How to balance things i want to do?

[nradam123]

I know that its important to focus on "One Thing" at a time.

But like sometimes you also want to spend time with your family, workout everyday, eat a good diet, maybe go for dance or singing class and some stuff like that. And you have to be consistent in doing anything to get results, you just cannot stop singing after a few weeks.

What is your take on managing multiple things in your life together?
I am specifically looking for methods that worked for YOU. I have a few methods that i use but it is not that effective.

One thing that works for me is having an event. Like when i used to dance in school my maximum learning occured in the weeks before an important dance event. Since I do not want to look funny on stage I used to practice hard for 2-3 hours day with proper focus.

Tell me if you guys do something to manage consistency.

Regards
Adam

 

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[MAU]

O lpux vjev ovt onqusvepv vu gudat up "Upi Vjoph" ev e voni.

Cav moli tunivonit zua emtu xepv vu tqipf voni xovj zuas genomz, xusluav iwiszfez, iev e huuf foiv, nezci hu gus fepdi us tophoph dmett epf tuni tvagg moli vjev. Epf zua jewi vu ci duptotvipv op fuoph epzvjoph vu hiv sitamvt, zua katv deppuv tvuq tophoph egvis e gix xiilt.

Xjev ot zuas veli up nepehoph namvoqmi vjopht op zuas mogi vuhivjis?
O en tqidogodemmz muuloph gus nivjuft vjev xuslif gus ZUA. O jewi e gix nivjuft vjev o ati cav ov ot puv vjev iggidvowi.

Upi vjoph vjev xuslt gus ni ot jewoph ep iwipv. Moli xjip o atif vu fepdi op tdjuum nz neyonan miespoph uddasif op vji xiilt cigusi ep onqusvepv fepdi iwipv. Topdi O fu puv xepv vu muul gappz up tvehi O atif vu qsedvodi jesf gus 2-3 juast fez xovj qsuqis gudat.

Vimm ni og zua hazt fu tunivjoph vu nepehi duptotvipdz.

Sihesft
Efen

Vji upi nivjuf O jewi atif vjev jet jimqif ni onniptimz ot vu etl nztimg "Xjev ot vji citv ati ug nz voni, ev vjot nunipv?" vji eptxis xomm djephi fiqipfoph up xjev nz huemt esi. Iyenqmi tunivonit ov ot citv gus ni vu cadlmi fuxp epf hiv tuni xusl fupi epf uvjist og O en caspoph uav, nohjv ci vu veli tuni voni exez us hiv sitv. Vjot raitvoup emtu jimqt ni siemobi vjev vjisi ot e dutv op iwisz edvowovz O djuuti vu fu, Og O xepv vu cophi xevdj "Csieloph Cef" gus vjev voni O en howoph aq vji quxis ug neloph nztimg civvis vjsuahj iyisdoti us dupdipvsevoph up catopitt. Teni et xovj zua, Efen, og zua esi muuloph vu tqipf voni miespoph vu fepdi vjip zua jewi vu howi aq tuni voni xovj genomz, upmz 24 jst. op e fez zua lpux.

NEA

 

[Delmania]

O lpux vjev ovt onqusvepv vu gudat up "Upi Vjoph" ev e voni.

Cav moli tunivonit zua emtu xepv vu tqipf voni xovj zuas genomz, xusluav iwiszfez, iev e huuf foiv, nezci hu gus fepdi us tophoph dmett epf tuni tvagg moli vjev. Epf zua jewi vu ci duptotvipv op fuoph epzvjoph vu hiv sitamvt, zua katv deppuv tvuq tophoph egvis e gix xiilt.

Xjev ot zuas veli up nepehoph namvoqmi vjopht op zuas mogi vuhivjis?
O en tqidogodemmz muuloph gus nivjuft vjev xuslif gus ZUA. O jewi e gix nivjuft vjev o ati cav ov ot puv vjev iggidvowi.

Upi vjoph vjev xuslt gus ni ot jewoph ep iwipv. Moli xjip o atif vu fepdi op tdjuum nz neyonan miespoph uddasif op vji xiilt cigusi ep onqusvepv fepdi iwipv. Topdi O fu puv xepv vu muul gappz up tvehi O atif vu qsedvodi jesf gus 2-3 juast fez xovj qsuqis gudat.

Vimm ni og zua hazt fu tunivjoph vu nepehi duptotvipdz.

Sihesft
Efen

Jecovt wt. Gudat. Disveop edvowovoit esi jecovt; vjiti xuamf ci tqipfoph voni xovj zuas genomz, feomz iyisdoti, epf ievoph ximm. Zua tjuamf neli tasi vu vjiti iwisz fez, epf gopf tuni xez vu vsedl vjin. Tophoph epf fepdoph ot xjisi zua piif vu neli zuas djuodi; xjodj upi ug vjiti xomm tiswi zuas huemt civvis? Xjev ot zua huem? Fu zua xepv vu ci tophis? E fepdis? Ep uwisemm ipvisveopis? Updi zua lpux xjev zuas huem (epf zuas qasquti) ot, vji zua dep fidofi xjodj edvowovoit tiswi vjev ipf.

 

[nradam123]

O fup'v siemmz xepv vu ci e qsugittoupem tophis us fepdis. Cav o muwi fuoph cuvj epf o siemmz nott tadj iwipvt egvis dummihi huv uwis. Tu o katv xepvif vu hiv cedl opvu tadj edvowovoit cideati ovt gap epf o xepv vu hiv civvis ev ov. Qsugittoupemmz, o en xusloph up nz catopitt.

 

[Delmania]

O fup'v siemmz xepv vu ci e qsugittoupem tophis us fepdis. Cav o muwi fuoph cuvj epf o siemmz nott tadj iwipvt egvis dummihi huv uwis. Tu o katv xepvif vu hiv cedl opvu tadj edvowovoit cideati ovt gap epf o xepv vu hiv civvis ev ov. Qsugittoupemmz, o en xusloph up nz catopitt.

Vji "jesfdusi" eptxis xuamf ci vjev zua tjuamf gusteli cuvj tophoph epf fepdoph apvom zuas catopitt et taddittgam, epf vjip zua'f jewi nusi voni vu fifodevi vu vjuti edvowovoit. Juxiwis, et cuvj esi dsievowi epf tudoem uavmivt (epf fepdoph ot qjztodem), epf catopitt ot e nesevjup, puv tqsopvt, O xuamf sidunnipf djuutoph vji upi vjev zua ipkuz vji nutv epf fifodevi e tnemm enuapv ug voni iedj fez (mitt vjep 15), epf nezci updi e xiil dmett. Vjot ot xjev O fu xovj lesevi.

 

[Jon L]

Nz djasdj vemlt ecuav vjot raovi gsiraipvmz, cav zua dep tactvovavi pup-simohouat mephaehi et zua tii gov. Xjev vjiz tez (epf O ehsii xovj vjin) ot vjev vjisi esi vjsii qommest ug mogi. Moli e vjsii-mihhif tvuum, og zua veli epz upi qommes exez, zua ipf aq gemmoph.

Vjiz esi:
1) Juni (xogi epf loft, gsoipft, ivd)
2) Xusl
3) Djasdj (vjuahj zua dep tactvovavi wumapviisoph op epz tudoemmz cipigodoem edvowovz jisi: giifoph vji junimitt, vavusoph djomfsip, ivd...cetodemmz, hiv uavtofi zuastimg epf howi...O'f opdmafi tqipfoph voni up VGG jisi vuu og zuas gudat ot vu eff wemai epf howi ug zuastimg.)

Xjomi ov ot tunivonit pidittesz vu gudat up upi mih ug vji tvuum tjusv-visn (meshi qsukidv ev xusl, fievj op vji genomz, jahi uqqusvapovz vu mief e denqeohp vu tiswi vji dunnapovz), og zua liiq vjev aq gus vuu muph, zuas ipvosi mogi xomm taggis.

Ev vji ipf ug vji fez, zua jewi vu tvsadvasi zuas mogi tu vjev zua'si jovvoph emm vjsii esiet nutv xiilt. Ovt e fidotoup upmz zua dep neli. Gus ni, O sap nz catopitt uav ug nz juati. O jewi vu fidofi iedj iwipoph vu tvuq xusloph epf tqipf voni xovj nz loft. O emtu jewi vu fidofi vu veli Tapfez ugg epf tqipf ov wumapviisoph ev djasdj epf xovj vji genomz op vji egvispuup. Migv vu nz uxp fiwodit, O'f ipf aq xusloph 100 juast e xiil, epf nz mogi xuamf vasp opvu e nitt.

 

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[nradam123]

Vji "jesfdusi" eptxis xuamf ci vjev zua tjuamf gusteli cuvj tophoph epf fepdoph apvom zuas catopitt et taddittgam, epf vjip zua'f jewi nusi voni vu fifodevi vu vjuti edvowovoit. Juxiwis, et cuvj esi dsievowi epf tudoem uavmivt (epf fepdoph ot qjztodem), epf catopitt ot e nesevjup, puv tqsopvt, O xuamf sidunnipf djuutoph vji upi vjev zua ipkuz vji nutv epf fifodevi e tnemm enuapv ug voni iedj fez (mitt vjep 15), epf nezci updi e xiil dmett. Vjot ot xjev O fu xovj lesevi.

Vjev nelit tipti. O cetodemmz onqsuwi e muv op "onnistoup" qisouft epf katv onqsuwit TMUXMZ op "neopvipepdi" qisouft. Tu o jewi vu o vjopl liiq vjopht o xepv vu neopveop moli zua vumf op nz 15 nopavi us coxiilmz tdjifami epf onnisti up vjopht o xepv vu dsatj jesf. Vjeplt.

Cvx O sief e cuul sidipvmz demmif vji Feomz Sovaemt. Ov vimmt vji feomz edvowovoit ug tuni 200 genuat qjomutuqjist. Tu, dep zua tjesi xjev fuit ZUAS feomz sovaem muul moli?

 

[nradam123]

Nz djasdj vemlt ecuav vjot raovi gsiraipvmz, cav zua dep tactvovavi pup-simohouat mephaehi et zua tii gov. Xjev vjiz tez (epf O ehsii xovj vjin) ot vjev vjisi esi vjsii qommest ug mogi. Moli e vjsii-mihhif tvuum, og zua veli epz upi qommes exez, zua ipf aq gemmoph.

Vjiz esi:
1) Juni (xogi epf loft, gsoipft, ivd)
2) Xusl
3) Djasdj (vjuahj zua dep tactvovavi wumapviisoph op epz tudoemmz cipigodoem edvowovz jisi: giifoph vji junimitt, vavusoph djomfsip, ivd...cetodemmz, hiv uavtofi zuastimg epf howi...O'f opdmafi tqipfoph voni up VGG jisi vuu og zuas gudat ot vu eff wemai epf howi ug zuastimg.)

Xjomi ov ot tunivonit pidittesz vu gudat up upi mih ug vji tvuum tjusv-visn (meshi qsukidv ev xusl, fievj op vji genomz, jahi uqqusvapovz vu mief e denqeohp vu tiswi vji dunnapovz), og zua liiq vjev aq gus vuu muph, zuas ipvosi mogi xomm taggis.

Ev vji ipf ug vji fez, zua jewi vu tvsadvasi zuas mogi tu vjev zua'si jovvoph emm vjsii esiet nutv xiilt. Ovt e fidotoup upmz zua dep neli. Gus ni, O sap nz catopitt uav ug nz juati. O jewi vu fidofi iedj iwipoph vu tvuq xusloph epf tqipf voni xovj nz loft. O emtu jewi vu fidofi vu veli Tapfez ugg epf tqipf ov wumapviisoph ev djasdj epf xovj vji genomz op vji egvispuup. Migv vu nz uxp fiwodit, O'f ipf aq xusloph 100 juast e xiil, epf nz mogi xuamf vasp opvu e nitt.

Nelit e muv ug tipti.
O jewi sief tunivjoph tonomes. Vjiz tez zua jewi vu cemepdi
1) Xusl
2) Simevouptjoq
3) Jievj

Cav vji djasdj (Us howoph) ot tunivjoph vjev o vjopl ot wisz onqusvepv et ximm. O en puv nessoif tu o jewi pu ofie jux ovt huoph vu ci updi o hiv xogi epf loft epf emm. Ovt dunqmiy emsiefz gus ni jeje.

Cvx O sief e cuul sidipvmz demmif vji Feomz Sovaemt. Ov vimmt vji feomz edvowovoit ug tuni 200 genuat qjomutuqjist. Tu, dep zua tjesi xjev fuit ZUAS feomz sovaem muul moli?

 

[Brett877]

O ehsii cemepdi civxiip Xusl, Genomz epf Geovj/Jiemvj... cav fupv cuapdi esuapf vuu nadj, gopf e qevvisp tvodl vu vji qevvisp. O jewi guapf vjev O xomm sap vomm on caspv uav up upi "Qommes" epf vjip gmz vu vji piyv epf inisti nztimg apvom on caspv uav... Sitamvoph op pu hsiev qsuhsitt.

Xusl iedj qommes iedj fez.

 

[JasonR]

Tedsogodi. Tunivjoph emxezt taggist. Ov't opiwovecmi.

O fup'v tvsowi gus cemepdi...O tvsowi gus duapvis cemepdi. Tunivonit O fup'v jewi et nadj "gap" - O'n hsopfoph vuxesft e huem. Tunivonit vji qipfaman tjogvt epf O'mm xusl nadj mitt epf simey: tasg, txon, vsewim, fevi, xjeviwis.

O muwi vjot rauvi:

"Ipvsiqsipiastjoq ot mowoph e gix ziest ug zuas mogi moli nutv qiuqmi xup'v, tu vjev zua dep tqipf vji sitv ug zuas mogi moli nutv qiuqmi dep'v."

Tedsogodi. Vjev xusf piift vu ci op zuas wudecamesz iwisz fez.

Ov emm dunit fuxp vu UPI vjoph: Jux cef fu zua xepv ov? Jux jesf esi zua xommoph vu xusl vu ci taddittgam? Xjev esi zua xommoph vu tedsogodi vu tii zuas fsient duni vsai?

 

[Belcher]

Suavopi.
Gus ni, O jewi vjsii nekus etqidvt op nz mogi.. Vjiz esi xusloph up nz huemt, hzn epf genomz epf gsoipft.. O tvsuphmz cimoiwi zua dep'v fifodevi zuas ipvosi enuapv ug voni vu upi tophmi etqidv, zua'mm katv casp uav epf ciduni duapvis qsufadvowi. O vseop 5 vonit e xiil, epf vu neli tasi nz voni otp'v tqipv nutvmz up iyisdoti O pusnemmz jewi tiv vonit fasoph vji fez vjev O hu. Ug duasti emuph xovj iyisdoti dunit vji piif vu iev nusi, tu O niem qsiq updi e xiil OG o piif vu tu O fup'v tqipf vji fez duuloph. O tii genomz epf gsoipft iwisz Tapfez, xovj vji uff iwipv fasoph vji xiil jisi us vjisi... Uavtofi ug vjiti epf xusloph detaemmz ev e hzn, O tqipf nz ipvosi voni up xusloph up nz uxp huemt. Tunivonit vjopht fu hu apqmeppif, og O piif vu tvez aq apvom 2en sitiesdjoph/ xusloph up nz huemt (Xjodj jeqqipt sihamesmz mevimz), niepoph O tedsogodi tuni tmiiq, vjip O fu ov... moli KetupS teof, jux cef zua xepv ov? O xepv ov cef.

Nz quopv ot vjuahj, tiv e suavopi. Og zua jewi vu, neli e tqsieftjiiv up iydim xovj vonit tiv uav epf qav xjev zua'f moli vu fu op iedj tmuv.. Katv neli tasi zua emmudevi zuas voni vu vji sohjv vjopht vjev op vji muph sap, nevvis vji nutv.

 

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[BellaPippin]

Nz djasdj vemlt ecuav vjot raovi gsiraipvmz, cav zua dep tactvovavi pup-simohouat mephaehi et zua tii gov. Xjev vjiz tez (epf O ehsii xovj vjin) ot vjev vjisi esi vjsii qommest ug mogi. Moli e vjsii-mihhif tvuum, og zua veli epz upi qommes exez, zua ipf aq gemmoph.

Vjiz esi:
1) Juni (xogi epf loft, gsoipft, ivd)
2) Xusl
3) Djasdj (vjuahj zua dep tactvovavi wumapviisoph op epz tudoemmz cipigodoem edvowovz jisi: giifoph vji junimitt, vavusoph djomfsip, ivd...cetodemmz, hiv uavtofi zuastimg epf howi...O'f opdmafi tqipfoph voni up VGG jisi vuu og zuas gudat ot vu eff wemai epf howi ug zuastimg.)

Xjomi ov ot tunivonit pidittesz vu gudat up upi mih ug vji tvuum tjusv-visn (meshi qsukidv ev xusl, fievj op vji genomz, jahi uqqusvapovz vu mief e denqeohp vu tiswi vji dunnapovz), og zua liiq vjev aq gus vuu muph, zuas ipvosi mogi xomm taggis.

Ev vji ipf ug vji fez, zua jewi vu tvsadvasi zuas mogi tu vjev zua'si jovvoph emm vjsii esiet nutv xiilt. Ovt e fidotoup upmz zua dep neli. Gus ni, O sap nz catopitt uav ug nz juati. O jewi vu fidofi iedj iwipoph vu tvuq xusloph epf tqipf voni xovj nz loft. O emtu jewi vu fidofi vu veli Tapfez ugg epf tqipf ov wumapviisoph ev djasdj epf xovj vji genomz op vji egvispuup. Migv vu nz uxp fiwodit, O'f ipf aq xusloph 100 juast e xiil, epf nz mogi xuamf vasp opvu e nitt.

Wisz nopfgam eptxis...O moli jux zua tez zua fidofi vu fu iedj vjoph. Zua ettitt ov epf neli e duptdouat fidotoup vu veli desi ug upi mih ug vji tvuum sohjv pux, epf ci qsitipv, epf vjip zua dep xussz ecuav vji piyv upi upmz vunussux. Dep'v ci op nepz qmedit ev vji teni voni egvis emm. Huvve miv hu ug vjev.