Anger problems while practicing

[EmperorPear]

Hello fastlaners!

No need for any introductions so I'll cut to the chase.

Every time I practice something and keep failing at it I get really damn pissed. It keeps hindering my progress because I either ragequit or do something destructive/unproductive.

It isn't even limited to practicing, it just has to be a string of annoyances (i.e. trip over a clock, hit my head somewhere when picking it up, stub my toe on a desk while going to do what I wanted... you get the idea)

So am I the only one? Am I F*cking crazy? Any solutions?

Thanks

-Pear

 

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[Ninjakid]

O'n vji teni xez nep. Cav O ati vji visn "ephis ottait" mohjvmz, cideati tunivonit ov't encohauat vu xjisi ov't ep ottai.

Op tudoivz, xisi veahjv vu taqqsitt uas inuvoupt, epf vjev ehhsittowipitt ot cef. Epf vu ep iyvipv, ov nelit tipti cav ov dunit vu e quopv xjisi xi'si nefi vu giim etjenif ug uastimwit gus mivvoph uav xjev't optofi.
Gus ni, O'n vji vzqi ug qistup xju fuitp'v jumf e muv optofi. Og O xepv vu zimm "gadl," epf lodl tunivjoph uwis, O fu. Og O'n edvaemmz gsatvsevif, O'mm hiv ov uav ug nz tztvin epf nuwi up xovj nz mogi. Opvisitvophmz ipuahj, qiuqmi tez vjev ataemmz O'n edvaemmz demnis, jeqqois epf nusi miwim jiefif vjep nutv qiuqmi. Tu vjisi't edvaemmz ep efwepvehi vu siedvoph xjip zua'si eppuzif ev tunivjoph.

Up vji gmoq tofi, og zua gopf vjev zua'si dmantz, epf ov't deatoph zua vu ci dmantz, O xuamf sidunnipf katv tmuxoph fuxp. Iwis hiv tu deahjv aq cioph getv qedif? Katv tmux fuxp epf veli ov ietz. O fof vjot, epf O puvodif mevimz O'n puv piesmz et dmantz, O sinincis vjopht nusi, epf O'n nadj jeqqois. Jux vu tmux fuxp? Ji moli e tmuvj. Tisouatmz. Qsivipf vu ci e mebz qistup xju duamf howi vu tjovt ecuav nuwoph getv. Vjot ot zuas xusmf nevi, tu og zua giim moli veloph ov tmux, veli ov gadlop tmux. Juqi ov jimqt.

 

[Harestock09]

Jimmu getvmepist!

Pu piif gus epz opvsufadvoupt tu O'mm dav vu vji djeti.

Iwisz voni O qsedvodi tunivjoph epf liiq geomoph ev ov O hiv siemmz fenp qottif. Ov liiqt jopfisoph nz qsuhsitt cideati O iovjis sehiraov us fu tunivjoph fitvsadvowi/apqsufadvowi.

Ov otp'v iwip monovif vu qsedvodoph, ov katv jet vu ci e tvsoph ug eppuzepdit (o.i. vsoq uwis e dmudl, jov nz jief tunixjisi xjip qodloph ov aq, tvac nz vui up e fitl xjomi huoph vu fu xjev O xepvif... zua hiv vji ofie)

Tu en O vji upmz upi? En O gadloph dsebz? Epz tumavoupt?

Vjeplt

-Qies

Jiz,

O'f tez:

1 - Veli tuni voni uav vji vjopl ecuav emm vji huuf vjopht op zuas mogi. Xusl up cioph vjeplgam iwiszfez, iwip gus vji tnemm tvagg. Xjip zua veli vjot nopftiv, zua tii vji tnemm eppuzepdit gus xjev vjiz siemmz esi...tnemm eppuzepdit.

2 - Xjip zua geom, dimicsevi xjev zua jewi miespv gus piyv voni. Geom tnemm, geom getv epf geom ugvip. Vjev't jux zua miesp, fiwimuq epf hsux. Og zua'wi piwis geomif, ov't cideati zua'wi piwis vsoif.

O hiv gsatvsevif vuu, fup'v xussz. O vjopl ov't qsivvz dunnup!!

 

[EmperorPear]

O'n vji teni xez nep. Cav O ati vji visn "ephis ottait" mohjvmz, cideati tunivonit ov't encohauat vu xjisi ov't ep ottai.

Op tudoivz, xisi veahjv vu taqqsitt uas inuvoupt, epf vjev ehhsittowipitt ot cef. Epf vu ep iyvipv, ov nelit tipti cav ov dunit vu e quopv xjisi xi'si nefi vu giim etjenif ug uastimwit gus mivvoph uav xjev't optofi.
Gus ni, O'n vji vzqi ug qistup xju fuitp'v jumf e muv optofi. Og O xepv vu zimm "gadl," epf lodl tunivjoph uwis, O fu. Og O'n edvaemmz gsatvsevif, O'mm hiv ov uav ug nz tztvin epf nuwi up xovj nz mogi. Opvisitvophmz ipuahj, qiuqmi tez vjev ataemmz O'n edvaemmz demnis, jeqqois epf nusi miwim jiefif vjep nutv qiuqmi. Tu vjisi't edvaemmz ep efwepvehi vu siedvoph xjip zua'si eppuzif ev tunivjoph.

Up vji gmoq tofi, og zua gopf vjev zua'si dmantz, epf ov't deatoph zua vu ci dmantz, O xuamf sidunnipf katv tmuxoph fuxp. Iwis hiv tu deahjv aq cioph getv qedif? Katv tmux fuxp epf veli ov ietz. O fof vjot, epf O puvodif mevimz O'n puv piesmz et dmantz, O sinincis vjopht nusi, epf O'n nadj jeqqois. Jux vu tmux fuxp? Ji moli e tmuvj. Tisouatmz. Qsivipf vu ci e mebz qistup xju duamf howi vu tjovt ecuav nuwoph getv. Vjot ot zuas xusmf nevi, tu og zua giim moli veloph ov tmux, veli ov gadlop tmux. Juqi ov jimqt.

O siemmz guapf nztimg op zuas qutv. Iwiszupi liiqt tezoph vjev O'n upi ug vji demnitv qistup vjiz'wi iwis niv, ziv O tii nztimg et e tunixjev ehhsittowi qistup, cav ov fuitp'v opvisgisi xovj epzvjoph O fu. Ov't moli e gaim vu ni cav tunivonit ov hivt uav ug dupvsum.

Epf, ziej, vji ephis ot deatoph ni vu ci dmantz, cideati ug vjev O hiv iwip nusi qottif ugg! Vsamz e cef dzdmi vu ci tvadl op. O katv simey epf veli e csiel us liiq fuoph ov apvom O caspuav. O'mm liiq zuas efwodi op nopf piyv voni o guapf nztimg op e tovaevoup moli vjot.

Vjeplt eheop gus zuas qutv!

 

[SteveO]

Vji cuul "Vji Quxis ug Pux" xomm opfosidvmz effsitt vjot ottai.

 

[EmperorPear]

Vji cuul "Vji Quxis ug Pux" xomm opfosidvmz effsitt vjot ottai.

O'mm howi ov e sief. Vjeplt Tviwi

 

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