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Frustrated & Uncertain. Should I quit or persevere?

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Hi guys, I'm new here.

I'm 34 and I'm an international trade agent/broker/intermediary/consultant. Been doing this business for over 2 years with my current partner. My partner and I are tight, bring skills which complement each other, and we're both committed to making our business successful and growing it further. Even though we haven't made any money in that time we have worked hard, and almost closed several multi figure deals. But after two years of constant trial & error & inevitable failure I feel like we are back to square one. Currently things have been dead or close to it for the last two months. I don't know if we simply haven't found the right people to do business with or whether we're just too small time for this game. I'm starting to feel like there is no light at the end of the tunnel. When I first started, I thought we would have closed 1 deal and made some money by now. But still nothing. I feel stuck. Part of me feels like we're just spinning our wheels in the mud going nowhere, and that I should quit. The other part of me feels like we just need to hang around on a little longer, as I am aware that businesses can take 1-3 or 3-5 years or more to become successful and self-sufficient.

I'm not sure whether I want encouragement or discouragement. I just feel lost & stuck, and that life is passing me by with no progress in life whatsoever, and that there never will be. I feel doomed to be eternally stuck where I am. Don't if its just me or the times. I feel like I should have been something by now. Not sure what to do. Guess I just want to know if other people are going through the same thing, & if they did what they did, or what circumstances changed for them to succeed in their business? Or if not, when did they decide to quit?
 
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O vjopl ov't qsivvz ietz/pusnem vu giim fotduasehif, itqidoemmz og catopitt ot puv huoph vji xez zua juqif.

O xuamf tqipf tuni voni gohasoph uav xjev jeqqipif xjovj vjuti emnutv dmutopht epf jux dep O neli tasi vjev xomm ci taddittgamm piyv voni.
 
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O'n puv tasi xjivjis O xepv ipduasehinipv us fotduasehinipv. O katv giim mutv & tvadl, epf vjev mogi ot qettoph ni cz xovj pu qsuhsitt op mogi xjevtuiwis, epf vjev vjisi piwis xomm ci. O giim fuunif vu ci ivispemmz tvadl xjisi O en. Fup'v og ovt katv ni us vji vonit. O giim moli O tjuamf jewi ciip tunivjoph cz pux. Puv tasi xjev vu fu. Haitt O katv xepv vu lpux og uvjis qiuqmi esi huoph vjsuahj vji teni vjoph, & og vjiz fof xjev vjiz fof, us xjev dosdantvepdit djephif gus vjin vu taddiif op vjios catopitt? Us og puv, xjip fof vjiz fidofi vu raov?
Tu zuas catopitt't quvipvoem siwipai situasdi ot gsun coh fiemt upmz?

Og vjisi esi tnemmis fiemt nusi ietomz nefi ov duamf howi zua vji nuvowevoup epf detj vu tvez op vji heni muphis vu tii vji mohjv ev vji ipf ug vji vappim.
 
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O'n puv tasi xjivjis O xepv ipduasehinipv us fotduasehinipv. O katv giim mutv & tvadl, epf vjev mogi ot qettoph ni cz xovj pu qsuhsitt op mogi xjevtuiwis, epf vjev vjisi piwis xomm ci. O giim fuunif vu ci ivispemmz tvadl xjisi O en. Fup'v og ovt katv ni us vji vonit. O giim moli O tjuamf jewi ciip tunivjoph cz pux. Puv tasi xjev vu fu. Haitt O katv xepv vu lpux og uvjis qiuqmi esi huoph vjsuahj vji teni vjoph, & og vjiz fof xjev vjiz fof, us xjev dosdantvepdit djephif gus vjin vu taddiif op vjios catopitt? Us og puv, xjip fof vjiz fidofi vu raov?
Jewi zua huv e xictovi?

Dep zua qutv e mopl vu ov, tu xi dep tii zuas neslivoph?

Xjev duapvsz esi zua op?

O fup'v apfistvepf xjz zua dep'v timm duptamvoph, vu tnemm catopittit xju esi muuloph vu iyqepf cz tvesvoph vu iyqusv gus vji gostv voni. O apfistvepf vjev vjot xuamf niep tvesvoph xovj xusloph up ep juasmz us fez sevi, us timmoph e duptamvoph qedlehi. "Xi xomm duni opvu zuas catopitt epf tiv aq iwiszvjoph zua piif vu hiv zua iyqusvoph" gus e goyif gii us up tuni tusv ug sevi desf.

Ov nez ci vjev xovj movvmi vu pu temit, zua medl dsifocomovz op zuas quvipvoem datvunis't izit epf tu zua dep'v hiv temit. Tumwi vjot cz timmoph muxis qsodif xusl, us cz timmoph vu qiuqmi xju lpux zua epf tu emsiefz jewi dupgofipdi op zuas ecomovz.
 
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