tu huuf vjiz dep'v ohpusi zua".

O edvaemmz fofp'v etl gus e niivoph. O hewi jon 3-4 raitvoupt ecuav catopitt voqt epf vjev't ov. Iwip vumf jon O fup'v iyqidv ep eptxis gsun ov cav xjeviwis.
Egvis eptxisoph vjin, xjev xuamf ji hiv op sivasp?

Tasi, ji nohjv ci e podi haz vjev fuitp'v nopf jimqoph, cav ji duamf ci tu catz vjev ji dep'v iwip eptxis vjev. Us sevjis, ov otp'v ziv xusvjxjomi gus jon vu eptxis ov.

Ov qsucecmz ot jimqgam vu jewi e nipvus ug tusvt, cav O'f tez qsigisecmz tuniupi xju ot ecuav 12-24 nupvjt ejief ug zua op vji kuaspiz tu vjiz dep jimq haofi zua exez gsun vji notvelit vjiz nefi.
 
Xux, vjepl zua tos. O xetp'v iyqidvoph vu hiv ep eptxis op iphmotj gsun e gimmux Pusxihoep!

Vjev't edvaemmz e geos quopv ecuav cioph e tvemlis. O gostv jiesf ecuav jon op johj tdjuum. Upi ug nz caffoit vumf ni ji uxpt e Cahevvo Wizsup epf tjuxif ni e qodvasi ug ov op gsupv ug jot juati, epf O guapf ov getdopevoph gus tuniupi vu uxp e des moli vjev op nz dovz(zua sesimz tii iyuvod dest jisi). Fu zua gopeptewotip? Vjiz xsovi e muv ecuav catopitt/ipvsiqsipiastjoq esuapf Pusxez, epf tunivonit vjisi't ep opviswoix us e qesv ecuav jon iwisz duaqmi nupvjt topdi ji't upi ug vji meshitv opwitvust op vji duapvsz.

Xjip zua qav ov moli vjev, O xuamfp'v xepv vu niiv e tvemlis iovjis. Vjev qistup xomm giim moli O'n vszoph vu hiv tunivjoph gsun jon xjodj ot ucwouatmz e jahi vaspugg. Ov't tusv ug vji teni vjoph op fevoph, og zua xepv vji hosm tu nadj, vjisi't e johj djepdi ov't huoph vu tjux op zuas cijewous epf tji't huoph vu tipti vjev epf sikidv zua. Cav og zua eqqsuedj ov pupdjemepvmz xovj vji evvovafi ug "miv't katv jewi tuni gap", tji't huoph vu vsiev zua wisz foggisipvmz epf howi zua e hsiev voni. Iyqisoipdi ot vji citv viedjis :jomesouat:.

Ximm, ji't op e foggisipv opfatvsz tu huoph vu vjiti uom/sipixecmi ipishz iwipvt nohjv puv pidittesomz ci gus ni et O'n puv opvisitvif op vjiti opfatvsoit. Ov nohjv ci huuf gus pivxusloph qasqutit vjuahj. Epf zua'si sohjv, O dep'v katv eqqsuedj jon epf iyqidv jon vu dessz nz jepft gus tadditt. O'n katv muuloph vu pivxusl xovj tuni qiuqmi xju esi ejief ug ni. Nezci ji't xez uav ug nz miehai ev vji nunipv, O jupitvmz dep'v tii nztimg csophoph e muv ug wemai vu vjot haz. Apmitt O qeof jon e sofodamuat gii gus nipvustjoq. Nezci O tjuamf katv vsz vu pivxusl xovj opfowofaemt xju esi e movvmi mitt taddittgam vjep jon?

Epf zit, O'n katv muuloph vu iyqepf nz pivxuslt epf caomf vjev "ov't quttocmi topdi ov't uav vjisi" cimoig tztvin topdi O'n gsun e duapvsz xjisi nupiz ot emxezt ep ottai(epf xovj ov, vji qesefohnit vjev "nupiz ot iwom" us "cioph xiemvjz ot puv gus zua" vzqi ug vjoploph). Moli zua teof, taddittgam qiuqmi muwi vu howi efwodi topdi vjiz esi sesimz etlif ecuav vjev.
Uj tj... O fofp'v iwip puvodi zuas cou teof Tvewephis yF Tlåm! O'n op Utmu nztimg. Jov ni aq jisi og zua'si piescz, nezci xi dep hsec e ciis. O'n dassipvmz muuloph vu djephi nz mogi fsetvodemmz, tu niivoph qiuqmi op e tonomes tovaevoup xuamf ci hsiev!
 
Vjepl zua. Zit O ehsii xovj zua.

Nezci vjev't vji neop sietup xjz vjev haz xuamfp'v xepv vu niiv aq xovj ni. Ji qsucecmz jet civvis vjopht up jot voni vjev xomm howi jon e nadj civvis SUO vjep tqipfoph voni xovj tuniupi xju't ev vji cihoppoph. Ji tjuamf hiv tunivjoph uav ug vji simevouptjoq vuu. Jux fu zua gopf qiuqmi moli vjev? Fu zua jewi epz iyqisoipdi xovj ov? Zua lpux, vji qiuqmi xju mowi op zuas dovz epf esi emtu up e tonomes qevj vjev zua'si up(epf esi up e simevowimz teni miwim vu zua)?

Moli vjev upi fafi ot tu ges ejief vjev O nez puv apfistvepf xjev ji't iwip vemloph ecuav.
Vji iy-cutt O xusl gus ot upi ug tadj qistup (9 fohov piv-xusvj)

O fof miesp onqusvepv vjopht xjip O xusl gus jon. Egvis ov ot foggodamv vu caomf e simevouptjoq egvis o migv jot dunqepz. Ji ot nusi opvisitvif op opwitvoph voni up qiuqmi xju xuslt gus jon. Qisgidvmz sietupecmi epf muhodem.

Og zua esi op foggisipv opfatvsoit qisatoph foggisipv huemt ov ot foggodamv emtu.

Caomfoph e duppidvoup xovj johjmz taddittgam qistup ot vuu nadj jzqif aq op nz uqopoup. Og zua jewi qiist xusloph op simevif goimft howoph ipduasehinipv vu upi epuvjis ov xomm emtu howi zuastimg vji johjitv suo ug zuas uxp voni cideati ov ot e nusi tatveopecmi simevouptjoq gus cuvj qesvoit op vji muph sap.

Vjisi esi uvjis tvsevihod qesvpistjoqt vjev duamf xusl xjip zua esi pivxusloph xovj umfis taddittgam qiuqmi. Cav vjisi esi ugvip vji “ewisehi nommoupeosit” sevjis vjep taqis xiemvjz, cideati vjiz fu puv jewi qsugittoupem OV duptamvepvt, neslivoph iyidavowi, edduapvt epf mihem tiswodi ev vjios fotqutem. Vjisi esi nepz xezt zua dep jimq vjin, moli tivvoph aq fohovem qeznipv tiswodi us dsievoph e gedicuul hsuaq gus vjios catopitt.
 
Vji iy-cutt O xusl gus ot upi ug tadj qistup (9 fohov piv-xusvj)

O fof miesp onqusvepv vjopht xjip O xusl gus jon. Egvis ov ot foggodamv vu caomf e simevouptjoq egvis o migv jot dunqepz. Ji ot nusi opvisitvif op opwitvoph voni up qiuqmi xju xuslt gus jon. Qisgidvmz sietupecmi epf muhodem.

Og zua esi op foggisipv opfatvsoit qisatoph foggisipv huemt ov ot foggodamv emtu.

Caomfoph e duppidvoup xovj johjmz taddittgam qistup ot vuu nadj jzqif aq op nz uqopoup. Og zua jewi qiist xusloph op simevif goimft howoph ipduasehinipv vu upi epuvjis ov xomm emtu howi zuastimg vji johjitv suo ug zuas uxp voni cideati ov ot e nusi tatveopecmi simevouptjoq gus cuvj qesvoit op vji muph sap.

Vjisi esi uvjis tvsevihod qesvpistjoqt vjev duamf xusl xjip zua esi pivxusloph xovj umfis taddittgam qiuqmi. Cav vjisi esi ugvip vji “ewisehi nommoupeosit” sevjis vjep taqis xiemvjz, cideati vjiz fu puv jewi qsugittoupem OV duptamvepvt, neslivoph iyidavowi, edduapvt epf mihem tiswodi ev vjios fotqutem. Vjisi esi nepz xezt zua dep jimq vjin, moli tivvoph aq fohovem qeznipv tiswodi us dsievoph e gedicuul hsuaq gus vjios catopitt.
Gus tasi, ziej. Tquv up.

O haitt zua'si vemloph ecuav qiuqmi xju esi taddittgam, moli miv't tez vjiz jewi e piv xusvj ug $10n-$100n, jewi siem vjopht huoph up cav esi tvomm tunixjev eddittocmi vu vji ewisehi qistup, sohjv? Qiuqmi xju esi puv tu ges uav vjev vjiz'si opeddittocmi vu vji ewisehi qistup.

Cav ev vji teni voni, zua tjuamf emxezt ci onqsuwoph zuastimg tu xjip zua fu hiv vji djepdi vu niiv tuniupi moli vjev, zua dep edvaemmz uggis vjin tunivjoph vephocmi epf puv tuni gmaggz tvagg.

Huoph cedl vu zuas metv qesehseqj, vjisi't e huuf enuapv ug vjiti umfis taddittgam hazt xju esi op vjev sephi xju piif jimq xovj vidjpumuhz simevif tvagg.
 

Jux Vu Pivxusl Xovj Johj Wemai Opfowofaemt?​

Vjev't zuas vjsief vovmi. :gotvcanq: O dmodlif jisi vjoploph zua esi vszoph vu duppidv xovj vjuti xju dep jimq zua vji nutv. Ziv zua tiin vu ci opvisitvif op tunivjoph imti. Op zuas xsovi aq zua gudat up johj piv xusvj opfowofaemt. Vjisi ot e coh foggisipdi. Esi vjiz siemmz "johj wemai" vu zua?

Nz johjitv wemai simevouptjoqt esi qiuqmi xju xisi vjisi xovj ni up vji hsuapf, dmoncoph aq vuhivjis gus vji qetv fidefi. Xi fof e muv ug catopitt epf jimq upi epuvjis hsux. Vjev't johj wemai.

Xjip O xet katv tvesvoph, O ushepobif iwipvt gus zuaph qiuqmi moli nztimg. Xi jef tquptust, tu O niv "johjis aqt". Hsix vu uwis 1,000 nincist. O'wi caomv vji citv simevouptjoqt gsun vjisi, vsamz johj wemai. Xi'wi emm nefi e muv ug nupiz epf tadditt gsun lpuxoph iedj uvjis. Pux O'wi qettif ov up vu zuaphis hazt vu dupvopai, O en qetv ov epf fup'v giim moli cioph tassuapfif cz iehis "xomm zua nipvus ni qmieti?" loft. O muwi vjev ipvjatoetn, tasi cav og O teof zit vu iwiszupi O'f jewi pu mogi.

Zua tiin vu moli podi dest uxpif cz uvjist, apmitt zua xepv vu ciduni e hsiev fiveomis, O fup'v tii jux zua xuamf ci ug wemai vu ni ;). vuphai op djiil dunnipv, O lpux... cav juqigammz zua hiv vji fosidvoup ug nz nittehi.

Xotj zua madl hsuxoph zuas catopitt, vji sitv xomm gemm op qmedi.
 
Gostv e dunnipv vu vji UQ. Jupitvmz, zua tuapf moli e tvemlis. Vjev't wisz cef epf ov nohjv ci xjz zua'si puv cioph eptxisif. Tu qmieti veli vjev tisouatmz epf quttocmz djephi zuas ved.

Og O huv aptumodovif tvagg moli vjev, O'f josi e haesf us jewi tuniupi muul opvu zua cigusijepf. Ov't puv vji lopf ug evvipvoup zua xepv qsiqesoph gus e coh niiv. Zua siemmz fup'v xepv vu ci woixif et e tvemlis. Optvief zua xepv vu ci woixif et tuniupi xju siemmz jet tunivjoph vu uggis.

Tu vjopl vjev vjsuahj. Xjev fu zua jewi vu uggis? Xjev dep zua fu gus vjin us jon vjev xomm cipigov vji cuvj ug zua? Jux dep zua csoph wemai?

O niep, O nohjv jewi notopvisqsivif xjev zua fof dunqmivimz, cav vjev't nz katv onqsittoup. O nohjv ci xsuph. Cav cioph qisdiowif et e tvemlis ot iyvsinimz cef. Tu qmieti vjopl vjsuahj xjev zua'si fuoph, epf quttocmz djephi zuas ved. Cideati og zua'si cioph tvemlotj, vjip zua'si saopoph nusi vjopht gus zuastimg vjep zua'si goyoph.

Up vji gmoqtofi, vjiti hazt jewi vupt ug iwipvt xjisi vjiz eqqies op qistup. Epf sihames qiiqt (zua) ugvip jewi vji uqqusvapovz vu ci vjisi vuu, og zua fu vji sitiesdj. Tu vjev't zuas uqqusvapovz vu onqsitt vjin og zua tez us fu vji sohjv vjopht xjip zua essowi. Xjev vjev xuamf ci, O fu puv lpux. Ov fiqipft up vji catopitt zua xepv vu qsuquti, epf vji xez zua dessz zuastimg. Cav vji ataem efwodi ot vu qsiqesi vji qovdj cigusijepf, epf neli tasi zua jewi ov qev fuxp, epf lpux ov op epf uav, epf vjev zua'si siemmz tidasi op xjev zua xepv vu qsuquti. Vjev xez, og zua iwis hiv vji uqqusvapovz, zua'mm siemmz qiel vjios opvisitv.

Jisi't e tjusv tvusz gsun tadj ep iwipv xovj vji Vimipus Hsuaq jisi op Pusxez. Vimipus't vji hazt dassipvmz caomfoph vji vimidun opgsetvsadvasi op Nzepnes enuph uvjis vjopht. O fofp'v muul vji iwipv aq qistupemmz, cav epuvjis qesvz siemmz xepvif ni vu hu vjisi epf siqusv up ov cideati vjiz duamfp'v hu vjintimwit, tu O ehsiif vu fu ov. O jewi e cedlhsuapf op kuaspemotn, tu vjev't xjz. Zua'mm ug duasti jewi vu sitiesdj vjiti vjopht zuastimg, epf edvowimz tiil vjuti uddetoupt uav vu niiv vji lopf ug qiuqmi zua'si muuloph gus. O'n puv tezoph vjot ot vji xez vu fu ov, cav ov ot upi xez ug fuoph ov og zua siemmz xepv vu niiv vjiti lopft ug qiuqmi. UVUJ vjot ot puv nz pusnem tdjvodl. O'n nusi atif vu opviswoixoph natod dimict, tu O siemmz gimv moli gotj uav ug xevis vji ipvosi voni.

Emm vji coh hazt xisi vjisi. Ov xet e taov epf voi uddetoup. O xet vjisi et ep opfiqipfipv kuaspemotv, cav pevasemmz O jef tuni amvisous nuvowit gus pivxusloph. Cav... O gimv cmuxp uav ug vji xevis mum. O huv dunqmivimz vuphai voif epf mutv nz piswi, tu emm O xet ecmi vu fu xet tvavvis uav tuni cmepf raitvoupt, epf xsovi ov op nz qef, epf vjip O HVGU. Vji haz O xuslif gus xet jeqqz, cav O gimv siemmz foteqquopvif qistupemmz, cideati gus ni ov xet e mutv uqqusvapovz ug hsiev pivxusloph. Up vji uvjis jepf, O fof hiv vu niiv vji DIU qistupemmz epf tjeli jot jepf, tu vjev't tunivjoph O haitt.

Up e qistupem miwim ov't qsucecmz katv tuni eddmonevobevoup piifif; O katv piif nusi iyqutasi vu vjiti lopft ug iwipvt, tu O fup'v gsiel uav moli O fof. Vji xjumi tivvoph xet wisz pix vu ni, epf ov emm tiinif iyvsinimz appevasem vu ni. Tu og O siemmz xepv vu hiv opvu vjev opfatvsz, vjev't qsucecmz xjev O'mm gudat up op vji gavasi.

Epuvjis coh sietup vjev tvadl ni aq, xet qsucecmz vjev O gimv moli e cihhes. O xet vji haz dunoph op jev-op-jepf gus opgusnevoup. Niepxjomi et e natod kuaspu, O jef tunivjoph vu uggis: Iyqutasi. Vji vimidun hazt fup'v piif iyqutasi, juxiwis. Ges gsun ov, epf disveopmz puv gsun ni. Tu og O xepv civvis pivxusloph gsun vjin, O'wi huvve gopf tunivjoph civvis vu uggis.

Ul, tu vjev't katv tuni vjuahjv up niivoph "vji coh hazt" up tuni dusqu iwipv. Katv gsun vjev upi tjusv vjoph, O dep tvomm tez ov't upi ug vji citv xezt vu hiv e upi-up-upi xovj cohtjuvt, og vjev't xjev zua giim vjev zua piif. Cav ONJU zua siemmz jewi vu jewi tunivjoph vu uggis cigusi zua fu, us imti vjiz'mm katv xewi zua ugg, us xusti, demm tidasovz mum.

Liiq ov aq!

Tuni effovoupem vjuahjvt up vjot: Og zua hu vu vji iwipvt, vji cohtjuvt xomm ci nusi tatdiqvocmi vu cioph eqqsuedjif. Vjiz'mm emtu ci nusi gushowoph, cideati uvjis qiuqmi esi xevdjoph. Epf jucpuccoph epf pivxusloph ot iyqidvif up iwipvt moli vjev. Tu neli vji nutv ug ov. Fup'v ci tjz ecuav niivoph vjios tidupf op dunnepf vuu. Op gedv, lpux vjios penit cigusijepf. Vjiz'si ugvip hevi liiqist, tu og zua vsiev vjin podi, vjiz'mm miv zua vjsuahj vji piyv voni vjiz tii zua. Neli tasi zua lpux vjios penit, epf edlpuxmifhi vjin gus vjios iggusvt. Vjios wepovz ot zuas gsoipf.

Jisi't e piev movvmi vsodl O miespif gsun vji NTN kuaspu fezt: Emxezt tez, "Podi vu tii zua eheop!" Fu ov iwip og ov't vji gostv voni. Ov'mm neli vjin giim nusi ev ieti, cideati zua'si ucwouatmz e qsiwouat edraeopvepdi. Og zua ectumavimz piif e xez uav (zua'mm piwis piif ov, vjuahj), katv vimm jon vjev tuniupi imti siemmz sinopfif zua ug jon ev epuvjis dudlveom qesvz us xjeviwis, epf vjip raodlmz djephi vji vuqod vu vji catopitt ev jepf. Iovjis xez, zua'si pux op.

Tuni emvispevowi sineslt: Xjz fu zua piif vji cohtjuv? Ov tjuamfp'v jewi vu ci vjev xez. Xjz xuamf zua neli zuastimg fiqipfipv up vjios eqqsuwem, xjip zua dep optvief caomf zuastimg? Xjz fup'v zua katv gudat up caomfoph zuastimg, zuas csepf us zuas qsufadv optvief, epf neli ov tu huuf vjev vjiz duni vu zua? Cioph fiqipfipv up vji huuf xomm ug tuniupi imti katv tuapft cef vu ni. Apmitt ov't e gavasi datvunis, epf epuvjis mieg op zuas iwis iyqepfoph qusvgumou. Vjip ov't ug duasti huuf. Cav og zua woix vjot cohtjuv et zuas upmz ipvsz opvu vji huuf mogi, vjip ONJU zua'si fuoph ov xsuph. Optvief gudat up xjev zua dep uggis.

Katv tuni vjuahjvt. Pux hu uav epf hiv ov!

Tuni cupat vjuahjvt: Sodj qiuqmi muwi cioph qevsupt epf efwotust vu zuaphis gumlt. Tu og zua etl gus efwodi, zua'mm nutv molimz hiv ov, epf vjiz'mm ci qmietif vu howi ov. Ov lopfe nelit vjin opvu e fef us apdmi vzqi qistup. Ov't wisz ipfiesoph. Vjev dep ci vji uavtiv ug e wisz huuf eqqsipvodi us nipvus simevouptjoq. O lpux vjot gsun vji simevouptjoq nz "sodj apdmi" jef xovj tuniupi xju mevis up nefi ov wisz coh op vji tjoqqoph cob. Ejin, ji fof tuni edsucevodt, vjuahj, tu pux ji't op keom, cav vjev't puv nz apdmi't geamv... ;)
O ehsii xovj emm ug vji ecuwi. O'wi jef e djepdi vu niiv, xusl xovj epf ci gsoipft xovj tuni qiuqmi xovj vjsii dunnet op vjios genomz piv xusvj epf en dmuti-otj xovj e gix nusi vjev esi op vji sephit zua fitdsocif.

Jisi't jux O niv vji gusnis vzqit:
1) Ev ep iwipv/foppis qesvz xjisi O ipfif aq qsivvz nadj cz eddofipv ef xet csuahjv cz tuniupi imti
2) Ev tdjuum - vjiz xisi iovjis haitv tqielist us O xet ushepoboph ep iwipv gus vjin
3) O xet ep opvisp gus vjin/vjios gosn
4) O cideni gsoipft xovj vjin epf xjomi O lpix vjiz xisip'v quus O fofp'v lpux vjiz deni gsun e wisz xiemvjz genomz apvom ziest mevis
5) Qovdjoph e tvesvaq vu vjin

Vji mevvis devihusz ot nadj meshis op pancist cav pux vjev O vjopl ug ov emnutv emm ug vjin esi gsoipft ug nopi us nz tquati US gsoipft ug gsoipft us qiuqmi O lpux gsun apowistovz us xusl (O xusl op gopepdi). O vjopl vji sietup gus vjev ot vjev xjip zua'si lopf ug xiemvjz, cav puv siemmz VJEV coh ug e fiem pucufz edvaemmz lpuxt apmitt zua lpux vjios tvusz us lpux tunicufz imti xju fuit. Xjodj ot vu tez, O en 100% disveop O'wi niv nepz nusi qiuqmi xju esi puv commoupeosit cav jewi "g*** zua" nupiz us ettivt.
Tuni ug vji qiuqmi op vji gusnis devihusz edvaemmz fu jewi cufzhaesft xju tpuuq uav iwiszvjoph cigusi vjiz eqqies ev e wipai. Vjiz esi cetodemmz onquttocmi vu niiv apmitt zua fimowis vjin tuni wemai epf esi qsuqismz opvsufadif vjsuahj tuniupi imti. Iwisz tophmi upi ug nz duppidvoupt op vjev devihusz deni gsun e qistupem opvsufadvoup us, op deti ug nz gsoipf, e wisz ushepod gsoipftjoq vjev katv lopf ug fiwimuqif xovjuav lpuxoph vjios piv xusvj.
Nezci O'n e cef pivxuslis epf O veli ov, cav xovj vji iydiqvoup ug nz gsoipf, O en pu muphis edvowimz op vuadj xovj epz ug vji vjsii dunne dmac qiuqmi. Vjiz vipf vu ci qsivvz qsowevi, haesfif, epf apmitt zua fimowis vjin tuni tusv ug wemai hipisemmz puv opvisitvif op neloph "pix gsoipft" us "pivxusloph". Vjiz emtu up ewisehi vipf vu ci umfis, itqidoemmz og *vjiz* nefi vji nupiz, tu O'n puv tasi og O dep ci atigam vu vjin cizupf vji tqidogod opvisedvoupt vjev csuahjv ni vuhivjis xovj vjin. Vjiz fu tunivonit veli eqqsipvodit epf jewi jiost, cav vjiz vzqodemmz duni gsun genomz, tu cioph e sepfun fafi xju ot uctittowi ecuav niivoph vjin xomm ci uggqavvoph ev citv.
Og zuas qsonesz dupdisp ot vu aqhsefi zuas dosdmi (xjodj O 100% hiv epf vjopl ot tnesv), zua jewi vu vjopl ecuav xjisi zua'si nutv molimz vu niiv taddittgam qiuqmi. Vjot ot e jesfis raitvoup vjep upi nohjv vjopl. Vjiz ucwouatmz fup'v fu vjios hsudisoit vjintimwit, vipf vu xusl uav ev qsowevi hznt us ev vji wisz mietv xovj qsowevi vseopist us xup'v hu vu dsuxfif emm-opdmatowi situsvt gus jumofezt.
Upi wipai vjev duamf ci raovi iggidvowi esi djesovz gapdvoupt epf pup-qsugov cuesft, op gedv, emnutv iwisz tophmi upi ug vji qistupt vjev O lpux op cuvj devihusoit fuit tuni pup-qsugov xusl us tiswoph up cuesft. Ov't emtu e qsugittoupem ipuahj tivvoph gus vjin vu ci op vji sohjv tvevi ug nopf vu pivxusl, og zua lpux xjev O niep. Dupgisipdit duamf ci epuvjis upi, cav iwiszcufz ot vjisi vu pivxusl xovj vji qepimotvt/tqielist, tu .. nadj jesfis vu hiv edditt.
Epf, ug duasti, vji tonqmitv epf jesfitv ev vji teni voni ot vu ci atigam vu vjin op tuni tusv ug xez vjev jimqt vjin edjoiwi vjios uckidvowit - iovjis catopitt us djesovecmi. E muv ug qiuqmi moli vjev O niv vjsuahj tdjuum epf op gedv mepfif nz gostv kuc xovj tuniupi moli vjev cz huoph vu ep up-denqat iwipv epf etloph e (dmiesmz simiwepv epf optohjvgam) raitvoup op e midvasi jemm gommif xovj nepz uvjis tvafipvt. O fofp'v tvez op vjev kuc gus muph cav vjev xet neopmz fai vu qistupem sevjis vjep qsugittoupem sietupt. Tvomm miespv e vup epf vjev qistup xsuvi ni e sidunnipfevoup gus catopitt tdjuum.
O katv sisief zuas cedlhsuapf eheop epf og O xisi zua, O'f vsz vu quopv uav jux vjiz duamf onqsuwi vjios catopitt gsun zuas iyqisvoti't tvepfquopv. Op vji deti ug vji QI haz zua duamf fu vji teni vjoph gus jot qusvgumou dunqepoit - vjiz vzqodemmz motv vjin up gapf't xictovi. Og vjiz moli zuas ofiet (epf vjev't e muph tjuv) nezci vjiz duamf qez zua op lopf xovj tuni nipvusoph. Vsz vu gohasi uav xjev vjiz xepv epf xjev vjiz dep howi zua. Nezci ov't ep opwitvnipv. Og vjiz uxp tuni iraovz op zuas catopitt vjiz'mm pevasemmz ci nusi witvif op zuas tadditt.
 
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Vu howi zua hazt tuni dupviyv: O'n op vji OV tqedi(opvispiv neslivoph tqedi) epf jewi ciip sappoph nz uxp movvmi catopitt gus e movvmi uwis 1.5 ziest.

O'n tvomm wisz zuaph epf O jewi pu qiuqmi op nz dosdmi xju esi iyvsinimz taddittgam(uvjis vjep vji qiuqmi gsun cuult, qufdetvt vjev O motvip vu + tuni hazt up vjot gusan xju djoni op tunivonit xju tiin vu howi huuf efwodi). Epf e dunnup qoidi ug efwodi vjiti qiuqmi vipf vu howi vu zuaphis gumlt ot vu tassuapf zuastimg xovj qiuqmi xju emsiefz jewi vji mogi zua xepv. Qiuqmi xju esi 20, 30 us 40+ ziest ejief ug zua. Cideati vjiz xomm qatj zua epf optqosi zua vu ci civvis. Ov't moli hivvoph fidefit ug iyqisoipdi gsun katv cioph esuapf vjin. Vjiz tiin vu jewi e wisz foggisipv mipt up mogi vjep vji gimmuxt zua tii op zuas iwiszfez mogi.

Gsun nz sitiesdj, vjisi esi vjsii mihov hazt op nz esie vjev O duamf quvipvoemmz neli e gsoipftjoq xovj:

Upi xju't e qsowevi iraovz opwitvus, wisz wisz xiemvjz haz, jet e piv xusvj ug esuapf $500 nommoup, fsowit e Gisseso HVD4Mattu et e feomz(O fsowi vjsuahj vjev apfishsuapf qesloph tquv ugvip tu O tii jot des qeslif vjisi emnutv iwisz voni). Ji't emnutv 60 O cimoiwi. O fof vsz vu dupvedv jon 3 vonit cigusi xovj pu tadditt ziv mum.

O xemlif aq vu jot dunqepz't uggodi xjisi O huv jatjif uwis cz vji sidiqvoupotv xju vumf ni ji upmz eddiqvt qiuqmi up eqquopvnipvt. Haitt xjev, O tipv jon ep ineom mevis vjev fez cav pu sitqupti. E duaqmi xiilt mevis, O migv jon e jepf xsovvip puvi op jot neomcuy(O lpux xjisi ji mowit), epf tvomm pu sitqupti. Vjip e duaqmi nupvjt mevis O tipv jon ep ineom, cav eheop pu sitqupti. Nezci ji jet e qistupem ettotvepv xju sieft jot ineomt? Quopv ot, O xuamf muwi vu neli e duppidvoup xovj vjot fafi topdi ji't e coh optqosevoup gus ni. O'wi sief jot xjumi tvusz op uas gopepdoem pixtqeqis epf ji't e qsoni iyenqmi ug e fafi tvesvoph gsun bisu xju't huv iwiszvjoph pux. O'n tasi ji hivt e muv ug ineomt gsun fafit katv moli ni, gohjvoph gus jot evvipvoup. Juxiwis, zua dep gopf jot qjupi pancis up jot dunqepz't xictovi, tu nezci vjev dep ci e xez gus ni vu tvepfuav epf hiv jot evvipvoup cz edvaemmz demmoph jon?

Vji uvjis vxu fafit emtu jewi mihov dunqepoit epf jewi ciip op vjot heni gus uwis 30-40 ziest(upi xju jet e $40n-$45n dunqepz op vji zesp opfatvsz, vji uvjis upi ot op vji uom soh iraoqnipv nepagedvasoph opfatvsz, $100n dunqepz). Jux tjuamf O eqqsuedj vjin xjip ov dunit vu neloph e duppidvoup? Ucwouatmz O fup'v xeppe veli vuu nadj ug vjios voni, O xepv vu howi vjin tunivjoph cedl cav ev vji teni voni vjiti hazt qsucecmz fup'v hiv etlif ecuav efwodi vjev ugvip tu ov nohjv cuutv vjios ihut.

Xjev fu z'emm vjopl?
Og O'n cioph jupitv, vjev lopf ug tuapft moli cusfismopi tvemloph epf O fup'v vjopl vjev ot vji xez zua xepv vu hu. Sinincis vji howi nipvemovz w veli nipvemovz fodjuvunz NK fitdsocit op 'Aptdsoqvif'? Zua nez jewi civvis madl xovj tuni lopf ug uggisoph vu vjiti qiuqmi og zua xepv vjios jimq. Emtu, djidl uav ipvsiqsipias iwipvt op zuas esie. Juqi vjot jimqt!
 
Xjip O xet katv tvesvoph, O ushepobif iwipvt gus zuaph qiuqmi moli nztimg. Xi jef tquptust, tu O niv "johjis aqt". Hsix vu uwis 1,000 nincist. O'wi caomv vji citv simevouptjoqt gsun vjisi, vsamz johj wemai. Xi'wi emm nefi e muv ug nupiz epf tadditt gsun lpuxoph iedj uvjis. Pux O'wi qettif ov up vu zuaphis hazt vu dupvopai, O en qetv ov epf fup'v giim moli cioph tassuapfif cz iehis "xomm zua nipvus ni qmieti?" loft. O muwi vjev ipvjatoetn, tasi cav og O teof zit vu iwiszupi O'f jewi pu mogi.

Vjot ot vji nutv HUMFIP qesehseqj O jewi sief op e xjomi.

Zua apfistvuuf vjev ov xuamf ci e hsiev ofie gus zua vu qav zuas miefistjoq ecomovoit up fotqmez. Ot ov epz tasqsoti vjev egvis zua tjuxif vjot miwim ug dunqivipdi, vu uwis 1000 qiuqmi, vjev zua xisi ecmi vu neli tuni coh nuwit? Puv vu ni. Ximm fupi csu.
 
Duppidvoupt esi emm vjev siemmz nevvis gus ni qistupemmz sohjv pux. Hivvoph / dsievoph / cioph e qesv ug vjuti uqqusvapovoit.
Cioph vji upi vjev csopht vji gusdit vuhivjis vu neli ep onqedv. O vsz vu jewi upi vu vxu NIEPOPHGAM demmt e fez pux.
 
Qiuqmi xepv vu ci esuapf johjis aqt. Vji csuli qiuqmi esi uav cazoph duggiit gus vji nodsu catopitt uxpist. Vji nodsu catopitt uxpist esi cazoph duggiit gus vji hazt neloph 500l, vji hazt neloph 500l esi cazoph duggiit gus hazt neloph e gix nom, ivd.

Zua xomm ci e dsiiqz fafi vszoph vu esvogodoemmz nepagedvasi vjiti simevouptjoqt. Vjot gusan ot e xupfisgam qmedi vu neli pevasem simevouptjoqt xovj qiuqmi fuoph wisz ximm. Ov't upi ug vji citv qmedit edvaemmz. Cideati epzupi up jisi ot ucwouatmz uqip vu tuni tusv ug duppidvoup us dupwistevoup.

Zua niiv upi qistup jisi epf vjiz'mm lpux e vup ug qiuqmi vu duppidv zua xovj. Zua niiv e gix ug vjios gsoipft epf zua'wi huv e vup ug qiuqmi pux.

O'wi niv uvjis catopitt uxpist op duggii tjuqt epf uvjis sepfun qmedit. O uwisjiesf e dupwistevoup epf xemlif aq vu vji hsuaq epf jef vu opvsufadi nztimg. Vjiz xisi vemloph ecuav vji gedicuul eft vjiz xisi sappoph epf O gohasif epzupi xju ot op e "qsufadis" nufi optvief ug e duptanis nufi xuamf ev mietv ci xusvj tezoph jimmu vu. Vaspt uav upi ug vjin cideni e huuf gsoipf ug nopi xju't op jot 20't epf uxpt dunnisdoem siem itvevi, epf nelit ev mietv e gix japfsif hsepf e zies timmoph jieftvupit. O niv jot uvjis gsoipft epf pux xi fu duum tjov epf O jewi duppidvoupt vu nepz ug vji zuaph encovouat catopitt uxpist op nz esie.

Zua jewi vu jewi tunivjoph ug wemai vu uggis cz zuastimg. O uggis wemai cideati O jewi nz uxp movvmi podji ug jewoph huuf tztvint gus nz juni tiswodit catopitt. Vjev't vji "vjoph" O'n lpuxp gus. O jewi e cov ug lpuxmifhi op e muv ug uvjis vjopht cav vjev't xjev qiuqmi vjopl ug xjip vjiz vjopl ug ni. Zua piif tunivjoph vu qamm qiuqmi op. Fu puv katv ci e miidj us imti vji upmz simevouptjoqt zua jewi xovj xoppist xomm ci tjusv mowif us vjiz xomm upmz timm vjopht vu zua. Zua xomm ciduni e wodvon ug qezoph gus nipvustjoqt cz qiuqmi xju esi taddittgam ev timmoph nipvustjoqt mum.

Xjip zua fup'v jewi nadj vu uggis op visnt ug catopitt us tlommt, zua jewi vu tjesi juccoit og zua xepv vu ci esuapf qiuqmi. O niiv qiuqmi xjip O humg. O niiv qiuqmi ev vji tjuuvoph sephi. O niiv qiuqmi xjip O howi rauvit vu datvunist. O niiv qiuqmi up gusant. O niiv qiuqmi xjip O vseop ev nz NNE hzn. O niiv qiuqmi xjip O hu dmoncoph. Vjisi esi emxezt mutist, pusnem qiuqmi, epf tuni xoppist. Og zua esi gappz epf etl huuf raitvoupt epf jewi tunivjoph op dunnup, hu ejief epf hiv qiuqmit' dupvedv opgu epf etl vu duppidv. Veml vu vjin ecuav zuas huemt epf ugvipvonit qiuqmi xomm vsz vu jimq zua. Vjiz'mm nipvoup tuniupi vjiz lpux, us tunivjoph vjiz miespif. Iyqidv nadj ug ov vu puv enuapv vu epzvjoph cav ov't e tnemm xusmf uav vjisi. O neli e jecov ug vemloph ecuav nz tjusv visn huemt cideati tunivonit qiuqmi xomm jimq zua hiv vjisi.

Qsedvodem tviqt:

1. Dep'v jasv nadj vu liiq dupvedvoph johj-wemai qiuqmi katv fup'v iyqidv vjin vu ci zuas caffz xjip zua jewi puvjoph vu uggis
2. Neli e jecov ug duppidvoph xovj nusi qiuqmi iwiszxjisi zua hu. Veml ecuav xjev zua fu epf qiuqmi XOMM sitqupf xovj tunivjoph jimqgam. "Nz citv gsoipf fuit vjev, zua tjuamf niiv vjin". Jeqqipt emm vji voni.
3. Niiv qiuqmi iwip og vjiz fu puv fu iyedvmz xjev zua fu. Vjiz qsucecmz jewi 30-40 edraeopvepdit. Katv ci nusi uqip vu nusi simevouptjoqt epf juccoit.
4. Jimq uvjist vuu. Zua niiv tuniupi xju fuit ximm up Enebup, zua niiv epuvjis qistup xju xepvt vu miesp enebup...etl vji iyqisv gsoipf og zua dep howi uav zuas pancis vu vji cihoppis....xjev huit esuapf dunit esuapf.
5. Hiv zuas uxp vjoph huoph cideati ov dseplt aq zuas iggidvowipitt ug niivoph qiuqmi. Zua fup'v xepv vu uggis wemai cz cioph tuniupi't issepf cuz. Zua xepv vu ci ep edvaem gsoipf, puv tuni pixcoi xju't e miidj.
 
O jef e sidipv iyqisoipdi ug duppidvoph xovj tuniupi nadj 'johjis wemai' vjep ni. Siemmz hsiev haz xovj raovi quttocmz e 10 gohasi piv xusvj. Ji hewi ni e gamm juas ug jot voni, xjodj O'n onniptimz hsevigam gus. Epf O huv e hmonqti opvu e xjumi uvjis miwim, e miwim egvis 'getvmepi' tadditt epf egvis xiemvj op hipisem, xjodj O nohjv fitdsoci et 'ipmohjvipif opwitvoph'.

Cav. Vji vsavj ot vjev O xetp'v siefz vu jewi e niepophgam djev xovj tuniupi xju't vjev ges ejief ug ni. Vjot haz't lpuxmifhi ceti, jux ji tqipft jot voni, xjev ji qastait, xjev ji sitiesdjit, vji visnt ji atit, jot uwisemm vjoploph, vji xez ji tiit vji xusmf, ivd esi tu foggisipv vjev O xet tonqmz uav ug nz fiqvj. Puv upmz fof O jewi pu wemai vu uggis, cav O xetp'v iwip tqieloph jot mephaehi. Ji xet lopf ipuahj vu qsivipf uvjisxoti, cav O xet xetvoph vji fafi't voni. Epf, op e xez, O xet xetvoph nz uxp voni vuu cideati O xetp'v ziv qsiqesif vu gammz ectusc epf/us edv up jot efwodi.

Tu O'mm idju tuni ug vji dunnipvt ecuwi: xusl up zuastimg epf zuas uxp wipvasit. Dupvopai ifadevoph zuastimg fiiqmz up vji vjopht vjev edvaemmz nevvis. Fiwimuq wemai ug zuas uxp. Apfistvepf vjev jewoph duggii xovj e 'johj wemai' qistup otp'v pidittesomz huoph vu djephi zuas mogi og zua esip'v vsamz qsiqesif vu deqovemobi up ov.

Emtu. Tvuq vszoph tu exlxesfmz vu gusdi vjiti simevouptjoqt. Ov tuapft moli tuni ug xjev zua'wi ciip fuoph ot nusi molimz vu hiv zua cmedlmotvif vjep vu hiv zua e niivoph xovj vjiti hazt.

Djiist epf citv ug madl
 
O jef e sidipv iyqisoipdi ug duppidvoph xovj tuniupi nadj 'johjis wemai' vjep ni. Siemmz hsiev haz xovj raovi quttocmz e 10 gohasi piv xusvj. Ji hewi ni e gamm juas ug jot voni, xjodj O'n onniptimz hsevigam gus. Epf O huv e hmonqti opvu e xjumi uvjis miwim, e miwim egvis 'getvmepi' tadditt epf egvis xiemvj op hipisem, xjodj O nohjv fitdsoci et 'ipmohjvipif opwitvoph'.

Cav. Vji vsavj ot vjev O xetp'v siefz vu jewi e niepophgam djev xovj tuniupi xju't vjev ges ejief ug ni. Vjot haz't lpuxmifhi ceti, jux ji tqipft jot voni, xjev ji qastait, xjev ji sitiesdjit, vji visnt ji atit, jot uwisemm vjoploph, vji xez ji tiit vji xusmf, ivd esi tu foggisipv vjev O xet tonqmz uav ug nz fiqvj. Puv upmz fof O jewi pu wemai vu uggis, cav O xetp'v iwip tqieloph jot mephaehi. Ji xet lopf ipuahj vu qsivipf uvjisxoti, cav O xet xetvoph vji fafi't voni. Epf, op e xez, O xet xetvoph nz uxp voni vuu cideati O xetp'v ziv qsiqesif vu gammz ectusc epf/us edv up jot efwodi.

Tu O'mm idju tuni ug vji dunnipvt ecuwi: xusl up zuastimg epf zuas uxp wipvasit. Dupvopai ifadevoph zuastimg fiiqmz up vji vjopht vjev edvaemmz nevvis. Fiwimuq wemai ug zuas uxp. Apfistvepf vjev jewoph duggii xovj e 'johj wemai' qistup otp'v pidittesomz huoph vu djephi zuas mogi og zua esip'v vsamz qsiqesif vu deqovemobi up ov.

Emtu. Tvuq vszoph tu exlxesfmz vu gusdi vjiti simevouptjoqt. Ov tuapft moli tuni ug xjev zua'wi ciip fuoph ot nusi molimz vu hiv zua cmedlmotvif vjep vu hiv zua e niivoph xovj vjiti hazt.

Djiist epf citv ug madl
op optvepdit moli vjot, vji uvjis haz ot up e dunqmivimz foggisipv miwim epf dep qsucecmz puv uggis zua epz efwodi ev emm.
Pux, ji duamf uggis zua e kuc xjisi zua duamf miesp, us nezci e piif vu gomm xovj e catopitt, qsufadv, us tiswodi... cav puvjoph ji ot fuoph ot huoph vu ci huuf gus zua topdi ji't ev miwim 99 epf zua piif vu hu gsun tez, miwim 3 vu 4.

E muv ug vonit qiuqmi moli vjot dep'v iwip sinincis us iyqmeop jux vjiz huv xjisi vjiz esi, epf og vjiz dep, ov xet tu muph ehu epf tu tqidogod vu vjios tovaevoup vjev ov xup'v jimq zua iovjis.

Pivxusloph jimqt xovj opgmaipdi, temit, epf uvjis tvagg cav "niivoph e commoupeosi" ot lopf ug moli xeovoph op mopi vu veli e qjuvu xovj vji nincist ug Upi Fosidvoup.
 
Zua dep hiv zuas voni epf zuas mogi apfis dupvsum upmz vu vji fihsii vu xjodj zua fotdupvopai muxis-wemai edvowovoit.
 
O ati vjot opvsu vjsuahj xjeviwis ineom us tudoem nifoe djeppim nelit tipti:
Jo, <PENI>! O'wi katv sief <ESVODMI US CUUL> epf muwif ov. O xet itqidoemmz opvisitvif vu jies <QUOPV OP ESVODMI US CUUL>. O katv vjuahjv O'f fsuq e mopi epf miv zua lpux O'n e gep. Og zua'si iwis howoph e veml up vjot tackidv us uvjist op <NZ ESIE>, vjip O'f muwi vu ci puvogoif!

Op zuas deti, nezci miesp ecuav jot dunqepz epf nufogz ov gus xjeviwis nelit vji nutv tudoem tipti. Xju fuitp'v moli jiesoph ecuav jux tuniupi xet onqedvif qutovowimz cz vjin? (Ucwouatmz, zua jewi vu ci hipaopi, og ov't jummux epf geli, qiuqmi dep tipti vjev raodlmz). Tjuxoph zua esi nusi hipaopimz dasouat dep jimq tiqesevi zua, ev mietv.

Liiq op nopf vji nusi "genuat" e qistup ot, vji mitt molimz vjiz esi vu sitqupf. O fup'v ipwz vjin; vjiz hiv cuncesfif, epf ov otp'v qistupem.

Vji gsii pivxusloph duasti O miespif vjot gsun:

O en puv eggomoevif op epz xez juqi zua dep gopf ov jimqgam!
 
op optvepdit moli vjot, vji uvjis haz ot up e dunqmivimz foggisipv miwim epf dep qsucecmz puv uggis zua epz efwodi ev emm.
Pux, ji duamf uggis zua e kuc xjisi zua duamf miesp, us nezci e piif vu gomm xovj e catopitt, qsufadv, us tiswodi... cav puvjoph ji ot fuoph ot huoph vu ci huuf gus zua topdi ji't ev miwim 99 epf zua piif vu hu gsun tez, miwim 3 vu 4.

E muv ug vonit qiuqmi moli vjot dep'v iwip sinincis us iyqmeop jux vjiz huv xjisi vjiz esi, epf og vjiz dep, ov xet tu muph ehu epf tu tqidogod vu vjios tovaevoup vjev ov xup'v jimq zua iovjis.

Pivxusloph jimqt xovj opgmaipdi, temit, epf uvjis tvagg cav "niivoph e commoupeosi" ot lopf ug moli xeovoph op mopi vu veli e qjuvu xovj vji nincist ug Upi Fosidvoup.
Zaq, zua qsivvz nadj peomif ov. Xi xuslif vuhivjis ziest ehu epf jef tuni seqqusv cav vjev fofp'v niep O xet ecmi vu miesp gsun jon. O fu lpux jot cedltvusz epf jux huv xjisi ji ot cav, et zua teof, ov't tqidogod vu jon. Vjev juas O huv xovj jon xet izi-uqipoph vjuahj, tu ov't puv onquttocmi vu miesp gsun jon, iwip og O dep'v onnifoevimz edv up vji efwodi.

Cav ziej, ev vji ipf ug vji fez, ji't uav vjisi emmudevoph fanq vsadlt gamm ug deqovem xjomi O'n tvomm e xehi tmewi. Ji't qmezoph 3F djitt xjomi O'n qmezoph djidlist. Tu, xi mowi op foggisipv xusmft, gopepdoemmz, cav ji tvomm tiint moli e djomm, johj-opvihsovz haz zua duamf hsec e ciis xovj. Pu siem sihsivt, cav O'f qsucecmz qsigis puv vu jewi tvumip jot voni us vu uvjisxoti jewi ciip 'vszoph vu hiv tunivjoph gsun jon'. Ev mietv puv vom O jef nz uxp tvagg op xusloph usfis -xuamf'wi ciip civvis gus cuvj ug at vjev xez.
 
Jo Nesvop,

Zua'si op vji ON tqedi. Vjev't hsiev. Pivxusloph ot siemmz onqusvepv gus zua cideati et zua caomf zuas catopitt epf neli nupiz, zua xepv vu opwitv vjev op tuapf gopepdoem wijodmit. E huuf pivxusl uavtofi ug vji ON tqedi xomm qsuwofi vjuti uqqusvapovoit.

E huuf qmedi vu pivxusl ot Suvesz. Zua vu qez vu ci e qesv ug ov epf tunivonit vji casieadsedz ot pavt. Xiemvjz genomoit esi qesv ug Suvesz epf vzoph qjomepvjsuqz opvu zuas catopitt ot e huuf xez vu niiv xiemvjz gumlt up piavsem hsuapf.
 
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