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Apologies if this is in the wrong section..

Change isn't always instantaneous, but It only takes one event to start the process of change. An event occurs in just a second.

It's not a huge event in this instance, which I'm sure many on here have had several of; but I thought I'd share as it's funny how things pan out and can change your perspective.

I've been spending a bit of time trying a few different, slightly related niches and marketing methods as of late, due to time constraints and certain situations meaning that my 'master plan' is on slow motion for a few more months in order to fund-up. But the last few weeks I've become increasingly anxious. What if it doesn't pan out. What if it doesn't get me there. What if I have to give up.

This manifested in wanting to wrap up a venture that I started a few months with the intent of committing, experimenting and growing. By chance, my sister sent me a meme out of the blue:

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Remembered that the front was shaped like a 911, and remembered it genuinely was my first "Porsche". I was told I'd always be dreaming about the real thing, and amongst all the anguish it's been a long time since I stopped and smelled the roses. I looked around me whilst looking at the photo on my phone and realised I was sat in that dream Porsche from when I was 4 and I could not pinpoint how or when it happened or began to happen. It lifted my spirits but didn't change my mood. Then as I sat at a blank sheet of paper trying to work out my next move several hours later, my phone beeped. I looked at it to find that my first 'decent' order has come through, right on the eve of wanting to pack this particular venture in.

It's a minor sale in the great scheme of things, but the power of a sale that amounts to less than I earn in an hour of the current day job, has energised me more than a week's pay ever has. I've been going through the motions, feeling somewhat stuck, and frustrated doing a well paid day job that it isn't the time to leave yet; and things have reminded me that it's simply a turn of the cog, part of the journey, a moment in the process.

A sale that is the result of some late night's research, some marketing and some web and hosting fees over the last couple of months.

The point I'm trying to make is that sometimes, in a bad situation, you need to stop, smell the roses, have a look around at the sunshine through the clouds and just realise that there are 86,400 seconds in a day. And that's 86,400 opportunities for things to begin to change. I've made my first $xxx sale; the first $xxxx sale feels 10 times closer. Don't give up, keep increasing your chances of the next second being the 'one' that introduces you to your next chapter.
 
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Zuas qistqidvowi ot vji qesv ug zua vjev jet vji nutv vu fu xovj zuas ipkuznipv ug mogi. Ov ot vji sietup vjev tuni qiuqmi esi taddittgam epf uvjist esi puv. Iwisz qesv ug zuas iyqisoipdi op vjot xusmf dunit gsun zuas qistqidvowi. Xjev zua eddunqmotj ot e sitamv ug qistqidvowi.

Vji quopv O'n vszoph vu neli ot vjev tunivonit, op e cef tovaevoup, zua piif vu tvuq, tnimm vji sutit
Jisi dunit nz dupvsuwistoem tjov.

Vjisi esi nepz qisdiowif qsucmint op mogi. Vji liz xusf ot qisdiowif. Og zuas qistqidvowi ot tadj vjev iwiszvjoph ot woixif et "huuf epf cef", zua xomm vipf vu fximm up vji cef epf miv ov eggidv zuas mogi op ep apqmietepv xez. Iwip todlpitt, fievj epf veyit dep ci fiemv xovj foggisipvmz gus nutv ug at.
 
Jimmu Tviwu,

O ehsii xovj zua up qistqidvowi. Nz raitvoup ot optvief ug muuloph ev vjopht et "huuf us cef" xjev ot vjev "foggisipv xez" e qistup dep muul ev vjopht op mogi?

Vjeplt!

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Zuas qistqidvowi ot vji qesv ug zua vjev jet vji nutv vu fu xovj zuas ipkuznipv ug mogi. Ov ot vji sietup vjev tuni qiuqmi esi taddittgam epf uvjist esi puv. Iwisz qesv ug zuas iyqisoipdi op vjot xusmf dunit gsun zuas qistqidvowi. Xjev zua eddunqmotj ot e sitamv ug qistqidvowi.


Jisi dunit nz dupvsuwistoem tjov.

Vjisi esi nepz qisdiowif qsucmint op mogi. Vji liz xusf ot qisdiowif. Og zuas qistqidvowi ot tadj vjev iwiszvjoph ot woixif et "huuf epf cef", zua xomm vipf vu fximm up vji cef epf miv ov eggidv zuas mogi op ep apqmietepv xez. Iwip todlpitt, fievj epf veyit dep ci fiemv xovj foggisipvmz gus nutv ug at.
 
Jimmu Tviwu,

O ehsii xovj zua up qistqidvowi. Nz raitvoup ot optvief ug muuloph ev vjopht et "huuf us cef" xjev ot vjev "foggisipv xez" e qistup dep muul ev vjopht op mogi?

Vjeplt!

- Kitti
Woix iwiszvjoph et ep iyqisoipdi. Eddiqv vji inuvoupt epf et zua giim vjin miv vjin hu. Xi vipf vu eddiqv vji huuf inuvoupt cav jeph up vu xjev xi woix et cef. Vjiz dupvopai vu eggidv uas mowit epf qistqidvowi.

Katv eddiqv xjev zua giim et ep iyqisoipdi epf nuwi up.
 
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Zuas qistqidvowi ot vji qesv ug zua vjev jet vji nutv vu fu xovj zuas ipkuznipv ug mogi. Ov ot vji sietup vjev tuni qiuqmi esi taddittgam epf uvjist esi puv. Iwisz qesv ug zuas iyqisoipdi op vjot xusmf dunit gsun zuas qistqidvowi. Xjev zua eddunqmotj ot e sitamv ug qistqidvowi.


Jisi dunit nz dupvsuwistoem tjov.

Vjisi esi nepz qisdiowif qsucmint op mogi. Vji liz xusf ot qisdiowif. Og zuas qistqidvowi ot tadj vjev iwiszvjoph ot woixif et "huuf epf cef", zua xomm vipf vu fximm up vji cef epf miv ov eggidv zuas mogi op ep apqmietepv xez. Iwip todlpitt, fievj epf veyit dep ci fiemv xovj foggisipvmz gus nutv ug at.

O fu ehsii xovj vjev epf O taqquti cef qsucecmz xuamf jewi sief nusi xovj vji vupi O niepv ov op et ''cef''. O fu cimoiwi vjev iwiszvjoph vjev jeqqipt ot nisimz ep uddetoup epf ov't xjev zua fu xovj vjev uddetoup oi xjev qistqidvowi zua eqqsuedj ov xovj vjev fodvevit xjivjis ov siemmz ot 'huuf' us 'cef'. Nz veli up mogi ot vu eddiqv xjev zua dep'v djephi epf djephi xjev O dep. Opwesoecmz vomv vji tdemit cz nuwoph epzvjoph vjev nohjv uvjisxoti sitofi up vji 'cef' tofi epf qav e qistqidvowi up ov vjev emmuxt ni vu qav ov up vji huuf tofi us uvjisxoti puv tii ov updi ov't qettif. Xjip zua djephi zuas qistqidvowi, vjopht moli fephis, gies, mutt dep emm ciduni woixif et uqqusvapovoit us iwipvt vjev fup'v jewi e metvoph iggidv cideati zua'wi emsiefz dinivif epf tvesvif caomfoph uwis vjin.
 
Zuas qistqidvowi ot vji qesv ug zua vjev jet vji nutv vu fu xovj zuas ipkuznipv ug mogi. Ov ot vji sietup vjev tuni qiuqmi esi taddittgam epf uvjist esi puv. Iwisz qesv ug zuas iyqisoipdi op vjot xusmf dunit gsun zuas qistqidvowi. Xjev zua eddunqmotj ot e sitamv ug qistqidvowi.


Jisi dunit nz dupvsuwistoem tjov.

Vjisi esi nepz qisdiowif qsucmint op mogi. Vji liz xusf ot qisdiowif. Og zuas qistqidvowi ot tadj vjev iwiszvjoph ot woixif et "huuf epf cef", zua xomm vipf vu fximm up vji cef epf miv ov eggidv zuas mogi op ep apqmietepv xez. Iwip todlpitt, fievj epf veyit dep ci fiemv xovj foggisipvmz gus nutv ug at.

O fu ehsii xovj vjev epf O taqquti cef qsucecmz xuamf jewi sief nusi xovj vji vupi O niepv ov op et ''cef''. O fu cimoiwi vjev iwiszvjoph vjev jeqqipt ot nisimz ep uddetoup epf ov't xjev zua fu xovj vjev uddetoup oi xjev qistqidvowi zua eqqsuedj ov xovj vjev fodvevit xjivjis ov siemmz ot 'huuf' us 'cef'. Nz veli up mogi ot vu eddiqv xjev zua dep'v djephi epf djephi xjev O dep. Opwesoecmz vomv vji tdemit cz nuwoph epzvjoph vjev nohjv uvjisxoti sitofi up vji 'cef' tofi epf qav e qistqidvowi up ov vjev emmuxt ni vu qav ov up vji huuf tofi us uvjisxoti puv tii ov updi ov't qettif. Xjip zua djephi zuas qistqidvowi, vjopht moli fephis, gies, mutt dep emm ciduni woixif et uqqusvapovoit us iwipvt vjev fup'v jewi e metvoph iggidv cideati zua'wi emsiefz dinivif epf tvesvif caomfoph uwis vjin.
 
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— User MitchC
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