Three areas I'm trying to focus on...
1) Relationships / Dating
As a 24 year-old adult man, this is IMMENSELY important in my books. If I lack in this area, I become lonely, miserable, and unhappy. I've recently been stepping up my "dating" game - going out and meeting girls, getting numbers, doing a lot of texting, planning & going on dates, etc. This is VERY exhausting and takes a lot of mental energy and time though.
My ambition:
I have ambitions to become extraordinarily good with women, pickup, and seduction. If I focused all my efforts into this area, I could probably yield A LOT more success. Thing is, full-time in this means a lack in other areas.
2) Health / Fitness / Beauty
I'm debating whether this area or Relationships/Dating is more important - but I'm going to gear more towards this. Health, fitness, and beauty - is #1. Without proper or good health, nothing else can be experienced. Good health gives you energy to do things. Beauty is a strong form of attraction and helps with your dating game, period. An attractive body gives you confidence - which again, CAN lead to a stronger dating game and healthier relationships.
I make it a habit to workout daily. My ambition is to get into the best shape. The biggest time sucks in this area are eating/prepping good & healthy food, and working out daily. That's not a huge time commitment for probably THE most important area of life, so I'm more than happy expending that time.
My ambition:
I have ambitions to build an extraordinary physique and gain lean muscle. Greek god / Brad Pitt / Bruce Lee, kind of physique. I'm not overweight or underweight - so this is definitely achievable for me; and I know I can achieve this in a relatively quick time if I focused more time into it.
3) Wealth / Business
This is the 3rd important area for me - but I'm starting to realize how important it is relative to other areas. Money alone doesn't bring happiness - but it allows you to do so much more things that can generate or lead to happiness.
My ambition:
I have ambitions to create my own startup, run my own businesses, and retire young. I've been entrepreneurial since I was 12 years old; have skills in product design, UX/UI & online marketing & hustle/execution - so this is definitely achievable for me and not out-of-stretch. Once again though...by focusing all my efforts into Wealth/Business, I start lacking in the other 2 areas. Not good at all.
Summary:
In a nutshell, I want to be in the best shape of my life, become a successful business/startup owner, and extraordinarily good with women. Is this possible?
My big question is...for those who are doing so successfully, how the hell are you managing a balance in these 3 areas? What everyday processes and/or routines make you effective in doing so?
1) Relationships / Dating
As a 24 year-old adult man, this is IMMENSELY important in my books. If I lack in this area, I become lonely, miserable, and unhappy. I've recently been stepping up my "dating" game - going out and meeting girls, getting numbers, doing a lot of texting, planning & going on dates, etc. This is VERY exhausting and takes a lot of mental energy and time though.
My ambition:
I have ambitions to become extraordinarily good with women, pickup, and seduction. If I focused all my efforts into this area, I could probably yield A LOT more success. Thing is, full-time in this means a lack in other areas.
2) Health / Fitness / Beauty
I'm debating whether this area or Relationships/Dating is more important - but I'm going to gear more towards this. Health, fitness, and beauty - is #1. Without proper or good health, nothing else can be experienced. Good health gives you energy to do things. Beauty is a strong form of attraction and helps with your dating game, period. An attractive body gives you confidence - which again, CAN lead to a stronger dating game and healthier relationships.
I make it a habit to workout daily. My ambition is to get into the best shape. The biggest time sucks in this area are eating/prepping good & healthy food, and working out daily. That's not a huge time commitment for probably THE most important area of life, so I'm more than happy expending that time.
My ambition:
I have ambitions to build an extraordinary physique and gain lean muscle. Greek god / Brad Pitt / Bruce Lee, kind of physique. I'm not overweight or underweight - so this is definitely achievable for me; and I know I can achieve this in a relatively quick time if I focused more time into it.
3) Wealth / Business
This is the 3rd important area for me - but I'm starting to realize how important it is relative to other areas. Money alone doesn't bring happiness - but it allows you to do so much more things that can generate or lead to happiness.
My ambition:
I have ambitions to create my own startup, run my own businesses, and retire young. I've been entrepreneurial since I was 12 years old; have skills in product design, UX/UI & online marketing & hustle/execution - so this is definitely achievable for me and not out-of-stretch. Once again though...by focusing all my efforts into Wealth/Business, I start lacking in the other 2 areas. Not good at all.
Summary:
In a nutshell, I want to be in the best shape of my life, become a successful business/startup owner, and extraordinarily good with women. Is this possible?
My big question is...for those who are doing so successfully, how the hell are you managing a balance in these 3 areas? What everyday processes and/or routines make you effective in doing so?
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