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Forum membership removes this block.Principals by Ray Dalio.
EDIT: After reading some of the amazon reviews for this book I am left wondering if they actually read the same book I did. This book is a MUST READ.
EVERYONE should be required to watch this once they become an adult.Not read the book yet. But, his video "How The Economic Machine Works" is excellent.
I was raised to be independent, I never fully fit where I was because my mentality seems to have been unscripted one by default
Me too. My whole damn life.
I was't raised to be independent though; in a way I had no choice.
Hello Fastlaners
It's my first comment since my subscription to this forum. I feel full of energy and have faith my life is going to shift !! I will do all my best to read all those books you recommend !!
Thanks to eveybody,
[ I'm from DR Congo, I'm sorry for my english is not so good]
same here, i actually enjoy vacations, and travelling more by myself.I have mixed feelings about this, but I don't know whether it is something personal: I was raised to be independent, I never fully fit where I was because my mentality seems to have been unscripted one by default (I don't recall any moment in my childhood/adolescence that I didn't think jobs sucked and I wanted to have some business or some sort of passive income). Now I'm alone in Chicago and my circles are small, I'm an introvert so I keep quantity vs quantity. But because people have lives I can't see everyone often.
Point being... I enjoy solitude, in fact I recharge my energy that way. I know my happiness comes from within and not depends on attachment to others, etc.
HOWEVER that doesn't mean I WANT to be alone all the time. Can I go to the movies, go to a restaurant, etc by myself? Yes and I have. Do I want to? No.
You could argue I still have a bit of attachment. I mean, we ARE social creatures. As long as it's not an extreme pattern and you are needy and insecure without others...
P.S.Do you guys know any other book that gave you a Paradigm Shift?
i can't recommend you advanced book because you will reject them
we can only live according to our current understanding of life ( most people can't understand this sentence anyway )
your paradigm is that society " is fine and the best thing for you " ( work , watch TV, vote for fools, etc etc )
so we can't go above that . you would reject what is said
anyway, if there are people here smart enough to go above their current beliefs, then they should read this :
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Stuart Goldsmith's innercircle ( for people above the masse )
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Read your post. Got the book(Seneca). Reading it. I am definitely not same. My mentality of things is changing. Thank you for this recommendation. Philosophy is needed in everyones life.Meditations by Marcus Aurelius and Letters from a Stoic of Seneca.
Stoicism has profoundly changed my life. All aspects of my life have benefited from it.
The idea that my interpretation of events and not the events themselves is what bother me, has been monumental.
"if you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it ; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment"
The acceptance of life and death, the recognition that my happiness depends on me and that I don't need much to be happy...
The focus on doing: "waste no more time about arguing what a good man should be. Be one"
Timeless lessons left and right...
PsychoCybernetics by Maxwell Maltz
I'd say it gets the gist of it, though it lacks much of the depth you get from reading it.A lot of people have recommended this book, is this an adequate summary of it? (via ChatGPT)
"Psycho-Cybernetics" by Maxwell Maltz delves into the concept of self-image and its profound impact on one's life. Maltz, a plastic surgeon, observed that even after successful surgeries, some patients' internal perceptions didn't change, sparking his exploration into the psychological aspects of self-image.
The book introduces the idea that the mind operates like a cybernetic system, constantly steering towards goals and making corrections based on feedback. Maltz suggests that by changing one's self-image, a person can alter their life trajectory. This process involves visualizing positive outcomes, building constructive habits, and responding to life's challenges with a healthier mindset.
Key concepts include the imagination's power in shaping reality, the role of positive thinking, and the importance of setting realistic goals. Maltz emphasizes that failure is not a reflection of one's worth but an opportunity for learning and growth.
"Psycho-Cybernetics" advocates for a self-driven approach to personal development, aligning with your interests in personal responsibility and decision-making. It's about harnessing the power of the mind to create a fulfilling life, resonating with your pursuit of happiness, health, and wealth.
I thought I'd share some books that changed my life forever.I'll also add my key takeaway (The Paradigm Shift).
The Absolute Best:
How I Found Freedom in an Unfree World by Harry Browne -It'll give you a Ph.D. in Unscripted mindset. If you're going to read only one book in your life, make it this one and thank me later. Everyone who I recommended this book came back to me to say thank you. This book is that good. If this book doesn't change your life, nothing else will. Period. That's all I can say.
Key Takeaway: You don't have to change yourself for others. You don't have to live up to society's standards. You can live life as you want.
The Rest:
Intimate Connections by David D. Burns - If you suffer from loneliness (all entrepreneurs would) read this book.
Key Takeaway: Practice doing things you want to do with friends, alone. The less you need friends more you have.
No More Mr.Nice Guy by Robert A. Glover - If people keep taking advantage of you, you must read this.
Key Takeaway: Put your needs before other's needs.
Looks: Why They Matter More Than You Ever Imagined by Gordon L. Patzer - If you think looks don't matter, you should read this book.
Key Takeaway: Studies after studies have shown that good looking people are treated better. They earn more. They get better life partners. Even in the court of law, good looking people were given less severe punishments for the same offense.
Getting Things Done by David Allen - Read this if you are not organized with your work.
Key Takeaway: Writing things down will remove the naggings from your head.
Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle - Some people love it, some people hate it. But, it's a wonderful book IMHO.
Key Takeaway: Most of the problems are due to overthinking. You can silence the mind by being a passive observer. (Whatever thoughts come in your mind, simply listen to it. It'll disappear.)
The Millionaire Fastlane by MJ DeMarco - Self-explanatory.
Key Takeaway: Making money is just a mathematical formula (Profits x Units sold).
How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie - No best books list is complete without this classic.
Key Takeaway: Make other people feel important.
There are many more books I consider the best. But these are the books that'll help most people.
P.S.Do you guys know any other book that gave you a Paradigm Shift?
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