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Hey guys, I want to set up a meeting with a very successful real estate investor in a restaurant I used to work back in 2007. Very great italian restaurant and a good intimacy. I talked to the boss today while having a coffee, but he doesn't remember me. Anyway, I like this place a lot, so I'm thinking about setting this meeting there. He knows me, we've talked a bit at the monthly meetings, but I would like to meet with him and talk about how I could get started in Re investing. I'd pay the bill for him and would bring a notebook with good questions to ask him.

I talked to the boss today while having a coffee, but he doesn't remember me. Anyway, I like this place a lot, so I'm thinking about setting this meeting there.

The problem is I am very anxious and nervous about talking to him.Do you guys ever have this problem? If so, do you have suggestions on how to overcome it?

Thanks.
 
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"SCALED TO 6-FIGURE MONTHS"
"Tips and advice here saved me from huge mistakes, others allowed me to scale my business to 6-figure months."
— User MitchC
"INSANE QUALITY OF PEOPLE"
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— User Richard Peck

"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with."
Are you surrounding yourself with success?

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