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Does anyone have any advice? -
a family member (immediate family member) that is unsuccessful and lazy beyond means, with a fixed mindset continues to spit the following poison on me.. And from what I've read I believe I'm dealing with a deep narcissist:
"I read all the books you read when I was younger, it's all BS, trust me, you'll come back to earth. You're just living in fantasy land right now. One day you'll realize."
My response is "No. I don't want to realize. Whatever "realize" means in your world, I want to do the complete opposite. I will never "realize"."
What do you want me to realize? That life sucks and I should just suck it up? Like W-T-F?
Hearing this once sometimes messes up my motivation and emotions for hours. Causing me to question myself.
Has anyone had to deal with this? What did you do? Is the best option to move and get the hell away from them?
Thanks
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