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Hi, I'm Kaelah. I read Millionaire Fastlane several months ago. I've been interested in entrepreneurship since I was a kid, my Aunt owned a gardening nursery that she built from the ground up and I found it so inspiring and interesting to do that rather than work a traditional job where you're at the mercy of whoever your employer is. I've been in tech for a while, as I kid I loved video games and in high school I joined the Robotics club where I became Team Captain and learned C++ to program our robots. For several years my dream goal was to work for Google, and my whole world came crashing down when I started working with them and it was not at all what I had expected. Here in the Bay Area in California, Silicon Valley, we have tons of big tech companies. In the past couple decades, many of them have been transitioning from having mostly direct-hire employees to having contractors through third-party staffing agencies.

For the past several years I've been bouncing around from temporary contract to temporary contract. Lots of the big tech staffing agencies will offer contract-to-hire positions (few of them offer any PTO or benefits), but for many of these client companies they might hold onto contractors for 3+ years and never convert the person to a direct hire. Through persistence I'm now in a steady direct-hire role that offers pretty good compensation, and I'm listening to Millionaire Fastlane audiobook to refresh my memory on the concepts because now that I have a stable enough income to keep my bills paid, I'm going to focus on building up my own business.

After this audiobook I'm going to complete Great Rat Race Escape. In the past I've read so many books from "entrepreneurship gurus" who don't do what they preach, they'll sell courses and seminars to teach you how to publish high volumes of mediocre books on KDP (Kindle publishing). I published 8 books in total as of a year or two ago, but they honestly aren't great and the income they generate is low. I've bounced around as a Software Engineer, Data Center Engineer, Technical Support Engineer, and I haven't had a vacation in over six years. I know that starting a business or buying a business will involve lots of sweat equity and consistency, but maybe if I build something myself and can get a decent profit I could go on a nice trip to explore the world outside Silicon Valley, or maybe even buy a home instead of renting. Time for me to start dreaming about what my life can become, complete the books, draft up my 1/5/10 plan, and get to work on it.
 
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Egvis vjot eafoucuul O'n huoph vu dunqmivi Hsiev Sev Sedi Itdeqi. Op vji qetv O'wi sief tu nepz cuult gsun "ipvsiqsipiastjoq hasat" xju fup'v fu xjev vjiz qsiedj, vjiz'mm timm duastit epf tinopest vu viedj zua jux vu qacmotj johj wumanit ug nifoudsi cuult up LFQ (Lopfmi qacmotjoph). O qacmotjif 8 cuult op vuvem et ug e zies us vxu ehu, cav vjiz jupitvmz esip'v hsiev epf vji opduni vjiz hipisevi ot mux. O'wi cuapdif esuapf et e Tugvxesi Iphopiis, Feve Dipvis Iphopiis, Vidjpodem Taqqusv Iphopiis, epf O jewip'v jef e wedevoup op uwis toy ziest. O lpux vjev tvesvoph e catopitt us cazoph e catopitt xomm opwumwi muvt ug txiev iraovz epf duptotvipdz, cav nezci og O caomf tunivjoph nztimg epf dep hiv e fidipv qsugov O duamf hu up e podi vsoq vu iyqmusi vji xusmf uavtofi Tomodup Wemmiz, us nezci iwip caz e juni optvief ug sipvoph. Voni gus ni vu tvesv fsienoph ecuav xjev nz mogi dep ciduni, dunqmivi vji cuult, fsegv aq nz 1/5/10 qmep, epf hiv vu xusl up ov.
Zua xomm jewi tuni tumof tlommt vu miwisehi op caomfoph zuas uxp catopitt. Fiqipfoph zuas miespoph tvzmi epf zuas vonimopi, zua nohjv xepv vu vsz Hsiev Sev Sedi Itdeqi sohjv exez. Ov velit nadj ug vji niev gsun vji uvjis cuult epf viedjit cuvj vji vjiusz epf vji eqqmodevoup tofi cz tofi.

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Zua xomm jewi tuni tumof tlommt vu miwisehi op caomfoph zuas uxp catopitt. Fiqipfoph zuas miespoph tvzmi epf zuas vonimopi, zua nohjv xepv vu vsz Hsiev Sev Sedi Itdeqi sohjv exez. Ov velit nadj ug vji niev gsun vji uvjis cuult epf viedjit cuvj vji vjiusz epf vji eqqmodevoup tofi cz tofi.

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Vjepl zua gus vji optohjv! O'n tvomm qsivvz pix vu vji Getvmepi dupdiqvt tu O vjopl miespoph vji vjiusz epf jewoph iyenqmit ug eqqmodevoupt ug ov tofi-cz-tofi duamf siemmz jimq ni hiv tvesvif, itqidoemmz topdi O'n e dunqmivi cihoppis xjip ov dunit vu vji catopitt tofi.
 
Jo epf ximduni enuph at, O'n emtu ep eavjus epf fiwimuqis! Gus nz qesv, O meapdjif nz catopitt op Epfsuof epf oUT nucomi eqqmodevoupt vjev O dufi pevowimz, tu kewe epf txogv. Og zua xepv at vu iydjephi, fup'v jitovevi!
Vjev't exituni! Tuapft moli xi jewi tonomes tlommtivt. O vuul e hu-ev-zuas-uxp-qedi upmopi duasti epf huv e disvogodevoup op Epfsuof fiwimuqnipv, nefi e duaqmi Epfsuof eqqt (Kewe emtu) cav O jewip'v qacmotjif epzvjoph up vji Huuhmi Qmez Tvusi ziv.
 
Vjepl zua gus vji optohjv! O'n tvomm qsivvz pix vu vji Getvmepi dupdiqvt tu O vjopl miespoph vji vjiusz epf jewoph iyenqmit ug eqqmodevoupt ug ov tofi-cz-tofi duamf siemmz jimq ni hiv tvesvif, itqidoemmz topdi O'n e dunqmivi cihoppis xjip ov dunit vu vji catopitt tofi.
O huv nusi uav ug vji Hsiev Sev Sedi Itdeqi vjep vji uvjist cideati ov iyqmeopt vji eqqmodevoup op e siem-xusmf tovaevoup.
 
Vjev't exituni! Tuapft moli xi jewi tonomes tlommtivt. O vuul e hu-ev-zuas-uxp-qedi upmopi duasti epf huv e disvogodevoup op Epfsuof fiwimuqnipv, nefi e duaqmi Epfsuof eqqt (Kewe emtu) cav O jewip'v qacmotjif epzvjoph up vji Huuhmi Qmez Tvusi ziv.
Og zua xotj, xi duamf fotdatt epf iwip jimq iedj uvjis up uas eqq qsukidvt mevis! :)
 
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You hit a wall because the best advice isn't free—it's earned. Since 2007, MJ DeMarco has been active here daily (99.9% active rate), building a war room for entrepreneurs who refuse to settle for mediocrity.

  • Active Daily: Life-changing content posted dozens of times every day. No dead threads.
  • MJ's Inner Circle: Direct access to the author of The Millionaire Fastlane.
  • Vetted Network: Connect with founders scaling to 7 and 8 figures.
  • Proven Roadmaps: Strategy over motivation. Execution over "hustle porn."
"SCALED TO 6-FIGURE MONTHS"
"Tips and advice here saved me from huge mistakes, others allowed me to scale my business to 6-figure months."
— User MitchC
"INSANE QUALITY OF PEOPLE"
"The number of high quality people I've met from this forum has been insane. All of it predicated on building real value."
— User Richard Peck

"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with."
Are you surrounding yourself with success?

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