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My girlfriend and I have been dating for over 2 years now, and we are both madly in love, more in love than we've ever been, despite the early part of this year (the puppy love fading). I have been introduced into this fast-lane goal mindset just this year, and taking it seriously. She just started studying at university. She needs more time for school because its serious, and there is just a lot of homework/reading/studying to do, every week. She doesn't want to be falling behind in school which is totally understandable because its expensive as shit.

Sort of feels like she meant she's "wasting time" when she comes over, but I could be over-analyzing.

Now, this is gonna leave us to seeing each other roughly once a week. Maybe I could go over to her place for a quick coffee sometimes. Hopefully a bit consistent lol. I'm worried that less time together might pull us apart? Maybe not, I don't know. I have never experienced not being able to see her that little. I do think we'll be just fine, I just need to stop worrying and use that extra time for my business and make shit happen.

Any advice for this situation? What can I do to make her feel like I am supporting her? I could probably be more understanding... Throw some advice/experience my way. We have a great relationship, I don't want to be the guy that isnt understanding and suffocates his girl.
 
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