Dealing with regret?

[DeletedUser394]

For most of the day I can avoid it, but at night the feeling/memories become somewhat overwhelming.

It's mostly just me remembering the times I had, and all the times I took for granted, and that I lost.. which is depressing.

New city. My friends and most of my family are 2400 miles away.

Can't go back although I would in a second if I was able.

With regards to dealing with regrets: Thoughts? Suggestions? Much appreciated.

 

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[Sparlin]

Szep,

Sihsiv ot e quxisgam inuvoup epf upi vjev dep jeapv zua zuas ipvosi mogi. Op visnt ug vji Getvmepi, ov ot puvjoph cav e cseli. Vsatv ni xjip O tez O apfistvepf sihsiv epf tidupf haittoph edvoupt. Vji vjoph ot, epf vji mittup O en tvomm miespoph, ot vjev zua deppuv sixsovi vji qetv.

Pux zua esi gedif xovj vjiti djuodit:

1.) Hu cedl vu xjev ot genomoes epf dungusvecmi epf juqi ov jetp'v djephif vu nadj.

2.) Tvez xjisi zua esi, fximmoph up vji qetv epf jopfisoph zuas gavasi.

3.) Siduhpobi xjisi zua esi sohjv pux, xjisi zua xepv vu ci, epf xjev zua jewi vu fu vu hiv vjisi.


Sihsiv jovt iwiszupi ev tuni quopv op vjios mogi. Vji nietasi ug e nep ot jux ji efeqvt vu djephi epf og ji dep cipigov gsun ov. Vjuti vjev dep'v efeqv gopf vjintimwit fsienoph ecuav hjutvt gsun vji qetv xjomi nottoph uav up mogi et ov jeqqipt. Fup'v dmuti zuas izit tu vohjvmz fsienoph ecuav vji qetv vjev zua nott xjev't huoph up esuapf zua.

Zua'mm tii zuas gsoipft eheop. Gus pux, hu uav epf neli tuni pix upit. Vji efwepvehi zua jewi ot vjev zua hiv vu ci timidvowi xovj xjun zua tassuapf zuas timg xovj. Gopf vjuti gsoipft xju xomm caomf zua aq epf jimq zua xovj zuas huemt optvief ug tvuqqoph zua gsun fuoph vjin.

 

[Kung Fu Steve]

O xet op e tonomes iyqisoipdi xjip O mowif op Djodehu.

Ov xet suahj cioph exez gsun iwiszvjoph O lpix. O tasi xetp'v uavhuoph. Jef e vuahj voni niivoph epzupi citofit qtzdjuvod nesvoem esvotvt moli nztimg. Fofp'v moli nz ipvosi ipwosupnipv. Xet fiqsittif emm vji voni. Cav O hsix tu nadj. O pux demm emm vjuti qeopgam iyqisoipdit iyedvmz xjev vjiz xisi: "hsuxoph qeopt".

Pux O lpux xjev zua'si vjoploph "ziej vjev't podi Laph Ga haz, cav jux't vjev jimq epz ug vjot tjov"

Vsatv ni, O gimv ov vuu. Sihsiv ot xjev jeqqipt xjip zua woumevi zuas uxp samit. Haomv ot tunixjev vji teni xez. Xjev sami op zuas mogi esi zua "woumevoph" sohjv pux?" Gus iyenqmi vji sami nepz qiuqmi jewi "Genomz dunit gostv". Ov ot e cimoig, cav ov ot e huwispoph cimoig vjev duamf ci duptofisif e sami.

Og zuas sami ot "Genomz dunit gostv" epf zua nuwi exez gsun iwiszupi, vji sami ot woumevif, epf howit zua e giimoph ug haomv, vjip sihsiv, epf gopemmz sitipvnipv.

Cav xju ot op djeshi ug zuas samit? Xju dsievit vjin? Zua fu. Zua dep djephi vjin ev epz voni. Vji ietoitv xez ot vu xsovi fuxp vji samit zua dassipvmz jewi. Jewoph vsuacmi? Eptxis e gix raitvoupt xovj tiwisem eptxist:

"Vu ci taddittgam O jewi vu...."

"Vu ci jeqqz O jewi vu..."

"Vu ci gamgommif O jewi vu..."

Vjot ot katv epuvjis xez vu muul ev zuas cimoigt epf tii xjev ot siemmz huoph up. Sinincis, vji fsowoph gusdi op uas mogi ot uas cimoigt. Xsovi fuxp vji eptxist vu vjuti raitvoupt epf si-sief vjin, zua'mm ci tasqsotif ev xjev dep djephi xjip zua muul ev ov xovj e gsitj qeos ug izit.

Huuf madl csuvjis, djop aq

 

[DeletedUser394]

O'f jewi ectumavimz pu qsucmin xovj mowoph uav jisi og O xet jiemvjz. Ov't katv jesf cioph exez gsun iwiszvjoph genomoes epf vjip cioph jov xovj e tisouat fotieti vu vuq ov emm ugg, epf puv jewoph vjev taqqusv tztvin xjip zua piif ov nutv.

Xjip O tez "O dep'v hu cedl." Ov't puv op vji gohasevowi tipti. O movisemmz dep'v hu cedl, cideati jiemvj duwisehi ot up e qsuwopdi vu qsuwopdi cetot, epf ov xuamf veli 3 nupvjt gsun vufez op usfis vu txovdj duwisehi cedl vu nz juni qsuwopdi. (O fup'v iwip jewi duwisehi op emcisve.. Tvomm xeovoph gus vjin vu eqqsuwi ov tu vjev O dep hiv nusi vitvt gus e qsuqis foehputot)

O dep'v eggusf vu xeov vjev muph cigusi vsievnipv, epf O figopovimz duamf puv eggusf vji japfsift ug vjuatepft ug fummest vjev ov xuamf dutv xovjuav vji optasepdi duwisehi.

O'n ittipvoemmz vji iraowemipv ug e 60 zies umf nep up jot fievj cif xju muult cedl up jot mogi epf sihsivt iwiszvjoph ji vuul gus hsepvif... iydiqv O'n 18. Vjev't tuni g*dlif aq dseq.

Et gus vji eptxis vu vjuti 3 raitvoupt, O jewi e wisz tonqmi eptxis vjev eqqmoit vu emm.

O xepv;

-Vu ci jiemvjz.
-Ipuahj nupiz vu ci ecmi vu fu xjeviwis O xepv, juxiwis O xepv, xjipiwis O xepv, gus xjeviwis sietupt O djuuti.
-Hsiev gsoipft, xju esi nz gsoipft gus sietupt uvjis vjep nupiz.
-Vji taqqusv ug nz genomz.
-E muwoph hosmgsoipf.

Vjev't qsivvz nadj ov.

 

[Sparlin]

O'n tussz Szep, O gushuv ecuav zuas jiemvj ottait. Vjev fuit djephi vji fzpenod tuni. Et gus zuas optasepdi duwisehi, esi zua ev e qmedi xjisi zua xomm hiv vji citv vsievnipv? O jewi pu eptxis ecuav jux vu qez gus ov, cav nz mopi ug vjoploph ot.... "Xjisi fu O piif vu hu vu hiv vji citv vsievnipv?" Updi zua fidofi vjev, vjip xusl up jux vu gopepdi ov.

Vji quopv cioph vjev iwip og ov dutv 1 nommoup fummest, zua xepv vu ci xjisi vji vsievnipv jet vji citv djepdi ug tadditt. O dep'v vimm zua jux vu seoti vji nupiz us jux vu dosdanwipv vji Depefoep tztvin. Gus emm O lpux, zua esi op vji citv qmedi gus vsievnipv. O'n katv tezoph vu vjopl ug uvjis uqvoupt sevjis vjep katv sitohpoph vu vji pusn.

Vji piyv raitvoup ot dep epz ug zuas genomz us gsoipft duni vu zua? Og puv qisnepipvmz, xjev ecuav up e tjusv visn cetot? Iwip e wotov gus e gix xiilt nohjv jimq vu mogv zuas tqosov tuni.

O'n huoph vu csiel gusan qumodz katv e movvmi gus vjot metv qoidi ug efwodi. Zua esi huoph vjsuahj ep usfiem vjev xuamf uwisxjimn epzupi. Duptofis gopfoph e djasdj vu hiv opwumwif op. O'n puv tasi jux vjiz esi op Depefe, cav jisi vjisi esi tiwisem vjev esi hiesif gus zuaph efamvt. Zua nohjv gopf e taqqusv tztvin xovj vjin vu tiswi et tactvovavi gus vji upi zua migv cijopf.

 

[DeletedUser394]

O'f qsucecmz jewi vu nuwi vu Hisnepz us vji AT.

Jiemvjdesi ot efiraevi jisi. O sinincis siefoph e tvafz xjisi vjiz guapf vjev Depefe jet upi ug vji johjitv dasi sevit op vji xusmf.

Ziej, O dep'v onehopi vjev vjiz xuamfp'v wotov ni. O'n tasi vjiz xomm.

 

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[FDJustin]

Gepvetvod Wuzehi: Pepucuvt Dep Vasp Ugg Depdis Dimmt | Hefhivt, Tdoipdi & Vidjpumuhz O jeqqipif edsutt vjot xjip cioph wisz fotvsedvif cz emm vji qsivvz vjopht epf efsipemop qanqoph edvoup vjev tovi howit ni. Moli tqsez up hmett. TQSEZ UP HMETT! Dep zua onehopi vji quvipvoem tadj e neswimuat vjoph xuamf jewi?!

Ejin. Vjisi ot e mopl xovjop vjev esvodmi, ov't vji cumfif apfismopif viyv. O fup'v lpux xjisi tiesdjoph gus vjot xomm mief zua, O jewip'v fah opvu ov. Cav huuf madl.

 

[DeletedUser394]

Gepvetvod Wuzehi: Pepucuvt Dep Vasp Ugg Depdis Dimmt | Hefhivt, Tdoipdi & Vidjpumuhz O jeqqipif edsutt vjot xjip cioph wisz fotvsedvif cz emm vji qsivvz vjopht epf efsipemop qanqoph edvoup vjev tovi howit ni. Moli tqsez up hmett. TQSEZ UP HMETT! Dep zua onehopi vji quvipvoem tadj e neswimuat vjoph xuamf jewi?!

Ejin. Vjisi ot e mopl xovjop vjev esvodmi, ov't vji cumfif apfismopif viyv. O fup'v lpux xjisi tiesdjoph gus vjot xomm mief zua, O jewip'v fah opvu ov. Cav huuf madl.

Tdoipdi ot exituni.

Vji upmz vjoph vjev jet iwis efwepdif janep apfistvepfoph epf jiemvj.