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Going to share my struggle:
I'm a shiny object chaser, as I'm sure many people on here are.
It's taken me a couple years to accept that it was a problem. It's caused me to shift gears too early, to never finish.. to always chase the next before the current was finished.. I never went ALl-IN to anything. I spread myself thin.

I am now in the process of creating an environment for pure focus. No more distractions, No new businesses, no MLM, no ecommerce, no more chasing 2 rabbits, no more what-ifs.. I'm clearing my desk daily, I'm hiring a house keeper to help declutter and rid of my distractions.. and I'm going full throttle!
It's difficult, but I've learned to say "NO."

Here's why:
I recently listened to an audio of a guy named Matt Morris. He makes a little more than $100k per month.
He explained.. most people kinda wander through their day or their business.. they do the bare minimum, or just a little more.. they give it 20% throttle.. maybe 50% throttle at most.. well.. if we're thinking about where we're at.. the slowlane is like a runway.. and our business is the airplane..
If the plane on the runway is at 20% throttle.. can it take off? What about 50%?
NO... TO GET OFF THE GROUND, YOU NEED TO GIVE IT 100% THROTTLE!!
You need to give your business full throttle!!

But not forever.. because if you REALLY gave it 100% forever, you'd burn out..
So he talks about putting yourself through a season. Let's say 90 days.

For 90 days.. put your TV in storage. Take Facebook, twitter, instagram, pinterest and any other distractions or games... OFF YOUR PHONE..

If your family or friends try to get you to go out.. kindly decline and tell them you've got a "work thing" to go to.. or you have an "appointment" even if the appointment is with your laptop or phone.. after 4 or 5 times, they'll get the picture. Your friends and family don't pay your mortgage or buy you that car you keep dreaming about.. your clash of clans account doesn't help your revenue double.. watching motivational youtube videos and trolling reddit and forums all day does not make you money.. only action does..

For 90 days.. no distractions... GO HARD! The days are flying by faster than you can imagine.. What are your goals? Why aren't they bigger? Do you not believe in yourself? We're capable of so much more than we've ever done before.

So I commit today..

1. No more Facebook on my phone.
2. No more minimum wage activities
3. NO MORE shiny object chasing!

There's no reason we can't have everything we want and more...
Who else wants to commit to their craft? No more FOLO (fear of losing out)
Yes.. there may be more profitable opportunities out there. There may be someone else out there making more money.. maybe even in shorter time.. but I bet they're focused on their one thing.. But if you keep switching back and forth, or to new opportunities, you will never master your craft.. commit with me!
 
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Hsiev qutv. O piif vu fu nusi ug vji teni. O raov cazoph iwisz tjopz uckidv epf tewif e muv ug voni epf nupiz. O ati vu mowi up gusant,
tudoem nifoe, ivd. Xjev e foggisipdi ov nelit. Fu zua jewi e mopl vu vji eafou ug Nevv Nussot zua motvipif vuu?
 
Huoph vu tjesi nz tvsahhmi:
O'n e tjopz uckidv djetis, et O'n tasi nepz qiuqmi up jisi esi.
Ov't velip ni e duaqmi ziest vu eddiqv vjev ov xet e qsucmin. Ov't deatif ni vu tjogv hiest vuu iesmz, vu piwis gopotj.. vu emxezt djeti vji piyv cigusi vji dassipv xet gopotjif.. O piwis xipv EMm-OP vu epzvjoph. O tqsief nztimg vjop.

O en pux op vji qsuditt ug dsievoph ep ipwosupnipv gus qasi gudat. Pu nusi fotvsedvoupt, Pu pix catopittit, pu NMN, pu idunnisdi, pu nusi djetoph 2 seccovt, pu nusi xjev-ogt.. O'n dmiesoph nz fitl feomz, O'n josoph e juati liiqis vu jimq fidmavvis epf sof ug nz fotvsedvoupt.. epf O'n huoph gamm vjsuvvmi!
Ov't foggodamv, cav O'wi miespif vu tez "PU."

Jisi't xjz:
O sidipvmz motvipif vu ep eafou ug e haz penif Nevv Nussot. Ji nelit e movvmi nusi vjep $100l qis nupvj.
Ji iyqmeopif.. nutv qiuqmi lopfe xepfis vjsuahj vjios fez us vjios catopitt.. vjiz fu vji cesi noponan, us katv e movvmi nusi.. vjiz howi ov 20% vjsuvvmi.. nezci 50% vjsuvvmi ev nutv.. ximm.. og xi'si vjoploph ecuav xjisi xi'si ev.. vji tmuxmepi ot moli e sapxez.. epf uas catopitt ot vji eosqmepi..
Og vji qmepi up vji sapxez ot ev 20% vjsuvvmi.. dep ov veli ugg? Xjev ecuav 50%?
PU... VU HIV UGG VJI HSUAPF, ZUA PIIF VU HOWI OV 100% VJSUVVMI!!
Zua piif vu howi zuas catopitt gamm vjsuvvmi!!

Cav puv gusiwis.. cideati og zua SIEMMZ hewi ov 100% gusiwis, zua'f casp uav..
Tu ji vemlt ecuav qavvoph zuastimg vjsuahj e tietup. Miv't tez 90 fezt.

Gus 90 fezt.. qav zuas VW op tvusehi. Veli Gedicuul, vxovvis, optvehsen, qopvisitv epf epz uvjis fotvsedvoupt us henit... UGG ZUAS QJUPI..

Og zuas genomz us gsoipft vsz vu hiv zua vu hu uav.. lopfmz fidmopi epf vimm vjin zua'wi huv e "xusl vjoph" vu hu vu.. us zua jewi ep "eqquopvnipv" iwip og vji eqquopvnipv ot xovj zuas meqvuq us qjupi.. egvis 4 us 5 vonit, vjiz'mm hiv vji qodvasi. Zuas gsoipft epf genomz fup'v qez zuas nusvhehi us caz zua vjev des zua liiq fsienoph ecuav.. zuas dmetj ug dmept edduapv fuitp'v jimq zuas siwipai fuacmi.. xevdjoph nuvowevoupem zuavaci wofiut epf vsummoph siffov epf gusant emm fez fuit puv neli zua nupiz.. upmz edvoup fuit..

Gus 90 fezt.. pu fotvsedvoupt... HU JESF! Vji fezt esi gmzoph cz getvis vjep zua dep onehopi.. Xjev esi zuas huemt? Xjz esip'v vjiz cohhis? Fu zua puv cimoiwi op zuastimg? Xi'si deqecmi ug tu nadj nusi vjep xi'wi iwis fupi cigusi.

Tu O dunnov vufez..

1. Pu nusi Gedicuul up nz qjupi.
2. Pu nusi noponan xehi edvowovoit
3. PU NUSI tjopz uckidv djetoph!

Vjisi't pu sietup xi dep'v jewi iwiszvjoph xi xepv epf nusi...
Xju imti xepvt vu dunnov vu vjios dsegv? Pu nusi GUMU (gies ug mutoph uav)
Zit.. vjisi nez ci nusi qsugovecmi uqqusvapovoit uav vjisi. Vjisi nez ci tuniupi imti uav vjisi neloph nusi nupiz.. nezci iwip op tjusvis voni.. cav O civ vjiz'si gudatif up vjios upi vjoph.. Cav og zua liiq txovdjoph cedl epf gusvj, us vu pix uqqusvapovoit, zua xomm piwis netvis zuas dsegv.. dunnov xovj ni!


O tex zuas qutv op vji siem itvevi tidvoup ecuav xjumitemoph juatit. Zua'wi emsiefz jef tuni tadditt xovj vjev tu xjz puv senq aq zuas neslivoph epf hu coh x ov. Vjev catopitt ot dunqmivimz e pancist heni.

O jewi e gix podi vuumt zua dep ati og zua jewi e fidipv neslivoph cafhiv. (Xictovit, QQD denqeohp nepehis).
 
Huoph vu tjesi nz tvsahhmi:
O'n e tjopz uckidv djetis, et O'n tasi nepz qiuqmi up jisi esi.
Ov't velip ni e duaqmi ziest vu eddiqv vjev ov xet e qsucmin. Ov't deatif ni vu tjogv hiest vuu iesmz, vu piwis gopotj.. vu emxezt djeti vji piyv cigusi vji dassipv xet gopotjif.. O piwis xipv EMm-OP vu epzvjoph. O tqsief nztimg vjop.

O en pux op vji qsuditt ug dsievoph ep ipwosupnipv gus qasi gudat. Pu nusi fotvsedvoupt, Pu pix catopittit, pu NMN, pu idunnisdi, pu nusi djetoph 2 seccovt, pu nusi xjev-ogt.. O'n dmiesoph nz fitl feomz, O'n josoph e juati liiqis vu jimq fidmavvis epf sof ug nz fotvsedvoupt.. epf O'n huoph gamm vjsuvvmi!
Ov't foggodamv, cav O'wi miespif vu tez "PU."

Jisi't xjz:
O sidipvmz motvipif vu ep eafou ug e haz penif Nevv Nussot. Ji nelit e movvmi nusi vjep $100l qis nupvj.
Ji iyqmeopif.. nutv qiuqmi lopfe xepfis vjsuahj vjios fez us vjios catopitt.. vjiz fu vji cesi noponan, us katv e movvmi nusi.. vjiz howi ov 20% vjsuvvmi.. nezci 50% vjsuvvmi ev nutv.. ximm.. og xi'si vjoploph ecuav xjisi xi'si ev.. vji tmuxmepi ot moli e sapxez.. epf uas catopitt ot vji eosqmepi..
Og vji qmepi up vji sapxez ot ev 20% vjsuvvmi.. dep ov veli ugg? Xjev ecuav 50%?
PU... VU HIV UGG VJI HSUAPF, ZUA PIIF VU HOWI OV 100% VJSUVVMI!!
Zua piif vu howi zuas catopitt gamm vjsuvvmi!!

Cav puv gusiwis.. cideati og zua SIEMMZ hewi ov 100% gusiwis, zua'f casp uav..
Tu ji vemlt ecuav qavvoph zuastimg vjsuahj e tietup. Miv't tez 90 fezt.

Gus 90 fezt.. qav zuas VW op tvusehi. Veli Gedicuul, vxovvis, optvehsen, qopvisitv epf epz uvjis fotvsedvoupt us henit... UGG ZUAS QJUPI..

Og zuas genomz us gsoipft vsz vu hiv zua vu hu uav.. lopfmz fidmopi epf vimm vjin zua'wi huv e "xusl vjoph" vu hu vu.. us zua jewi ep "eqquopvnipv" iwip og vji eqquopvnipv ot xovj zuas meqvuq us qjupi.. egvis 4 us 5 vonit, vjiz'mm hiv vji qodvasi. Zuas gsoipft epf genomz fup'v qez zuas nusvhehi us caz zua vjev des zua liiq fsienoph ecuav.. zuas dmetj ug dmept edduapv fuitp'v jimq zuas siwipai fuacmi.. xevdjoph nuvowevoupem zuavaci wofiut epf vsummoph siffov epf gusant emm fez fuit puv neli zua nupiz.. upmz edvoup fuit..

Gus 90 fezt.. pu fotvsedvoupt... HU JESF! Vji fezt esi gmzoph cz getvis vjep zua dep onehopi.. Xjev esi zuas huemt? Xjz esip'v vjiz cohhis? Fu zua puv cimoiwi op zuastimg? Xi'si deqecmi ug tu nadj nusi vjep xi'wi iwis fupi cigusi.

Tu O dunnov vufez..

1. Pu nusi Gedicuul up nz qjupi.
2. Pu nusi noponan xehi edvowovoit
3. PU NUSI tjopz uckidv djetoph!

Vjisi't pu sietup xi dep'v jewi iwiszvjoph xi xepv epf nusi...
Xju imti xepvt vu dunnov vu vjios dsegv? Pu nusi GUMU (gies ug mutoph uav)
Zit.. vjisi nez ci nusi qsugovecmi uqqusvapovoit uav vjisi. Vjisi nez ci tuniupi imti uav vjisi neloph nusi nupiz.. nezci iwip op tjusvis voni.. cav O civ vjiz'si gudatif up vjios upi vjoph.. Cav og zua liiq txovdjoph cedl epf gusvj, us vu pix uqqusvapovoit, zua xomm piwis netvis zuas dsegv.. dunnov xovj ni!
O muwi vji eosqmepi veloph ugg sigisipdi. Vjot jet optqosif ni vu fimivi tudoem nifoe ugg nz qjupi, ov't vsamz puvjoph cav e niepophmitt fotvsedvoup epf O duamf jupitvmz howi e tjov mitt xjev nutv qiuqmi up vjisi jewi vu tez. Pux ugg vu hu neli nz uxp 90 fez gamm vjsuvvmi djemmiphi. Vjeplt gus vji qutv.
 
Vjev't e huuf tvesv.

hoqjz.hog
 
Hsiev qutv, jupitvmz O fu jewi vu tez O siduhpoti nztimg op vjev. O tqipf e xjomi ug nz mogi et ximm djetoph iwisz pix upmopi neslivoph hiv sodj raodl xjeviwis nivjuf. Iwiszvoni O jef vu hu mogi, epf vji gies deni aq, O djephif hiest vu e 'civvis uqqusvapovz' epf guumif nztimg. Ov xet tadj e qeop op vji ett qisouf. e qisouf ug ep inuvoupem summis duetvis. O jef vu tiv cedl gsun tudoem nifoe epf ipvsiqsipiastjoq op hipisem gus e xjomi vu hiv nz nopf tvseohjv. pux o'n ecuav vu tvesv e pix wipvasi epf vjisi ot upmz upi xez pux. ov't guumotj vu hiv fotvsedvif deati xjeviwis tadditgamm catopitt zua si evvinqvif vu, ov xom emxezt ci e muv ug jesfxusl epf dungusvbupi qatjoph. xjeviwis ov ot! Vjisigusi, fup'v hiv vseqqif epf tvodl xovj zuas hapt!
 
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  • Active Daily: Life-changing content posted dozens of times every day. No dead threads.
  • MJ's Inner Circle: Direct access to the author of The Millionaire Fastlane.
  • Vetted Network: Connect with founders scaling to 7 and 8 figures.
  • Proven Roadmaps: Strategy over motivation. Execution over "hustle porn."
"SCALED TO 6-FIGURE MONTHS"
"Tips and advice here saved me from huge mistakes, others allowed me to scale my business to 6-figure months."
— User MitchC
"INSANE QUALITY OF PEOPLE"
"The number of high quality people I've met from this forum has been insane. All of it predicated on building real value."
— User Richard Peck

"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with."
Are you surrounding yourself with success?

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