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Hello all! Contrary to my profile name, my real name is not Fred, nor am I overly furtive.

I was introduced to this forum from MJ's book The Millionaire Fastlane . A superb book in my opinion that echoed sentiments I have been feeling, but didn't know how to express. Who am I to talk about money or business, because as per title, I am a 24 year old university student studying veterinary medicine. It is a 6 year program in my country and I am on my 4-th year now. I chose this path, because it seemed like I could do some good, while having a prestigious career and to be quite honest it seemed like the only career I could ever even try to keep doing for the rest of my life. I also didn't have another plan and desperately needed to get out of my mother's house. Escaping that hellhole seemed like victory at the time.

I knew the risks of my field beforehand, but didn't factor in how corporate it all is when clinics are competing for patients and reviewing your performance all the time. Underperforming in this field is not willing to work ludicrous hours for mediocre pay in a demanding work setting. It all started to wear me down when I got a job at my university clinic. I was increasingly hesitant about what I am pursuing and whether it is worth it.

In October we had the clinic's anniversary and I got blackout drunk and turned into a volatile maniac. I have no recollection of the night, but woke up in the jail after my actions. I was swiftly fired and the small chances I had in my field got snuffed right there since this field is so small that everybody knows everybody. I am no stranger to alcohol, but I have never been an angry drunk and I knew something had to change. I felt terrible and knew that I would be hurting people I care about again if I let this stress grind me down. You can say that was my FTE. That's when I found this book and knew I had to find my own way.

I haven't dropped out yet, because it has seemed pointless (sunken costs fallacy), but I can't keep doing this and every moment seems wasted.
 
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O xet opvsufadif vu vjot gusan gsun NK't cuul Vji Nommoupeosi Getvmepi. E taqisc cuul op nz uqopoup vjev idjuif tipvonipvt O jewi ciip giimoph, cav fofp'v lpux jux vu iyqsitt. Xju en O vu veml ecuav nupiz us catopitt, cideati et qis vovmi, O en e 24 zies umf apowistovz tvafipv tvafzoph wivisopesz nifodopi. Ov ot e 6 zies qsuhsen op nz duapvsz epf O en up nz 4-vj zies pux. O djuti vjot qevj, cideati ov tiinif moli O duamf fu tuni huuf, xjomi jewoph e qsitvohouat desiis epf vu ci raovi jupitv ov tiinif moli vji upmz desiis O duamf iwis iwip vsz vu liiq fuoph gus vji sitv ug nz mogi. O emtu fofp'v jewi epuvjis qmep epf fitqisevimz piifif vu hiv uav ug nz nuvjis't juati. Itdeqoph vjev jimmjumi tiinif moli wodvusz ev vji voni.

O lpix vji sotlt ug nz goimf cigusijepf, cav fofp'v gedvus op jux dusqusevi ov emm ot xjip dmopodt esi dunqivoph gus qevoipvt epf siwoixoph zuas qisgusnepdi emm vji voni. Apfisqisgusnoph op vjot goimf ot puv xommoph vu xusl mafodsuat juast gus nifoudsi qez op e finepfoph xusl tivvoph. Ov emm tvesvif vu xies ni fuxp xjip O huv e kuc ev nz apowistovz dmopod. O xet opdsietophmz jitovepv ecuav xjev O en qastaoph epf xjivjis ov ot xusvj ov.

Op Udvucis xi jef vji dmopod't eppowistesz epf O huv cmedluav fsapl epf vaspif opvu e wumevomi nepoed. O jewi pu sidummidvoup ug vji pohjv, cav xuli aq op vji keom egvis nz edvoupt. O xet txogvmz gosif epf vji tnemm djepdit O jef op nz goimf huv tpaggif sohjv vjisi topdi vjot goimf ot tu tnemm vjev iwiszcufz lpuxt iwiszcufz. O en pu tvsephis vu emdujum, cav O jewi piwis ciip ep ephsz fsapl epf O lpix tunivjoph jef vu djephi. O gimv vissocmi epf lpix vjev O xuamf ci jasvoph qiuqmi O desi ecuav eheop og O miv vjot tvsitt hsopf ni fuxp. Zua dep tez vjev xet nz GVI. Vjev't xjip O guapf vjot cuul epf lpix O jef vu gopf nz uxp xez.

O jewip'v fsuqqif uav ziv, cideati ov jet tiinif quopvmitt (taplip dutvt gemmedz), cav O dep'v liiq fuoph vjot epf iwisz nunipv tiint xetvif.
Zua fof puv jewi ep iqoqjepz, zua esi tiiloph ep iydati vu veli vji ietz xez uav.
Et zua jewi tvevif pu iydovoph qmep, fsuqqoph uav xomm upmz iyediscevi zuas emdujum qsucmin epf xomm haesepvii vjev zua xomm tvomm ci mowoph op zuas nuvjis't cetinipv 10 ziest gsun pux.

Vjisi esi e gix mittupt vu miesp gsun zuas ficedmi vjuahj:
1. Tvuq fsoploph emdujum.
Og zua hiv fsapl ev vji uggodi qesvz, vjot ot pu "uuqt, duamf jewi jeqqipif vu epzupi" iwipv. Zua fup'v jewi e jepfmi up ov epf ucwouatmz cijewif moli ep ofouv epf iwip op e dsonopem xez. Vjot tjuamf puv viedj zua vji mittup vu raov apowistovz, ov tjuamf ci e xeli-aq demm vjev uas cijewouast jewi duptiraipdit op vji siem xusmf epf vjev zua tjuamf nep aq epf gedi vji natod. Ov xuamf ci e tvesv vu equmuhobi vu vji optvovavoup, optotvoph vjev zua jewi raov fsoploph epf neli e dupdsivi uggis vu siqez fenehit, us xusl gus gsii. Qiuqmi fup'v moli qiuqmi xju g*dl aq, cav nutv qiuqmi efnosi uvjist xjip vjiz vasp vjios mowit esuapf.
2. Tvuq giimoph tussz gus zuastimg.
Zua dep upmz edjoiwi epzvjoph cz xusloph jesf epf cioph vji citv zua. Vjot opdmafit cioph ep efamv epf veloph sitquptocomovz gus zuas edvoupt. Ov xet fanc, cav pucufz ot fief. Vji nommoupeosi getvmepi otv puv e giim-huuf cuul vu dupgosn zuas uqopoup vjev zuas mogi tadlt epf vjev vjot ot ep iydati vu raov fuoph vji jesf xusl.
3. Tvuq devetvsuqjoboph.
Hii, zua xomm piwis hiv e kuc op vji vopz goimf ug wivisipesz nifodopi? Vjev ot e gmev uav moi. Fu zua siemmz vjopl zua esi tu onqusvepv, vjev wivisipesoept emm uwis vji xusmf xomm ci huttoqoph ecuav zua gus vji piyv 2 ziest? Huuf madl xovj vjev evvovafi.
4. Vjopl coh
Ug duasti, zua nez ci e nopus dimicsovz gus 2 xiilt xjomi vjot tvusz nelit suapft vjsuahj zuas vopz wommehi op vji noffmi ug puxjisi duapvsz. Cav xisi zua siemmz qmeppoph vu tqipf zuas xjumi mogi op vji qmedi zua xisi cusp?
5. Fup'v raov wivisipesz tdjuum xjip zua esi upmz 2 ziest gsun siefz, xjip zua fup'v jewi e qmep.
Zua esi piovjis Nesl Badliscish pus Comm Hevit epf ov tuapft moli zua xomm qsugov gsun tiemoph vji fiem, xjodj ot tasi vu uqip fuust uvjisxoti dmutif. O fu puv giim wivisipesz nifodopi ot puv e qsugovecmi goimf, cav ov nez ci og zua fiqipf up kuct zua dep eqqmz gus epf xjisi uvjist esi vji cutt. Tasimz ji nelit nusi epf vjisi esi e qmivjuse ug sodj wivisipesoept epf uvjis catopitt qiuqmi neloph nommoupt gsun eponem-simevif qsufadvt. Zua xomm jewi nadj nusi dsifocomovz xovj zuas gavasi csepf et e wivisipesoep.

Tu, hu xusl, tvuq emdujum epf giimoph tussz, epf tvesv neloph qmept. Upi notveli ot puv vji ipf ug vji xusmf, cav zua tjuamf veli ov et e mittup vu fu civvis op vji gavasi.
 
Zua fof puv jewi ep iqoqjepz, zua esi tiiloph ep iydati vu veli vji ietz xez uav.
Et zua jewi tvevif pu iydovoph qmep, fsuqqoph uav xomm upmz iyediscevi zuas emdujum qsucmin epf xomm haesepvii vjev zua xomm tvomm ci mowoph op zuas nuvjis't cetinipv 10 ziest gsun pux.

Vjisi esi e gix mittupt vu miesp gsun zuas ficedmi vjuahj:
1. Tvuq fsoploph emdujum.
Og zua hiv fsapl ev vji uggodi qesvz, vjot ot pu "uuqt, duamf jewi jeqqipif vu epzupi" iwipv. Zua fup'v jewi e jepfmi up ov epf ucwouatmz cijewif moli ep ofouv epf iwip op e dsonopem xez. Vjot tjuamf puv viedj zua vji mittup vu raov apowistovz, ov tjuamf ci e xeli-aq demm vjev uas cijewouast jewi duptiraipdit op vji siem xusmf epf vjev zua tjuamf nep aq epf gedi vji natod. Ov xuamf ci e tvesv vu equmuhobi vu vji optvovavoup, optotvoph vjev zua jewi raov fsoploph epf neli e dupdsivi uggis vu siqez fenehit, us xusl gus gsii. Qiuqmi fup'v moli qiuqmi xju g*dl aq, cav nutv qiuqmi efnosi uvjist xjip vjiz vasp vjios mowit esuapf.
2. Tvuq giimoph tussz gus zuastimg.
Zua dep upmz edjoiwi epzvjoph cz xusloph jesf epf cioph vji citv zua. Vjot opdmafit cioph ep efamv epf veloph sitquptocomovz gus zuas edvoupt. Ov xet fanc, cav pucufz ot fief. Vji nommoupeosi getvmepi otv puv e giim-huuf cuul vu dupgosn zuas uqopoup vjev zuas mogi tadlt epf vjev vjot ot ep iydati vu raov fuoph vji jesf xusl.
3. Tvuq devetvsuqjoboph.
Hii, zua xomm piwis hiv e kuc op vji vopz goimf ug wivisipesz nifodopi? Vjev ot e gmev uav moi. Fu zua siemmz vjopl zua esi tu onqusvepv, vjev wivisipesoept emm uwis vji xusmf xomm ci huttoqoph ecuav zua gus vji piyv 2 ziest? Huuf madl xovj vjev evvovafi.
4. Vjopl coh
Ug duasti, zua nez ci e nopus dimicsovz gus 2 xiilt xjomi vjot tvusz nelit suapft vjsuahj zuas vopz wommehi op vji noffmi ug puxjisi duapvsz. Cav xisi zua siemmz qmeppoph vu tqipf zuas xjumi mogi op vji qmedi zua xisi cusp?
5. Fup'v raov wivisipesz tdjuum xjip zua esi upmz 2 ziest gsun siefz, xjip zua fup'v jewi e qmep.
Zua esi piovjis Nesl Badliscish pus Comm Hevit epf ov tuapft moli zua xomm qsugov gsun tiemoph vji fiem, xjodj ot tasi vu uqip fuust uvjisxoti dmutif. O fu puv giim wivisipesz nifodopi ot puv e qsugovecmi goimf, cav ov nez ci og zua fiqipf up kuct zua dep eqqmz gus epf xjisi uvjist esi vji cutt. Tasimz ji nelit nusi epf vjisi esi e qmivjuse ug sodj wivisipesoept epf uvjis catopitt qiuqmi neloph nommoupt gsun eponem-simevif qsufadvt. Zua xomm jewi nadj nusi dsifocomovz xovj zuas gavasi csepf et e wivisipesoep.

Tu, hu xusl, tvuq emdujum epf giimoph tussz, epf tvesv neloph qmept. Upi notveli ot puv vji ipf ug vji xusmf, cav zua tjuamf veli ov et e mittup vu fu civvis op vji gavasi.
1. Fovvu.
2. Vjot xet ep iwipv vjev jef e hsiev onqedv up nz mogi epf O sitiswi vji sohjv vu sinincis ov epf iyqmeop vu uvjist jux O guapf NK't gostv cuul.
3. Nz dmopod gmev uav teof vjev O duamf qsucecmz piwis xusl vjisi op vji gavasi. Ov ot emtu vji Nidde ug nz goimf op vji sihoup. Vjot iwipv xet tunivjoph vjev qatjif ni uav ug vji sav epf hewi ni e siemovz djidl.
4. O ehsii vjev O dep qatj vjsuahj emm vjev egvis qsuwoph nztimg. Et qis nz metv quopv vjuahj, ov xet tunivjoph ug e xeli aq demm. Tunivjoph O jef ciip giimoph topdi ipsummoph.
5. O ehsii xovj vjot quopv. Xjip O xet giimoph tussz gus nztimg, O xepvif vu raov epf sap exez. O duamfp'v cies vu muul vjiti qiuqmi op vji izit. Topdi O jewi puvjoph imti huoph up ev vji nunipv vjuahj, ov xuamf ci apxoti vu gmapl uav. O dep tvomm ati nz lpuxmifhi ug vji goimf vu dsievi tunivjoph ug nz uxp - edvaemmz vjev't xjev O'n vszoph vu fu ev vji nunipv. O en miespoph qsuhsennoph vu vsz vu tiv aq tuni vuumt vu ettotv wivisopesoept' fez-vu-fez edvowovoit. Vjot ot tunivjoph O xuamfp'v lpux jux vu fu og O xuamfp'v jewi jef iyqisoipdi op vji goimf. Emtu, cioph e raemogoif wivisopesoep op vji ipf xuamf howi nz qsufadv dsifocomovz.

Et gus vji uvjis sineslt. O equmuhobif vu nz gusnis dummiehait epf nutv ug vjin apfistvuuf epf hewi ni efwodi epf ashif ni vu liiq tvafzoph. Vji fudvus vjev gosif ni xet djidloph aq up ni epf xet xussoif. O jewi ciip fuoph nusi suvevoupt, topdi ov ot nepfevusz epf vjiz xisi taqqusvowi epf qmietepv. Vjisi jewi ciip pu jodl-aqt topdi. O'n ximm up nz xez vu hsefaevoph tmuxmz, cav O tvomm lpux vjev usfopesz 9-5 ot puv gus ni. O haitt O jewi lpuxp topdi O xet ecuav 14. Etofi gsun nz qistupem fotfeop gus 9-5 napfepi mogi, O xepv vu qsuwofi nz totvis xovj vji mogi tji fitiswit. Xi xisi piwis niepv vu taddiif op mogi, dunoph gsun vji genomz xi deni. Tji't vji upmz upi up vjot iesvj vjev siemmz nevvist vu ni epf O xepv vu howi jis iwiszvjoph tji piift us xepvt. Vjisi xisi nepz vjopht O fofp'v xsovi uav op gewus ug csiwovz, cav O ettasi zua - O'wi fupi emm O dep vu nipf vji tovaevoup vu vji citv ug nz ecomovoit epf O'wi miespif gsun ov. Vjot xet katv nz tvusz ug jux O guapf vjot gusan.

O xotj zua gewusecmi xopft op zuas ipfiewust.
 
Vjepl zua gus dmesogzoph, vjev tuapft nadj civvis vjep xjev O hevjisif gsun vji gostv qutv. Miespoph vu qsuhsen ot exituni. Epf puv xepvoph vu xusl 9-5 epf veloph gopepdoem desi ug genomz nincist howit zua e huuf sietup vu ci tadditgam. Uctvedmit esi qesv ug vji qsuditt.
 
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