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AnonX85597
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Hi guys. I'm 20 years old and currently in the first year of college.
In the last few days, I realized that my biggest problem is my lack of confidence and social skills. This blocks me from doing a lot of things and I feel like this is making me lose many opportunities in every aspect of my life. I realized that most of my defeats in life are related to that problem.
Everyone says that communication is a skill that can be learned and the only way to do it is to practice it.
So I imagined that I should force myself to interact with many people and maybe a job in close contact with customers would help me. I was thinking about working one month this Summer as a bartender or a waiter in a tourist place here in Italy.
Of course, it would be just a temporary job and I wouldn't do it for money.
Do you think it is a good idea or do you have other suggestions to improve my social skills?
Thank you
In the last few days, I realized that my biggest problem is my lack of confidence and social skills. This blocks me from doing a lot of things and I feel like this is making me lose many opportunities in every aspect of my life. I realized that most of my defeats in life are related to that problem.
Everyone says that communication is a skill that can be learned and the only way to do it is to practice it.
So I imagined that I should force myself to interact with many people and maybe a job in close contact with customers would help me. I was thinking about working one month this Summer as a bartender or a waiter in a tourist place here in Italy.
Of course, it would be just a temporary job and I wouldn't do it for money.
Do you think it is a good idea or do you have other suggestions to improve my social skills?
Thank you
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