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Discussion in 'General Mindset, Motivation, Beliefs' started by Kak, Sep 10, 2016.

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    And I am quite sure your bank account reflects that!
     
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    Savage truth
     
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    This thread should have it's own classification: PLATINUM

    @Kak and @Vigilante : THANK YOU
     
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    The thought that flashed through my mind after I read through the thread is,


    "@Kak is a total badass."
     
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    Not sure if this is one of my favorite threads because of the lessons contained within or because I watched this whole thing unfold and can validate 100% of its authenticity.

    What you guys don't see is this is just a a little glimpse into the daily life of this high flying entrepreneur. I wish he had time to blog and he never will but if you guys could spend a bit of time with him on the phone regularly you would see this entertainment play out regularly.

    I can summarize his life for you very succinctly. He wins.
     
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    Hey guys!

    I know I haven’t hit this thread up in a while and I think it is about time to get it going again. I have had some new revelations about life and my entrepreneurial journey.

    I’m going to fill the void in the back half of this week because I’ll be traveling and bring everyone up to speed on some of the things I’ve learned between the start of this thread and today. I’m going to continue logging my progress of all of my businesses, ventures and undertakings into the future. Some stuff is too cool not to share. Some stuff is blatant failure. So what? It’s real and it’s as part of entrepreneurship as winning.

    As Vigilante said, I should blog, how about here? I’m not sure yet, but I might be requesting a move to the inside because it will let me open up a bit more.

    It might start to look more like a book outline.
     
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    Leave this here and start a new inside thread. This thread can be like a little bread crumb trail to the continuing story on the inside.
     
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    I wouldn't think you'd need to close it Kyle. You may want to come back to share something here later, something that you feel would be better served to the outside rather than just served to the Insiders.

    The continuation could go to the Inside, but there just might be a place for continuation here also--sometime.
     
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    I’ll just keep going here. I’ll make it work.
     
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    I want to start my revisit of this thread with a new (sort of) intro. I want to make it very clear that I’m going to continue to be real.

    This is not going to be an idealistic Facebook style thread. I don’t care about impressing people. I don’t care about looking cool to the forum. Nothing I post should be viewed as bragging. I’m not here for anyone’s amusement. I’m here to share my experiences, what I’m doing, why I’m doing it, what worked and what didn’t.

    This is a learning thread. I’m learning and I’m posting it so you can learn from me. I’m happy for other people to make big money. I’m not here to measure dicks and compete with others on this forum. I sincerely hope you blow my doors off and I’ll be the first to cheer you on.

    I recently finished Warren Buffett’s Snowball. Some of you may know I’m not a fan of his politics, but I respect his business acumen. My brother and I only exchange books for gifts now because we both value wisdom over junk and it happened to show up on Christmas.

    In the book he mentions internal vs external scorecard. The concept is GOLD. They mostly run inverse to each other. If you are racking up points for the world to see, it lifts your external scorecard, but costs you money, hard work and sanity. We all know people who feel the need to prove everything to everyone. Internal scorecard in comparison, is what really matters, net worth, family, true happiness in the journey, wisdom. This to say the farther I get into business life, the bigger cheap ass I become. I’m an internal scorecard kind of guy.

    You’re not going to be impressed with my vehicle. It’s a Chevy if you were wondering.

    You won’t be impressed with my wife’s car. It’s also a Chevy if you were wondering.

    You’re not going to be impressed with my house. Don’t get me wrong, it’s a 4 bedroom home in an upscale neighborhood. It still has shitty wallpaper in some rooms and the landscaping is horrendous.

    I buy my suits from Indochino for 400 bucks.

    I wear a citizen watch.

    I play golf at a Clubcorp club. Pretty much mainstream.

    I have a 6 year old computer I still have no plans to replace yet. It works well enough to send emails and type crap which is all I use it for.

    I have a 1080 TV which is ancient now and no cable subscription.

    Don’t get me wrong, I see nothing wrong with having nice things... One of my biggest goals is a jet (and a business that would soak up the opportunity it affords). However, I see sidewalking of epic proportions from some very high income people I am surrounded by. External scorecard types. Everything is about proof for them. It is hopping from one thing to the next hoping to fill a void. This kind of behavior is pathetic to me so I don’t partake.

    What I do partake in is business. I try to play at the highest possible level with every single decision. I try to amass ridiculous business knowledge every single day. I don’t go for millions. I go for hundreds of millions or billions because when an idea is in infancy the only difference in potential is the size of the plan.

    The plan and execution is the easy part. I will not be leaving out the hard parts (they do exist, contrary to what the external scorecard people would have you believe). Why share these? Because the challenges make you stronger and smarter than a someone who hasn’t dealt with them. Why do you think lotto winners go broke? Money without the sacrifice.

    I sincerely hope you get something out of what is to come from this thread!
     
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    Thank you @Kak! Great revisit!

    I am fortunate that I never thought much about the external scorecard anyway. It is such a burden to success. Trying to impress folks over and over again never ends, EVER.

    I also don't partake in many activities of the same spectrum. Dating, parties, youth events, concerts....
    They may be beneficial to some, but to me, those places are like orgies of Sidewalkers. Can't bear to go to these events.

    And I have peers who wonder 'why is that guy so anti-social?'

    I still enjoy some things though. Painting, music and writing.
     
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    Wow! Hello-o-o-o!!!

    That my friend is the reason I'm here.
    A simple statement like that cuts through the clutter of scripted-taught-think.

    Thanks for another gem!
     
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    LOL. I bought an Insider sub yesterday because I thought there was a new Kak thread coming. Ah well :cool:
     
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    You’re welcome. Enjoy!
     
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    We can add heroin-addicted trust fund brats to this as well...
     
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    Also a good example. It all comes down to being there for the sacrifice.

    I wish Donald Trump would write a book about raising winner kids in an extremely wealthy household. His kids are impressive to me considering their circumstances. We all know the trend.

    I sometimes wonder how I will handle this with my future kids. The last thing any rich parent wants to do is stifle their kids, but most of them somehow do.
     
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    On stiffling the kids, I had a short stint in an international private school when I was 8 years old.

    Couldn't bear with it. Had to get out.

    The kids were too snobbish and always talked about TV shows or games or the latest fad.
    I couldn't find friends who were interested in hard work or progress.

    I went to a regular school, which was cheaper and had kids from lower-income families.

    They weren't as wealthy, but we knew we needed to study and work hard. We understood sacrifice and effort, to a degree. After all, the kids came from poorer families that lived on work. A few were orphans, who really had to work hard, or fall behind in life. So, we clicked. :p

    I still keep contact with some of them. They have gone on to become successful in life, Fastlane or not.

    That is why I sometimes shake my head at expensive education. Education is not always about books, but also about the people available to mix with, and their doctrine and mindset.
     
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    Rep++ Great Post!

    At 8 years old, you gave a sh*t?

    I agree completely, especially with the last paragraph there... Which is what brings me to the fact that these elite schools are also places where other big winner parents send their kids. Its an opportunity for kids and parents alike to run in those circles if they so choose to seize it. On one hand it might stifle some rugged hands on dirty work, but it also might get them an in with the right people. I know the trend says otherwise... But see, its tempting to buy a perceived advantage when you can.

    My wife attended private school and a public college. I attended a public school and a private college. I'll say the vast majority of the folks from her high school seem like loser lunatics. The people I knew from high school are mostly doing fine in some sort of slowlane undertaking.

    Side note, I don't care about threadjacking in this thread. I'll put it back on topic in the back half of the week. This is an interesting discussion to me.
     
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    Interesting with your wife's classmates. I guess it varies by the school and even the class.

    I attended a private high school with lots of (locally) powerful families. Most of my classmates are doing fine in high end slowlane stuff like accounting, law, banking, and construction. We only graduated 6 years ago, but I suspect my high school classmates will be the future movers and shakers of the city (or state) just like their parents. For example, everyone in my high school friend group has parents that are either: multimillionaire entrepreneurs or elected government officials. Good connections to have.

    I'm personally sending my future kids to a Catholic private high school, the top international school in my city if I'm still living abroad, or homeschooling them. I have major issues with the public schooling system in the US.
     
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    I am terrified about what to do about education and children. Like this keeps me up at night worrying kind of terrified. I HATED school growing up. They try to stick you in a box, and cater to the lowest common denominator. It turns you into a retarded robot.

    I am not any smarter than anyone else, and a lot less intelligent that most of the people on the this forum. However, when I am interested in something I can run with it. I remember in high school I took some 3 credit computer courses, that had extra 1 credit modules that we could take. Me and a buddy were up to 7 credits in the first week of the course, and we spend the rest of our time getting high scores in space invaders (I won that one haha). The teacher eventually said we didn't need to bother showing up anymore, so we didn't. I ended up skipping probably half my classes by getting agreements from the teachers saying that I didn't need to show up. You need 100 credits to graduate high school, I finished with about 130 and had nearly the entire grade 12 off (aka drinking beer at friends houses instead)

    Unfortunately most school (especially at lower grades) don't let you have any freedom like that. You finish your work or are interested in something else and they force you into that box, and make you sit there doing literally nothing while the tards finish up. Gotta piss or are hungry? Wait your turn, wait until I say so, or just sit there and suck it up.

    You are creative and have crazy dreams about the world? That is all madness and stop dreaming or thinking. You will be lucky to get a job working for someone else. Just sit there and do what we say, when we say it, and maybe you will graduate and "better yourself" at a university.

    I had the life thoroughly crushed out of me for such a long time. I was an enterprising young fellow who always ran little businesses and was the one who people went to to borrow money from. Then somewhere between high school and secondary education I had my dreams crushed completely out of me. It took me well into my 20's to start to even reclaim any of that. And now in my early 30's to finally get myself back. If I had even half the understanding at 20 that I do today.... wow. I think not being indoctrinated so much in my younger years would have really helped.

    I have no idea what I am going to do for education with my children when the time comes. But I do want to gather a group of like minded individuals, who have children roughly the same age, and figure something out together. The current system is sh*t. "Business as usual" pisses me off more than almost anything else in the world. The education is one of the best examples of "business as usual" that you could possibly find. Time to change it up. That change HAS to start with us because the government sure as hell isn't going to take that challenge on.
     
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    Thanks for the reps. Excuse the thread jack lol.

    I didn't really have the ability to express myself or reflect fully at that time. But I did have an awareness on what barriers I would hit, what gates that just wouldn't open for me, no matter what I did.

    As I'm Asian, I was, and am, subjected to a lot of comparisons and criticism. Parents would take their children's accomplishments and measure them up to others. Pretty unhealthy...a tough SCRIPT mechanism.

    So, yes, I grew up having to give a sh*t on some things that might affect my performance ratings for my parents....:inpain:

    I don't subscribe to that SCRIPT doctrine anymore. One good thing about it though, was that I worked and observed my ass off from an early age, regardless of whether comparing children with others was morally right or wrong.

    It's somehow akin to learning a lot in jobs before you go out to start a Fastlane business.

    BTW, it's not romantic heroism to have a 'give a sh*t' mentality early in childhood. I paid very dearly for it. I could have paid a lower price, but I was timid and didn't know enough about critical thinking.


    Odd.

    When I was still in school, we were allowed to complete other work once we were done. Or have some discussions with the teacher on what we didn't know.

    I still don't like the education system, but this? Feels illegal to me, even where I come from!:rofl: