Guys I need help

[Christopher104]

I wont hold my mouth back, there's gonna be a lot of cursing and disturbing language in this thread. if you're sensitive then don't bother reading on...

I F*cking hate my life right now. it hurts badly just to live every single day. I haven't offed myself because I'm Christian and I'll burn in hell for doing that. I have three goals in life: 1. gain 200lbs of musscle with 10% body fat. 2. have a net worth of a billion dollars. 3. have 4-5 smoking hot babes that I'm dating at the same time.

as ridiculous as this might sound this is my dream. this is what I want to accomplish with my life.

But when I see other people having that success and I'm 150lbs, working at O'reilys, and am invisible to women it hurts so F*cking badly to the point where I just wanna stop working and numb myself with video games, pizza, and pornography just to get away from the pain.

How do I stop feeling envious and angry at people who already have more than me?

 

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[Santi M]

I think you should check Jordan Peterson out. (If what you just said is not a joke)

 

[changmd]

I wont hold my mouth back, there's gonna be a lot of cursing and disturbing language in this thread. if you're sensitive then don't bother reading on...

I f*cking hate my life right now. it hurts badly just to live every single day. I haven't offed myself because I'm Christian and I'll burn in hell for doing that. I have three goals in life: 1. gain 200lbs of musscle with 10% body fat. 2. have a net worth of a billion dollars. 3. have 4-5 smoking hot babes that I'm dating at the same time.

as ridiculous as this might sound this is my dream. this is what I want to accomplish with my life.

But when I see other people having that success and I'm 150lbs, working at O'reilys, and am invisible to women it hurts so f*cking badly to the point where I just wanna stop working and numb myself with video games, pizza, and pornography just to get away from the pain.

How do I stop feeling envious and angry at people who already have more than me?

First of all, excuse me for the bad English, I have some humble opinion, if you would like to read it.
The problem you are facing now, is not that you did not gain your goals yet, is that you are don't like yourself with all these negatives thoughts, you feel bad of your self, because you assume that you should not have all of these envy and angers to others, and you feel guilty about that.
If I am you, I will try to accept that I am just a human, emotions, either good or bad, is just part of being a human, and it is ok to feel that envy or anger as long as you are not hurting any one, emotions are what drives human to act, once you feel better about your self, then you analyze where your emotions come from.
The goals you have, the muscle, money and hot girls, are not what you really want, what you really want is the feeling that these goals brings you, per example, the muscle means confidence, health or power. Money is freedom, and girls...well, I really believe that if you have more than one it will bring you more pain in life.
Book recommended, "F*cked it" by Mark Manson, and "Why", by Simon Sinek.
And as M.J. says in his book, there is no special event in any of these goals, you don't get strong just drinking a special green formula, or bitten by a spider, nor get rich in one night(lottery maybe an exception?) and you wont meet the perfect one, if you don't learn how to love and be loved.
But after all, this is just my opinion, I am just some one struggling with financial and family problems, the only thing I got right is that I build my muscle after the age of 35 , once you learn how to make it, the next time will be much more easy, I am looking forward to see my self in a couple years and tell my self, "making wealth was not that impossible as I though and I could make it again"
Good luck man, wish you the best

 

[changmd]

Jordan Peterson

I was watching his videos couple weeks ago, I really admire him. Haven't read his book though.

 

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[Andreas Thiel]

Interesting. Can't tell if this is a real meltdown or tasteless satirical flamebait.

If this is real, then you need to get used the thought that outside help in the mental health department might be needed, probably medication.
There are great threads about this here. If you suffer from a depression, no motivational speech will drag you out.

I assume a simple mindset issue would look different: without the need to swear and mentioning the suicidal thoughts.
It is a really uncomfortable situation for everybody reading the OP. This is a bad place to ask for help. Not much we can do.
Advice won't help.

With a depression you will feel betrayed all the time.
Somebody said / wrote it is easy to accomplish anything. Others know important people that you don't have access to.
There are forces that drag you away from attempting to make a change.
You are on track when you realize that nothing about this is easy ... and when people make it look easy, then they profit from it. People want to believe that anything is possible. People want to believe that all it takes is a slight mindset shift. But succeeding is hard. Period.
And your goals say this is comedy and I should probably not hit the Reply button.

 

[Jon L]

I wont hold my mouth back, there's gonna be a lot of cursing and disturbing language in this thread. if you're sensitive then don't bother reading on...

I f*cking hate my life right now. it hurts badly just to live every single day. I haven't offed myself because I'm Christian and I'll burn in hell for doing that. I have three goals in life: 1. gain 200lbs of musscle with 10% body fat. 2. have a net worth of a billion dollars. 3. have 4-5 smoking hot babes that I'm dating at the same time.

as ridiculous as this might sound this is my dream. this is what I want to accomplish with my life.

But when I see other people having that success and I'm 150lbs, working at O'reilys, and am invisible to women it hurts so f*cking badly to the point where I just wanna stop working and numb myself with video games, pizza, and pornography just to get away from the pain.

How do I stop feeling envious and angry at people who already have more than me?

This is easier said than done, but:

Set some goals, and work towards achieving them

Body goal: consistency is almost the only thing that matters. Eat well most of the time. Work out 5-6 days a week. Recommend hiring a trainer.

Money goal: Pick a money system that will get you to your goal, and then start working it. Daily.

Babe goal: Are you sure you want 4-5 babes? Try just one. Women are attracted to guys that care about them and are mature. (maturity = going places, grounded, know what you want, not ego driven, can do the hard things etc)

 

[Milonfz]

The issue I see is that your goals conflict with your values. You said you are a Christian, however your goals are 4-5 babes, 200 pounds of muscle (to get babes I assume), and a billion dollars to impress the babes. In the meantime you watch porn, play video games, and eat crap, not exactly what women are looking for. So the reasons for your goals and actions are both at odds with your faith, and your actions aren't moving you towards your goals.

As Bob Newhart said, "STOP IT!" Stop being self centered and envious and start providing value to others. You want to be a billionaire? Become a millionaire first, and to do that you need to start focusing on others and providing value to them. $100 value to 10,000 people makes you a million is sales, and it starts by helping 1 person, then a second, then scaling it up, etc.

Read Unscripted , or if you have, read it again. Your living a scripted life. Don't give up, because you haven't started yet and you are still young. You've got time, however you need to get started...

 

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[Matua]

1. gain 200lbs of musscle with 10% body fat. 2. have a net worth of a billion dollars. 3. have 4-5 smoking hot babes that I'm dating at the same time.

You have your goals, now break them down into measurable, smaller, and attainable steps. If you felt overwhelmed, then just stick to one goal for the week. It can be literally anything: cleaning your room, washing dishes after you eat or drink, maintaining proper hygiene, walking or jogging every morning, etc. Make that one goal your life's mission. And if it becomes too easy, then you can either expand that goal, or move on to something else because your previous goal became natural and a part of you.

How do I stop feeling envious and angry at people who already have more than me?

You can't. You're feeling this way because you're unhappy with yourself, your current situation, and your environment. So what is something you want to do that give you something to look forward to? What is the first thing in mind you really want to do?

You already answered this yourself when you started this thread. All that's left now is to execute your plan.