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Free registration at the forum removes this block.I certainly hear what you are saying. But, this is not a materialistic goal for most of us. It is a lifestyle.
Nobody should just drop their significant other for petty reasons. There can be reasons though.
I was divorced a number of years ago even though we had a lot of money. My ex could not buy-in to the crazy world of business. She wanted X dollars to be coming in every month. I wanted XXXX dollars coming in to us in very large chunks.
We parted ways and she went back to work. I have not worked for anyone for 16 years and the large chunks keep coming.
Similar but not wholly related to the post title, but I have a different situation.
I own a house with a family member who is not fastlane or in any rush to go there.
Financially I cant afford to get my own place (even renting) and renting out my current room isnt an option either as she wouldnt accept another person living there.
I am into self help and improvement whereas she is constantly negative and not one for bettering herself (lives the standard 5 days work for 2 day freedom jailtime and is happy to continue this until retirement in the sidewalk).
I do know the answer on this is to hasten my fastlane and double/triple current earnings which will create the freedom for me personally. Selling the house isnt an option as its in negative equitity at present.
Has anyone any advice/experience on this one?
Similar but not wholly related to the post title, but I have a different situation.
I own a house with a family member who is not fastlane or in any rush to go there.
Financially I cant afford to get my own place (even renting) and renting out my current room isnt an option either as she wouldnt accept another person living there.
I am into self help and improvement whereas she is constantly negative and not one for bettering herself (lives the standard 5 days work for 2 day freedom jailtime and is happy to continue this until retirement in the sidewalk).
I do know the answer on this is to hasten my fastlane and double/triple current earnings which will create the freedom for me personally. Selling the house isnt an option as its in negative equitity at present.
Has anyone any advice/experience on this one?
The fact that she does not think the same way as you about the fastlane should not concern you in the least. She is in charge of her life and you are of yours.
The other issue of her negativity simply means that you are letting her energy affect you. The good thing is that you are into self-help. This gives you a project to work on. Figure out what is truly bothering you about the fact that she is negative and why it should affect you.
believe me... This was a frequent discussion. I did not know how much it was affecting her though. I had no insecurities, she had many.Then if the aspect of insecurity came in, where she did not feel safe financially... you could have always just taken the chunk of $xxx and put it into an account and paid yourself out every 2 weeks from it, and been like "there you go, now I receive a paycheck..."...with your end goal of course, to make that account grow beyond what you take out...or something.
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