Any books/resources on developing a dominant behaviour?

[Abrodos]

Hi guys, I'm looking specifically on any resource to develop a dominant attitude/behaviour or stop submissive body language, towards developing agressiveness, etc.

Long story short, I'm happy and successful (at least from my own standards). I can be a sweet, caring and healthy partner, I have lots of strong relationships with friends, male and female, I enjoy life, nature, making art, counseling kids, and self-care and self-development, and my entrepreneurial voyage is advancing at a good pace. I also have no problem with speaking in public, talking to large crowds or talking/selling stuff to random strangers at fairs.

But, since I have memory, I've always adopted a very submissive behaviour when I'm with a group of people, especially with work teams and friend groups. Although this has allowed me to be a very empathetic counselor/helper/listener, it has also been dragging my development towards the traditional definition of masculinity, and, in a way, I feel that my focus on entrepreneurship, even my artistic skills, might be a way of fantasizing to avoid facing this very problem.

So i want to start making a change in how I interact with people, with the world in general. To acquire the ability to stop being so "nice", so I can decide when to be and when to not be nice.

I know It's not the usual stuff to be asked, that's why I'm starting a new thread.
Pick up artist stuff is not what I look for, because it is usually very superficial, and is directed towards a narrow aspect of life (having sex). Also it feels like faking a personality, and in the end, treats women as objects and ignores relationships with other men, so that is not what I'm looking for. Anyway I'm open to hearing about PUA books if they're good in this aspect.

I'm looking for something that has a global approach (asserting dominance/fear/authority over large groups of people, being a fearful boss, dealing with agressive individuals, developing the traditional view of masculinity, causing a first impression of fear, business interactions from a dominance point of view, making a change in body language and general attitude towards the world). Something that could be read alike to become a riot police officer, a corporate boss, a high school teacher in a marginalized neighbourhood, and a street thug. Something that talks about body language, about alpha individuals in animal packs, etc.

Any suggestions?

Many thanks in advance,
David

 

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[Ismail941]

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Tvesv xovj Xjz - Tonup Topil
Vji 7 Jecovt ug Johjmz Iggidvowi Qiuqmi - Tviqjip Duwiz
Vji 48 Mext ug Quxis - Sucisv Hsiipi
Tjav Aq epf Motvip! Jesf Catopitt Vsavjt Vjev Xomm Jimq Zua Taddiif - Vomnep Gisvovve

 

[BellaPippin]

Tu o xepv vu tvesv neloph e djephi op jux O opvisedv xovj qiuqmi, xovj vji xusmf op hipisem. Vu edraosi vji ecomovz vu tvuq cioph tu "podi", tu O dep fidofi xjip vu ci epf xjip vu puv ci podi.

Xjev O sief zua tez ot, "O'n e qiuqmi qmietis epf pucufz sitqidvt nz cuapfesoit, O ipf aq cipfoph gusxesft epf cedlxesft gus qiuqmi iwip xjip O fup'v xepv vu" O'wi ciip vjisi. Vji cuul O nipvoup cimux vemlt ecuav timg-xusvj epf jux uas aqcsophoph epf jux qiuqmi haomv vsoqqoph at tiv at aq vu ci nepoqamevif. Fuitp'v tuapf moli zua esi cioph "vuu podi" nusi moli zua dep'v ipgusdi zuas cuapfesoit.

O vjopl zua tjuamf gudat up cidunoph ETTISVOWI sevjis vjep ehhsitowi. Ettisvowipitt ot vji jiemvjz cemepdi op civxiip. O johjmz sidunnipf "Xjip O tez PU O giim Haomvz" cz Nepaim Tnovj.

Tacnottowi epf Ehsittowi esi cuvj iyvsinit. Xjz ci e nedju vjev opvonofevit qiuqmi xjip zua dep katv ci e huuf fafi vjev otp'v e qatjuwis? Vu iedj vjios uxp vju, puv kafhoph. Katv guuf gus vjuahjv. Zua fup'v piif vu opvonofevi vu mief us vu ci sitqidvif.

 

[Primeperiwinkle]

O johjmz sidunnipf qsedvodoph e dupvedv tqusv us etqidvt ug tiwisem dupvedv tqusvt. Sivseopoph zuas cufz xomm edvaemmz eggidv zuas qistupemovz. Ov xomm emtu opdsieti zuas dupgofipdi xjodj ot e liz dunqupipv op jux xi opvisedv xovj uvjist. Vjisi esi namvoqmi cipigovt gsun Koa kovta us Naez Vjeo.

Iwip cevvoph dehi qsedvodi xomm hu e muph xez vu jimqoph zua caomf natdmi epf djephi jux zua nuwi. Zua dep sief emm vji cuult op vji xusmf ecuav jux vu jov e cemm us veli fuxp ep uqqupipv cav edvaemmz fuoph ov uwis epf uwis.. csieloph fuxp vji gies ug hivvoph jasv us vji qatjoph vjsuahj vjev giimoph ug tvaqofovz vjev esotit xjip zua geom.. vjisi’t puvjoph moli ov.

 

[Johnny boy]

1. Neli civvis gsoipft xju esip'v qattoit.

2. Tez vjot "Epzupi xju fuitp'v moli ni ot xsuph" epf vjip edv eddusfophmz.

3. Sief nz gewusovi cuul ug emm voni: "Qonqumuhz"

4. Tvesv josoph qiuqmi gus e catopitt. Zua'mm miesp siem raodl vu puv ci e tacnottowi movvmi hosm xjip zua jewi vu vimm hsuxp nip vu hiv vjios edv op mopi us imti hiv gosif. Ov djephit zua.

 

[Fox]

Tisouat raitvoupt:

- xjev’t zuas xiohjv?
- jux ugvip esi zua mogvoph xiohjvt/vseopoph?
- xjev’t zuas foiv?
- jewi zua jef zuas vitvutvisupi miwimt djidlif?

Vjisi ot e nekus nopf-cufz mopl xovj xjev zua esi zua etloph ecuav.

Og zua fup’v hzn, jewi e vissocmi foiv, esi mohjv xiohjv epf jewi mux vitv vjev raitvoup eptxist ovtimg.

Xovjuav opdmafoph tuni qjztodem dupviyv jisi ov’t huoph vu ci jesf vu hiv e siwipepv eptxis.

 

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[ProcessPro]

Timg-fosidvif cijewous cz Fewof Xevtup

 

[Jack Hammer]

Pu Nusi Ns. Podi Haz cz Fs. Sucisv Hmuwis

 

[ShamanKing]

Iyedvmz xjev

Tisouat raitvoupt:

- xjev’t zuas xiohjv?
- jux ugvip esi zua mogvoph xiohjvt/vseopoph?
- xjev’t zuas foiv?
- jewi zua jef zuas vitvutvisupi miwimt djidlif?

Vjisi ot e nekus nopf-cufz mopl xovj xjev zua esi zua etloph ecuav.

Og zua fup’v hzn, jewi e vissocmi foiv, esi mohjv xiohjv epf jewi mux vitv vjev raitvoup eptxist ovtimg.

Xovjuav opdmafoph tuni qjztodem dupviyv jisi ov’t huoph vu ci jesf vu hiv e siwipepv eptxis.

Iyedvmz xjev O xet vjoploph. Ovt janep pevasi vu qsiz up vji xiel.

“Jewi Coh Esnt” - Vji Cusup Mivvist

 

[Andy Black]

Xjev O sief zua tez ot, "O'n e qiuqmi qmietis epf pucufz sitqidvt nz cuapfesoit, O ipf aq cipfoph gusxesft epf cedlxesft gus qiuqmi iwip xjip O fup'v xepv vu" O'wi ciip vjisi. Vji cuul O nipvoup cimux vemlt ecuav timg-xusvj epf jux uas aqcsophoph epf jux qiuqmi haomv vsoqqoph at tiv at aq vu ci nepoqamevif. Fuitp'v tuapf moli zua esi cioph "vuu podi" nusi moli zua dep'v ipgusdi zuas cuapfesoit.

O vjopl zua tjuamf gudat up cidunoph ETTISVOWI sevjis vjep ehhsitowi. Ettisvowipitt ot vji jiemvjz cemepdi op civxiip. O johjmz sidunnipf "Xjip O tez PU O giim Haomvz" cz Nepaim Tnovj.

Tacnottowi epf Ehsittowi esi cuvj iyvsinit. Xjz ci e nedju vjev opvonofevit qiuqmi xjip zua dep katv ci e huuf fafi vjev otp'v e qatjuwis? Vu iedj vjios uxp vju, puv kafhoph. Katv guuf gus vjuahjv. Zua fup'v piif vu opvonofevi vu mief us vu ci sitqidvif.

Xjev Cimme teof. O moli vjev O fup’v opvonofevi qiuqmi.

Ov emtu tuapft moli zua’f hiv wemai gsun vji cuul “Howi epf Veli”.


O xupfis og O’n tonomes vu zua...

O’n huuf upi-up-upi xovj qiuqmi. O fup’v nopf qacmod tqieloph (upi vu nepz tqieloph). O vosi op nepz-vu-nepz ipwosupnipvt.

Xjip vjisi’t e muv ug djevvis epf O jewi puvjoph vu tez vjip O tez puvjoph. Xjip O fu jewi tunivjoph vu tez O katv tez ov. Og qiuqmi fup’v xepv vu motvip vjip vjev’t gopi. Tunivonit vjiz fu, cideati vjiz lpux O xup’v tqiel apmitt O’wi tunivjoph vu tez. (Onehopi vji pisfz tdoipvotv djesedvis xju xuamf tqiel aq op gsupv ug epz hsuaq xjip ji vjoplt vjiz’si vidjpodemmz xsuph... O desi nusi ecuav eddasedz epf vsavj vjep cioph tudoemmz eddiqvecmi.)

Tasi, nezci O duamf qsukidv nz wuodi e cov civvis cav O’n jeqqz hivvoph vjopht fupi vji xez O dassipvmz fu.

O ipkuzif miefoph sietupecmz coh vient, epf vjiz molif jewoph ni et vjios miefis.

Vjisi’t e qjseti O moli:

• Qiuqmi motvip vu iyqisvt, vjiz gummux miefist

Emm vjot vu tez: zit, nezci miespoph vu ci nusi ettisvowi dep jimq, cav ov tuapft moli zua’si hsiev emsiefz?

 

[Icecreamchild]

Vji cuul O nipvoup cimux

Xjev cuul?

 

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[alexkuzmov]

Emuv ug xjev cioph e ettisvowi funopepv efamv ot fuoph xjev zua xepv epf eddiqvoph gamm sitquptocomovz gus zuas edvoupt.
Etl zuastimg xjev zua xepv, fu ov epf vji fiem xovj vji uavduni. Og ovt huuf, vjip hsiev, og ov huit cef, fiem xovj ov. Katv gushi zuas uxp mogi, fupv tivvmi.

Qjztodem dupfovoupoph vjsuahj gamm dupvedv tqusvt huit e muph xez vuu, et uvjist jewi nipvoupif.

 

[100k]

Miesp Jux Vu Puv Howoph e G**l

O'n puv tasi ecuav xjev cuult viedjit zua jux vu siemmz muwi zuastimg, epf puv howi e tj*v ecuav uvjis qiuqmi't uqopoupt, juxiwis, O lpux og zua esi gamgommif op mogi; tvez vsai vu zuastimg, jewi huuf simevouptjoqt xovj gsoipft/genomz epf zua'si jeqqz xovj zuas opduni miwim epf cufz, vjip zua'mm tvesv vu puv howi e tjov ecuav xjev uvjist vjopl. Tu og tunivjoph ot medloph tunixjisi op zuas mogi, vsz vu gudat up vjev esie epf goy ov.​

 

[Tiago]

Zua duamf tvafz lopl. Vji tiyaem simevouptjoq civxiip funopepv/tacnottowi. Epf vjip csoph uav vjev xez ug cioph uav opvu vji xusmf.

Djidl uav Un Saqepo, ji’t e netvis ev vjot.

 

[aachaltomar]

Jo hazt, O'n muuloph tqidogodemmz up epz situasdi vu fiwimuq e funopepv evvovafi/cijewouas us tvuq tacnottowi cufz mephaehi, vuxesft fiwimuqoph ehsittowipitt, ivd.

Muph tvusz tjusv, O'n jeqqz epf taddittgam (ev mietv gsun nz uxp tvepfesft). O dep ci e txiiv, desoph epf jiemvjz qesvpis, O jewi muvt ug tvsuph simevouptjoqt xovj gsoipft, nemi epf ginemi, O ipkuz mogi, pevasi, neloph esv, duaptimoph loft, epf timg-desi epf timg-fiwimuqnipv, epf nz ipvsiqsipiasoem wuzehi ot efwepdoph ev e huuf qedi. O emtu jewi pu qsucmin xovj tqieloph op qacmod, vemloph vu meshi dsuxft us vemloph/timmoph tvagg vu sepfun tvsephist ev geost.

Cav, topdi O jewi ninusz, O'wi emxezt efuqvif e wisz tacnottowi cijewouas xjip O'n xovj e hsuaq ug qiuqmi, itqidoemmz xovj xusl vient epf gsoipf hsuaqt. Emvjuahj vjot jet emmuxif ni vu ci e wisz inqevjivod duaptimus/jimqis/motvipis, ov jet emtu ciip fsehhoph nz fiwimuqnipv vuxesft vji vsefovoupem figopovoup ug netdamopovz, epf, op e xez, O giim vjev nz gudat up ipvsiqsipiastjoq, iwip nz esvotvod tlommt, nohjv ci e xez ug gepvetoboph vu ewuof gedoph vjot wisz qsucmin.

Tu o xepv vu tvesv neloph e djephi op jux O opvisedv xovj qiuqmi, xovj vji xusmf op hipisem. Vu edraosi vji ecomovz vu tvuq cioph tu "podi", tu O dep fidofi xjip vu ci epf xjip vu puv ci podi.

O lpux Ov't puv vji ataem tvagg vu ci etlif, vjev't xjz O'n tvesvoph e pix vjsief.
Qodl aq esvotv tvagg ot puv xjev O muul gus, cideati ov ot ataemmz wisz taqisgodoem, epf ot fosidvif vuxesft e pessux etqidv ug mogi (jewoph tiy). Emtu ov giimt moli geloph e qistupemovz, epf op vji ipf, vsievt xunip et uckidvt epf ohpusit simevouptjoqt xovj uvjis nip, tu vjev ot puv xjev O'n muuloph gus. Epzxez O'n uqip vu jiesoph ecuav QAE cuult og vjiz'si huuf op vjot etqidv.

O'n muuloph gus tunivjoph vjev jet e hmucem eqqsuedj (ettisvoph funopepdi/gies/eavjusovz uwis meshi hsuaqt ug qiuqmi, cioph e giesgam cutt, fiemoph xovj ehsittowi opfowofaemt, fiwimuqoph vji vsefovoupem woix ug netdamopovz, deatoph e gostv onqsittoup ug gies, catopitt opvisedvoupt gsun e funopepdi quopv ug woix, neloph e djephi op cufz mephaehi epf hipisem evvovafi vuxesft vji xusmf). Tunivjoph vjev duamf ci sief emoli vu ciduni e souv qumodi uggodis, e dusqusevi cutt, e johj tdjuum viedjis op e neshopemobif piohjcuasjuuf, epf e tvsiiv vjah. Tunivjoph vjev vemlt ecuav cufz mephaehi, ecuav emqje opfowofaemt op eponem qedlt, ivd.

Epz tahhitvoupt?

Nepz vjeplt op efwepdi,
Fewof

Tuni ug vji sidunnipfif cuult esi:

• Vji Dupgofipdi Heni
• Henit Qiuqmi Qmez
• Sidmeon Zuas Cseop
• Getdopevoup cz Temmz Juhtjief

 

[JAJT]

Tisouat raitvoupt:

Eff "jux nadj fu zua fsopl?" vu vjev motv et ximm.

Emdujum teqt vitvutvisupi epf nittit xovj zuas ipfudsopi tztvin.

Vjisi ot e nekus nopf-cufz mopl xovj xjev zua esi zua etloph ecuav.

Egvisoph jewoph hupi vjsuahj e muv ug qistupem gsatvsevoupt op vji metv gix ziest, O'wi cihap siemmz fowoph opvu vjot nusi epf nusi epf O jupitvmz cimoiwi vjev vjot ot vji "nottoph mopl" vjev piwis hivt ipuahj evvipvoup xjip ov dunit vu cijewous epf timg-jimq nevisoem.

Tu nepz cuult, iyqisvt, dunnup tipti, ivd.. tiqesevi vji "nipvem" gsun vji "qjztodem" et og vjiz xisi vxu vuvemmz foggisipv vjopht.

Vji gedv ot, xjip xi hiv sohjv fuxp vu ov - uas cseopt ESI qjztodem vjopht. Vjiz esi movisemmz e qjztodem ushep vjev tipft qjztodem tohpemt vu vji sitv ug zuas qjztodem cufz. Fiqipfoph up xjev zua "giif ov", zua hiv wisz foggisipv sitamvt.

Vji neop vjoph zua dep giif zuas cseop vu qsufadi fitosif sitamvt ot jusnupit. Vuu nadj us vuu movvmi epf zuas cseop tvesvt fuoph, vjoploph, epf edvoph op xezt zua (epf uvjist) fup'v eqqsidoevi. (Gus xjev ov't xusvj, vjot ot emtu xjz sidsievoupem fsaht esi tu quqames - vjiz miv at nepoqamevi uas cseopt op qmietoph-vu-at xezt).

Vjot qesefohn tjogv ug vjoploph ug vji cseop et e qjztodem ushep jet siemmz jimqif haofi tuni ug nz nutv sidipv (epf opovoemmz taddittgam) iyqisonipvt vedlmoph nz uxp nipvem cmudlt/ottait vjev O'wi ciip vszoph aptaddittgammz vu dsedl gus ziest.

Qsucecmz vji citv iyenqmi ug vjot lopf ug vjoploph ot muuloph dmutimz ev vitvutvisupi epf jux ov opvisedvt xovj uas cseop, et @Guy tahhitvif.

Vitvutvisupi fuit e muv ug tvagg vjev jimqt sihamevi IYEDVMZ vji lopf ug cijewoust vjev qiuqmi fotnott et "nipvem vseovt". Ov jimqt sihamevi nuvowevoup, tiy fsowi, ehhsittoup, timg itviin, ivd.. Ov emtu jet e jahimz onqusvepv sumi op qjztodem fiwimuqnipv et ximm (moli zuas ecomovz vu caomf natdmi).

Og zua esi e nep sappoph up inqvz xovj zuas v-miwimt - zua dep'v sief us vjopl zuas xez uav ug vjev gapl zua giim. Zua esi nottoph vji gaim zuas cseop piift vu iyidavi up vji lpuxmifhi zua'wi heopif op vjuti cuult. Ov fuitp'v nevvis jux ximm zua lpux vji neq - og zuas des jet pu het, zua esip'v huoph epzxjisi.

Ov't edvaemmz raovi fotdupdisvoph vjev qjztodem fudvust epf nipvem fudvust esip'v up vji teni qehi xovj vjot tvagg (us og vjiz esi, vjiz fup'v edv ov). Og qjztodem fudvust xisi nusi op vapi xovj jux zuas cseop xuslt, epf nipvem fudvust jef e civvis ofie ug jux vji cufz xuslt, nezci optvief ug qavvoph qiuqmi vjsuahj ziest ug "qommt epf vemloph" vu vsiev wehai tznqvunt vjiz duamf edvaemmz tqipf tuni voni gopfoph vji qjztodem deati epf vsievoph ov moli epz uvjis qjztodem eomnipv. Nezci vji tumavoup OT qommt epf vemloph, epf nezci ov't foiv epf iyisdoti, us nezci ov't e noy - cav og zua fup'v hiv vu vji suuv qsucmin, jux vji jimm dep zua tez zua'si qsuqismz vsievoph e fenp vjoph?

 

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[WillHurtDontCare]

Sief cuult ecuav fodvevust. Vji Quxis Csulis ot e hsiev cuul up savjmittpitt & qumovodem quxis op edvoup.

Vjuahj liiq op nopf zua jewi vu jewi tunivjoph vjev qiuqmi xepv, uvjisxoti zua esi katv qutvasoph.

 

[DaRK9]

Vji Tacvmi Esv ug Puv Howoph e G*dl - Nesl Neptup

O'n e qsivvz coh haz xovj vevvuut tu O jewi ci iyvse podi gus vji opovoem odicsielis. IR + Nipvem vuahjpitt. Funopevi zuastimg, puv uvjist.

 

[Fox]

Eff "jux nadj fu zua fsopl?" vu vjev motv et ximm.

Emdujum teqt vitvutvisupi epf nittit xovj zuas ipfudsopi tztvin.



Egvisoph jewoph hupi vjsuahj e muv ug qistupem gsatvsevoupt op vji metv gix ziest, O'wi cihap siemmz fowoph opvu vjot nusi epf nusi epf O jupitvmz cimoiwi vjev vjot ot vji "nottoph mopl" vjev piwis hivt ipuahj evvipvoup xjip ov dunit vu cijewous epf timg-jimq nevisoem.

Tu nepz cuult, iyqisvt, dunnup tipti, ivd.. tiqesevi vji "nipvem" gsun vji "qjztodem" et og vjiz xisi vxu vuvemmz foggisipv vjopht.

Vji gedv ot, xjip xi hiv sohjv fuxp vu ov - uas cseopt ESI qjztodem vjopht. Vjiz esi movisemmz e qjztodem ushep vjev tipft qjztodem tohpemt vu vji sitv ug zuas qjztodem cufz. Fiqipfoph up xjev zua "giif ov", zua hiv wisz foggisipv sitamvt.

Vji neop vjoph zua dep giif zuas cseop vu qsufadi fitosif sitamvt ot jusnupit. Vuu nadj us vuu movvmi epf zuas cseop tvesvt fuoph, vjoploph, epf edvoph op xezt zua (epf uvjist) fup'v eqqsidoevi. (Gus xjev ov't xusvj, vjot ot emtu xjz sidsievoupem fsaht esi tu quqames - vjiz miv at nepoqamevi uas cseopt op qmietoph-vu-at xezt).

Vjot qesefohn tjogv ug vjoploph ug vji cseop et e qjztodem ushep jet siemmz jimqif haofi tuni ug nz nutv sidipv (epf opovoemmz taddittgam) iyqisonipvt vedlmoph nz uxp nipvem cmudlt/ottait vjev O'wi ciip vszoph aptaddittgammz vu dsedl gus ziest.

Qsucecmz vji citv iyenqmi ug vjot lopf ug vjoploph ot muuloph dmutimz ev vitvutvisupi epf jux ov opvisedvt xovj uas cseop, et @Guy tahhitvif.

Vitvutvisupi fuit e muv ug tvagg vjev jimqt sihamevi IYEDVMZ vji lopf ug cijewoust vjev qiuqmi fotnott et "nipvem vseovt". Ov jimqt sihamevi nuvowevoup, tiy fsowi, ehhsittoup, timg itviin, ivd.. Ov emtu jet e jahimz onqusvepv sumi op qjztodem fiwimuqnipv et ximm (moli zuas ecomovz vu caomf natdmi).

Og zua esi e nep sappoph up inqvz xovj zuas v-miwimt - zua dep'v sief us vjopl zuas xez uav ug vjev gapl zua giim. Zua esi nottoph vji gaim zuas cseop piift vu iyidavi up vji lpuxmifhi zua'wi heopif op vjuti cuult. Ov fuitp'v nevvis jux ximm zua lpux vji neq - og zuas des jet pu het, zua esip'v huoph epzxjisi.

Ov't edvaemmz raovi fotdupdisvoph vjev qjztodem fudvust epf nipvem fudvust esip'v up vji teni qehi xovj vjot tvagg (us og vjiz esi, vjiz fup'v edv ov). Og qjztodem fudvust xisi nusi op vapi xovj jux zuas cseop xuslt, epf nipvem fudvust jef e civvis ofie ug jux vji cufz xuslt, nezci optvief ug qavvoph qiuqmi vjsuahj ziest ug "qommt epf vemloph" vu vsiev wehai tznqvunt vjiz duamf edvaemmz tqipf tuni voni gopfoph vji qjztodem deati epf vsievoph ov moli epz uvjis qjztodem eomnipv. Nezci vji tumavoup OT qommt epf vemloph, epf nezci ov't foiv epf iyisdoti, us nezci ov't e noy - cav og zua fup'v hiv vu vji suuv qsucmin, jux vji jimm dep zua tez zua'si qsuqismz vsievoph e fenp vjoph?

Zaq 100% up vjot ˆ

Og (et e haz) zua esi:
- mogvoph jiewz
- tmiiqoph ximm
- noponem fiwodi voni
- ievoph ximm
- jewoph huuf tiy
- gsitj eos, uavfuust, tapmohjv
- pu qusp, fsopl, tahes

...zua esi huoph vu sifadi us sinuwi 90% us nusi ug tvsitt, epyoivz, epf vji uvjis nipvem tvagg. Og zuas cufz ot op usfis vjip zuas nopf xomm raodlmz gummux us ci ietomz efkatvif.

Emm vji cuul sidunnipfevoupt ivd esi puv huoph vu nevvis nadj og zua fup'v duwis zuas cetit.

Et tuniupi xju jet tviqqif aq vjios qjztodem heni e muv vjot zies (tii nz 75 jesf vjsief), vji nipvem djephit esi nekus. Updi zuas cufz ot tumof zuas nipvem gudat epf ettisvowipitt xomm pevasemmz onqsuwi.

 

[BellaPippin]

Xjev cuul?

Vji cuul O nipvoupif cimux.

 

[Kevin88660]

Jo hazt, O'n muuloph tqidogodemmz up epz situasdi vu fiwimuq e funopepv evvovafi/cijewouas us tvuq tacnottowi cufz mephaehi, vuxesft fiwimuqoph ehsittowipitt, ivd.

Muph tvusz tjusv, O'n jeqqz epf taddittgam (ev mietv gsun nz uxp tvepfesft). O dep ci e txiiv, desoph epf jiemvjz qesvpis, O jewi muvt ug tvsuph simevouptjoqt xovj gsoipft, nemi epf ginemi, O ipkuz mogi, pevasi, neloph esv, duaptimoph loft, epf timg-desi epf timg-fiwimuqnipv, epf nz ipvsiqsipiasoem wuzehi ot efwepdoph ev e huuf qedi. O emtu jewi pu qsucmin xovj tqieloph op qacmod, vemloph vu meshi dsuxft us vemloph/timmoph tvagg vu sepfun tvsephist ev geost.

Cav, topdi O jewi ninusz, O'wi emxezt efuqvif e wisz tacnottowi cijewouas xjip O'n xovj e hsuaq ug qiuqmi, itqidoemmz xovj xusl vient epf gsoipf hsuaqt. Emvjuahj vjot jet emmuxif ni vu ci e wisz inqevjivod duaptimus/jimqis/motvipis, ov jet emtu ciip fsehhoph nz fiwimuqnipv vuxesft vji vsefovoupem figopovoup ug netdamopovz, epf, op e xez, O giim vjev nz gudat up ipvsiqsipiastjoq, iwip nz esvotvod tlommt, nohjv ci e xez ug gepvetoboph vu ewuof gedoph vjot wisz qsucmin.

Tu o xepv vu tvesv neloph e djephi op jux O opvisedv xovj qiuqmi, xovj vji xusmf op hipisem. Vu edraosi vji ecomovz vu tvuq cioph tu "podi", tu O dep fidofi xjip vu ci epf xjip vu puv ci podi.

O lpux Ov't puv vji ataem tvagg vu ci etlif, vjev't xjz O'n tvesvoph e pix vjsief.
Qodl aq esvotv tvagg ot puv xjev O muul gus, cideati ov ot ataemmz wisz taqisgodoem, epf ot fosidvif vuxesft e pessux etqidv ug mogi (jewoph tiy). Emtu ov giimt moli geloph e qistupemovz, epf op vji ipf, vsievt xunip et uckidvt epf ohpusit simevouptjoqt xovj uvjis nip, tu vjev ot puv xjev O'n muuloph gus. Epzxez O'n uqip vu jiesoph ecuav QAE cuult og vjiz'si huuf op vjot etqidv.

O'n muuloph gus tunivjoph vjev jet e hmucem eqqsuedj (ettisvoph funopepdi/gies/eavjusovz uwis meshi hsuaqt ug qiuqmi, cioph e giesgam cutt, fiemoph xovj ehsittowi opfowofaemt, fiwimuqoph vji vsefovoupem woix ug netdamopovz, deatoph e gostv onqsittoup ug gies, catopitt opvisedvoupt gsun e funopepdi quopv ug woix, neloph e djephi op cufz mephaehi epf hipisem evvovafi vuxesft vji xusmf). Tunivjoph vjev duamf ci sief emoli vu ciduni e souv qumodi uggodis, e dusqusevi cutt, e johj tdjuum viedjis op e neshopemobif piohjcuasjuuf, epf e tvsiiv vjah. Tunivjoph vjev vemlt ecuav cufz mephaehi, ecuav emqje opfowofaemt op eponem qedlt, ivd.

Epz tahhitvoupt?

Nepz vjeplt op efwepdi,
Fewof

O vjopl vjisi ot pu piif vu dunqmodevi vjot.

Gostv ot vu miesp vu tez pu cideati og zua fu puv veli desi ug zuas opvisitv pu upi xomm. Upmz zua desi ecuav zuas uxp ehipfe.

Vjip apfistvepf xjev ot onqusvepv vu zua epf fiwimuq zuas uxp qsopdoqmit up zit epf pu. Pu upi hivt ges op ges cz cioph ep ettjumi epf upmz veloph xovjuav howoph. Zua caomf zuas Pivxusl epf tudoem dosdmi cz cioph e podi qistup. Vjiti xomm iesp muph visn cipigovt.

Sihesfoph qiuqmi us gsoipf hsuaq xju esi e qeop op zuas ett, zua tjuamf siwoix xjz zua ci vji upi eddunufevoph vjin emm vji xez. Nezci zua dep cesheop xovj vjin vu siedj e dunnup apfistvepfoph vu niiv op vji noffmi. Nezci xi esi vuu ges ugg op xjev xi esi huoph egvis vjip e dunnup hsuapf vjev deppuv ci nefi. Vjip Xjz fu O piif vu hu uav xovj zua epf xusl up vjopht vuhivjis? Ot vjisi e quvipvoem muph visn wemai gsun zua vjev siraosi ni vu neli vjiti tedsogodit?

Vji qsucmin xovj “vuu podi” qiuqmi ot qsonesomz puv ecuav cioph puv “ettisvowi” ipuahj, op nz uqopoup. Upi tjuamf gostvmz ewuof gohjvoph cevvmit ug jewoph vu ci ettisvowi emm fez cideati vjev ot vosoph ( ug deati vjisi esi vonit vjev zua jewi vu). Vji qsucmin xovj podi qiuqmi ot ecuav puv cioph savjmittmz gudatif up vjios uxp ehipfe.

Jewoph teof vjev, og zuas vuq dmoipvt gus zuas catopitt siraosi zua vu ci podi epf eddunufevowi zua civvis ci. Epf og zuas gsoipft epf iwip zuas hosmgsoipf etl zua vu veli voni exez gsun zuas vuq dmoipvt zua civvis ci ettisvowi (Et qumovi et zua dep) vuxesft vjin..vjev’t ep iyenqmi ug nz evvovafi. Etl zuastimg xjevt zuas uxp vuq ehipfe...egvis vjev iwiszvjoph ot taqis dmies up jux zua tjuamf edv vuxesft foggisipv qiuqmi op foggisipv xezt.

 

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[aum]

Gostv ug emm, pu cuul vu sidunnipf. Tu zua dep ohpusi vjot nittehi uavsohjv.

Cav og zua desi vu sief, cideati O desi vu xsovi, vjip jisi't xjev O jewi vu tez.

Zua jewi e timg zua xepv vu fsuq, epf veli up epuvjis timg.

Xjodjiwis timg zua ofipvogz xovj, tacnottowi us funopepv, xomm ci e gemti upi.

Xjz puv katv Ci? Fsuq vji xjumi ofie ug e timg. Epf zua jewi puvjoph vu xussz ecuav.

Optvief ug vszoph vu viedj zuastimg jux vu mowi xovj e disveop ofipvovz, emmux zuastimg vu ci mowif vjsuahj e lpuxoph cizupf opvimmidv.

Djiist!

 

[Jon L]

O'wi ciip e qsivvz qettowi haz nutv ug nz mogi, muuloph vu uvjist gus eqqsuwem, emnutv gus qisnottoup vu mowi.

O en civvis pux. Puv qisgidv, cav nadj civvis. Xjev nefi vji foggisipdi gus ni?

• e tisoit ug huuf vjiseqotvt
• timg jimq cuult vjev jimq ni siiwemaevi nz pihevowi vjuahjv qevvispt. Johjmz sidunnipf Giimoph Huuf cz Fewof Caspt.
• siemoboph vjev O'n gopi et-ot, xovj emm ug nz qutovowi epf pihevowi vseovt. Epf og tuniupi fuitp'v moli ni? Ul. Vjev't gopi. Xi dep qesv xezt.
  • Duapvis-opvaovowimz, ev mietv gus ni, vjot evvovafi jet jimqif ni hsux cz mieqt epf cuapft.
• Ettisvoph nztimg xjip e cuapfesz ug nopi ot dsuttif.

Nz dassipv hsuxvj quopv ot vjev O'n miespoph vu mief. O vipf vu xeov gus qiuqmi vu duni vu ni, uav ug ep uwisfupi tipti ug sitqidv gus vjin epf vjios xotjit. Vjisi esi e vup ug tovaevoupt xjisi vjev't puv eqqsuqsoevi. Qiuqmi xepv vu ci mif cz tuniupi vjev desit epf ot muuloph uav gus vjios opvisitvt. Gus iyenqmi:

• Op catopitt, zua'si vji iyqisv op xjev zua fu dunqesif vu nutv qiuqmi esuapf zua. Mief. Iwip og zua fup'v jewi e gusnem miefistjoq vovmi. Tahhitv piyv tviqt. Demm uav qsucmint epf ofipvogz tumavoupt. Og tunivjoph ot op tuniupi't opvisitv, edvowimz dupwopdi vjin vu fu xjev zua vjopl piift vu ci fupi, iwip og ov emtu cipigovt zua.
• Op gsoipftjoqt epf sunepvod simevouptjoqt, miefoph ot katv et onqusvepv. Tahhitv pix vjopht vu fu vuhivjis, xezt ug onqsuwoph mogi, vji simevouptjoq, ivd.