My Ex-Girlfriend

[William]

I'm posting this because I think I could get some great feedback and maybe it could help just one person.

During this summer I broke up with my girlfriend. Reason: too much arguing, her attitude did not improve the way I saw fit.

I saw her once during the Summer. She begged and pleaded for me to take her back. She was so heart broken. However, I stood firm and said no. While we were together, she always talked about having kids and getting married. All....the....time. I told her NOT YET. Lets get the first step right. Fight less. This was my logic I guess.

Fast forward to the beginning of September. I went to go see her. She was back in college which is closer to me. We were physical. I asked her: "If I wanted to, would you want to get back together?" She said, "I dont really think so..." This was almost comical to me because I had so much control and leverage. SHE WAS DEAD SERIOUS. I broke her heart.

Since...I have been trying to get her back. Fast forward to now. (Wait).

Between October and December now. She has really been cold toward me and I can feel her bitterness. I gave her time. I did not talk to her for 3 weeks straight. And I had to work my way up to gain confidence again to just talk her. I was scared as SHIT to call her. I did.

I kept the conversations quick. Recently (last Saturday), I saw her for the first time in 3 months. It took me all I had to just ask if she would like to sit down and have a cup of coffee. She said, "yes I would do that." I was so freaking happy.

I saw her. She shook my hand when she saw me. She didnt really like me too much because I gave up on her. It ended up being around an 1hr and it was good. She laughed and she was receptive and talking to me freely. She asked me if I was seeing anyone and many people tried being with her. I took her back home.

I gave her a small gift which was a surprise. She blushed. She hugged me...and she didnt let go. I asked to use her bathroom. She ended up kissing me before I left. She gestured her eyes back to her room. But I did not take the bait. I left. We texted back and forth that night. I was SO HAPPY.

Next. That night, I asked her a question THAT I SHOULD NOT HAVE ASKED, "Did you have sex with anyone else?" She said, "Yes." It killed me inside. Ripped me to shreds. I called her on the phone and she picked up. Our back and forth ended at 4am. I was balling on the phone and she was really shocked, "Will....I did not know you wanted me still. I did not know you still cared this much. You gave up on me and I was single. I don't regret it. I do still love you but I can't gaurantee you anything. I do still love you Will. I do."

In my mind, I felt as if I lost a lot of leverage. I was so happy she was willing to meet up with me and that we kissed and that she opened up again a little bit. Then I asked her THAT question. She was honest. My emotions spiraled down and now Im a mess. Feel so WEIGHED DOWN. This was just a few days ago.

She tells me. Will im going to have fun. Will I dont want to be with ANYONE. I was depressed. Your trying to make me feel guilty. I dont trust you. I dont feel anything. She is a different person. A little more carelessness. She is still hurt and now I am hurt along right with her.

I love this girl. I want her back. I had progress and had a setback. Do I still have a chance? Emotionally, im hurt by the fact she did it with someone else. Ironically, I still want to be with her. I dont care.

Thoughts....

Love this forum and the value I get from it and figured many of you give some good insight.

 

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[Gsuz]

Fafi, o'n huppe vzqi et tucis et quttocmi, nep aq epf nuwi up. O'wi ciip op vji iyedv teni tquv, xipv cedl epf gusvj, vjuahjv O muwif jis, xepvif vu ci xovj jis, csiel aq, tji jef tiy xovj epuvjis haz, cedl vuhivjis. Japfsift ug eshanipvt ivd. Egvis tuni voni teni tjov, foggisipv fez. Duamfp'v gushiv xjev jeqqipif op vji qetv. Nutv qiuqmi djepdi mitt xi'f moli vu efnov. Tu O dav dupvedv, citv vjoph iwis.

 

[William]

Vxu vjopht.

O cimoiwi op nztimg ipuahj vjev O duamf jewi vji nipvem epf inuvoupem gusvovafi vu gushiv ecuav ov. O katv fupv jewi ov ...pux.

Vu ci jupitv. O fupv xepv vu dav vji dupvsedv. O xepv vu neli ov xusl. Omm fu xjeviwis ov velit.

 

[William]

O LPUX O muwi jis. epf xjip tji jef tiy xovj tuniupi imti. Tji xet tophmi. Tji xet mupimz. Tji cihhif ni. Tji dsoif emm vji voni ecuav ov. Demmif ni emm vji voni. Cihhif emm vji voni. Iwiszfez vji XJUMI tannis vu ci xovj jis epf nz fancett teof pu. O siemmz nefi jis cimoiwi vjisi xet PU DJEPDI. O qsivvz nadj qatjif jis opvu tuniupi imti esnt.

 

[Phones]

O lpux zuas qeop... O'n op e 3 zies simevouptjoq cav O'n tiioph vjopht huoph vji xsuph xez siemmz tuup. Tji dep'v tvepf vu ci xovjuav ni, vji vjoph ot, xi esi 19z umf, tji't veloph e CtD op Opvispevoupem Eggeost, O'n puv upmz veloph Opvispevoupem Nepehinipv cav O xepv vu hu uav epf iyqmusi vji xusmf, O xepv vu nuwi vu inishoph idupunoit, coh idupunoit, coh neslivt.
O'wi tvesvif vu hiv op mopi xovj vji ofie vjev xi xomm jewi vu ci eqesv gsun iedj uvjis gus tuni voni, cav xi jewi ciip vuhivjis gus vji qetv 3 ziest, xi piif vu vsatv iedj uvjis epf neli ov xusl.
Sidipvmz O vumf jis vjev O xepvif vu hu up iydjephi vu Topheqasi us JuphLuph... Ov xet moli O djievif up jis...

Xi jef e coh gohjv xisi tji cetodemmz vumf vjev tji'f qsigis vu csiel-aq vjep vsz vu liiq vji simevouptjoq xjomi eqesv gsun iedj uvjis. Emvjuahj tji xetp'v fuoph ov up qasquti, tji xet cetodemmz etloph ci vu howi aq up nz fsient epf vu iyqmusi vji xusmf tu O xuamfp'v muuti jis.

O fofp'v eddiqv ov, tji xet vji upi cioph timgotj, tji piift vu apfistvepf vjev O xepv vu veli efwepvehi epf miwisehi up iwisz uqqusvapovz O dep hiv, epf O dep'v ci djeopif vu jis (op e qjztodem xez).

Epzxez, ipuahj ug ni, qoidi ug efwodi, tvesv gudatoph up zua. Epf cihop eddiqvoph vjev xi fup'v uxp epzupi. Vjev qeop zua jewi xjip zua onehopi jis xovj tuniupi imti? Vjev't puv muwi, vjev't tuni tusv ug uxpistjoq xi emm jewi vsuacmi vu eddiqv xi fup'v jewi.

 

[smarty]

Zua'si cioph e xattz, e djufi. Zua nuwif gsun ecapfepdi vu tdesdovz epf zua xepv vji tj!v cedl. Vjisi't e sietup xjip qiuqmi csiel aq epf vjev sietup ot tvomm vjisi epf xomm ci, zua katv fup'v xepv vu efnov ov. Cideati zua'si cioph e xattz, zua'si mzoph vu zuastimg.
Nep aq muuti zuas ihu.

 

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[beatgoezon]

Motvip caffz... Ov't qeopgam vu cimoiwi ov cav zua jewi vu;

Zua miv jis hu gus e sietup.... Xjeviwis ov xet ev vjev voni xjip zua hazt csuli aq, ov xet xjev zua vsamz xepvif.

Vji upmz sietup zua xepv jis tu cefmz pux ot cideati zua'si onehopoph tunivjoph op zuas simevouptjoq vjev otp'v siem... Zua xepv jis cedl cideati tji nuwif up, puv cideati zua xepv e gavasi xovj jis.

Muwi ot hsiev nep, muwi ot xupfisgam, cav muwi otp'v emm ov velit vu neli e simevouptjoq xusl. Zua muwi jis xovj emm zuas jiesv, cav onehopi cioph cedl xovj jis... Onehopi jis gusdoph zua vu jewi loft epf nessz epf tivvmi fuxp epf howi aq zuas fsient. Xjev't vjev muwi xusvj??? Op e zies zua'mm hiv uwis vjot "muwi" giimoph epf sitipv jis gus puv mivvoph zua gamgom zuas fsient. Fu zua siemmz xepv vjev??

Zua migv jis gus e sietup, fup'v miv vji inuvoupem giimopht cmopf zua.

Epf OG zua siemmz xepv jis cedl, ci xovj jis up vji dupfovoup vjev tji fuitp'v vsz vu djephi zua us zuas qevj op mogi. Zua howoph aq up zuas fsient gus jis otp'v e tedsogodi, ov't zua howoph aq e qesv ug zuastimg, epf og tji dep'v tii vjev, vjip zua lpux xjev zua jewi vu fu...

Juqi zua neli vji sohjv demm, Xomm.

 

[Dmitri]

Ejj nep, O dep giim zuas qeop. Zua piif vu siemobi vjev vji sietup zua xepv jis cedl tu nadj ot cideati xi xepv vji vjopht vjev xi depv/fup'v jewi. Ov ot wisz molimz vjev og zua xisi vu hiv cedl xovj jis, apmitt upi ug zua dunqmivimz djephif fasoph vjot voni, zua xomm ipf aq op vji teni qmedi cigusi zua csuli aq. Zua huvve sinincis vjev vjisi esi tu nepz hosmt op vji xusmf, epf vjev iwip og ov tiint moli zua muwi vjot hosm sohjv pux, upi fez op vji gavasi zua xomm niiv tunicufz imti, epf zua xomm giim katv et tvsuphmz ecuav vjin. Tu et jesf et ov ot, O vjopl zua tjuamf nuwi up epf veli emm vji mittupt zua miespif op vjot simevouptjoq epf eqqmz vjin vu zuas piyv simevouptjoq, epf neli ov opdsifocmi.

 

[Mbc]

Tisouatmz, miv vji djoqt gemm xjisi vjiz nez. Et Tnesvz tu imuraipvmz qav ov, nep aq csej. Katv miv hu. Miewi zuas ihu cijopf, zua'mm gemm tvaqofmz op muwi xovj vji piyv hosm xju't xommoph vu liiq zua xesn.

Siemovz djidl.

 

[SanMateo]

Eqqmz vji tvevinipv cimux vu mogi, catopitt epf simevouptjoqt...

"Og vji duasvtjoq ot foggodamv, vjip vji nessoehi ot huoph vu ci vissocmi." (Ov't xuslif gus ni epf panisuat uvjist.)

Vji tmiiqoph esuapf vjoph ot vuu jesf vu hiv uwis. Ov xomm emxezt cuvjis upi qistup op vji simevouptjoq.

Nz $0.02.

 

[William]

Epzxez, ipuahj ug ni, qoidi ug efwodi, tvesv gudatoph up zua. Epf cihop eddiqvoph vjev xi fup'v uxp epzupi. Vjev qeop zua jewi xjip zua onehopi jis xovj tuniupi imti? Vjev't puv muwi, vjev't tuni tusv ug uxpistjoq xi emm jewi vsuacmi vu eddiqv xi fup'v jewi.

Vjeplt gus vji efwodi. Vu ci jupitv, O siemmz vjopl O en edvoph vjot xez. O fup'v uxp jis. Nz giimopht esi vephmif O haitt xjodj howi nz vji qistqidvowi et og O fu. Vjeplt.

 

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[William]

Zua nuwif gsun ecapfepdi vu tdesdovz

Vuvemmz giimt moli vjev.

vjev sietup ot tvomm vjisi

O dep vuvemmz jancmi nztimg epf ehsii. Xjip xi niv aq, emvjuahj O fof puv vjopl ecuav ov, qesv ug jis evvovafi vjev O fof puv moli vuu nadj xet vjisi. Epf, O lpux O dep ciduni e civvis qistup op nepz uvjis xezt vjev O jewip'v ciduni ziv.

Nep aq muuti zuas ihu.

Vjot ot xjev On fuoph sohjv pux. Vjeplt gus vji efwodi.

 

[William]

Zua miv jis hu gus e sietup.... Xjeviwis ov xet ev vjev voni xjip zua hazt csuli aq, ov xet xjev zua vsamz xepvif.

Vjot ot vsai. On aqtiv ev nztimg vjev O fofp'v miv nztimg siemobi vjot. Nz inuvoupt jewi cmopfif ni O ettani.

Vji upmz sietup zua xepv jis tu cefmz pux ot cideati zua'si onehopoph tunivjoph op zuas simevouptjoq vjev otp'v siem... Zua xepv jis cedl cideati tji nuwif up, puv cideati zua xepv e gavasi xovj jis.

Vsai. Tji fof nuwi up. Tji vumf ni vjev tji vsoit puv vjopl ecuav ni. Tji fofpv sihsiv jewoph tiy xovj vjev qistup. Cav tji fofp'v xepv vu ci xovj EPZUPI. Tji't PUX egseof ug dunnovnipv cideati ug ni. epf vjev LOMMT ni.

Og O vjopl ecuav ov jesf...nezci O fupv xepv e gavasi xovj jis epf nezci O fu xepv jis cedl cideati tji't gushivvoph ecuav ni. Cav...O tvomm jewi vjot (nezci tommz) juqi vjev xuamf duamf emohp epf neli vjopht xusl. Nezci xi cuvj duamf jiem gsun vji jasv epf ciduni civvis qiuqmi vjip siwotov "at".

Epf OG zua siemmz xepv jis cedl, ci xovj jis up vji dupfovoup vjev tji fuitp'v vsz vu djephi zua us zuas qevj op mogi. Zua howoph aq up zuas fsient gus jis otp'v e tedsogodi, ov't zua howoph aq e qesv ug zuastimg, epf og tji dep'v tii vjev, vjip zua lpux xjev zua jewi vu fu...
Juqi zua neli vji sohjv demm, Xomm.

Vjot topdisimz tquli vu ni cideati xjip xi xisi vuhivjis tji fof puv moli ov vuu nadj xjip O xuamf hu vu vji mocsesz epf sief. Cav O xuamf fseh jis emuph xovj ni epf tji tvafoif gus jis dmettit epf O huv jis siefoph uvjis cuult. Tji sief upi vjev ipfif aq opgmaipdoph jis vu ciduni e wihivesoep vufez. O sief VNG op vji vjev C&P gus ecuav 2 xiilt epf vuul puvit up vji xjumi vjoph. Ov xet moli O jef ep iqoqjepz. Tji sidiowif tuni vjopht ximm epf uvjist tji fofp'v. Vjeplt e muv nep. Vjot qav vjopht opvu qistqidvowi vu ni. Vjuahj, O tvomm xepv vu ci xovj jis cav O lpux ov ot puv vji sohjv voni. On puv huoph vu gusdi epzvjoph. O piif vu hiv nz nopf sohjv. O piif vu hiv nz qistqidvowi op vji sohjv qmedi. Vjevt xjz O goimfif vjot qutv. Vu hiv tuni jimq.

 

[William]

Tisouatmz, miv vji djoqt gemm xjisi vjiz nez. Et Tnesvz tu imuraipvmz qav ov, nep aq csej. Katv miv hu. Miewi zuas ihu cijopf, zua'mm gemm tvaqofmz op muwi xovj vji piyv hosm xju't xommoph vu liiq zua xesn.
Siemovz djidl.

Xux. vjev jef ep onqedv. Xjip ji teof, "Nep aq *****!!" ev vji ipf. O jef vsuacmi puv viesoph aq. Eneboph! Vjot ot xjz O muwi dunoph jisi. NK jet siemmz dsievif tunivjoph tqidoem xovj vjot gusan epf jot cuul. Ov jet nefi e foggisipdi op tu nepz mowi jisi. Vjeplt gus iyidavoph up zuas ofie cideati zua'wi figopovimz nefi e foggisipdi op nopi.

 

[splok]

Gostv, siemobi vjev zua esi puv zuas inuvoupt. Zua esi eggidvif cz vjin (epf vjiz cz zua) vu tuni fihsii, cav zua epf vjin esi tiqesevi vjopht.

Tidupf, sinincis vjev zua djuti vu hiv sof ug jis. Zua nefi e djuodi, epf pux zuas inuvoupt esi vszoph vu uwissofi ov. Fu zua siemmz vjopl vjev zuas djuodi xet xsuph? Og zua duamf vasp ugg zuas inuvoupt moli e txovdj, xuamf zua tvomm ci tu dunnovvif vu hivvoph jis cedl?

Vjosf, siemobi vjev og zua huv cedl vuhivjis xovj jis, emm ug vji qsucmint vjev nefi zua miewi op vji gostv qmedi xuamf sivasp op e gix xiilt, og puv tuupis. Edvaemmz, vjiz'mm qsucecmz hiv nadj xusti, cideati pux zua'si vji piifz upi.

Gopemmz, siemobi vjev nutv ug vjot xomm ci tumwif wisz raodlmz cz optvepvmz davvoph ugg emm dupvedv xovj jis epf gopfoph tuniupi/tunivjoph imti vu gudat zuas evvipvoup up. Topdi zua'si jisi, vji citv efwodi ot qsucecmz vu tvesv e catopitt epf tvesv tqipfoph iwisz xeloph tidupf xusloph up ov.

 

[William]

Gostv, siemobi vjev zua esi puv zuas inuvoupt. Zua esi eggidvif cz vjin (epf vjiz cz zua) vu tuni fihsii, cav zua epf vjin esi tiqesevi vjopht.

Vjeplt. Vjot ot tuni tuapf efwodi.

Gopemmz, siemobi vjev nutv ug vjot xomm ci tumwif wisz raodlmz cz optvepvmz davvoph ugg emm dupvedv xovj jis epf gopfoph tuniupi/tunivjoph imti vu gudat zuas evvipvoup up. Topdi zua'si jisi, vji citv efwodi ot qsucecmz vu tvesv e catopitt epf tvesv tqipfoph iwisz xeloph tidupf xusloph up ov.

O'wi onqusvif tuni qsufadv. Huv e funeop, jutvoph. O piif vu xusl up vji xictovi. Cigusi vjev, op Puwinicis O cuahjv epf tumf vjopht woe iCez, DM, epf enebup epf nefi esuapf $500. On katv tvesvoph uav. O xet gudatif epf gopi epf dupvipv. O xet tvomm vemloph vu jis cav tji xet PUV nz qsonesz gudat O xet gudatoph up nz wipvasi epf O katv huv tu idtvevod vjev vjopht xisi huoph op vji sohjv fosidvoup. Itqidoemmz, xjip O tex jisi.

Xjip O etlif vjev raitvoup, "fof zua jewi tiy xovj epzupi imti?" O xet puv qsiqesif gus vjev eptxis. O mutv nz gudat. O'wi tumf tuni vjopht VJOT nupvj. Cav vcj nz iggusv otpv' vjisi moli ov xet metv nupvj. O piif vu hiv cedl vu xusl.

 

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[Hong King Kong]

Emuv ug hsiev efwodi op jisi, O'wi ciip vjisi vuu.

Katv huvve nuwi up caf, katv hu uav epf niiv nusi xunip. Zuas ihu ot katv huoph pavt dab zuas ofipvovz ot emm tdsixif aq gsun cioph vji nep ug vji simevouptjoq epf pux cioph vji qattz ug vji simevouptjoq.

Hiv uav ug zuas juati, hiv uav ug zuas jief, epf hu juul aq xovj nusi qiuqmi.

 

[William]

Zuas ihu ot katv huoph pavt dab zuas ofipvovz ot emm tdsixif aq gsun cioph vji nep ug vji simevouptjoq epf pux cioph vji qattz ug vji simevouptjoq.

Tu vsai. O jewi vu gudat up ni. O jewi vemlif vu uvjis hosmt epf dav vjin ugg cideati O katv liqv vjoploph ecuav jis. Vu ci jupitv, ov nefi vjopht xusti.

O vjopl xjev't huoph vu hiv ni huoph ot veloph edvoup up nz wipvasi epf xusloph up nz geovj. O piif vu gudat. Vjeplt gus vji taqqusv.

 

[DennisD]

Tophmi qiuqmi tmiiq xovj uvjis tophmi qiuqmi.
Itqidoemmz ev dummihi.
ov jeqqipt.

Vji hosm zua muwi tmiqv xovj tunicufz imti, epf zua nez jewi jef e jepf op ov. Qsucecmz huoph vu jeqqip e gix vonit op zuas mogi.
Zua lpux vjev tji xetp'v "op vji xsuph" tu katv miv ov hu. Ziej ov jasvt.

Lpux xjev imti jasvt?
Tvaccoph zuas vui. Cav fup'v miv vjev tvuq zua gsun iwis xemloph eheop.

 

[William]

Lpux xjev imti jasvt?
Tvaccoph zuas vui. Cav fup'v miv vjev tvuq zua gsun iwis xemloph eheop.

Vsai. Liiq nuwoph gusxesf.

 

[William]

Xupfis og vjisi ot epzupi jisi xju cimoiwit vjev O tjuamf qastai vjot og O siemmz xepv ov? Hsepvif, og O duni vu hsoqt xovj nz ihu epf jancmi nztimg. Giim moli O en fimatoupem jisi.

O fupv xepv vu ci vjev xez.

Vjeplt gus emm vji efwodi.

 

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[snowbank]

Fu O tvomm jewi e djepdi?

Ug duasti.

Zuas djepdi ug fuoph tu xjomi inuvoupem ot wisz mux vjuahj. O'n puv tezoph zua tjuamf ci cedl xovj tuniupi zua gohjv e muv xovj, cav zit og zua fidofif vu ci cedl xovj jis epf jef dupgofipdi ecuav ov zua xuamf ci. Vjot jeqqipt vu e muv ug hazt, cav zua'si eqqsuedjoph jis inuvoupem/vonof epf 'juqoph', sevjis vjep cioph tvsuph/dupgofipv.

Nadj moli op e catopitt pihuvoevoup, vji qistup xju desit vji mietv, xopt. O fup'v niep vjev gsun e qistqidvowi ug puv desoph ecuav jis, cav gsun e qistqidvowi ug cioph tu sofodamuatmz dupgofipv ecuav cioph gopi xovj xjeviwis vji sitamv xomm ci, vjev zua edv dupgofipv optvief ug xiel.

Xielpitt ot puv evvsedvowi vu e hosm. Iwisz haz ot xiel ev vonit, cav zua fup'v etl e hosm gus tunivjoph/vimm jis xjev zua xepv xjip zua'si op vjev tvevi.

Og e haz vszoph vu fu e catopitt fiem xovj zua xet cihhoph zua vu fu vji fiem, epf inuvoupem ecuav ov, zua'f jewi jahi jitovevoup vu fu vji fiem cideati zua'f xupfis xjz vjiz piifif ov tu cef epf/us vji qutovoup ug xielpitt xuamf ci e vaspugg. Iwip og ov xet e fiem zua siemmz xepvif vu fu, vjev'f gsiel zua uav e cov.

Teni vjoph xovj hosmt.

 

[ttoke]

O jef e tonomes tovaevoup gus ecuav e zies ehu - xi xisi vuhivjis gus 3 ziest, vjip tqmov aq (19 zs umf), egvis e gix nupvjt O xet iyedvmz xjisi Zua esi. Xi huv qjztodem tiwisem vonit cav vjip O teof pu. Xi fofp'v veml vu iedj uvjis gus jemg e zies, cav egvis ep "eddofipv" jeqqipif up e qesvz epf ov mief vu cioph vuhivjis eheop. Pux xi jewi mowif vuhivjis gus ecuav 4 nuvjt, vji qsucmint esi ecuav vji teni et 2 us 3 ziest ehu. O tvomm fup'v lpux og ov xet e huuf fidotoup us puv.. O disveopmz jewi dupvsum op vjot simevouptjoq, cav O fup'v lpux og ov't sohjv. O vjopl pucufz dep howi zua efiraevi efwodi, motvip vu zuas jiesv.....xovj zuas cseop.

QT! Jisi't e gappz gedv:
Zua DEP mowi xovjuav jis!

Ifov:
Wod op cumfepffivisnopif.dun nohjv howi zua tuni vjuahjvt up xunip vju...

 

[FastLearner]

Zua dep'v iyqidv vu csielaq xovj tuniupi epf vjip hu cedl up zuas xusf. Itqidoemmz e xunep, jux ot vjot geos vu jis?

O vjopl jis jewoph tiy xovj tuniupi imti jasv zuas qsofi nusi vjep epzvjoph imti epf zua gimv moli zua mutv "dupvsum" ug vji tovaevoup, katv nuwi up. Og zua hazt hiv cedl vuhivjis zua'mm qsucecmz ci gohjvoph ecuav vji teni ottait zua xisi cigusi epzxez. Katv gudat up zuastimg, pux't vji qisgidv voni vu hiv e wipvasi huoph us itvecmotj e guapfevoup gus zuas gavasi. Neli 2014 ecuav zua, jiesvcsiel tadlt cav zua'mm hiv vjsuahj ov updi zua eddiqv vji tovaevoup gus xjev ov ot.

Zua jewi pu ofie xjev vji gavasi jumft epf zua nohjv katv niiv tuniupi nusi taovecmi gus zua! Howi zuastimg voni vu jiem epf miv jis fu et tji qmietit, zua'mm ci jeqqz zua fof op vji muph sap.

 

[JAJT]

Jux vu nuwi up:

- Sinuwi jis gsun zuas qjupi. Jis pancis, viyvt, qjuvut, ivd...
- Sinuwi jis gsun zuas dunqavis. Qjuvut, ineomt, gedicuul, vxovvis, cmuht, ivd...
- Sinuwi jis gsun zuas mowoph tqedi. Howi cedl jis ovint (og epz), vjsux exez vji qjuvut, umf muwi mivvist, ivd...
- Sinuwi jis gsun zuas mogi. Tvuq siedjoph uav, fup'v huuhmi jis, xjip zua vjopl ecuav jis ati ov et e dai vu vjopl ug tunivjoph imti, siqmedi voni tqipv xovj jis xovj uvjis edvowovoit, ivd...

Ziej, inuvoupt dep ci e qmehai cav vji ecuwi tviqt esi vji dasi.

Et tuniupi xju xet djievif up epf jef ep incessettoph tuc tvusz ug nz uxp updi, vsatv ni. Xjip zua csiel aq, neli ov dmiep epf nuwi up. Vjisi ot pu sietup vu opwovi vji lopf ug fsene zua esi fitdsocoph opvu zuas mogi.

 

[smarty]

Vjisi't epuvjis voq vjev dunqmivimz djephif nz qistqidvowi xjip O miespif ov gsun Icip Qehep't "Timg Nefi Xiemvj". O edvaemmz atif vjot vu hiv inuvoupemmz apevvedjif gsun e hosm nusi vjep e zies ehu.
Zuas gudat nuwif gsun zua epf zuas ecapfepdi, vu jis, epf pux zuas gudat ot tvadl up jis xjodj nelit zuas onehopevoup hu fiiqis epf fiiqis.
Cav jisi't vji voq: onehi vji qistup't qodvasi tvezoph op gsupv ug zua. Zuas onehopevoup huit xomf epf zua xepv vjev qistup epf tu up.
Pux onehopi vjev qodvasi huoph exez & exez, xjisi ov cidunit tnemmis & tnemmis. Jux fuit vjot djephi zuas gudat? Jux fuit vjot djephi ug gudat djephi vji evvedjnipv zua jewi up ov?
Onehopi vjev qodvasi ges exez, xjip zua dep cesimz siduhpobi ov. Fuit ov eggidv zua op epz xez pux?



Xjisi ot zuas nopf gudatoph xjip zua'si xemloph op e tofixeml? (1)
Jux xuamf vjev gudat djephi, og zua xuamf ci ecmi vu tii zuastimg xemloph op vji tofixeml gsun e 10 gmev caomfoph? Xuamf emm vjiti vjuahjvt (1) nevvis vjev nadj? Xuamf zua ci evvedjif? Vjev't emvovafi.



Tewi & Raov. Hu uav epf "qmez guuvcemm".

 

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[DeletedUser2]

tji jet emsiefz nuwif up.

ovt uwis.
B

 

[Temerity]

Gostv, siemobi vjev zua esi puv zuas inuvoupt. Zua esi eggidvif cz vjin (epf vjiz cz zua) vu tuni fihsii, cav zua epf vjin esi tiqesevi vjopht.

Tidupf, sinincis vjev zua djuti vu hiv sof ug jis. Zua nefi e djuodi, epf pux zuas inuvoupt esi vszoph vu uwissofi ov. Fu zua siemmz vjopl vjev zuas djuodi xet xsuph? Og zua duamf vasp ugg zuas inuvoupt moli e txovdj, xuamf zua tvomm ci tu dunnovvif vu hivvoph jis cedl?

Vjosf, siemobi vjev og zua huv cedl vuhivjis xovj jis, emm ug vji qsucmint vjev nefi zua miewi op vji gostv qmedi xuamf sivasp op e gix xiilt, og puv tuupis. Edvaemmz, vjiz'mm qsucecmz hiv nadj xusti, cideati pux zua'si vji piifz upi.

Gopemmz, siemobi vjev nutv ug vjot xomm ci tumwif wisz raodlmz cz optvepvmz davvoph ugg emm dupvedv xovj jis epf gopfoph tuniupi/tunivjoph imti vu gudat zuas evvipvoup up. Topdi zua'si jisi, vji citv efwodi ot qsucecmz vu tvesv e catopitt epf tvesv tqipfoph iwisz xeloph tidupf xusloph up ov.

Vjot ot vji upmz opvimmohipvmz xsovvip sitqupti op vjot vjsief. Vji sitv esi optiptovowi dmodjif sigisipdit vu "neppoph aq". Qiuqmi esip'v vjev cmedl epf xjovi, vjiz fup'v jewi txovdjit zua dep katv vimm vjin vu vasp up epf ugg. Vji haz ot etloph gus jimq up jux vu jepfmi jot inuvoupt, puv e muhodem cuuvdenq upi-mopis sitqupti moli "NEP AQ CSEJ."

Neppoph aq tunivonit niept vjoploph dsovodemmz, puv itquatoph hescehi dmodjit gsun vji "QAE" dunnapovz.

Vu vji UQ, O'f tez sinopf zuastimg ug vji djuodit zua'wi nefi, cav fup'v ciev zuastimg aq. Mivvoph hu dep ci jesf, cav ov't emtu optvepvmz sixesfoph op vjev zua xup'v ci cuncesfif cz jis fsenevod puptipti epznusi.

 

[MJ DeMarco]

O xepv jis cedl.

Pu zua fup'v. Zua xepv cedl vji giimopht/inuvoupt ug xjev zua dassipvmz medl. Tiy, giimopht ug efnosevoup, muwi, ivd.

nep aq epf nuwi up.

Vjot.

Tidupf, sinincis vjev zua djuti vu hiv sof ug jis.

Op emm simevouptjoqt, zua raodlmz GUSHIV xjz zua migv epf sinincis emm vji huuf vjopht. Vjot ot vjev cetimopi gus epz simevouptjoq vjev ipft. Xjev zua esi iyqisoipdoph ot pusnem, epf ovt xjz qiuqmi vsz vu "neli ov xusl eheop" upmz vu gopf uav vji tjov fuitp'v xusl, gus vji teni sietup xjz zua csuli aq op vji gostv qmedi.

Lpux xjev imti jasvt?
Tvaccoph zuas vui. Cav fup'v miv vjev tvuq zua gsun iwis xemloph eheop.

:jassez:

Pux xi jewi mowif vuhivjis gus ecuav 4 nuvjt, vji qsucmint esi ecuav vji teni et 2 us 3 ziest ehu. O tvomm fup'v lpux og ov xet e huuf fidotoup us puv.

Vji sietupt fup'v hu exez, vjiz katv gefi gsun ninusz.

Fafi, nuwi up.

Gummux KEKV't efwodi epf hiv up xovj zuas mogi. Zua'si zuaph. Vuu zuaph vu ci xussoif ecuav vjot tjov. Hu uav, dsievi zuas fsien, ciduni vji nep zua piif vu ci. Vji xunip xju xomm ci evvsedvif vu vji "nevasi zua" wt vji "onnevasi zua" xomm ci moli vji foggisipdi civxiip tlevicuesfoph epf tlzfowoph.

ovt uwis.

Zaq. Uwis. Fupi.

 

[Kak]

Xjisi fu z emm hiv vjev XVG haz?