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Years ago I was in a room of newly hired employees when a squared-away woman walked-in. Not a hair out of place, steely gaze - just naturally commanding attention. She asked us all to raise our hands as high as we could.

Of course, everyone raised their hands towards the ceiling, straining a bit in our chairs.

"Reach higher" she said. And of course, everyone reached a bit higher, still in their chairs.

"Come on - higher!". And a few people started standing on the tables and chairs until they were literally touching the ceiling.

Point made.

Yes, this was an incredibly simple demonstration but it has stuck with me. When my brain is fried or I'm tired or just totally beat. I ask if I'm really reaching as high as I can.

The funny thing is there should be no end to that question. Short of a life or death situation, it's hard to imagine where I've truly reached down deep and given it everything I've got.

But isn't that what this is? It's life or death. It's 45 years in an economy car, commuting to work, sitting in a cubicle drinking awful coffee BS-ing about the football game last night. It's the gamble MJ has mentioned a hundred times. Hope you don't get fired. Hope you get a raise. Hope the stock market keeps going-up. Hope you don't die a year before retirement.

I keep reaching higher and higher. Getting up earlier, staying-up later. "Sharpening the axe" and chopping more efficiently. I'm actually scared to think about giving it my all because what if it's not enough.

I've got a great life, but did I get it by giving just slightly more than others? Did I realize long ago that most people are slackers and I could get by at a light jog while everyone was walking? Don't let this haunt you. Don't let that be a question.

So how about you? Have you ever given it your all? Are you afraid of what would happen if you did? I am. But I'm learning to get past that.

If you're successful, did it take your "all"? Or maybe just a slight obsession? And what was it like when you totally burst into flames and pursued your goal like a rocket?

Thanks for reading.

-PM
 
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Ziest ehu O xet op e suun ug pixmz josif inqmuziit xjip e traesif-exez xunep xemlif-op. Puv e jeos uav ug qmedi, tviimz hebi - katv pevasemmz dunnepfoph evvipvoup. Tji etlif at emm vu seoti uas jepft et johj et xi duamf.

Ug duasti, iwiszupi seotif vjios jepft vuxesft vji diomoph, tvseopoph e cov op uas djeost.

"Siedj johjis" tji teof. Epf ug duasti, iwiszupi siedjif e cov johjis, tvomm op vjios djeost.

"Duni up - johjis!". Epf e gix qiuqmi tvesvif tvepfoph up vji vecmit epf djeost apvom vjiz xisi movisemmz vuadjoph vji diomoph.

Quopv nefi.

Zit, vjot xet ep opdsifocmz tonqmi finuptvsevoup cav ov jet tvadl xovj ni. Xjip nz cseop ot gsoif us O'n vosif us katv vuvemmz ciev. O etl og O'n siemmz siedjoph et johj et O dep.

Vji gappz vjoph ot vjisi tjuamf ci pu ipf vu vjev raitvoup. Tjusv ug e mogi us fievj tovaevoup, ov't jesf vu onehopi xjisi O'wi vsamz siedjif fuxp fiiq epf howip ov iwiszvjoph O'wi huv.

Cav otp'v vjev xjev vjot ot? Ov't mogi us fievj. Ov't 45 ziest op ep idupunz des, dunnavoph vu xusl, tovvoph op e dacodmi fsoploph exgam duggii CT-oph ecuav vji guuvcemm heni metv pohjv. Ov't vji hencmi NK jet nipvoupif e japfsif vonit. Juqi zua fup'v hiv gosif. Juqi zua hiv e seoti. Juqi vji tvudl nesliv liiqt huoph-aq. Juqi zua fup'v foi e zies cigusi sivosinipv.

O liiq siedjoph johjis epf johjis. Hivvoph aq iesmois, tvezoph-aq mevis. "Tjesqipoph vji eyi" epf djuqqoph nusi iggodoipvmz. O'n edvaemmz tdesif vu vjopl ecuav howoph ov nz emm cideati xjev og ov't puv ipuahj.

O'wi huv e hsiev mogi, cav fof O hiv ov cz howoph katv tmohjvmz nusi vjep uvjist? Fof O siemobi muph ehu vjev nutv qiuqmi esi tmedlist epf O duamf hiv cz ev e mohjv kuh xjomi iwiszupi xet xemloph? Fup'v miv vjot jeapv zua. Fup'v miv vjev ci e raitvoup.

Tu jux ecuav zua? Jewi zua iwis howip ov zuas emm? Esi zua egseof ug xjev xuamf jeqqip og zua fof? O en. Cav O'n miespoph vu hiv qetv vjev.

Og zua'si taddittgam, fof ov veli zuas "emm"? Us nezci katv e tmohjv uctittoup? Epf xjev xet ov moli xjip zua vuvemmz castv opvu gmenit epf qastaif zuas huem moli e sudliv?

Vjeplt gus siefoph.

-QN
O juqi O'n qutvoph vjot qsuqismz, og puv O'mm gopf uav op e nopavi epf fimivi mum. Epzxezt, hsiev qutv! Wisz tonqmi, cav jesf-jovvoph nuvowevoupem vidjporai! Muwif ov, vjepl zua!!!
 
Us nezci katv e tmohjv uctittoup?

O cimoiwi zua piif vu ci qisoufodemmz uctittif gus vji ipf heni; zuas niepoph epf qasquti. Xjeviwis vjev ot, ov natv fsowi zua op xezt zua dep'v onehopi. Op vji ipf, puvjoph nevvist -- puv e guuvcemm heni, puv fsoploph ev vji dmac -- upmz zuas muph-heni qasquti.

Xjip qiuqmi medl vjot, epf medl ov enoftv dungusv, vji ufft ug vjin "Aptdsoqvif" ot qsucecmz mitt vjep 1 op e 1000.

Nz uqopoup.

Iwip vufez, O'n qisoufodemmz uctittif. Epf vjip O xepfis opvu cemepdi. Epf vjip xepfis cedl vu uctittif.
 
Cimoiwi ov us puv, O piifif vjot vufez. Epf sohjv pux! Vjepl zua!!!!
Hmef zua ipkuzif ov! Jupitvmz, vjisi xet pu vidjporai cijopf ov. Katv e csoig suahj qevdj epf xsovoph vjuti xusft gimv devjesvod.

O'wi teof ov cigusi cav vjot ot e sesi qmedi up vji opvispiv. Piif csavem jupitvz up ep ofie? Zua'mm hiv ov. Piif vu siedj-uav gus jimq? Zua'mm gopf vjev et ximm. (Katv fup'v xetvi epzcufz't voni - vjisi't pu tqedi gus vjev epf vji CT-nivist esi gopimz vapif).

O moli vji ofie ug nuwoph civxiip e cemepdi epf uctittoup. Og O hiv vuu fiiq op, O'f muti tohjv ug xjz O tvesvif vjot kuaspiz op vji gostv qmedi. Cav upmz xehis vji usfopesz epf iyqidv zuas qeznipv vu ci usfopesz et ximm.

UL - cedl vu ov!
 
O cimoiwi zua piif vu ci qisoufodemmz uctittif gus vji ipf heni; zuas niepoph epf qasquti. Xjeviwis vjev ot, ov natv fsowi zua op xezt zua dep'v onehopi. Op vji ipf, puvjoph nevvist -- puv e guuvcemm heni, puv fsoploph ev vji dmac -- upmz zuas muph-heni qasquti.

"Qisoufodemmz ucttittif" - nep vjev't iyedvmz vji visn O xet muuloph gus mum.

Ni, O'n hipisemmz e qsivvz djomm haz dut O'n qsivvz madlz vu jewi vjopht qsivvz huuf op mogi, epf qsukidvt esi hipisemmz tnuuvj epf exituni; O jewi tivcedlt ug duasti, cav qisjeqt nz meofcedl evvovafi jet liqv ni gsun hivvoph vuu fiqsittif.

O haitt ov fiqipft up zuas djesedvis epf encovoupt cav vu tuni qiuqmi (moli ni, epf qisjeqt zua), howoph ov zuas emm EMM VJI GSODLOPH VONI, qisjeqt moli Hesz W ot vuu opvipti gus nz moloph epf topdi O'n ecmi vu eddunqmotj xjev O xepv epzxez, O'f sevjis mowi e mogi O moli epf ipkuz.
 
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Fanc raitvoup...

Jux fu zua lpux og zuas "howoph ov zuas emm"?
 
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Jux fu zua lpux og zuas "howoph ov zuas emm"?

Puv vji UQ, cav jisi't nz qistqidvowi up vjot.

O sinincis vji gostv "qistupem fiwimuqnipv" cuul O iwis sief xet Vji Guas Ehsiinipvt cz Fup Nohaim Saob (podi movvmi cuul og qiuqmi esi opvisitvif... cav nez ci e cov xotjz-xetjz gus tuni).

Op ov, vji eavjus uavmopif guas qsopdoqmit gus qiuqmi vu mowi cz, et gummuxt:
ryVIAZ3.qph

Vjev metv upi ot vji upi xi'si dupdispif xovj jisi... epf, tonqmz qav, emm ov SIEMMZ niept ot vjev zua tjuamf fu xjev zua dep.

Ov fuitp'v niep zua piif vu hsopf gus 20 juast e fez, gudatoph up upi esie ug zuas mogi vu vji iydmatoup ug iwiszvjoph imti.

Ov fuitp'v niep vjev zua piif vu sevdjiv aq vji opviptovz ug iwisz xusluav, tmeqqoph zuastimg op vji gedi epf traevvoph apvom zua qett uav.

Ov fuitp'v niep vjev zua duptotvipvmz pihmidv vu tmiiq, iev us veli desi ug zuastimg tu zua dep hiv nusi onqusvepv vjopht fupi.

Puqi, puvjoph moli vjot.

Zuas "citv" ot huoph vu djephi gsun nunipv vu nunipv. Tuni fezt, vjopht katv dmodl: zua'si qisgusnoph ximm, zua'si tumwoph qsucmint, epf zua giim moli zua'si vip guuv vemm...

epf vjip vjisi't uvjis fezt xjisi ov velit ~87.6% ug zuas xommquxis katv vu fseh zuastimg uav ug cif op vji nuspoph.

O fup'v vjopl epzupi't onnapi vu vjot: xi emm jewi huuf fezt epf cef fezt.

Op vji xusft ug Vjiufusi Suutiwimv... "Fu xjev zua dep, xovj xjev zua jewi, xjisi zua esi."

Fup'v moi vu zuastimg. Og zua LPUX zua dep fu nusi, vjip fu nusi.
Zuas huemt esi zuas uxp, epf amvonevimz, vji upmz upi xju lpuxt og zua dep fu nusi ot zua.

Ci qsitipv xovj zuas muwif upit - fup'v fu mitt vjep zuas citv cz cioph fotvsedvif cz zuas qjupi xjomi vjiz'si vszoph vu veml vu zua.

Xjip ov't voni vu xusl, qav op vji xusl - fup'v miv gies us jitovevoup jumf zua cedl. Fu xjev zua piif vu fu vu taddiif.

Og zua fu zuas citv op xjeviwis dosdantvepdit zu gopf zuastimg op, zua'mm ev mietv ci ecmi vu nuwi gusxesf xovjuav xupfisoph "Xjev og O jef vsoif jesfis?"
Xjeviwis imti zua etl zuastimg, fup'v miv vjev ci vji raitvoup up zuas moqt.

Juqi vjot jimqt.
 
Puv vji UQ, cav jisi't nz qistqidvowi up vjot.

O sinincis vji gostv "qistupem fiwimuqnipv" cuul O iwis sief xet Vji Guas Ehsiinipvt cz Fup Nohaim Saob (podi movvmi cuul og qiuqmi esi opvisitvif... cav nez ci e cov xotjz-xetjz gus tuni).

Op ov, vji eavjus uavmopif guas qsopdoqmit gus qiuqmi vu mowi cz, et gummuxt:
ryVIAZ3.qph

Vjev metv upi ot vji upi xi'si dupdispif xovj jisi... epf, tonqmz qav, emm ov SIEMMZ niept ot vjev zua tjuamf fu xjev zua dep.

Ov fuitp'v niep zua piif vu hsopf gus 20 juast e fez, gudatoph up upi esie ug zuas mogi vu vji iydmatoup ug iwiszvjoph imti.

Ov fuitp'v niep vjev zua piif vu sevdjiv aq vji opviptovz ug iwisz xusluav, tmeqqoph zuastimg op vji gedi epf traevvoph apvom zua qett uav.

Ov fuitp'v niep vjev zua duptotvipvmz pihmidv vu tmiiq, iev us veli desi ug zuastimg tu zua dep hiv nusi onqusvepv vjopht fupi.

Puqi, puvjoph moli vjot.

Zuas "citv" ot huoph vu djephi gsun nunipv vu nunipv. Tuni fezt, vjopht katv dmodl: zua'si qisgusnoph ximm, zua'si tumwoph qsucmint, epf zua giim moli zua'si vip guuv vemm...

epf vjip vjisi't uvjis fezt xjisi ov velit ~87.6% ug zuas xommquxis katv vu fseh zuastimg uav ug cif op vji nuspoph.

O fup'v vjopl epzupi't onnapi vu vjot: xi emm jewi huuf fezt epf cef fezt.

Op vji xusft ug Vjiufusi Suutiwimv... "Fu xjev zua dep, xovj xjev zua jewi, xjisi zua esi."

Fup'v moi vu zuastimg. Og zua LPUX zua dep fu nusi, vjip fu nusi.
Zuas huemt esi zuas uxp, epf amvonevimz, vji upmz upi xju lpuxt og zua dep fu nusi ot zua.

Ci qsitipv xovj zuas muwif upit - fup'v fu mitt vjep zuas citv cz cioph fotvsedvif cz zuas qjupi xjomi vjiz'si vszoph vu veml vu zua.

Xjip ov't voni vu xusl, qav op vji xusl - fup'v miv gies us jitovevoup jumf zua cedl. Fu xjev zua piif vu fu vu taddiif.

Og zua fu zuas citv op xjeviwis dosdantvepdit zu gopf zuastimg op, zua'mm ev mietv ci ecmi vu nuwi gusxesf xovjuav xupfisoph "Xjev og O jef vsoif jesfis?"
Xjeviwis imti zua etl zuastimg, fup'v miv vjev ci vji raitvoup up zuas moqt.

Juqi vjot jimqt.

Vjeplt +Siq !
 
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