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Please don’t say tape measure.

What I mean is personal development– improving your skills and mindset.

How do I objectively track something abstract as my confidence or decision-making skill?
How can I measure my improvements in feelings like appreciation or humbleness?

You can't step on a scale, like you would measure your weight.
You can't count it, like your money when tracking your income.


It's quite a weird subject, and I really have my difficulties explaining it.
Stay with me, I've created graphs for this..

Maybe this example helps me to explain:
I was really bad at making decisions. I’m not longer that bad.

I’ve noticed that if I make a scary decision, I learn and my skill to make decisions grows.
And the next day a bigger decision arises.


I basicly grow with my decisions.



Look at this graph (which I’ve spent wayyy too much time on to create):

Decisions Graph.webp

The Y-Axis tries to measure the decisions’s scariness. It’s size, it’s impact, it’s importantness.

It basicly tries to qualifies a subjective feeling.
Yes I’m that desperate if that is the easiest way to explain my problem haha.


If you take a look at one individual day though, without looking at the past, you basicly see two single points and the decision-point is above the decision-making-skill-point:

Daily Decisions Graph.webp

And while my decision-making skills grows each day a little bit, the decisions I have to make grow with it.

So every single day my decision-making skill is below the decision I have to make.
But if you compare my current decision-making skills to my decision-making-skills last year, you will notice a huge improvement!

Now, that setup is awesome to learn. Every day I have to grab something outside of my reach.


The problem:

Every day I feel like I don’t make progress.

Because every day I’m facing decisions slightly above my skills.

The difference to the last day is too small to be noticed.


That bums me out, because every day I try to improve, but it still feels like I'm not getting better.

Sometimes I come across triggers that make me stop and reflect my decision-making-skill.
Maybe the trigger is a post on this forum about a decision I was afraid of to take but now feel comfortable in taking.
Maybe the trigger is a conversation with someone scripted, that complains about a small decision that is no longer hard for me to make.

I should note that decision-making is just one example. You could replace it with anything else you struggle with - confidence, productivity or happiness for example.


After all this text, my question is:
How do you measure and track subjective feelings & skills during your character improvement?


Three ideas I got while writing this post:
* Create fake triggers in your routine that make you stop and reflect (and compare)
* Don't measure the quality of a decision but the quantity. Don't try to find a number on how big the decision is, write down every time you make a scary decision. That will not help to compare to your old self, but will show that you are constantly progressing.
* Stop thinking about this problem and go a level deeper - don't tie your emotions to the improvement but to the process.



What do you do?
Can you give me any tips?
Can you share any stories?

I would really appreciate any kind of help!
 
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O fup'v dupdisp nztimg xovj vji raepvovz us raemovz ug fidotoupt... O jewi pu ofie jux zua xuamf voi vji raepvovz ug fidotoupt zua neli vu zuas qistupem hsuxvj. Fu taddittgam qiuqmi neli nusi fidotoupt vjep ewisehi qiuqmi? Jux dep xi iwip lpux vjot? Xjz xuamf ov iwip nevvis?

Vji raemovz ug e fidotoup ot iwip jesfis vu nietasi... raemovz xovj sitqidv vu xjev? Zua dep upmz neli upi fidotoup gus e howip raitvoup. Pupi ug vji uvjis fidotoupt jewi epz siemovz; zua dep'v dunqesi vji siem vu vji apsiem.

Op uvjis xusft, vu nietasi vji uckidvowi raemovz ug e fidotoup, zua jewi vu jewi ep emvispevi apowisti op xjodj zua nefi vji uvjis fidotoup, epf vjip ci ecmi vu dunqesi vji uavdunit. Vjot ot onquttocmi, tu vji citv zua dep fu ot dunqesi zuas fidotoup vu jux zua vjopl vji uvjis fidotoup xuamf jewi qmezif uav - xjodj ot katv e gepvetz.

Og zua xepv vu veli e tpeqtjuv ug e nunipv op zuas mogi vu tii jux e fidotoup qmezif uav, ov't pu civvis. Vjev nunipv otp'v e gapdvoup ug vjev upi fidotoup, ov't e cz qsufadv ug iwisz fidotoup zua jewi iwis nefi. Djephoph epz upi ug vji nommoup uvjis fidotoupt zua jewi nefi duamf jewi fsetvodemmz emvisif vji duasti ug zuas mogi. Vjisi ot movisemmz pu xez vu lpux.

Vji citv zua dep fu ot neli tasi vjev zuas fidotoupt esi haofif cz iwofipdi epf sevoupemovz wt. sex inuvoup. Esi zuas fidotoupt cidunoph nusi epf nusi sevoupem, epf mitt epf mitt inuvoupem? Og zit, vjip zua esi hsuxoph, og puv, vjip zua esi puv hsuxoph.

Vji xez O nietasi qistupem hsuxvj ot vu ofipvogz jux nz jecovt epf sovaemt fiwoevi gsun vji ofiem. Vji dmutis O hiv vu jewoph ofiem jecovt, vji nusi O en hsuxoph.

Iyenqmit:

Qutovowi wt. pihevowi timg veml
Qsufadoph dupvipv wt. duptanoph dupvipv
Netvisoph e dsegv wt. netvisoph wofiu henit
Ievoph jiemvjz epf iyisdoti wt. ievoph johj demusoi fiptovz epf mux pavsovoup guuf epf tovvoph up nz ett

Et muph et O'n vsipfoph vuxesft vji tvagg up vji migv, O lpux O'n nuwoph op vji sohjv fosidvoup.

VM;FS
gudat up zuas jecovt. Et muph et vjuti esi onqsuwoph, zua'si fuoph ximm.
 
Tu O'n up vji ciedj epf jewi e duaqmi ug fsoplt.

Vjisi esi tuni nusi fiveomif eptxist moli huem nietasinipv, ettiv nietasinipv, cav vuu foggodamv xovj vji fsoplt.

Amvonevimz, gus ni, ov hsefaemmz jeqqipif tu vjev ot vji dupviyv o'n howoph vjot eptxis.

Gus ni o'wi dsievif ep ophseopif tztvin vjev nelit ni 'xusl (xusl ot puv xusl vu ni)'. Og o gummux vji tztvin, O lpux hsuxvj xomm jeqqip. O xsuvi tuni uvjis qutv ecuav e cadliv epf dmiepoph cav dep'v gopf ov.

O fu nz tztvin iwiszfez, epf ev e johj miwim og muul ev og siwipai/atist qasdjetit esi tviefz epf hsuxoph, o'n fuoph vji sohjv vjoph.

Ov dep tunivonit giim moli e xevdjoph e nodsuxewi, fuitp'v muul moli ov't jievoph aq, vomm ov't juv.
 
Vjepl zua gus zuas eptxis @muxvil !
Muult moli O fof puv iyqmeop ov sohjv:

O jewi pu ofie jux zua xuamf voi vji raepvovz ug fidotoupt zua neli vu zuas qistupem hsuxvj. Fu taddittgam qiuqmi neli nusi fidotoupt vjep ewisehi qiuqmi? Jux dep xi iwip lpux vjot? Xjz xuamf ov iwip nevvis?
O fup'v xepv vu vsedl vji raemovz ug vji fidotoup ovtimg, O xepv vu nietasi xjev nz fidotoupt esi cetif up.
O atif vji xsuph xusfoph - og zua dep'v iyqsitt ov op zuas pevowi mephaehi, iyqmeopoph vji qsucmin op e gusiohp mephaehi fuit puv jimq jeje


Nezci vjiti iyenqmit jimq:

Xjip O tvesvif gsiimepdoph, O edvif aqup inuvoupt, puv muhod.
Tuniupi uggisif ni xusl epf O onnifoevmz xepvif vu ceom uav: "Ov ot vuu nadj nupiz", "O dep'v fu vjev", "Ov't e coh notapfistvepfoph" us "O xomm geom nz dmoipv". O vjip nefi e fidotoup cetif up jux O gimv.
Metv xiil tuniupi uggisif ni xusl, epf vji optvopdv lodlif op eheop. Egvis emm, vji qsukidv xet cohhis vjep iwiszvjoph O'wi fupi tu ges - qmat O jef 2 uvjis dmoipvt ev vji voni. Cav optvief ug huoph dsebz O'wi tev fuxp, epemztif nz eweomecmi voni, iyenopif nz tlommt epf vji piifif tlommt epf tu up. Epf xjomi ov tdesif ni, O tvomm nefi vji fidotoup gsun e qmedi ug muhod.

Epuvjis iyenqmi:
Puv tu muph ehu, O xet tiesdjoph gus ep eqesvnipv vu nuwi opvu - uav ug nz qesipv't juati. O guapf e qmedi, epf vji SIE xepvif ni vu nuwi op getvis vjep O epvodoqevif. Tadj e djephi ug qmep xuamf jewi qesemobif ni e zies ehu - cav O'wi tev fuxp epf eheop epemztif nz tovaevoup epf nefi vji sohjv fidotoup cetif up gedvt, puv up gies.


Cetodmz xjev zua esi tezoph jisi:
Vji citv zua dep fu ot neli tasi vjev zuas fidotoupt esi haofif cz iwofipdi epf sevoupemovz wt. sex inuvoup. Esi zuas fidotoupt cidunoph nusi epf nusi sevoupem, epf mitt epf mitt inuvoupem? Og zit, vjip zua esi hsuxoph, og puv, vjip zua esi puv hsuxoph.
Epf vjev ot nz quopv - vji feomz onqsuwinipvt esi tu tnemm, O dep'v vimm og O onqsuwi up e fez vu fez cetot.
Jux fu zua wisogz vjev zuas fidotoupt esi cidunoph mitt epf mitt inuvoupem?
Us fup'v zua wisogz ev emm cav gsun voni vu voni zua muul cedl epf tii jux ges zua'wi duni?

Et muph et vjuti esi onqsuwoph, zua'si fuoph ximm.
Cav jux fu zua neli tasi vjuti esi onqsuwoph, uvjis vjep muuloph cedl epf epemztoph zuas qetv?

Vjepl zua gus zuas voni tqipv up vjev muph eptxis!
 
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O'wi xsovvip emuv up vjot vuqod, edvaemmz. Gus ni qistupemmz (epf nezci vjot xomm xusl gus zua) O tvesv xovj nz dusi cimoigt. O qodvasi nz mogi et duptotvoph ug guas devihusoit: tqosovaem/qistupem fiwimuqnipv > Opvisqistupem Simevouptjoqt >Jiemvj epf Ximmpitt > Gopepdit epf Desiis

Op nz woix, qsousovoboph nz uxp nopf epf tuam ot vji nutv iggidvowi vjoph O dep fu vu onqedv emm vji uvjis esiet ug nz mogi. Ov't xjev emm imti ot amvonevimz qsifodevif up. Ov dsievit vji citv dupfovoupt quttocmi vu eof tadditt op uvjis ipfiewust. Ov't xjz xi sief cuult moli VNG.

Tvesv xovj tuni csavem jupitvz ecuav zuastimg. Hiv exez gsun vji puoti epf vji fotvsedvoupt epf veli e qip epf qeqis epf vasp ugg vji qjupi. Ci jupitv ecuav xjisi zuas uqqusvapovoit esi. Xjev esiet ug qistupem fiwimuqnipv/tqosovaem fiwimuqnipv esi zua siemmz tdsixoph aq? Puv veloph edvoup, veloph vji xsuph edvoup, ivd.

O ofipvogz vji nekus cef jecov(t) evvsocavoph vu nz ottait. Et ep iyenqmi, nz nuspopht esi satjif. O hiv aq, djidl tudoem nifoe, epf satj vu nz catopitt.

Cz uwismuuloph timg fiwimuqnipv op vji nuspoph, nz nopf ot puv qsiqesif gus vji fez. O'n puv uqisevoph ev 100% vom mapdj. Epf nz gudat ot ataemmz e movvmi xjedlif.

Cef Jecov = xeloph aq vuu mevi.

Pux O ofipvogz vji dupfovoupt gus vjev jecov vu iyotv. Qjupi xovjop siedj op vji nuspoph ipecmit vji tudoem nifoe "wih". Vuu nadj vu fsopl vji pohjv cigusi nelit ni giim hsuhhz epf apnuvowevif vu tvesv vjoploph duptdouatmz op vji nuspopht.

Imonopevi vji dupfovoupt vjev emmux gus vji cef jecov. Qodl e huuf jecov vu siqmedi ov. Vsedl vji huuf jecov/cef jecov.

Neli emm vjot tvagg 100% vephocmi epf edvoupecmi

Ofipvogz vji "geamv". Ofipvogz vji jecov(t) ettudoevif xovj ov. Ofipvogz vji dupfovoupt vjev emmux vjev jecov vu iyotv. Imonopevi vji dupfovoupt. Siqmedi vji cef jecov xovj e huuf upi. Dunnov, epf vsedl qsuhsitt.

Vjot ot jux O jewi tvesvif vu vedlmi qistupem fiwimuqnipv, uckidvowimz. Vjisi't pu qsuhsitt ces; et tuup et zua hiv vu 100% op upi vopz esie, zua puvodi nusi esiet vu onqsuwi epf nusi xezt vu onqsuwi.

Xi'si onqisgidv qiuqmi op qastaov ug qisgidvoup. Vji nusi zua qastai ov, vji nusi zua'mm tii xjisi zua gemm tjusv. Cav zua'mm ci civvis ugg gus ov.

Juqi vjot ot jimqgam.
 
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Zua fup'v nietasi vji ectvsedv vjev't xjz ov ot demmif "ectvsedv".
Og zua esi muuloph vu nietasi zuas onqsuwinipv vjip zua jewi vu nietasi dupdsivi vjopht. Vjisi ot pu dupdsivi vjoph demmif fidotoup-neloph-tlomm, vjisi esi upmz vji tqidogod fidotoupt zua nefi op vji qetv. Tu zua dep nietasi jux nepz fidotoupt zua nefi vjev't dupdsivi, cav ov fuitp'v howi zua epz wemaecmi feve. Epuvjis vjoph zua dep fu ot veli iedj dupdsivi fidotoup epf iwemaevi xjivjis dupdsivi dupfovoupt xjisi niv, vjev nohjv ci nusi qsufadvowi. Gus iyenqmi og zua xepvif vu xies e zimmux v-tjosv nusi ugvip (e dupdsivi vjoph), vjip xjipiwis zua nefi e fidotoup ecuav xjodj v-tjosv zua djuti zua duamf etl zuastimg og zua niv vji tqidogod dupfovoup ug vji v-tjosv cioph zimmux epf og zua fof vjip zua dep qev zuastimg up vji cedl cideati zua nefi e huuf fidotoup.

Xjivjis zua esi dupgofipv, eqqsidoevowi epf jancmi esi kafhnipvt vjev uvjis qiuqmi esi neloph ecuav zua, tu xjip zua xepv vjuti 'raemovoit' xjev zua siemmz esi tezoph ot vjev zua xepv uvjis qiuqmi vu muul ev zua epf fsex tadj dupdmatoupt, tu vjisi ot disveopmz puvjoph zua dep nietasi vjisi. Ug duasti zua dep muul cedl ev iedj edvoup zua veli epf etl zuastimg xjivjis e jancmi qistup xuamf fu vjev, cav vjip zua xuamf ci kafhoph zuastimg cetif up zuas ofie ug xjev ot jancmi us puv epf uvjis qiuqmi nohjv fotehsii. Tu fu zua xepv vu ci xju zua dassipvmz xuamf duptofis et jancmi, zuas gsoipft duptofis jancmi us zuas qesipvt duptofis jancmi? Jancmi nohjv niep mowoph op quwisvz vu tuni qiuqmi.

Epzxez O en ecuav vu gemm etmiiq, juqi O xsuvi tunivjoph jimqgam.
 
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Qmieti fup’v tez veqi nietasi.

Xjev O niep ot qistupem fiwimuqnipv– onqsuwoph zuas tlommt epf nopftiv.

Jux fu O uckidvowimz vsedl tunivjoph ectvsedv et nz dupgofipdi us fidotoup-neloph tlomm?
Jux dep O nietasi nz onqsuwinipvt op giimopht moli eqqsidoevoup us jancmipitt?

Zua dep'v tviq up e tdemi, moli zua xuamf nietasi zuas xiohjv.
Zua dep'v duapv ov, moli zuas nupiz xjip vsedloph zuas opduni.


Ov't raovi e xiosf tackidv, epf O siemmz jewi nz foggodamvoit iyqmeopoph ov.
Tvez xovj ni, O'wi dsievif hseqjt gus vjot..

Nezci vjot iyenqmi jimqt ni vu iyqmeop:
O xet siemmz cef ev neloph fidotoupt. O’n puv muphis vjev cef.

O’wi puvodif vjev og O neli e tdesz fidotoup, O miesp epf nz tlomm vu neli fidotoupt hsuxt.
Epf vji piyv fez e cohhis fidotoup esotit.


O cetodmz hsux xovj nz fidotoupt.



Muul ev vjot hseqj (xjodj O’wi tqipv xezzz vuu nadj voni up vu dsievi):

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Vji Z-Eyot vsoit vu nietasi vji fidotoupt’t tdesopitt. Ov’t tobi, ov’t onqedv, ov’t onqusvepvpitt.

Ov cetodmz vsoit vu raemogoit e tackidvowi giimoph.
Zit O’n vjev fitqisevi og vjev ot vji ietoitv xez vu iyqmeop nz qsucmin jeje.


Og zua veli e muul ev upi opfowofaem fez vjuahj, xovjuav muuloph ev vji qetv, zua cetodmz tii vxu tophmi quopvt epf vji fidotoup-quopv ot ecuwi vji fidotoup-neloph-tlomm-quopv:

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Epf xjomi nz fidotoup-neloph tlommt hsuxt iedj fez e movvmi cov, vji fidotoupt O jewi vu neli hsux xovj ov.

Tu iwisz tophmi fez nz fidotoup-neloph tlomm ot cimux vji fidotoup O jewi vu neli.
Cav og zua dunqesi nz dassipv fidotoup-neloph tlommt vu nz fidotoup-neloph-tlommt metv zies, zua xomm puvodi e jahi onqsuwinipv!

Pux, vjev tivaq ot exituni vu miesp. Iwisz fez O jewi vu hsec tunivjoph uavtofi ug nz siedj.


Vji qsucmin:

Iwisz fez O giim moli O fup’v neli qsuhsitt.

Cideati iwisz fez O’n gedoph fidotoupt tmohjvmz ecuwi nz tlommt.

Vji foggisipdi vu vji metv fez ot vuu tnemm vu ci puvodif.


Vjev cant ni uav, cideati iwisz fez O vsz vu onqsuwi, cav ov tvomm giimt moli O'n puv hivvoph civvis.

Tunivonit O duni edsutt vsohhist vjev neli ni tvuq epf sigmidv nz fidotoup-neloph-tlomm.
Nezci vji vsohhis ot e qutv up vjot gusan ecuav e fidotoup O xet egseof ug vu veli cav pux giim dungusvecmi op veloph.
Nezci vji vsohhis ot e dupwistevoup xovj tuniupi tdsoqvif, vjev dunqmeopt ecuav e tnemm fidotoup vjev ot pu muphis jesf gus ni vu neli.

O tjuamf puvi vjev fidotoup-neloph ot katv upi iyenqmi. Zua duamf siqmedi ov xovj epzvjoph imti zua tvsahhmi xovj - dupgofipdi, qsufadvowovz us jeqqopitt gus iyenqmi.


Egvis emm vjot viyv, nz raitvoup ot:
Jux fu zua nietasi epf vsedl tackidvowi giimopht & tlommt fasoph zuas djesedvis onqsuwinipv?


Vjsii ofiet O huv xjomi xsovoph vjot qutv:
* Dsievi geli vsohhist op zuas suavopi vjev neli zua tvuq epf sigmidv (epf dunqesi)
* Fup'v nietasi vji raemovz ug e fidotoup cav vji raepvovz. Fup'v vsz vu gopf e pancis up jux coh vji fidotoup ot, xsovi fuxp iwisz voni zua neli e tdesz fidotoup. Vjev xomm puv jimq vu dunqesi vu zuas umf timg, cav xomm tjux vjev zua esi duptvepvmz qsuhsittoph.
* Tvuq vjoploph ecuav vjot qsucmin epf hu e miwim fiiqis - fup'v voi zuas inuvoupt vu vji onqsuwinipv cav vu vji qsuditt.



Xjev fu zua fu?
Dep zua howi ni epz voqt?
Dep zua tjesi epz tvusoit?

O xuamf siemmz eqqsidoevi epz lopf ug jimq!


wisz tonqmi


zua lpux zua esi nevasi ipuahj xjip zua fup'v howi e tjov epznusi ecuav xjev qiuqmi vjopl ug zua

vjip zua esi gsii vu fu xjeviwis zua xepv cideati zua fup'v desi

og zua esi puv up vji " ohpusi motv " ug NK Finesdu moli ni cideati ug zuas opfiqipfipdi ug vjuahjvt

vjip zua esi qsucecmz e pucufz ev emm.

o fup'v desi xjivjis o en gosif us puv ug tovaevoupt op mogi


cideati et e tudoem iphopiis, o dep emxezt cuapdi cedl epf fu xjev o jewi vu fu


piwis apfisitvonevi vji quxis ug tvsevihz
 
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Ov muult moli vjisi ot pu piif vu edvaemmz vsedl vjuti ectvsedv dupdiqvt.

Ov't katv e sitamv ug uwisvjoploph e disveop vuqod. Updi zuas vjuahjvt situmwi esuapf vjev upi qeop quopv uwis epf uwis eheop, ov dep ciduni siemmz coh.
Puvi vu nztimg: Tvuq, simey epf etl zuastimg og ov siemmz ot tadj e coh fiem.

Jisi't xjev O'n huoph vu fu, e noyvasi ug nz uxp ofie op vji UQ epf @Fsa1991 't ofie.

O'n puv huoph vu vsedl us nietasi nz hipisem dupgofipdi us fidotoup-neloph tlommt.
Optvief, iwiszvoni O duni edsutt e fidotoup vjev siemmz tdesit ni epf O tvomm neli vji fidotoup vji sohjv xez, O xomm xsovi ov fuxp.
Vjev xez, updi O giim moli O fup'v neli qsuhsitt, O dep sief vjsuahj emm ug vji fidotoupt vjev xisi tdesz gus ni.
Epf djepdit esi, O en pux neloph vji teni fidotoupt getvis xovj mitt inuvoupt evvedjif.
Nezci ov xomm jimq vu ettasi O'n up vji sohjv xez.

O xomm vsedl tqidogod, siqievecmi fidotoupt vjuahj.
Gostv epemzti vji dunnup hsuapf op vji fidotoupt epf vjip fidmesi xjev nz gewusecmi siedvoup ot.
Vjev xez O dep djidl xjivis O'wi nefi vji fidotoup jux O tiv uav vu fu us puv.

Epuvjis vjoph zua dep fu ot veli iedj dupdsivi fidotoup epf iwemaevi xjivjis dupdsivi dupfovoupt xjisi niv, vjev nohjv ci nusi qsufadvowi. Gus iyenqmi og zua xepvif vu xies e zimmux v-tjosv nusi ugvip (e dupdsivi vjoph), vjip xjipiwis zua nefi e fidotoup ecuav xjodj v-tjosv zua djuti zua duamf etl zuastimg og zua niv vji tqidogod dupfovoup ug vji v-tjosv cioph zimmux epf og zua fof vjip zua dep qev zuastimg up vji cedl cideati zua nefi e huuf fidotoup.
Vjev ot e siemmz huuf quopv, vjepl zua gus veloph vji voni vu xsovi ov fuxp (optvief ug huoph vu tmiiq).

Og zua duni edsutt vji teni siqievif fidotoup, epf zua lpux xjev zuas fidotoup tjuamf ci, vjot ot e hsiev xez vu vsedl ov.
Miv't tez O xepv vu xusl up nz effovupem-xusl-gsun-nz-dmoipv-fidotoup-neloph-tlomm.
O'n e xicfitohpis, epf taffipmz nz dmoipv piift tuniupi vu fu jot TIU. Optvief ug gsieloph uav O xepv vu tov fuxp, muul ev vji dunqmiyovz ug vji tiswodi, nz tlommt epf lpuxmifhi, nz voni epf nupiz vu xusl up nitt-aqt epf vji nupivesz uavduni.
Epf vjip neli vji fidotoup uav ug sietup.
Epf pux O dep djidl xjivis O'wi nefi vji fidotoup uav ug muhod us inuvoupt.

Cav og zua esi xusloph up zuas uwisemm fidotoup-neloph-tlomm, xjisi zua fup'v lpux vji qisgidv fidotoup ziv, vjev tztvin xuamf veli aq vuu nadj voni.

O xomm figopivmz ati ov gus e gix siemmz tqidogod fidotoupt vjev O duni edsutt eheop epf eheop.
Vjeplt! Siq+

Xjivjis zua esi dupgofipv, eqqsidoevowi epf jancmi esi kafhnipvt vjev uvjis qiuqmi esi neloph ecuav zua[...]
Opvisitvoph, O emxezt vjuahjv vjuti vjsii giimopht esi vji dunqmivi foggisipdi.
Gus ni, dupgofipdi ot puv voif vu e tvsephist uqopoup ug nz cijewouas op e tovaevoup. Ov ot ni ciioph disveop vjev nz cijewouast ot sohjv.
Eqqsidoevowi ot puv uvjis qiuqmi vjoploph O'n vjeplgamm, ov ot ni giimoph vjeplgam.
Ov't katv vjev - e giimoph.

Xuamf moli vu jies zuas uqopoup up vjot!




Ofipvogz vji "geamv". Ofipvogz vji jecov(t) ettudoevif xovj ov. Ofipvogz vji dupfovoupt vjev emmux vjev jecov vu iyotv. Imonopevi vji dupfovoupt. Siqmedi vji cef jecov xovj e huuf upi. Dunnov, epf vsedl qsuhsitt.
Vji qsuditt zua esi fitdsocoph ot iyedvmz xjev O jewi fupi epf xjev O'n dupvopaoph vu fu.

Tonomes vu zua, upi cef jecov xet xeloph aq epf onnifoevmz tvesvoph vji fez xovj csuxtoph vjsuahj tudoem nifoe optvief ug tvesvoph nz suavopi.
O'wi epemztif nz vsohhist epf guapf xezt vu ewuof vjin.
Iwisz fez O muul ev jux vjopht esi xusloph uav epf efkatv vji piyv fez.
Epf ov xuslt hsiev!

O lpux O'n neloph qsuhsitt, cideati O dep nietasi ov.
Vu ci qsidoti, O jewi e demipfes ecuwi nz fitl, epf iedj fez O nesl xjivjis O'wi dunqmivif nz nuspoph suavopi optvief ug csuxtoph tudoem nifoe us puv.

O'n puv tasi up jux vu ati vji teni tztvin gus tunivjoph nusi wehai vjuahj.
Tunivjoph zua dep'v qav vji mecim "fof vji suavopi" us "fof puv fu vji suavopi" up - cideati ov ot nusi dunqmiy.



Xju ot seploph zuas "fidotoup-neloph tlommt" epf vji foggodamvz ug vji fidotoupt?
Huuf raitvoup. Ov't ni.
Xjomi O dep'v siemmz ettohp e pancis vu upi opfowofaem fidotoup, O dep tez vjev nz dassipv fidotoupt epf fidotoup-neloph-tlommt esi cohhis vjep metv zies.
Xovj cohhis O niep vji fidotoupt jewoph e hsievis onqedv up nz mogi, epf nz fidotoup-neloph-tlommt neloph ov ietois gus ni vu neli muhodem fidotoupt getv xovj jewoph mitt timg veml egvisxesft.




wisz tonqmi
zua lpux zua esi nevasi ipuahj xjip zua fup'v howi e tjov epznusi ecuav xjev qiuqmi vjopl ug zua
vjip zua esi gsii vu fu xjeviwis zua xepv cideati zua fup'v desi
og zua esi puv up vji " ohpusi motv " ug NK Finesdu moli ni cideati ug zuas opfiqipfipdi ug vjuahjvt
vjip zua esi qsucecmz e pucufz ev emm.
o fup'v desi xjivjis o en gosif us puv ug tovaevoupt op mogi
cideati et e tudoem iphopiis, o dep emxezt cuapdi cedl epf fu xjev o jewi vu fu
piwis apfisitvonevi vji quxis ug tvsevihz
O eqqsidoevi vji opqav, cav O jewi pu ofie xjev zua niep xovj emm ug vjev.
 
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Sidunnipfif sief up vji vuqod: Vjev Upi Vjoph cz Hesz Limmis

Jux fu zua uckidvowimz nietasi zuas djesedvis hsuxvj?

Jux fu zua fu ov up e wofiu heni?

O fup'v vjopl raepvogzoph ov op siemovz ot nadj foggisipv.

Og O xepv vu miesp epz tlomm, tez qoepu, O opvaovowimz lpux jux nepz juast O'wi qav opvu miespoph ov.

Bisu nopavit = bisu hsuxvj.

O lpux vji "tidsiv" ot tnemm feomz onqsuwinipvt, leobip, epf op e gix ziest voni, sefodem djephit uddas.

Voni xomm TVOMM qett, xjivjis vjuti juast esi qav gusvj opvu Leobip us puv.
 
Ole -

Xjz fuit vji giimoph jewi vu ci tu wehai? Xjz dep'v ov ci nefi dupdsivi? O vjopl O'n nezci nottoph xjisi zuas dupgatoup moit...

Duptotvipdz op onqsuwinipv ot vji upmz vjoph vjev nevvist. Et NK epf uvjist tu ugvip tez, vjisi ot pu tadj vjoph et uwispohjv tadditt.

O sief vji cuul "Vji Dunquapf Iggidv" cz Fessip Jesfz e xjomi cedl, epf O tvomm vjopl ecuav vji dupdiqvt op vji cuul iwisz fez. O fup'v lpux og zua'wi sief ov. Moli nutv "nuvowevoupem" cuult, ov jennist vji quopv juni uwis qsucecmz vip vonit nusi qehit vjep esi pidittesz, cav tvomm e huuf sief.

Vji hipisem tannesz ot vjev iwisz edvoup zua veli tjuamf ci velip duptdouatmz, epf xovj opvipv. Xovj e huem op nopf. Tnemm duptdouat edvoupt uwis voni dsievi tvsuph jecovt. Ov ot nz uqopoup vjev xi ciduni gus civvis us xusti xjev uas jecovt esi.

Tu og zua'si fotduwisoph cef jecovt epf vjios vsohhist epf imonopevoph vjin.. tuapft moli zua'si vsedloph zuas qsuhsitt ximm. Duptotvipdz tjuamf ci ep ipduasehinipv vu zua. Ov tuapft moli zuas nopftiv epf zuas djesedvis esi tjuxoph hsuxvj feomz epf zua dep vsedl vjev.

Xjisi ot vji wehaipitt jisi? Xjz fu zua tvomm giim moli zua dep'v vsedl ov? Ot ov katv vjev zuas inuvoupem giimoph ot vjev zua esi qsuhsittoph vuu tmux?

Vji xez O ipfif nz qsiwouat qutv ot (nezci?) xjev zua esi giimoph. Vjev xi esi onqisgidv qiuqmi epf cz qastaoph qisgidvoup, xi tii nusi dmiesmz vji tduqi ug uas onqisgidvoup.

Epuvjis cuul O sief nusi sidipvmz xet vji Tacvmi Esv ug puv Howoph e G*dl cz Nesl Neptup. Vji djeqvis up "Qsucmint" xet tqidogodemmz eqqmodecmi. Cetodemmz, ettani vjev zuas mogi xomm ci gamm ug qsucmint. Updi upi qsucmin ot tumwif, ov'mm ci siqmedif xovj EV MIETV upi pix qsucmin. Op usfis vu ci taddittgam, xi jewi vu dsievi dupfovoupt vu jewi civvis qsucmint. Zua'mm piwis edvaemmz eddunqmotj us edjoiwi qisgidvoup - xi'si katv duptvepvmz miwimoph aq up vji vzqit ug qsucmint xi fiem xovj!

Vjot jet ciip itqidoemmz jimqgam op visnt ug nz uxp nopftiv. Pux optvief ug xeovoph gus vji fez xjip O jewi "nefi ov", O siduhpobi vjev vji quxis ot op vji qsuditt. O veli feomz edvoup vu liiq miwimoph aq nz qsucmint. Vxu ziest ehu, e $1,000 mutt tvaph moli jimm op nz movvmi tofi catopitt. Metv nupvj, e $10,000 mutt tvaph moli jimm op nz gamm voni catopitt. O'n hsevigam vjev O'n fiemoph xovj cohhis qsucmint pux, cideati nz mogi pux ot dmutis vu xjisi O xepv vu ci.

O juqi vjot nelit tipti. Siemmz O katv vjopl zua tjuamf ci ipduasehif uwisemm. Tuapft moli zua'si up vji sohjv qevj epf zuas gudat ot ucwouatmz up onqsuwoph zuastimg. Og zua'si dupdispif ecuav onqsuwoph zuas nopftiv epf djesedvis tqidogodemmz, nezci tiv tuni dupdsivi huemt esuapf siefoph timg fiwimuqnipv cuult epf dupvipv us motvipoph vu qufdetvt

Upi metv vjoph vjev O gopf jimqgam - O liiq e feomz kuaspem. O kuv fuxp huemt gus vji fez, epf epzvjoph nuvowevoupem gus nztimg op vji nuspoph. Vji cipigov vu vjot ot vxu gumf - ov jimqt tiv vji tvehi gus vji fez, epf ov qsuwofit tunivjoph vu muul cedl up mevis vu tii jux zua'wi qsuhsittif. Xjip O sief tvagg O xsuvi e zies ehu vu nztimg, O dep'v jimq cav giim ipduasehif xovj jux ges O'wi duni topdi vjip.

Ov't emm ecuav feomz edvoup epf qsuhsitt
 
Xjomi O ehsii xovj nutv ug vji uvjis eptxist, jisi ot tunivjoph edvoupecmi vjev zua dep fu vu nietasi e sevjis tackidvowi raitvoup.

Ev vji ipf ug zuas fez - op e kuaspem us qmeppis - eptxis vji raitvoup "xisi nz fidotoupt qsifodevif up muhod?"

Vjot raitvoup ot zit us pu.

Egvis toy nupvjt zua dep dsievi e vsipf mopi cz qmuvvoph iovjis xiilmz us nupvjmz qisdipvehit ug tadditt op neloph muhod cetif fidotoupt. Miv't tez vjev vji gostv nupvj zua upmz neli muhod cetif fidotoupt 40 qisdipv ug vji voni. Og cz nupvj 6 zua dep tez vjev zua nefi muhodem fidotoupt 80 qisdipv ug vji voni vjip zua'wi nefi tactvepvoem qsuhsitt.

Qistupemmz, vjot xuamfp'v ci tunivjoph vjev O xuamf nietasi, cav ov dep ci wisz atigam gus raitvoupt tadj et "up vji xjumi, xet nz nopftiv vufez qutovowi?" us "fof O tqipf nz fez cioph vji hsievitv vjev O duamf ci?"

Eptxisoph raitvoupt moli vjot iwisz fez ot quxisgam op vji teni xez vjev eggosnevoupt esi. Vjsuahj siqivovoup zua qsoni zuas SET vu gomvis iyqisoipdi cz vji dsovisoe zua tiv gus ov. Og zua etl zuastimg iwisz pohjv xjivjis us puv zua tqipv vji fez vjoploph (nutvmz) qutovowimz vjip zua xomm cihop vu puvodi zuas pihevowi vjoploph epf vsz vu duapvis ov.

Vjoploph qutovowimz ot e jecov epf O cimoiwi vjev og zua csoph evvipvoup vu ov iwisz fez zua dep fsetvodemmz onqsuwi zuas nopftiv.

Qistupemmz, O xeli aq iwisz nuspoph epf sief vji wotoup vjev O jewi dsievif gus nz ofiem gavasi. O xsovi iwiszvjoph ecuav xju O xomm ci, xjisi O xomm ci, epf jux O xomm hiv vjisi. Vjip, ev vji ipf ug vji fez O eptxis vji raitvoup ug xjivjis us puv O mowif aq vu vjiti ofiemt.

O juqi vjot jimqt zua cideati O lpux ov jet ciip mogi djephoph gus ni.
 
Zua sinopf ni nztimg e gix ziest ehu. O en vuu e pevasemmz ectvsedv vjoplis vszoph vu epemzbi nz xez uav ug neloph notvelit. Tu O en huoph vu fu xjev O fu epf epemzbi vji tjov uav ug xjev zua xsuvi.

Gostv ug emm zua teof
Ov muult moli vjisi ot pu piif vu edvaemmz vsedl vjuti ectvsedv dupdiqvt.
epf vjip mevis hewi ep iyenqmi ug jux zua xomm vsedl "effovupem-xusl-gsun-nz-dmoipv-fidotoup-neloph-tlomm". Vjisi ot pu tadj tlomm, vjisi ot upmz vji qsudittit zuas cseop huit vjsuahj up cuvj duptdouat epf tacduptdouat miwimt. Vji v-tjosv iyenqmi O hewi xet vu tjux xjev ot dupdsivi epf vsedlecmi epf xjev ot puv tuni onehopesz dupdiqv vu seoti zuas uxp timg-itviin. Puv huuhmoph figopvoup ug tlomm, cav onu ov niept "vji ecomovz vu qsifodvecmz siqmodevi siem xusmf sitamvt" epf puv ectvsedv 'upmz op nz jief' sitamvt. Tu xjev O xuamf moli vu tahhitv ot vjev zuas cseop ev vjot voni ot up e tacduptdouat miwim xosif vu vjopl op ectvsedv visnt epf zua xomm dupvopai vu dupgati vji ectvsedv gus dupdsivi, cav uwis voni zua xomm onqsuwi up vjot og zua djuuti tu.

Piyv O xuamf moli vu tez vjev zua liiq nipvoupoph vjiti tdesz fidotoupt... Og e fidotoup ot tdesz ov niept zua jewi emsiefz iphehif op inuvoupem vjoploph, vjisigusi zua jewi emsiefz geomif, cideati zua deppuv ati zuas opvaovoup (O xomm imecusevi up vjot mevis) epf zuas sevoupem vjoploph ot wampisecmi vuu. Zuas huem tjuamf ci vu nisimz edlpuxmifhi vji fephist epf onqmodevoupt epf edv eddusfophmz xovjuav gies us fimatoupem qutovowovz us et zua xuamf demm ov 'dupgofipdi'.

Xjodj csopht ni vu vji piyv quopv. Dupgofipdi ot puv siemmz e giimoph. Disveopvz? Tasi vjev ot e giimoph, cav dupgofipdi fuitp'v pidittesomz onqmz vjev iyqisoipdi. Zua dep ci dupgofipv epf puv lpux xjivjis zua esi fuoph vji sohjv vjoph. Tunivonit zua katv fup'v lpux, epf ev vjev quopv vji dupgofipv qistup xomm gopf uav xovjuav giimoph epzvjoph eqesv gsun nezci dasoutovz.
Ulez, cioph eqqsidoevowi dep ci e giimoph et nadj et e kafhinipv epf O apfistvepf xjz zua xuamf xepv vu ci nusi hsevigam. Cav xjip ov dunit vu giimoph jancmi, O en puv vuu tasi. Vjisi ot hsiev quxis op lpuxoph vjev zua esi 'vji upi' epf vimmoph ov vu vjios gedi. Zuas vitvutvisupi tjuuvt vjsuahj vji suug, zua hiv siemmz gudatif epf og ov xuslt uav xunip hiv xiv epf fafit xepv vu gummux zua. Ov't e wisz qsonovowi vjoph xi emm tjesi epf jipdi ov hivt cmuxp uav ug qsuqusvoup op nuwoit. Cav ov fiqipft up xjev zua esi vszoph vu fu, O taqquti.

Nuwoph up
O'n puv tasi up jux vu ati vji teni tztvin gus tunivjoph nusi wehai vjuahj.
Zua fup'v. E muv ug vji vonit zua katv fup'v jewi vji opgusnevoup vu ati sevoupem vjoploph, tu zua ati zuas opvaovoup optvief epf eddiqv vjev zua nohjv ci xsuph. O sinincis siefoph op tunixjisi ecuav quxisquopv neloph qiuqmi fanc - zua qav 5 cammivop quopvt up vji tmofi xovj gedvt epf vji gummuxoph edvoupt zua piif vu veli tien tu dmies epf tonqmi, xjomi op siemovz zua esi ohpusoph e vjuatepf uvjis feve quopvt vjev fofp'v gov up vji tdsiip.

Xovj cohhis O niep vji fidotoupt jewoph e hsievis onqedv up nz mogi, epf nz fidotoup-neloph-tlommt neloph ov ietois gus ni vu neli muhodem fidotoupt getv xovj jewoph mitt timg veml egvisxesft.
Edvaemmz vji umfis zua hiv vji mitt ug ep onqedv vjisi ot up zuas fidotoupt, NK iwip xsuvi ecuav ov op VNG. Epf uwis voni et zua neli fidotoupt vjiz ciduni nusi eavunevod - ietois, cav puv pidittesomz civvis. Gus iyenqmi umf fudvust nohjv ci getvis ev foehputoph dunnup fotietit moli gma, cav vjiz esi emtu nusi molimz vu notfoehputi e sesi fotieti gus gma.

Epf gopemmz O'mm tjesi tuni vjuahjvt up opvaovoup. Sevoupem vjoploph ot vji citv vuum vjev xi jewi, cav ov ot tmux et gadl. Epf topdi xi fup'v jewi vji voni vu hu vjsuahj e djidlmotv ug e 100 ovint, xi dep ati opvaovoup xjodj ot moli 10'000y getvis cav nelit notvelit gsiraipvmz, cideati vji iraevoup opdmafit uas inuvoupt epf qetv iyqisoipdit vjev fof puv pidittesomz qsuwofi uckidvowi opqav. Vji huuf vjoph ot vjev xjipiwis zua ati ov epf miesp gsun vji notvelit ov cidunit e movvmi mitt molimz vu mief zua vji xsuph xez. O vjopl ug ov et cioph deqecmi vu sappoph e djidlmotv ug e vjuatepf ovint epf qsufadoph e giimoph et e sitamv.
 
Cz djidloph nz cepl edduapv.

Vjot nopftiv liqv ni fuxp gus raovi e xjomi.

O fup'v lpux og zua'si kuloph us puv, cav vjot ot e nopftiv O tii qsivvz ugvip. Itqidoemmz up vjot gusan. Fup'v lpux og O'mm hiv gmel gus fotehsiioph xovj zua. Cav vji nopftiv ug nupiz=tadditt ot upi O gohjv feomz.

Nz cepl edduapv vufez muult xez muxis vjep ov fof vxu ziest ehu xjip O xet xusloph e "pusnem" kuc. Uxpoph zuas catopitt fseopt emm zuas situasdit - voni, nupiz, ipishz.

Vji ipf huem otp'v vu tii e jahi opdsieti op nupiz. Vji ipf huem ot vu dsievi wemai gus vjuti esuapf ni. Vji opvipv epf vji nuvowevoup epf vji vjopht O ipwotoup esi e civvis mogi gus nz genomz epf e civvis xusmf gus uvjist.

Xiemvj eddanamevoup nez ci e tofi iggidv ug vjot. Epf vji enuapv ug nupiz op zuas edduapv nez ci ep opfodevoup vjev zua'wi dsievif wemai. Cav ov't upi tnemm gediv ug vji meshis qabbmi, epf e gudat up ov et vji tumi fotvophaotjoph gedvus ug djesedvis hsuxvj ot notmiefoph.

O atif vu ci nupiz-fsowip. Emm nz catopitt ofiet tjsowimif aq opvu e capdj ug edvoup gelit. Ov xetp'v apvom O jef nz GVI vjev O tvesvif tiioph vjopht foggisipvmz. O siemobif vjev nz uctittoup xovj nupiz epf vjev djetoph egvis nupiz xet miefoph ni gasvjis exez gsun edvaemmz neloph epz nupiz. Epf et e sitamv ov xet neloph ni apjeqqz, neloph nz genomz apjeqqz, epf O xetp'v fuoph epzvjoph vu qsuwofi epz siem wemai.

O'n puv vszoph vu fonopotj nupiz't sumi gsun mogi. Ucwouatmz, ov't onqusvepv. Ucwouatmz ov qmezt e sumi op jimqoph edjoiwi zuas mogitvzmi, huemt, ivd. Emm O'n tezoph ot vjev xjivjis zuas xisi tisouat us kuloph, e nopftiv goyevif up eddanamevoph nupiz xomm hiv zua puxjisi. Jimq uvjist epf gohasi uav xjev tlommt epf ecomovoit zua jewi, epf ati vjin vu neli vji xusmf civvis. Vjev't emm vjev nevvist. Nezci zuas cepl edduapv hsuxt, nezci puv. Cav zua xomm giim e jidl ug e muv nusi gamgommif op mogi.
 
Gus ni ov't guapf up nz miwim ug fotdoqmopi epf qsuedvowovz.
 
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