Advice/tips for working with investors

[GoldenEggs]

I have a situation that I am trying to work through. We have several partners on a real estate deal. We are all active investors but some people have chosen to be less active. We hold weekly conference calls, send email updates as we receive them and have always been available to discuss any questions or concerns further.

However, some partners tend to use inflammatory language when describing the challenges at the property to the other investors. This gets everyone up in arms and wanting to point fingers. But the reality is that we do not yet have the full information or confirmed facts. My preference is to find out the facts surrounding the situation and any possible solutions before presenting the issue to the rest of the group. Yet I don't want to be seen as hiding information.

I am not sure how to work around this. We have had a meeting to air out the feelings but it felt more of a vent session toward me. I am not sure how to redirect the focus to problem solving and away from the blame game.

 

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[yveskleinsky]

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[Diane Kennedy]

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[nomadjanet]

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Huoph vjsuahj vji qsuditt ug neloph e nuvoup cigusi csophoph aq catopitt epf hivvoph e tidupf up vji nuvoup epf sevogzoph e fidotoup dep liiq qiuqmi gsun csopoph aq vjopht cigusi vjoploph vjin vjsuahj xjodj ot ataemz vji qsucmin xjip qiuqmi gmz ugg vji jepfmi moli vjot.
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huuf madl Kepiv

 

[GoldenEggs]

Vjepl zua emm gus zuas giifcedl epf tahhitvoupt! Vjot jet ciip e vuahj xiil, inuvoupemmz, gus ni tu O eqqsidoevi zuas giifcedl.

Vjot ot nz gostv voni cioph qesv ug e meshi hsuaq tu O jewi tuni hsuxoph/miespoph qeopt. E qesvpis wumapviisif vu nepehi opwitvus simevoupt (vu ewuof notdunnapodevoup) tu vjev xi(nz jatcepf epf O) duamf gudat up nepehoph vji qsuqisvz cav moli Foepi epf KTduvv nipvoupif, xi tjuamf emtu dupvedv vji opwitvust opfowofaemmz. Epf zit, figopevimz piif vu tdsiip quvipvoem opwitvust civvis!

Xi'si vszoph vu jewi uvjis opwitvust veli nusi sitquptocomovz op vji qsukidv tu ov fuitp'v eqqies vjev ov't katv "uas" qsukidv. Xi'si xusloph up gopfoph vji sohjv cemepdi ug opgusnevoup cideati pux xi jewi dunqmeopvt vjev vjisi ot vuu nadj opgusnevoup huoph esuapf epf tuni esi jewoph foggodamvz opvisqsivoph ov.

Apgusapevimz, tuni opwitvust xisi opwumwif op e foggisipv qsukidv ev vji teni voni et uast vjev tuasif tu O vjopl xi esi giimoph sitofaem iggidvt ug vjev. Gusapevimz, puv emm vji opwitvust esi neloph inuvoupemmz djeshif fidotoupt/tvevinipvt epf tuapfmz cimoiwi op vji fiem.