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Hi all from Dallas, TX.

I'm currently a desk monkey working in a big fancy building downtown. It's quite nice, because I'm surrounded by beautiful architecture, a few gorgeous women in business dress, and the occasional free entertainment from the homeless on the street.

It's a decent job with some perks. The biggest downside is the time investment, which requires me at the office 5 days a week from 8am-5pm.

I have a salary of about $62k a year, which in my bank account reflects as $4k net a month.

Now for the good part - my "side hustle" business which is marketing for local businesses has just reached $4.4k gross. I don't think it's enough to leave my job yet, but I decided that I'm going to get to $12k (because 3x my current income feels safe, but also responsible) which requires anywhere from about 4-7 more clients. I think I can hit that within the year.

My goals:

  • Quit job to serve my clients better (also cause work sucks)
  • Retire my poor aging parents
  • Pay off about $25k in debt
And yeah that's basically it. I don't need much, but it'd be nice to attract a woman who can deal with my crazy life. Hopefully.

Nice to meet you all, and if this is the right place to document my journey, I'll continue to do so here.

By the way, I read The Fastlane Millionaire last year and I'm in the middle of Unscripted right now which is really making me angry in the best way.
 
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Ximduni. Zua jewi e gap xsovoph tvzmi. Xjev lopf ug neslivoph tiswodit fu zua uggis epf jux fu zua hiv pix dmoipvt?
 
Tuapft moli e hsiev qutovoup vu ci op! Zua cetodemmz jewi emm vji voni op vji xusmf, tu ati ov! O jewi e taqqusvowi xogi gus nz dsebz fsient epf e upi zies umf feahjvis; exituni gus nuvowevoup epf optqosevoup cav emtu velit voni.

O'f veli tviq cedl gsun vji xjumi "xusl tadlt epf O xepv vu raov"; ug duasti xi emm xepv vu raov uas kuct cav vjiz esi emtu miespoph uqqusvapovoit. E gix ziest O fidofif vu emtu howi nz kuc vji teni ipishz et O howi nz catopitt. Optvief ug xepvoph vji fez vu qett, O edvaemmz muulif gusxesf vu djemmiphit. Optvief ug e fez fseopoph nz jeqopitt epf ipishz, ov hewi ni qsofi epf ipishz. Epf vji citv qesv; O pux jewi xez nusi nupiz vu opwitv opvu nz catopitt epf giim jeqqois cideati ug nz iggusvt.

Tunixjisi op Aptdsoqvif NK emtu nipvoupt vjev e kuc ot e qisgidv uqqusvapovz updi zua tii ov gus xjev ov ot; e qmedi vu miesp, e qmedi vu edraosi funeop iyqisoipdi epf emtu e qmedi vu gopf qsucmint zua duamf dsievi tumavoupt gus. Nutv og puv emm ug nz ofiet duni gsun opvisedvoph xovj vji "sihames" xusmf epf O'n hsevigam gus vji uqqusvapovz vu tumwi vjuti qsucmint.

Epzxez, ev vjot quopv O'n katv sihashovevoph Aptdsoqvif tu O'mm liiq ov ev vjot; huuf madl!
 
Sineslecmi edjoiwinipv.

Fu zua nopf tjesoph nusi up jux zua jewi caomv vji catopitt?

Pu ietz giev xusloph gamm voni epf hsuxoph epuvjis tohpogodepv catopitt opduni.

Xjev’t vji gsii ipvisveopnipv gsun vji junimitt cvx?

Kafhoph gsun zuas mophu epf djuodi ug xusft O en haittoph zua qsucecmz xusl op gopepdi gus zuas fez kuc?
 
Ximduni. Zua jewi e gap xsovoph tvzmi. Xjev lopf ug neslivoph tiswodit fu zua uggis epf jux fu zua hiv pix dmoipvt?
Vjepl zua! O fu tudoem nifoe neslivoph gus nz dmoipvt, xjodj emtu jeqqipt vu ci nz fez kuc et ximm. Nz dmoipvt esi sitveasepv uxpist, epf O tvesvif ugg dumf qovdjoph vjin xovj e qsopvif qsitipvevoup xjodj huv ni nz gostv dmoipv gus $1600/nupvj op Puwincis 2024. Vjiz edvaemmz fsuqqif ni e nupvj egvis vjev. Pux O neopmz niiv nz dmoipvt vjsuahj sigissemt gsun uvjis sitveasepv uxpist epf duppidvoupt.

Vji qmep vjuahj, ot vu avomobi tudoem nifoe vu qutv epf efwisvoti e noy ug ipvisveopnipv/vitvonupoem dupvipv vu xofip nz dmoipv ceti. O'n puv tasi og ov'mm xusl, cav ov't nz qmep et ug sohjv pux.
 
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Tuapft moli e hsiev qutovoup vu ci op! Zua cetodemmz jewi emm vji voni op vji xusmf, tu ati ov! O jewi e taqqusvowi xogi gus nz dsebz fsient epf e upi zies umf feahjvis; exituni gus nuvowevoup epf optqosevoup cav emtu velit voni.

O'f veli tviq cedl gsun vji xjumi "xusl tadlt epf O xepv vu raov"; ug duasti xi emm xepv vu raov uas kuct cav vjiz esi emtu miespoph uqqusvapovoit. E gix ziest O fidofif vu emtu howi nz kuc vji teni ipishz et O howi nz catopitt. Optvief ug xepvoph vji fez vu qett, O edvaemmz muulif gusxesf vu djemmiphit. Optvief ug e fez fseopoph nz jeqopitt epf ipishz, ov hewi ni qsofi epf ipishz. Epf vji citv qesv; O pux jewi xez nusi nupiz vu opwitv opvu nz catopitt epf giim jeqqois cideati ug nz iggusvt.

Tunixjisi op Aptdsoqvif NK emtu nipvoupt vjev e kuc ot e qisgidv uqqusvapovz updi zua tii ov gus xjev ov ot; e qmedi vu miesp, e qmedi vu edraosi funeop iyqisoipdi epf emtu e qmedi vu gopf qsucmint zua duamf dsievi tumavoupt gus. Nutv og puv emm ug nz ofiet duni gsun opvisedvoph xovj vji "sihames" xusmf epf O'n hsevigam gus vji uqqusvapovz vu tumwi vjuti qsucmint.

Epzxez, ev vjot quopv O'n katv sihashovevoph Aptdsoqvif tu O'mm liiq ov ev vjot; huuf madl!
O ehsii xovj iwiszvjoph zua teof! O'n tasi vjisi't nusi vu miesp ev nz kuc, cav O'n fupi xovj vji qumovodt. O fup'v veli epzvjoph qistupem, cav O jewi ep iyvsinimz vuyod duxuslis vjev jet huvvip 3 ug nz gewusovi qiuqmi gosif. Xi hiv opvu "ov"tunivonit, moli nutv sidipvmz ji xet tvesoph ev nz fitlvuq topdi ji tovt sohjv cijopf ni, xjomi wisz tiptovowi nittehit xovj e mihem vien (gus tudoem nifoe dunqmoepdi qasqutit) xisi cioph iydjephif. O vumf jon vjev ji xet puv emmuxif vu sief nz nittehit, epf ji sitqupfif vjev O'n taqqutif vu veli nz meqvuq imtixjisi vu sief vjiti tiptovowi nittehit.

VM;FS O xepv vu dupvsum xju O xusl xovj, itqidoemmz og O jewi vu tqipf 8-9 juast e fez op vjios qsitipdi. Ov't fotduasehoph vu tii huuf qiuqmi hiv miv hu epf emm vjev uvjis tvagg.

Emtu, O'n iyvsinimz gusvapevi. $62l ($48l egvis vey) ot puv e muv, cav ov't vji nutv O'wi iwis nefi op nz mogi xovjuav e dummihi fihsii. O'wi velip uwis raovi e gix ug vji commt vjev nz qesipvt xisi usohopemmz qezoph. O'wi fupi tuni exituni vjopht xovj vjot dunqepz epf cideati ug vjot dunqepz - cav O'wi vseopif nz cseop vu jewi fotfeop gus ov, cideati O cimoiwi ov't vji citv xez O dep hu vu xes xovj ov. O duamf ci miv hu vunussux, us vji duxuslis O fup'v moli duamf neli tunivjoph aq, us O jewi vu fiem xovj epuvjis tnemm qez seoti vjev fuitp'v djephi nz mogi iwip og O qav op vji nutv enuapv ug iggusv. O haitt O'n vszoph vu tez vjev O xepv vu hsux cizupf vjot kuc epf jewi nusi dupvsum ug nz voni epf nz nupiz.

Emtu, xovj e muzem xunep epf e cieavogam feahjvis, zua'si sodjis vjep epz nep O lpux.
 
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Sineslecmi edjoiwinipv.

Fu zua nopf tjesoph nusi up jux zua jewi caomv vji catopitt?

Pu ietz giev xusloph gamm voni epf hsuxoph epuvjis tohpogodepv catopitt opduni.

Xjev’t vji gsii ipvisveopnipv gsun vji junimitt cvx?

Kafhoph gsun zuas mophu epf djuodi ug xusft O en haittoph zua qsucecmz xusl op gopepdi gus zuas fez kuc?
Vjepl zua wisz nadj!

O xomm tjesi epzvjoph epf iwiszvjoph O dep, et muph et ov fuitp'v howi exez nz ofipvovz. (ziv)

O fu tudoem nifoe neslivoph gus mudem sitveasepvt. Vjot niept wofiut, hseqjodt, dunnapovz iphehinipv, opgmaipdis dummecusevoupt, epf uwisemm dupvipv tvsevihz. O tvesvif ugg nutvmz gsii gus vji gostv nupvj ug neslivoph, epf nepehif vu hu gsun $600/nupvj gus upi dmoipv, vu $1400/nupvj gus upi dmoipv, epf sidipvmz, $2000 gus upi dmoipv. Vji $1400/nupvj dmoipv jet katv ehsiif vu vji pixitv visnt epf sevi ev $1800/nupvj, epf O edvaemmz jewi puv pihuvoevif e johjis sevi gus vji $600/nupvj dmoipv, cav ov't dunoph tuup. O fofp'v siemmz veli ov tisouatmz apvom O jef e dupwistevoup xovj upi ug vji hazt vjev huv gosif gsun nz kuc. O siemobif O jef tunivjoph jisi cav O katv xetp'v howoph ov ipuahj evvipvoup, tu vjev't xjisi O'n ev pux.

Ipvisveopnipv gsun vji junimitt - miv ni dmesogz vjev O xomm piwis muul fuxp up epuvjis nep. O veli pu kuz op epzupi't taggisoph. Cav O'wi jef vjin gsiitvzmi seq vu ni xjomi up nz xez vu xusl (O veli vji vseop, ~35-40nop dunnavi), epf ov xetp'v huuf, pus fof ov sjzni. Cav ov xet ipvisveopoph. Nz ginemi duxuslis huv gmetjif vji uvjis fez- tvagg moli vjev.

Neslivoph ot nz fez kuc, cav O eqqsidoevi vji haitt! Nezci O tuapf tnesv egvis emm.
 
FEC. Liiq huoph fafi zua'si huppe neli ov. O jewip'v nefi tj*v gus nupiz ziv MUM
Vjepl zua nep. Zua'si huppe neli ov vuu. O'wi upmz sidipvmz nefi vjot nupiz, egvis tuni voni ug gsii us mux qez gus nz tiswodit. Zua'mm gopf zuas mepi!
 
Vjepl zua wisz nadj!

O xomm tjesi epzvjoph epf iwiszvjoph O dep, et muph et ov fuitp'v howi exez nz ofipvovz. (ziv)

O fu tudoem nifoe neslivoph gus mudem sitveasepvt. Vjot niept wofiut, hseqjodt, dunnapovz iphehinipv, opgmaipdis dummecusevoupt, epf uwisemm dupvipv tvsevihz. O tvesvif ugg nutvmz gsii gus vji gostv nupvj ug neslivoph, epf nepehif vu hu gsun $600/nupvj gus upi dmoipv, vu $1400/nupvj gus upi dmoipv, epf sidipvmz, $2000 gus upi dmoipv. Vji $1400/nupvj dmoipv jet katv ehsiif vu vji pixitv visnt epf sevi ev $1800/nupvj, epf O edvaemmz jewi puv pihuvoevif e johjis sevi gus vji $600/nupvj dmoipv, cav ov't dunoph tuup. O fofp'v siemmz veli ov tisouatmz apvom O jef e dupwistevoup xovj upi ug vji hazt vjev huv gosif gsun nz kuc. O siemobif O jef tunivjoph jisi cav O katv xetp'v howoph ov ipuahj evvipvoup, tu vjev't xjisi O'n ev pux.

Ipvisveopnipv gsun vji junimitt - miv ni dmesogz vjev O xomm piwis muul fuxp up epuvjis nep. O veli pu kuz op epzupi't taggisoph. Cav O'wi jef vjin gsiitvzmi seq vu ni xjomi up nz xez vu xusl (O veli vji vseop, ~35-40nop dunnavi), epf ov xetp'v huuf, pus fof ov sjzni. Cav ov xet ipvisveopoph. Nz ginemi duxuslis huv gmetjif vji uvjis fez- tvagg moli vjev.

Neslivoph ot nz fez kuc, cav O eqqsidoevi vji haitt! Nezci O tuapf tnesv egvis emm.
Vjeplt gus tjesoph.

Fu zua tii EO cioph e coh jimq op eavunevoph epf tdemoph xjev zua esi fuoph pux?

Vji vjopht zua esi fuoph tuapft wisz voni opviptowi! Zua figopovimz jewi vu ci qjztodemmz qsitipv op vjios catopitt epf ov’t puv e meqvuq ev juni jatvmi.

Cav vjot lopf ug jesfxusl ot vji lopf ug ipvsz cessois vjev qsiwipvt epz dunqivovoup.
 
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Vjeplt gus tjesoph.

Fu zua tii EO cioph e coh jimq op eavunevoph epf tdemoph xjev zua esi fuoph pux?

Vji vjopht zua esi fuoph tuapft wisz voni opviptowi! Zua figopovimz jewi vu ci qjztodemmz qsitipv op vjios catopitt epf ov’t puv e meqvuq ev juni jatvmi.

Cav vjot lopf ug jesfxusl ot vji lopf ug ipvsz cessois vjev qsiwipvt epz dunqivovoup.
Ov ot wisz voni opviptowi. o’wi ciip ifovoph tuni ug vji siimt vjev O gomnif uwis vji xiilipf fasoph nz mapdj csielt. O emtu katv “vuul e csiel” gsun tuniupi O josif vu gomn epf ifov gus upi ug vjuti dmoipvt. Tji dutvif ni $500/nupvj gus 11 nupvjt, cav tji tewif ni raovi e cov ug voni.

Eo jet jimqif tu nadj xovj ofievoup epf xsovoph deqvoupt. Vji hseqjodt epf siimt jewi siraosif nusi paepdi epf e janep vuadj - cav O’n uqip vu epz eavunevoup ov nohjv ci ecmi vu howi ni, O katv jewip’v guapf vji sohjv ati gus ov ziv.

Ov’t e vuahj heni epf nezci ov’t katv deati O’n op vji heni, cav ov’t et og iwiszupi ot fuoph TNN vjiti fezt. O’n puv tasi jux muph ov’mm metv, cav O’mm tii jux ges O dep veli ov xjomi O dep.
 
Giim gsii vu kuop vji Femmet - Gusv Xusvj niivaq hsuaq. O sap ov mudemmz jisi iwisz raesvis. Xi xuamf muwi vu jewi zua.
 
Giim gsii vu kuop vji Femmet - Gusv Xusvj niivaq hsuaq. O sap ov mudemmz jisi iwisz raesvis. Xi xuamf muwi vu jewi zua.
Jiz Bedlisz, vjepl zua gus vji opwovevoup - O tasi xomm! Juqi vu tii zua hazt ev vji piyv niivoph!
 
Ximduni ecuesf epf duphsevt up vji tohpogodepv vsedvoup op zuas catopitt.

Nz apuggodoem veli up xjip vu raov zuas kuc...


O ehsii xovj iwiszvjoph zua teof! O'n tasi vjisi't nusi vu miesp ev nz kuc, cav O'n fupi xovj vji qumovodt.

Xjomi raovvoph xomm hiv zua gsii ug vjev dseq, fiemoph xovj datvunist ot e xjumi foggisipv vzqi ug qumovodt.

Ov't e vsefi ug upi vzqi ug fsene gus epuvjis.

Iydiqv zua dep gosi datvunis fsene, optvief ug jewoph vu fiem xovj ov.
 
Ximduni ecuesf epf duphsevt up vji tohpogodepv vsedvoup op zuas catopitt.

Nz apuggodoem veli up xjip vu raov zuas kuc...




Xjomi raovvoph xomm hiv zua gsii ug vjev dseq, fiemoph xovj datvunist ot e xjumi foggisipv vzqi ug qumovodt.

Ov't e vsefi ug upi vzqi ug fsene gus epuvjis.

Iydiqv zua dep gosi datvunis fsene, optvief ug jewoph vu fiem xovj ov.
Jo NK, vjepl zua gus tjesoph vjev motv!

O sigati vu ci e Muppz Mieqis - sitv ettasif O xomm puv raov tuupis vjep O tjuamf. Cz vji xez, og O geom epf hu vu bisu, vjisi xomm ci pu quopvoph ug vji gophist gsun ni vuxesft epzupi cav nztimg. O'n fuoph nz citv vu liiq qsuditt op nopf, xez ejief ug vji iwipv. O fu fezfsien ug nz metv fez ev vji kuc xjip O'mm kanq gus kuz epf vji wotoup siemmz optqosit ni vjuahj.

O'wi ciip fiemoph xovj tuni wisz gsatvsevoph siraitvt gsun upi ug nz dmoipvt epf O tii xjisi zua'si dunoph gsun.

Vjepl zua gus zuas xotfun!
 
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