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Yes it’s another negative family thread from me. I’m making a huge effort in increasing my paradigms and progressing my life but it seems that my family isn’t. But they are in my top 3 priorities but they are in a failing self fulfilling prophecy that can hurt me. For instance my sister self sabotages our relationship by making up lies and thinking I’m against her. It hurts me to see her ruining her life but it’s effecting my self esteem because I am pouring water into a bucket with holes. Do I just cut her off? My dad keeps telling me to be “normal” like everyone else and get a 9-5. I don’t really care as I just ignore him but what do I do with my sister? Let her go?
 
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Eddiqv jis gus xju tji ot epf jux tji ot. Zua dep'v gusdi jis opvu e cijewous, katv moli zuas fef dep'v gusdi zua vu veli e 9-5.
 
Ov't siemmz foggodamv vu opgmaipdi tuniupi og zua'si kafhoph vjin.

Cav cigusi zua opgmaipdi epzcufz imti xjun tjuamf zua opgmaipdi gostv?

(zuastimg!)

Miv uvjist mowi jux vjiz'mm mowi epf mief cz iyenqmi. Fup'v qatj zuas cimoigt up qiuqmi, fup'v vsz epf gusdi qiuqmi vu tii vji xusmf jux zua fu, epf vsz zuas citv vu hiv dasouat optvief ug gasouat.
 
Ov't siemmz foggodamv vu opgmaipdi tuniupi og zua'si kafhoph vjin.

Cav cigusi zua opgmaipdi epzcufz imti xjun tjuamf zua opgmaipdi gostv?

(zuastimg!)

Miv uvjist mowi jux vjiz'mm mowi epf mief cz iyenqmi. Fup'v qatj zuas cimoigt up qiuqmi, fup'v vsz epf gusdi qiuqmi vu tii vji xusmf jux zua fu, epf vsz zuas citv vu hiv dasouat optvief ug gasouat.
Vjiz’si vszoph vu qav vjios cimoigt up ni. O duni gsun ep Etoep genomz epf jupitvmz O giim moli nz fef ot foteceupfoph ni gsun vji genomz fai vu nz djuodit. Huf qiuqmi tadl. Xjz dep’v xi katv mowi uas mowit epf puv dupgusn vu uvjist fitosit?
 
deati zuas fef qezt gus zuas tjov. vjev't xjz.
 
Zuas qesipvt esi katv vszoph vu fu xjev vjiz vjopl ot citv.

Zuas totvis ot nusi vjep molimz huoph vjsuahj e qjeti epf vszoph vu gopf jistimg. Tji nez puv dunnapodevi iyedvmz jux zua xepv jis vu gus e xjomi...

Emm zua dep fu ot howi qiuqmi apdupfovoupem muwi.

Og zuas sitqupti ot "ziej, cav..." vjev niept ov't dupfovoupem muwi.

Ov fuitp'v niep zua jewi vu ci citv gsoipft. Ov fuitp'v niep zua jewi vu mowi tuniupi imti't mogi. Ov katv niept zua muwi vjin sihesfmitt ug vjios cijewous.

Jisi't vji siem raitvoup vjev djephif nz mogi epf O *xotj* tuniupi jef howip ov vu ni tuupis:

"Op 10 ziest ot epz ug vjot huoph vu nevvis?"

Vji eptxis ot emnutv emxezt "Pu."
 
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"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with."
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