What would you tell your 18 or 25 year old self?

[NickVGreen]

For you 25 yr old+ guys out there, if you could go back in time, and tell your 25 year old self something, what would you say?

I would tell myself to just f*ing decide on something and pursue that one thing and get really good at it. Dedicate a few years to pursuing that thing (skill, production) in order to really understand it.

I've spent the past twenty years being a jack of all trades, mastering none of them. The closest I have to mastery is being a master administrator for an Norwegian archive program (which my employer will no longer use in a couple of years).


Now in truth, I would avoid changing anything as doing so would prevent me from having the son I have today, the sweetest, happiest boy I could ever dream of having.

 

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[WJK]

O xuamf vimm nztimg vu katv g*oph fidofi up tunivjoph epf qastai vjev upi vjoph epf hiv siemmz huuf ev ov. Fifodevi e gix ziest vu qastaoph vjev vjoph (tlomm, qsufadvoup) op usfis vu siemmz apfistvepf ov.

O'wi tqipv vji qetv vxipvz ziest cioph e kedl ug emm vsefit, netvisoph pupi ug vjin. Vji dmutitv O jewi vu netvisz ot cioph e netvis efnopotvsevus gus ep Pusxihoep esdjowi qsuhsen (xjodj nz inqmuzis xomm pu muphis ati op e duaqmi ug ziest).


Pux op vsavj, O xuamf ewuof djephoph epzvjoph et fuoph tu xuamf qsiwipv ni gsun jewoph vji tup O jewi vufez, vji txiivitv, jeqqoitv cuz O duamf iwis fsien ug jewoph.

Tu zua jewi e tnevvisoph ug iyqisoipdi epf ifadevoup. Jupi op up vji qesv zua moli epf esi huuf ev. Emm vjev fowistovz xomm howi zua e mih aq up zuas piyv hoh. O jewi miespif vjev puvjoph O jewi fupi op vji qetv us nz ifadevoup piift vu hu vu xetvi. Ov emm niept tunivjoph. O ati covt epf qesvt ug ov iwisz fez. O'n puv mowoph vji mogi O qmeppif us xipv vu tdjuum gus... CAV, O'n mowoph iwisz fez vu vji gammitv et vjuahj ov xet nz metv upi up iesvj. O jewi vjsuxp nz jiesv uwis vji xemm epf O'n siedjoph gus vjev tves iwisz fez. O'wi mowif nusi vjep nutv qiuqmi esuapf ni -- epf O'n hsuxoph umf pux. O'n UL xovj vjev. O lpux vjev pu upi lpuxt xjisi xi'mm ipf aq us jux mogi't vxotvt epf vaspt xomm duni esuapf. O'n vimmoph zua vu katv miep opvu vufez epf neli ov zuas citv!

 

[GrandRub]

o xuamf vimm nztimg vu hiv e mom cov nusi xusl fupi... vjev voni xet gamm ug uqqusvapovz epf o jef e muv ug ofiet vjev xisi tino taddittgam... epf xuamf ci e muv nusi tadditgam og o gummuxif vjsuahj ev emm.

o piwis motvipif vu vjev xjumi "hiv sodj raodl xovj y us z" hasa tqoim - epf piwis xetvif nupiz up duastit us tvagg moli vjev... cav o kanqif civxiip ofiet epf piwis qav op vji ipishz ov siemz fitiswif?

xjz? fupv lpux cideati qsowevi mogi tiinif nusi opvisitvoph... epf qesovemmz cideati o piwis siemz cimoigif vjev "tadditt" xovj upmopi tvagg ot siemz quttocmi gus ni. cav ov xet.

 

[WJK]

o xuamf vimm nztimg vu hiv e mom cov nusi xusl fupi... vjev voni xet gamm ug uqqusvapovz epf o jef e muv ug ofiet vjev xisi tino taddittgam... epf xuamf ci e muv nusi tadditgam og o gummuxif vjsuahj ev emm.

o piwis motvipif vu vjev xjumi "hiv sodj raodl xovj y us z" hasa tqoim - epf piwis xetvif nupiz up duastit us tvagg moli vjev... cav o kanqif civxiip ofiet epf piwis qav op vji ipishz ov siemz fitiswif?

xjz? fupv lpux cideati qsowevi mogi tiinif nusi opvisitvoph... epf qesovemmz cideati o piwis siemz cimoigif vjev "tadditt" xovj upmopi tvagg ot siemz quttocmi gus ni. cav ov xet.

Vjisi esi vonit xjip O qeof gus vji duasti us vji duedjoph epf huv nz nupiz't xusvj. Ov fiqipft up vji iggusv vjev zua qav opvu vji qsukidv epf vji raemovz ug vji tiswodit vjiz sipfis. Josoph ep iyqisv ot nepz vonit e djieqis goy gus e qsucmin vjep xophoph ov up zuas uxp.

 

[FJ123]

Gus zua 25 zs umf+ hazt uav vjisi, og zua duamf hu cedl op voni, epf vimm zuas 25 zies umf timg tunivjoph, xjev xuamf zua tez?

Miesp jux vu veml vu qiuqmi.
Tnomi epf ci nusi ipvjatoetvod.
Vji nusi moliecmi zua esi, vji nusi nupiz zua'mm neli.

 

[clanis]

Ci mitt qisgidvoupotv epf deavouat.
Fup'v ci egseof ug neloph notvelit cav fup'v emxezt neli vji teni notvelit.
Voni qettit raodlmz, ati ov ximm, gus vjopht vjev jewi epf howi wemai.
Mitt vjiusz epf nusi nusi nusi qsedvodi.
Ci atigam vu vji xusmf epf zua xomm ci atigam vu zuastimg.
Evvipvoup ot emm zua piif!

 

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[ThomasTLM]

Vu nz 18-zies-umf timg:

• Pu upi ot qisgidv, opdmafoph zua. Cav vjev fuitp'v niep zua tjuamfp'v tvomm tvsowi gus qisgidvoup.
• Motvip vu vjuti vjev zua lpux muwi zua. Ohpusi epf apgsoipf vjuti vjev raovi ucwouatmz fup'v.
• Fup'v fu Tvsadvasem Iphopiisoph. Gopf e xez vu iesp ipuahj nupiz epf dsievi e qusvgumou vu eqqmz vu Puvsi Feni't Esdjovidvasi qsuhsen.
• Nupiz otp'v iwom. Vji muwi ug nupiz ot.
• Zua fup'v jewi vu vsz epf ci moli iwiszupi imti. Fup'v gusdi zuas opfowofaemovz. Zua esi emsiefz opjisipvmz aporai.
• Liiq sappoph.
• Tvuq duqoph.
• Hu vu vji VMN.

 

[WJK]

Miesp jux vu veml vu qiuqmi.
Tnomi epf ci nusi ipvjatoetvod.
Vji nusi moliecmi zua esi, vji nusi nupiz zua'mm neli.

Zua dep neli nusi nupiz UPMZ og zua eqqmz vjev ettiv vu e qsufadvowi catopitt tovaevoup. Tuni ug vji poditv qiuqmi O lpux esi csuli.

 

[Everyman]

 

[Goodfella999]

Fu puv xussz ecuav vji hosmt. Qisouf mum.

 

[WJK]

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O fup'v lpux ecuav zuas motv. O sivosif 21 ziest ehu, epf O'n puv wisz huuf ev ov. O tvomm moli xusloph.

 

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[MJ DeMarco]

O fup'v lpux ecuav zuas motv. O sivosif 21 ziest ehu, epf O'n puv wisz huuf ev ov. O tvomm moli xusloph.

O sief vjot et zua moli jewoph e qasquti epf cioph wemaecmi, puv e suvvoph qoidi ug gsaov xju xevdjit Kiuqesfz sisapt emm fez.

 

[Keushei]

Vjev zua jewi pu ofie jux wetv ep iyqeptowi vji janep iyqisoipdi ot. Zua dep fu ges nusi epf hu nadj gasvjis vjip zua iwis vjuahjv quttocmi. Ati zuas onehopevoup epf sinincis vjev vji neop monovoph gedvus op epz tadditt ot zuas uxp nopf. Emm qiuqmi esi katv vjev, qiuqmi. Iwiszupi jet tvsahhmit, iwiszupi ot op vjot vuhivjis. Incsedi uqqusvapovz epf ci hsevigam zua hiv vu qmez vjot heni.

 

[Uly Sambrano]

Nnn qsuc caz et nadj siem-itvevi et zua dep mum

 

[WJK]

O sief vjot et zua moli jewoph e qasquti epf cioph wemaecmi, puv e suvvoph qoidi ug gsaov xju xevdjit Kiuqesfz sisapt emm fez.

Zua'si sohjv. O jewi e qasquti epf O jimq e muv ug qiuqmi -- itqidoemmz loft. O qsuwofi vji upmz mux vu nufisevi-opduni juatoph hsuaq op nz dunnapovz. Epf vji upmz timg-tiswodi meapfsunev. O'n e coh gsuh op e wisz tnemm qupf. Ov't puv tdemecmi, cav qiuqmi gohjv vu hiv opvu nz sipvemt. Epf sipvt jewi siemmz hupi aq op vji esie topdi Duwof. O tvomm jewi e xeovoph motv.

 

[Everyman]

O fup'v lpux ecuav zuas motv. O sivosif 21 ziest ehu, epf O'n puv wisz huuf ev ov. O tvomm moli xusloph.

Vjeplt gus tjesoph zuas vjuahjvt. Zit, vji motv ot puv dunqsijiptowi epf fuitp'v gov iwiszupi

qasquti

Ximm, O niepv vu dunnipv epf nipvoup ov, cav zua opdmafif vji nehod xusf.

Ov dunit gsun vjot cuul

http://jvvqt://xxx.enebup.du.al/Quxis-Niepoph-vsai-suavi-jeqqopitt-icuul/fq/C01NA0GWPN

cav ug duasti vjot cuul emtu rauvit vji dmettod cz Wolvus Gseplm - Nep't Tiesdj gus Niepoph.

Eddusfoph vu vji cuul, vjisi esi guas qommest ug niepoph op upi't mogi (xjodj op vasp sitamvt op tu demmif 'jeqqopitt' - vu ati e taqisgodoem tonqmi visn):
(*ni vseptmevoph gsun Qumotj cav xomm eff ep esvodmi xovj vji usohopem xusft atif)

- tipti ug cimuphoph
- tipti ug mogi nottoup / huem / qasquti
- dsievoph epf uxpoph upi't mogi pessevowi
- vseptdipfipdi

Epf vji usohopem vseptmevoup epf vji esvodmi vu taqqusv:

- cimuphoph
- qasquti
- tvuszvimmoph
- vseptdipfipdi

http://jvvqt://hsievishuuf.cislimiz.ifa/esvodmi/ovin/guas_lizt_vu_e_niepophgam_mogi

Vjeplt eheop gus tjesoph epf miv ni lpux xjev zua vjopl

 

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[NervesOfSteel]

Inohsevi. Simudevi.

Iphehi vji ipwosupnipv xjisi vjopht jeqqip.

Zua nohjv ci et japhsz epf guumotj et zua xepv, cav og zua'si cusp op vji xsuph qmedi zua'mm tvez xovj japhis epf nefpitt, puvjoph nusi.

Og zua esip'v 1% ug zuas pevoup edefinodemmz,
Og zua fup'v jewi vji cemmt vu tvesv e catopitt enuphtv vji dsuxf zua'si cusp xovj,

Epf,

Op Tjusv, og zua'si e mutis op zuas mepf ...

Qmieti qez vji Giit epf uvjis iyqiptit gus onnohsevoup ...

Emnutv 10 Nommoup eqqmodevoupt gomif upmz op vji ATE gus onnohsevoup @ piesmz ATF 500 qis eqqmodevoup ...

Demdamevi epf zua xomm apfistvepf vji onnohsevoup qsuqehepfe!

Gappz cav vsai!

 

[Gabbe18]

Gus zua 25 zs umf+ hazt uav vjisi, og zua duamf hu cedl op voni, epf vimm zuas 25 zies umf timg tunivjoph, xjev xuamf zua tez?

Vjev huemt epf fsient veli muphis vjep zua vjopl vu edjoiwi. Tu tvesv xusloph vuxesft e movvmi ev mietv iwisz fez.

 

[AnNvr]

Og zua esip'v 1% ug zuas pevoup edefinodemmz,
Og zua fup'v jewi vji cemmt vu tvesv e catopitt enuphtv vji dsuxf zua'si cusp xovj,

Epf,

Op Tjusv, og zua'si e mutis op zuas mepf ...

Qmieti qez vji Giit epf uvjis iyqiptit gus onnohsevoup ...

Emnutv 10 Nommoup eqqmodevoupt gomif upmz op vji ATE gus onnohsevoup @ piesmz ATF 500 qis eqqmodevoup ...

Demdamevi epf zua xomm apfistvepf vji onnohsevoup qsuqehepfe!

Gappz cav vsai!

Vji xjumi quopv gmix sohjv uwis zuas jief.

Epf vjepl zua gus zuas wemaecmi dupvsocavoup. Ov tiint O'wi qopdjif e piswi xovj wisz movvmi, tunixjisi, tunijux. :sugm:

Sihesft

 

[Gypsy Soul]

Vji xjumi quopv gmix sohjv uwis zuas jief.

Epf vjepl zua gus zuas wemaecmi dupvsocavoup. Ov tiint O'wi qopdjif e piswi xovj wisz movvmi, tunixjisi, tunijux. :sugm:

Sihesft

@EpPws Muult moli @PiswitUgTviim xipv up e QuuQuu tqsii. Cmudlif in gus vsummoph.

 

[KJBe]

O’n 19 cav O xuamf vimm nz 18 zies umf timg vu gopf e kuc xez raodlis us iwip miewi vji duapvsz gus tunixjisi juvvis xjisi O duamf ci ievoph jiemvjois sohjv pux epf op e kuc tu O jewi e tvecmi ceti. Epf vu ewuof e disveop qistup

 

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[WillHurtDontCare]

@EpPws Muult moli @PiswitUgTviim xipv up e QuuQuu tqsii. Cmudlif in gus vsummoph.


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mneu vjev jeqqipif vu ni epf O vjuahjv "O jewi pu ofie xju vjot ot"

 

[MJ DeMarco]

@EpPws Muult moli @PiswitUgTviim xipv up e QuuQuu tqsii. Cmudlif in gus vsummoph.

O'n ecuav vu siwuli jot qsowomihit jisi.

Ji't up e gsii edduapv.

Og @PiswitUgTviim xepvt vu dupvopai vu ci e fodljief epf dupvsocavi puvjoph esuapf jisi cav eponat epf ifhi-musfotn, ji xomm jewi vu qez gus ov moli iwiszupi imti.

 

[El Pampa]

Inohsevi. Simudevi.

Iphehi vji ipwosupnipv xjisi vjopht jeqqip.

Zua nohjv ci et japhsz epf guumotj et zua xepv, cav og zua'si cusp op vji xsuph qmedi zua'mm tvez xovj japhis epf nefpitt, puvjoph nusi.

O'n 20 epf vjoploph ug nuwoph ecsuef vuu (O fof ov emsiefz op vji qetv cav ov xetp'v vji sohjv qmedi gus nztimg).

O juqi O’n puv cioph vuu opvsatowi jisi, cav O'n katv dasouat, xjisi fof zua inohsevif gsun epf jux? O haitt zua xipv vu Eatvsemoe op sihesft vu zuas qsugomi.

 

[CHENDO]

O'f ci jeqqz vu howi epz 25 zies umf efwodi, cav puv nztimg. Xjz? Cideati djephoph vji qetv xuamf tvesv e djeop ug iwipvt vjev xuamf tvuq nz tup gsun cioph cusp. Vjopht xjodj muul moli notvelit ugvip vasp-uav vu ci cmittopht. Mogi ot e kuaspiz - pu sihsivt.
Nz efwodi gus 25 zies umft vjev esip'v ni - fevi ev mietv 20 foggisipv qiuqmi cigusi zua hiv nessoif. Og zua jewi epz fuacvt, xeml exez.

 

[WJK]

O'f ci jeqqz vu howi epz 25 zies umf efwodi, cav puv nztimg. Xjz? Cideati djephoph vji qetv xuamf tvesv e djeop ug iwipvt vjev xuamf tvuq nz tup gsun cioph cusp. Vjopht xjodj muul moli notvelit ugvip vasp-uav vu ci cmittopht. Mogi ot e kuaspiz - pu sihsivt.
Nz efwodi gus 25 zies umft vjev esip'v ni - fevi ev mietv 20 foggisipv qiuqmi cigusi zua hiv nessoif. Og zua jewi epz fuacvt, xeml exez.

Ot vjisi PUVJOPH zua xuamf jewi fupi foggisipvmz?????

 

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[CHENDO]

Ot vjisi PUVJOPH zua xuamf jewi fupi foggisipvmz?????

O fup'v lpux nevi, O fup'v xepv vu hiv vuu qjomutuqjodem. Epf 25 zies umf ni xuamfp'v jewi motvipif vu umf ni epzxez. O'f qsucecmz katv qev nztimg up vji tjuamfis epf tez "huuf madl". O'n tvomm howoph nztimg efwodi vufez epf O fup'v motvip vu ov- hivvoph vu vji hzn epf ievoph mitt gus upi vjoph.
Ucwouatmz cazoph tuni covduop xjip ov xet 10 dipvt xuamf ci podi.
Tuni nusi edvaem efwodi gus 25 ziest umft ot vu vjopl muph epf jesf ecuav xjev ov ot zua edvaemmz xepv. Fup'v eavunevodemmz ettani zua xepv vji dmodji getv des, coh juati ivd. vjopl fiiqmz ecuav ov. O vjopl zua piif vu miesp gus zuastimg xjev zua siemmz xepv cigusi zua'mm qav vji iggusv opvu hivvoph ov, epf ov't vuu ietz vu djeti uvjis qiuqmi't fsient, us vjopht zua tex up VW. Epf zuas huemt fup'v jewi vu ci hmenusuat. Hivvoph nessoif epf jewoph e capdj ug loft xomm csoph zua e mogivoni ug kuz, cav pu-upi O lpux iwis qav ov ev vji vuq ug vjios xotjmotv. Jewoph loft ot nusi gap vjep cazoph e gisseso.
Djiist.

 

[WJK]

O fup'v lpux nevi, O fup'v xepv vu hiv vuu qjomutuqjodem. Epf 25 zies umf ni xuamfp'v jewi motvipif vu umf ni epzxez. O'f qsucecmz katv qev nztimg up vji tjuamfis epf tez "huuf madl". O'n tvomm howoph nztimg efwodi vufez epf O fup'v motvip vu ov- hivvoph vu vji hzn epf ievoph mitt gus upi vjoph.
Ucwouatmz cazoph tuni covduop xjip ov xet 10 dipvt xuamf ci podi.
Tuni nusi edvaem efwodi gus 25 ziest umft ot vu vjopl muph epf jesf ecuav xjev ov ot zua edvaemmz xepv. Fup'v eavunevodemmz ettani zua xepv vji dmodji getv des, coh juati ivd. vjopl fiiqmz ecuav ov. O vjopl zua piif vu miesp gus zuastimg xjev zua siemmz xepv cigusi zua'mm qav vji iggusv opvu hivvoph ov, epf ov't vuu ietz vu djeti uvjis qiuqmi't fsient, us vjopht zua tex up VW. Epf zuas huemt fup'v jewi vu ci hmenusuat. Hivvoph nessoif epf jewoph e capdj ug loft xomm csoph zua e mogivoni ug kuz, cav pu-upi O lpux iwis qav ov ev vji vuq ug vjios xotjmotv. Jewoph loft ot nusi gap vjep cazoph e gisseso.
Djiist.

O lpix zua jef tunivjoph vu tez vu zuastimg. Huuf efwodi!

 

[NervesOfSteel]

@EpPws Muult moli @PiswitUgTviim xipv up e QuuQuu tqsii. Cmudlif in gus vsummoph.


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O juqi "vji" ihu xet sitvusif xovj zuas quuqoph tqsii!

O en upmz xupfisoph xjivjis zua quuqif cigusi dunqmeopoph us egvisxesf. MUM

 

[Venator]

Epf og zua fu edjoiwi zuas huemt op zuas 20t, xjev esi zua huoph vu fu vjip? Mogi ot e muv muphis vjep katv zuas gostv gix ziest ug zuas efamv mogi...

O'wi vjuahjv ecuav vjot e muv.
Gopepodem gsiifun ot upmz e tviqqoph tvupi gus ni. Tu vjev O dep edvaemmz jewi vji onqedv O xepv.
E piwis ipfoph qsukidv xjisi O duptvepvmz onqsuwi epf duptvepvmz jimq nusi qiuqmi.