In my early 20's and had a rough patch the last couple of years which nearly destroyed my personality. So not quite a social person mostly because I lived in my head too much and became anxious in social situations. But I absolutely hate it and want to start living and having fun.
I have this problem of being delusional sometimes; thinking people like me when they dont, thinking a girls interested in me when she isnt. What can I do to fix this? It feels so good to think all this but then time goes by and you realise it's fake but since it's become a habit it continues.
I used to overthink all day but lately I have started studying and working out which has distracted me but the 'personality' problem still exists. How do I work on it? How do i improve my social skills right now?
I got a couple of books - the charisma myth/how to win friends and influence people/ but other than that dont really know what to do.
I have this problem of being delusional sometimes; thinking people like me when they dont, thinking a girls interested in me when she isnt. What can I do to fix this? It feels so good to think all this but then time goes by and you realise it's fake but since it's become a habit it continues.
I used to overthink all day but lately I have started studying and working out which has distracted me but the 'personality' problem still exists. How do I work on it? How do i improve my social skills right now?
I got a couple of books - the charisma myth/how to win friends and influence people/ but other than that dont really know what to do.
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