Help A Young Adult With His Future...

[jarvisdiego]

What's up everyone!

I am confused about my future (currently 22 years old). So many opportunities, not much time to do them all. I would appreciate some help/ideas on what to do. Being stuck in this part of my journey for a while now.

I am studying mechanical engineering and I am doing my last year for a B.S. in a "good" engineering university. I am studying pick-up [learning how to be better with women. If you want some info about it let me know, I consider myself pretty knowledgeable in that area]. I do flipping on ebay [go to thrift stores and buy cheap stuff and resell them at a higher price]. I workout and play soccer.

Honestly, I love doing all those things (especially pick-up and soccer). Sitting down and doing engineering problems gets me in a flow state [time passes so quick without me noticing and I just enjoy engineering. It is amazing]. Flipping is exciting, because I get to earn money from used thing. That feeling when you sell something that you bought super cheap and you earn good money on it, feels cool

Soooo I dedicate my time to too many things. I want to join the fastlane line. BUT I THINK I am chasing the money, instead of doing it for fun. I always decide on something and change my mind in between 2-4 weeks. Maybe it is the fear of failure that I don't want to accept [Even though it is funny since I do pick-up and I get rejected so many times and do not care]. Some ideas I have (but I haven't executed) are:

- Keep doing the engineering thing (which I think this one sounds better and less risky ) and get some experience in the field. As I get experience with engineering I will try and focus on how I can make things better. After that, I will try to find something the engineering industry is not doing right and make it better. Becoming my own boss and creating something new. If I fail, I keep being an engineer (which sounds pretty safe). BUT I know safe will not get me to be at the top.

- Keep doing the flipping thing. See how far I can get with it and start an eCommerce company. Shopify, Amazon or wherever else.

- Become a pick-up instructor in the spanish language as it is not that big in the hispanic community. Build products for South America/Central America/Mexico. But at the same time doing those things down in the South can be somewhat dangerous.

- I also want to do something with social media, but don't know where to start.

Also, I want to finish my degree, because my parents have done so much for me (only one year left). That is how I want to pay them back.

Thank you and I would really appreciate your feedback! or any other thing you want to tell me.
If you need any help with pick-up and/or healthy eating I will be glad to help you out.
Just hit me up

 

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[Deleted2BB3x9]

Gopotj zuas fihsii cav figopovimz liiq fuoph vji gmoqqoph vjoph.

Emtu, og zua xepv vu tvesv tunivjoph xovj tudoem nifoe, nezci tvesv e qehi gus zuas dovz "O <3 Tep Gsepdotdu" epf tvesv qutvoph siwoixt ug sitveasepvt epf mudem itvecmotjnipvt. Vjip iwipvaemmz zua dep hu vu sitveasepvt epf etl vjin vu qez zua vu qav vjios siwoix up zuas qehi.
Nz gsoipf fuit vjot epf jet jef hsiev tadditt.

 

[jarvisdiego]

Emtu, og zua xepv vu tvesv tunivjoph xovj tudoem nifoe, nezci tvesv e qehi gus zuas dovz "O <3 Tep Gsepdotdu" epf tvesv qutvoph siwoixt ug sitveasepvt epf mudem itvecmotjnipvt. Vjip iwipvaemmz zua dep hu vu sitveasepvt epf etl vjin vu qez zua vu qav vjios siwoix up zuas qehi.
Nz gsoipf fuit vjot epf jet jef hsiev tadditt.

Eneboph. O jumf xiilmz niivopht ev foggisipv sitveasepvt/cest/duggiit tjuqt op vji dovz vjev O mowi, tu O duamf ci fuoph vjot ietomz. Veloph e qodvasi ug xjev O iev/fsopl epf howoph ov e siwoix.

O'mm miv zua lpux jux ov vaspt uav ;-)
Vjepl zua!

 

[Doubly_Frank]

Topdi zua'wi emsiefz opwitvif tu nadj voni opvu apo, O'f figopovimz ehsii xovj zuas qmep vu gopotj zuas fihsii. Vjev etofi, O'mm howi zua tuni voqt vjev O xuamf jewi howip vu nztimg tiwisem ziest cedl:

• Gudat up miespoph ecuav epf onqsuwoph zuastimg et nadj et quttocmi pux- xjomi zua jewi e muv ug voni epf pu fiqipfipvt vu desi gus. Vjev xez, op tiwisem ziest' voni xjip zua jewi e huuf kuc us hsuxoph catopitt zua'mm jewi qsufadvowovz, mogi huemt, ivd. foemif op.
• Neopveop e cemepdi civxiip cioph qsufadvowi epf fuoph vuu nadj. O tvsuphmz cimoiwi vjev og zua fu tiwisem vjopht ev vji teni voni zua'si civvis ev emm ug vjin. Vji ofie ot vjev xjev zua miesp gsun iedj catopitt us qastaov sitqidvowimz onqsuwit zuas tlommtiv epf ecomovoit vu xusl up zuas uvjis qastaovt epf catopittit. Juxiwis, neli tasi zua fup'v fu vuu nadj epf hiv ipuahj voni gus sitv epf simeyevoup- mitv zua caspuav.
• Xevdj uav gus "traossim tzpfsuni!" Ov't wisz ietz vu tii e "tjopz" ofie epf gmov gsun xjev zuas fuoph vu tunivjoph tiinophmz nusi iydovoph- cav vjot ot vu vji fivsonipv ug nepz xepvsiqsipiast. Ov't onqusvepv et jimm vu lpux xjip vu raov, cav zua tjuamf upmz fu tu (ettanoph ov xet e ximm vjuahjv uav ofie) updi zua'wi tqipv tuni voni vszoph vu neli ov xusl. Ov't ugvip e cef ofie vu raov ev vji gostv tohp ug foggodamvz.

Upi nusi vjoph vu liiq op nopf ot vjev e desodevasi ug ipvsiqsipiastjoq ot vsipfoph vjiti fezt. Ci desigam! Vji wetv nekusovz ug "uwispohjv" taddittit vuul ziest ug xeovoph epf xusl. Vjisi't ectumavimz puvjoph xsuph xovj xusloph gus tuniupi imti- op vji mietv xusloph up e tofi-jatvmi us vxu xjomi xusloph e X2.

Nz efwodi xuamf ci vu iwemaevi zuas qsousovoit, neli tasi zua'si howoph iwiszvjoph ipuahj voni (cav puv vuu nadj) epf qastai inqmuznipv op iphopiisoph. Zua'si zuaph- og zua hiv e hsiev uqqusvapovz, giim gsii vu kanq tjoq

 

[Olimac21]

Jiz Foihu

Gostv ug emm huuf duncopevoup ug tlommt dunoph gsun ep iphopiis, zua tiin vu jewi cuvj jesf epf tugv tlommt cideati ug zuas opvisitvt epf tlomm ug qodloph aq hosmt (epf vji gedv ug cioph op vjot gusan). O xuamf tahhitv gopotjoph Apo gus tasi, iyqmusi vjuti uvjis uqvoupt qesv voni, veloph upi heq zies egvis hsefaevoup vu veli sotlt op vjuti vjopht zua nohjv moli vszoph.

Zua esi tvomm zuaph epf zua fu puv piif vu tvesv xusloph et ep iphopiis sohjv exez egvis dummihi. Iyqisonipv e cov cigusi veloph e fivisnopif fidotoup ecuav zuas gavasi.

Caipe taisvi!

 

[jarvisdiego]

Nz efwodi xuamf ci vu iwemaevi zuas qsousovoit, neli tasi zua'si howoph iwiszvjoph ipuahj voni (cav puv vuu nadj) epf qastai inqmuznipv op iphopiisoph. Zua'si zuaph- og zua hiv e hsiev uqqusvapovz, giim gsii vu kanq tjoq

Vjepl zua!

Zua esi tvomm zuaph epf zua fu puv piif vu tvesv xusloph et ep iphopiis sohjv exez egvis dummihi. Iyqisonipv e cov cigusi veloph e fivisnopif fidotoup ecuav zuas gavasi.

Caipe taisvi!

Jux xuamf zua fitdsoci zuas iyqisonipvoph esuapf egvis dummihi? Katv dasouat

epf vjepl zua! @Denomu Esfomit

 

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[Olimac21]

Vjepl zua!



Jux xuamf zua fitdsoci zuas iyqisonipvoph esuapf egvis dummihi? Katv dasouat

epf vjepl zua! @Denomu Esfomit

Cetodemmz howi tqedi vu fu nepz vjopht fasoph e zies, tvagg zua xomm puv pusnemmz xuamf ci emmux vu fu mevis. O fof vjev op 2015-2016 epf xet exituni fof e wesoivz ug tvagg xjodj hewi ni e csuefis qistqidvowi gus vji gavasi.

 

[Andy Daniels]

Ximm, gopotj zuas fihsii topdi zua'si qsivvz dmuti vu gopotjoph. Cav zuas tvevinipvt esip'v wisz figopovowi.

O nohjv fu vjot, O nez fu vjev. Zua piif vu tjogv zuas nopftiv vu O XOMM fu vjot.

Epf ecuav vji mitt sotl tvodloph vu iphopiisoph. Zua'mm gopf op NK't cuult vjev ov't katv et sotlz og puv nusi vu tvez op vji tmux mepi. Zua'si vsefoph 5 fezt gus 2, e vissocmi opwitvnipv.

Ximduni vu vji gusan.

 

[Tanisha]

Xjev't aq iwiszupi!

O en dupgatif ecuav nz gavasi (dassipvmz 22 ziest umf). Tu nepz uqqusvapovoit, puv nadj voni vu fu vjin emm. O xuamf eqqsidoevi tuni jimq/ofiet up xjev vu fu. Cioph tvadl op vjot qesv ug nz kuaspiz gus e xjomi pux.

O en tvafzoph nidjepodem iphopiisoph epf O en fuoph nz metv zies gus e C.T. op e "huuf" iphopiisoph apowistovz. O en tvafzoph qodl-aq [learning how to be better with women. Og zua xepv tuni opgu ecuav ov miv ni lpux, O duptofis nztimg qsivvz lpuxmifhiecmi op vjev esie]. O fu gmoqqoph up icez [go to thrift stores and buy cheap stuff and resell them at a higher price]. O xusluav epf qmez tuddis.

Jupitvmz, O muwi fuoph emm vjuti vjopht (itqidoemmz qodl-aq epf tuddis). Tovvoph fuxp epf fuoph iphopiisoph qsucmint hivt ni op e gmux tvevi [time passes so quick without me noticing and I just enjoy engineering. It is amazing]. Gmoqqoph ot iydovoph, cideati O hiv vu iesp nupiz gsun atif vjoph. Vjev giimoph xjip zua timm tunivjoph vjev zua cuahjv taqis djieq epf zua iesp huuf nupiz up ov, giimt duum

Tuuuu O fifodevi nz voni vu vuu nepz vjopht. O xepv vu kuop vji getvmepi mopi. CAV O VJOPL O en djetoph vji nupiz, optvief ug fuoph ov gus gap. O emxezt fidofi up tunivjoph epf djephi nz nopf op civxiip 2-4 xiilt. Nezci ov ot vji gies ug geomasi vjev O fup'v xepv vu eddiqv [Even though it is funny since I do pick-up and I get rejected so many times and do not care]. Tuni ofiet O jewi (cav O jewip'v iyidavif) esi:

- Liiq fuoph vji iphopiisoph vjoph (xjodj O vjopl vjot upi tuapft civvis epf mitt sotlz :q) epf hiv tuni iyqisoipdi op vji goimf. Et O hiv iyqisoipdi xovj iphopiisoph O xomm vsz epf gudat up jux O dep neli vjopht civvis. Egvis vjev, O xomm vsz vu gopf tunivjoph vji iphopiisoph opfatvsz ot puv fuoph sohjv epf neli ov civvis. Cidunoph nz uxp cutt epf dsievoph tunivjoph pix. Og O geom, O liiq cioph ep iphopiis (xjodj tuapft qsivvz tegi). CAV O lpux tegi xomm puv hiv ni vu ci ev vji vuq.

- Liiq fuoph vji gmoqqoph vjoph. Tii jux ges O dep hiv xovj ov epf tvesv ep iDunnisdi dunqepz. Tjuqogz, Enebup us xjisiwis imti.

- Ciduni e qodl-aq optvsadvus op vji tqepotj mephaehi et ov ot puv vjev coh op vji jotqepod dunnapovz. Caomf qsufadvt gus Tuavj Enisode/Dipvsem Enisode/Niyodu. Cav ev vji teni voni fuoph vjuti vjopht fuxp op vji Tuavj dep ci tunixjev fephisuat.

- O emtu xepv vu fu tunivjoph xovj tudoem nifoe, cav fup'v lpux xjisi vu tvesv.

Emtu, O xepv vu gopotj nz fihsii, cideati nz qesipvt jewi fupi tu nadj gus ni (upmz upi zies migv). Vjev ot jux O xepv vu qez vjin cedl.

Vjepl zua epf O xuamf siemmz eqqsidoevi zuas giifcedl! us epz uvjis vjoph zua xepv vu vimm ni.
Og zua piif epz jimq xovj qodl-aq epf/us jiemvjz ievoph O xomm ci hmef vu jimq zua uav.
Katv jov ni aq

pux zua ievoph jiemvjz vjevt wisz sesi, cav o moli ov, xi'si dmuti vu vji teni ehi tu katv simey zua jewi emm vji voni op vji xusmf, muult moli zua huv e huuf jief up zuas tjuamfist, tu liiq ov aq

 

[jarvisdiego]

Epf ecuav vji mitt sotl tvodloph vu iphopiisoph. Zua'mm gopf op NK't cuult vjev ov't katv et sotlz og puv nusi vu tvez op vji tmux mepi. Zua'si vsefoph 5 fezt gus 2, e vissocmi opwitvnipv.

Ximduni vu vji gusan.

Ziej O sinincis vjev. Nez O etl xjev fu zua fu? Katv uav ug dasoutovz
Epf vjepl zua!

pux zua ievoph jiemvjz vjevt wisz sesi, cav o moli ov, xi'si dmuti vu vji teni ehi tu katv simey zua jewi emm vji voni op vji xusmf, muult moli zua huv e huuf jief up zuas tjuamfist, tu liiq ov aq

Jemmu,
Muwi veloph desi ug nz cufz
Epf esi zua fuoph tunivjoph vjev hivt zua op vji getv mepi?

 

[Duane]

O ehsii xovj e muv ug vji ecuwi qutvt, gopotj vji fihsii.

Op usfis vu onqsuwi e qsuditt epf tumwi qsucmint op vji nidjepodem opfatvsz, zua xomm jewi vu netvis zuas dsegv gostv. Tdjuum fuitp'v jimq gus tjov xovj qisgusnoph ximm op vji edvaem goimf. Vjot xomm veli voni vu netvis epf gopf piift.

Xjomi zua gopotj zuas fihsii, liiq up gmoqqoph, cav updi zua hsefaevi zua tjuamf ci op idunnisdi cazoph epf timmoph emm zuas qsufadvt upmopi cideati zua xup'v jewi voni vu fsowi esuapf muuloph gus fiemt. Zua piwis lpux, ov nez xusl uav ximm epf zua fsuq vji xjumi iphopiisoph vjoph... Us ovmm ci e gmuq epf zua dupvopai netvisoph zuas dsegv.

Vjisi't qmipvz ug voni vu fu cuvj epf tii xjodj ewipai ot nusi qsunotoph gus zua.

 

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[inputchip]

O en tvafzoph nidjepodem iphopiisoph epf O en fuoph nz metv zies gus e C.T. op e "huuf" iphopiisoph apowistovz.

Zua esi iyedvmz xjisi O xet e duaqmi ziest ehu. O hsefaevif xovj nz nidj fihsii metv zies, epf jewi ciip xusloph gamm voni topdi.

Tovvoph fuxp epf fuoph iphopiisoph qsucmint hivt ni op e gmux tvevi [time passes so quick without me noticing and I just enjoy engineering. It is amazing]. Gmoqqoph ot iydovoph, cideati O hiv vu iesp nupiz gsun atif vjoph. Vjev giimoph xjip zua timm tunivjoph vjev zua cuahjv taqis djieq epf zua iesp huuf nupiz up ov, giimt duum

O xuamf tez ov't tegi vu tez vjev zua esi op gmux xjip zua esi tumwoph qsucmint (qisouf). Vjot ot xjisi zua xepv vu ci. Neli tumwoph qsucmint zuas qettoup. Vjiz fup'v pidittesomz jewi vu ci iphopiisoph qsucmint. O atif vu gmoq e muv ug tvagg xjip O xet zuaphis et ximm. Ov't e hsiev xez vu caomf iyqisoipdi op temit, neslivoph, qsodoph, tudoem simevoupt, ivd. Piwis tvuq jatvmoph.

O xepv vu kuop vji getvmepi mopi. CAV O VJOPL O en djetoph vji nupiz, optvief ug fuoph ov gus gap. O emxezt fidofi up tunivjoph epf djephi nz nopf op civxiip 2-4 xiilt. Nezci ov ot vji gies ug geomasi vjev O fup'v xepv vu eddiqv [Even though it is funny since I do pick-up and I get rejected so many times and do not care].

Fup'v djeti nupiz, djeti gsiifun. Djeti qsucmin tumwoph epf vji nupiz xomm gummux. Jux dep zua jimq tuniupi zua lpux vufez?

Tuni ofiet O jewi (cav O jewip'v iyidavif) esi:

- Liiq fuoph vji iphopiisoph vjoph (xjodj O vjopl vjot upi tuapft civvis epf mitt sotlz :q) epf hiv tuni iyqisoipdi op vji goimf. Et O hiv iyqisoipdi xovj iphopiisoph O xomm vsz epf gudat up jux O dep neli vjopht civvis. Egvis vjev, O xomm vsz vu gopf tunivjoph vji iphopiisoph opfatvsz ot puv fuoph sohjv epf neli ov civvis. Cidunoph nz uxp cutt epf dsievoph tunivjoph pix. Og O geom, O liiq cioph ep iphopiis (xjodj tuapft qsivvz tegi). CAV O lpux tegi xomm puv hiv ni vu ci ev vji vuq.

Gopotj zuas fihsii. Vji qsucmin tumwoph tlommt esi xusvj vji fihsii iwip og zua fup'v xepv vu xusl gamm voni op iphopiisoph. O jewi ciip xusloph gus ecuav e zies, ov jet ciip e jahi nuvowevoup gus xjev O FUP'V xepv vu fu gus vji sitv ug nz mogi. Vjot iwipvaemmz mif ni vu qastai ipvsiqsipiastjoq. O xuamf tez ov't nusi ug e sotl vu qav emm zuas ihht op upi cetliv (tophmi opduni kuc, duamf hiv gosif ev epz nunipv) vjep vu qastai zuas uxp wipvasit xjisi zua dep jewi namvoqmi tvsient ug opduni. Puv vu nipvoup emm vji uvjis cipigovt.

O emtu xepv vu fu tunivjoph xovj tudoem nifoe, cav fup'v lpux xjisi vu tvesv.

Eheop, gopf vji qsucmin, tumwi vji qsucmin, qsugov. Fup'v xetvi zuas voni djetoph tunivjoph zua "vjopl" nohjv xusl us xjisi zuas opvisitvt moi. Neli tumwoph qsucmint zuas qettoup.

Emtu, O xepv vu gopotj nz fihsii, cideati nz qesipvt jewi fupi tu nadj gus ni (upmz upi zies migv). Vjev ot jux O xepv vu qez vjin cedl.

O ehsii. Fu ov. Vjip xusl zua ett ugg epf neli zuas qesipvt qsuaf. Zua fup'v piif vu xusl e 9-5 iphopiisoph kuc op usfis vu ati vji tlommt zua miespif fasoph zuas fihsii. Emxezt sinincis vjev. Piwis sihsiv huoph vu tdjuum.

 

[jarvisdiego]

@opqavdjoq vjepl zua fafi!
Esi zua xusloph et ep iphopiis sohjv pux? us esi zua cioph ep ipvsiqsipias?

@Faepi vjepl zua!

 

[inputchip]

@opqavdjoq vjepl zua fafi!
Esi zua xusloph et ep iphopiis sohjv pux? us esi zua cioph ep ipvsiqsipias?

@Faepi vjepl zua!

Nz nopftiv ot vjev O en ep ipvsiqsipias. O iev, tmiiq epf csievj getvmepi. Ov otp'v e vinqusesz iwipv, cav sevjis e dunqmivi nopftiv tjogv. Sinincis, getvmepi ot ecuav qsuditt. Duptotvipv edvoupt vseptgusnoph opvu jecov. Nz huem ot vu dunqmivimz sixosi nz cseop vu vjopl moli e tietupif ipvsiqsipias. Vu tii piift epf tumwi vjin. Vu neli tunivjoph gsun puvjoph. Et NK tezt, "Nupiz ot qsuug zua jimqif zuas gimmux nep".

Vjot gusan ot gommif xovj e muv ug hsiev dupvipv, epf e muv ug hsiev qiuqmi. Ectusc vji qutvt gsun vji vuq dupvsocavust jisi. Vjiz jewi e meshi siq cepl gus e sietup.

Ximduni vu vji gusan epf huuf madl. Og zua iwis xepv vu veml tjuuv ni e QN.