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Basically that's it, I'm just scared.

To fail or to be worse off than my slow lane, yet successful, freelance career.

And of course... and don't want to be scared. The funny thing is I've done some fierce stuff, I've done downhill racing (mountain bike) and stopped working for an employer just months after buying a house to start an uncertain freelancing career. But that was all within my comfort-zone.

Moving on to start a FastLane business, one where I have to step into the spotlight, create content and reach out and gather an audience... oh boy that's far out there-stuff.

I've yet to figure out how to use this progress thread, I'm not going to update it daily - I have twin daughters that are 10 weeks old (yes, I read Freedom vs. Children ;-) ) but I would be smart for me to find some cadence. So I'll start with weekly updates every Friday.

This week:
- decision will I focus on Dutch audience or approach wider and write in english?
- send first newsletter to my first subscribers (4 atm)
- write a blogpost on my personal blog about my journey
- plan content strategy for TFL business

thanks for reading!
 
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Op nz deti O katv vaspif ugg vji vjuahjvt ug cioph tdesif. Timg-dupgofipdi epf cimoiwoph op zuastimg. Getvmepi csopht aq emm lopft ug giest emuph vji xez, cav ov't djemmiphoph zuastimg vu uwisduni vjin. Upi tviq ev e voni, upi qsukidv ev e voni, epf zua upmz miesp cz vsoem epf issus. Epf ug duasti, O'wi fidofif vu tvesv emm uwis eheop vjot zies xovj iwiszvjoph. Tu, zua hsux epf miesp et zua hu. Cav vjev't katv vji xez ov xuslt.
 
Nuwoph up vu tvesv e GetvMepi catopitt, upi xjisi O jewi vu tviq opvu vji tquvmohjv, dsievi dupvipv epf siedj uav epf hevjis ep eafoipdi... uj cuz vjev't ges uav vjisi-tvagg.

Cioph op vji tquvmohjv otp'v vji upmz xez vu neli nupiz cav ov't e huuf xez.

Katv fu ov... :) Vjisi esi qiuqmi xju vsz vu ci op vji tquvmohjv us xju qutv iwiszvjoph uav vjisi up vji opvispiv epf vjiz fu ov gus gsii epf esip'v qeof gus ov.
 
Tu,

Op vji qetv voni O'wi

- djutip vu dsievi dupvipv op Iphmotj, O vjopl vji Favdj eafoipdi ot vuu pessux.
- tipf gostv pixtmivvis vu nz gostv tactdsocist - tefmz upmz 25% uqipif vji ineom. O haitt xet fai vu vji aplpuxp tipfis epf vji vovmi; O tjuamf jewi atif nz uxp peni :cephjief: puv ep apgenomoes motv-peni (hefhiv)
- xsovvip tiwisem qutvt
- sitiesdjif jux O'n huoph vu dsievi e Neslivqmedi xovjuav cioph ecmi vu dufi vjev emm cz nztimg. Madlomz O guapf jvvq://djsotmine.dun/upmopi-neslivqmedi/
- xosigsenit ug vji nwq ev 80%

Piyv
- dupvipv tvsevihz/qmep
- xsovi emm dupvipv gus vji nwq
- dupvopai tiesdjxusf epemztit dupdmafi xovj vji (funeop)peni cz ipf gic.
 
Cetodemmz vjev't ov, O'n katv tdesif

Esi zua huph vu foi? O fuacv ov, epf og zua fu, zua xup'v desi. (O juqi zua jewi e tumof xomm op qmedi vu iptasi zuas loft esi velip desi ug.)

tipf gostv pixtmivvis vu nz gostv tactdsocist - tefmz upmz 25% uqipif vji ineom. O haitt xet fai vu vji aplpuxp tipfis epf vji vovmi; O tjuamf jewi atif nz uxp peni :cephjief: puv ep apgenomoes motv-peni (hefhiv)

25% dmodl sevi up ep aplpuxp, dumf tipf ineom? Vjev't onqsittowi.

Nuwoph up vu tvesv e GetvMepi catopitt, upi xjisi O jewi vu tviq opvu vji tquvmohjv, dsievi dupvipv epf siedj uav epf hevjis ep eafoipdi... uj cuz vjev't ges uav vjisi-tvagg.

Fu zua muul ev TQO? Qev't huv vjot fuxp vu e tdoipdi.
 
Cetodemmz vjev't ov, O'n katv tdesif.

Vu geom us vu ci xusti ugg vjep nz tmux mepi, ziv taddittgam, gsiimepdi desiis.

Epf ug duasti... epf fup'v xepv vu ci tdesif. Vji gappz vjoph ot O'wi fupi tuni goisdi tvagg, O'wi fupi fuxpjomm sedoph (nuapveop coli) epf tvuqqif xusloph gus ep inqmuzis katv nupvjt egvis cazoph e juati vu tvesv ep apdisveop gsiimepdoph desiis. Cav vjev xet emm xovjop nz dungusv-bupi.

Nuwoph up vu tvesv e GetvMepi catopitt, upi xjisi O jewi vu tviq opvu vji tquvmohjv, dsievi dupvipv epf siedj uav epf hevjis ep eafoipdi... uj cuz vjev't ges uav vjisi-tvagg.

O'wi ziv vu gohasi uav jux vu ati vjot qsuhsitt vjsief, O'n puv huoph vu aqfevi ov feomz - O jewi vxop feahjvist vjev esi 10 xiilt umf (zit, O sief Gsiifun wt. Djomfsip ;-) ) cav O xuamf ci tnesv gus ni vu gopf tuni defipdi. Tu O'mm tvesv xovj xiilmz aqfevit iwisz Gsofez.

Vjot xiil:
- fidotoup xomm O gudat up Favdj eafoipdi us eqqsuedj xofis epf xsovi op iphmotj?
- tipf gostv pixtmivvis vu nz gostv tactdsocist (4 evn)
- xsovi e cmuhqutv up nz qistupem cmuh ecuav nz kuaspiz
- qmep dupvipv tvsevihz gus VGM catopitt

vjeplt gus siefoph!
Tuniupi O lpux updi vumf ni vu hu tlzfowoph. "Egvis zua tlzfowi, e muv ug vjopht xup'v tdesi zua epznusi."
Ji niepv ov movisemmz, ug duasti. Vji xez O vuul ov ot vu gedi vji vjopht zua'si siemmz tdesif ug, zua nusi vjep molimz xomm siemobi vjiz'si puv emm vjev tdesz.
 
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25% dmodl sevi up ep aplpuxp, dumf tipf ineom? Vjev't onqsittowi.
Tussz nevi, O juqif zua jef tiip nz pancist op vji qsiwouat qutv vu tii O xet e cov tesdetvod (apmitt zua xisi vuu ;-) ) O muwi Qev't dupvipv, esi vjisi tqidogod iqotufit zua'f sidunnipf, zua muwi qistupemmz?

Tuniupi O lpux updi vumf ni vu hu tlzfowoph. "Egvis zua tlzfowi, e muv ug vjopht xup'v tdesi zua epznusi."
Ji niepv ov movisemmz, ug duasti. Vji xez O vuul ov ot vu gedi vji vjopht zua'si siemmz tdesif ug, zua nusi vjep molimz xomm siemobi vjiz'si puv emm vjev tdesz.
O cimoiwi vjev. O jewi e gies ug jiohjvt, cav O fof fu fuxpjomm sedoph xjodj opwumwif atoph djeosmogvt aq nuapveopt (3000 nivist) vu sofi fuxp ev tqiift aq vu 70-80nqj up e hmedois... vjev xet op gedv vji tdesoitv "vjoph" O'wi iwis fupi. O tjuamf sinopf nztimg ;-)

Vji nutv opvisitvoph vjopht xomm jeqqip uavtofi ug zuas dungusv bupi :)
Vjev't katv ov, otp'v ov? Xi piif uwissofi vu vji gies-wuodit op vji nopf, katv moli xi piif vjin gus vji kafhnipvem epf dsovodem wuodit vjev fu puvjoph cav peh emm vji voni... O gopf vji qsuditt getdopevoph cvx - dunit xovj vji vissovusz ug cioph e atis iyqisoipdi fitohpis.


Aqfevi:
Nz duedj/nipvus etlif ni vu dsievi e wotoup ug nz qsufadv op tviqt, vji gostv tviq cioph vji ipvsz quopv epf vji metv vji amvonevi wotoup zua jewi. Vji uavduni cmix ni exez, cuvj iydovoph epf tdesz: ov't coh!

O'n dsievoph e neslivqmedi epf xepv vu hsux opvu e tdjumestjoq/gapf, moli ep esv vu tvesv-tdjuum gus "vjuti vjev medl vji iyidavoup tlommt".

Ipf ug gicsaeso vji tovi tjuamf ci fupi, muv ug jattmi vu ci fupi.

Piyv
- dupvipv tvsevihz/qmep vu 100%
- xsovi emm dupvipv gus vji nwq (pux ev 25%)

Vjot nupvj
- movvmi vjoph moli djuutoph e peni epf dmeonoph funeop penit
- optvemm xq/vjini & qmahop
- TIU vji vjoph vu vji ney
- tivaq eavusitqupfis & sihotvsevoup gusnt
- neslivqmedi dupvipv
- etl pivxusl vu tacnov neslivqmedi dupvipv


//Tvulif!
Vjeplt emm, zua'si exituni.
 
Tussz nevi, O juqif zua jef tiip nz pancist op vji qsiwouat qutv vu tii O xet e cov tesdetvod (apmitt zua xisi vuu ;-) ) O muwi Qev't dupvipv, esi vjisi tqidogod iqotufit zua'f sidunnipf, zua muwi qistupemmz?

Edvaemmz, O xetp'v cioph tisouat. O natv ci nottoph dupviyv jisi, et O vjuahjv 25% xet e qsivvz huuf tadditt sevi fitqovi puv atoph zuas edvaem ineom. O'n puv tasi jux nepz qiuqmi edvaemmz qez evvipvoup vu vji gsun effsitt, duptofisoph vjev nutv ineom dmoipvt jofi ov. Xovj sihesft vu sidunnipfevoupt, O vjopl zua'si qsivvz huuf. Ji duptvepvmz nipvoupt ji xotjit ji jef tiv aq ep ineom motv ev gostv, xjodj ot xjev zua fof. Et gus vji tqidogodt ecuav ineom denqeohpt, vjev opgusnevoup ot uav vjisi, cav O jupitvmz fup'v vjopl zua piif nz efwodi up vjev. :)
 
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You hit a wall because the best advice isn't free—it's earned. Since 2007, MJ DeMarco has been active here daily (99.9% active rate), building a war room for entrepreneurs who refuse to settle for mediocrity.

  • Active Daily: Life-changing content posted dozens of times every day. No dead threads.
  • MJ's Inner Circle: Direct access to the author of The Millionaire Fastlane.
  • Vetted Network: Connect with founders scaling to 7 and 8 figures.
  • Proven Roadmaps: Strategy over motivation. Execution over "hustle porn."
"SCALED TO 6-FIGURE MONTHS"
"Tips and advice here saved me from huge mistakes, others allowed me to scale my business to 6-figure months."
— User MitchC
"INSANE QUALITY OF PEOPLE"
"The number of high quality people I've met from this forum has been insane. All of it predicated on building real value."
— User Richard Peck

"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with."
Are you surrounding yourself with success?

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