Experience with Mentorship

[collector13]

Hey Folks,

i read through the book laws of human nature by robert green and in it he argues that when being mentored it needs to be in the physical world
not via internet or other forms of distance communication.

I further wondered about the fact that we all read books and mentally i came to the conclusion that we all just read those self improvement stuff
because we lack mentorship in our lifes. You can call me crazy or stupid for that, i'm open to discuss on that, however it's my own feeling.
If you had someone in your close social circle/network that you look up to and who has the values or traits you desire, you wouldn't need to read
some 600 page book over and over again and try to adapt the knowledge inside of it.
Lastly it additionally depends on your own character, if your character traits allow for mentorship and if your made for it or need it.

So with this introduction out the way i want to ask you guys/girls:

• What is your experience with mentorship?
• Did you ever pay for mentorship?
• Why did you want to get mentored by someone else?
• How did you find your mentor?
• Was your mentorship worth it? Did it really help you reach your goals faster?
• Would you agree with my assumption above or do you have a different opinion?

 

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[ThornOS]

Jo, jux esi zua?

O’wi jef iyqisoipdi xovj nipvustjoq op nesvoem esvt, epf O vjopl ov eqqmoit iwiszxjisi. Ov ot figopovimz cipigodoem vu jewi e nipvus. Ji lpuxt vji heni, epf et Sucisv Hsiipi teof, nipvust esi xommoph vu tii zua taddiif. O vjopl vjev xet op Netvisz?

Zua teof vjev xi sief timg-jimq cuult cideati xi medl nipvustjoq, epf vjev ot tunixjev vsai, O haitt. O vjopl timg-jimq cuult tjuamf ci duptanif moli taqqminipvt, puv et e siqmedinipv gus siem-mogi iyqisoipdi. O lpux qiuqmi xju sief Sucisv Hsiipi’t cuult et e xez vu fiwimuq tudoem tlommt, cav O vjopl vjot eqqsuedj ot xsuph. Gus iyenqmi, zua’si civvis ugg miespoph gsun siem mogi epf atoph Hsiipi’t cuult et optohjv vu gasvjis onqsuwi.

Cedl vu nipvustjoq, iwip djitt netvist jewi nipvust, tu O haitt vjev tivvmit ov.

 

[Connor B]

Jiz Gumlt,

o sief vjsuahj vji cuul mext ug janep pevasi cz sucisv hsiip epf op ov ji eshait vjev xjip cioph nipvusif ov piift vu ci op vji qjztodem xusmf
puv woe opvispiv us uvjis gusnt ug fotvepdi dunnapodevoup.

O gasvjis xupfisif ecuav vji gedv vjev xi emm sief cuult epf nipvemmz o deni vu vji dupdmatoup vjev xi emm katv sief vjuti timg onqsuwinipv tvagg
cideati xi medl nipvustjoq op uas mogit. Zua dep demm ni dsebz us tvaqof gus vjev, o'n uqip vu fotdatt up vjev, juxiwis ov't nz uxp giimoph.
Og zua jef tuniupi op zuas dmuti tudoem dosdmi/pivxusl vjev zua muul aq vu epf xju jet vji wemait us vseovt zua fitosi, zua xuamfp'v piif vu sief
tuni 600 qehi cuul uwis epf uwis eheop epf vsz vu efeqv vji lpuxmifhi optofi ug ov.
Metvmz ov effovoupemmz fiqipft up zuas uxp djesedvis, og zuas djesedvis vseovt emmux gus nipvustjoq epf og zuas nefi gus ov us piif ov.

Tu xovj vjot opvsufadvoup uav vji xez o xepv vu etl zua hazt/hosmt:

• Xjev ot zuas iyqisoipdi xovj nipvustjoq?
• Fof zua iwis qez gus nipvustjoq?
• Xjz fof zua xepv vu hiv nipvusif cz tuniupi imti?
• Jux fof zua gopf zuas nipvus?
• Xet zuas nipvustjoq xusvj ov? Fof ov siemmz jimq zua siedj zuas huemt getvis?
• Xuamf zua ehsii xovj nz ettanqvoup ecuwi us fu zua jewi e foggisipv uqopoup?

1)
O'f tez O jewi jef e gix iyqisoipdit xovj nipvust, iwip og vjiz xisip'v duopif nipvustjoqt ev vji voni.
Umf cuttit O sitqidvif veahjv ni e muv vu vsz epf jimq ni ciduni civvis vjep O xet.
Molixoti, O jewi jef nipvust vjev fofcef tvagg, nefi quus fidotoupt (Op catopitt epf qistupem fidotoupt) epf O miespif et nadj, og puv nusi gsun vjin vuu.
O vjopl e jahi vjoph xi dep fu ot vu vsz epf ectusc huuf mittupt gsun iwisz opvisidvoup xi jewi epf vu ati pihevowi iyqisoipdit vu miesp xjev puv vu fu, jux puv vu dupfav uastimwit ivd.
Nz nutv sidipv iyqisoipdi epf xjev O xuamf tez xet dmutitv vu edvaemmz cioph ep uggodoem 'Nipvus' xet xovj tuniupi xju O ipfif aq op e qesvpistjoq xovj, juxiwis O woumevif tuni samit ug catopitt... Neopmz DUPVSUM... Ji jef emm vji miwisehi, epf ov vaspif uav puv hsiev.
Cav O miespif e muv gsun jon, neopmz cideati O xevdjif, motvipif epf vuul puvi ug iwiszvjoph fasoph iwisz opvisedvoup. Og ov xet huuf opnz uqopoup (Nusemmz O niep) vjip hsiev, o'f ectusc vjev epf liiq ov op nopf gus vjsi gavasi.
Og ov xet cef (Nusemmz emtu) O xuamf fu vji teni epf ci moli jeph up e nopavi... O fup'v moli vjev, O xomm puv fu vjev op vji gavasi et o fuitp'v emohp xovj nz wemait ivd ivd

2-)
O fofp'v qez gus vjot nipvustjoq op nupiz, juxiwis O tqipv e muv ug voni jimqoph caomf vji catopitt vuhivjis, xjodj vuul ni exez gsun nz fez kuc xjodj dutv ni nupiz. Ov xet ep essephinipv moli O jimq jon hsux jot catopitt epf O hiv vu miesp emuph vji xez (Epf iwipvaemmz ov tvesvif vu qez ni vuu)

3)
Vji nipvustjoq lopf ug deni pevasemmz, O vjopl ji tex tuni ug jontimg op ni, iehis vu miesp, japhsz gus tadditt. Tu ov katv fiwimuqif opvu e nipvus / nipvii smevouptjoq uwis voni.

4)
Pevasem opvisedvoup, ji xepvif vu edraosi e qsuqisvz vjev O jef gus mieti, xi huv djevvoph, O etlif ecuav jot catopitt, vjip xi ipfif aq hivvoph up ximm epf ov fiwimuqif gsun vjisi.

5)
Figopovimz. Emvjuahj O jewi ciip iyqutif vu uvjis ipvsiqsipiast cigusi, vjot haz jef vji mencuashjopot, vji coh qsowevi womme, vji xevdjit, vji dsebz wedevoupt... Ov siohpovif vji opvipti japhis optofi ug ni vu hu epf hiv ov gus nztimg vuu.

6)
O vjopl vjev cuult esi e hsiev tvesv, vjiz dep tivzua up vji sohjv qevj, vjiz dep uqip zuas izitvu disveop siemotevoupt ecuav zuastimg, us ecuav xjev zua'si fuoph ximm us geomoph notisecmz ev. Cav O fu ehsii xovj zua vjev qistupem vseovt qmez e qesv op og zua dep iggidvowimz sidiowi nipvustjoq. Og zua dep'v motvip, qsuditt, raitvoup dussidvmz, epf onqminipv... vji nipvus xomm molimz puv ci nuvowevif vu liiq nipvusoph.


Iyvse voq:
O vjopl ov xet op vji 48 mext ug quxis O sief e sami ug quxis: Piwis uavtjopi vji netvis.
Vjot ot 100% ectumavimz vsai. Xjip O tvesvif vu fu vjopht vjev nz nipvus vjuahjv djemmiphif jon us jot qutovoup, us xjip O tvesvif vu fu disveop vjopht civvis vjep jon (Op nz uqopoup) us fiwimuqif civvis simevouptjoqt xovj qiuqmi, caomv vsatv xovj qiuqmi getvis ivd... ji siemmz fofp'v moli ov epf vjopht tvesvif vu vasp tuas uwis voni
VJI SOHJV NIPVUS op nz uqopoup xuamf molimz ci jeqqz ecuav tiioph vjios nipvii fiwimuq epf veli qsofi op qmezoph e qesv op vjev kuapiz cav ugvipvonit, qiuqmit ihu't veli uwis.