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Just as the title asks.

What is happiness?

I ask, inspired by the thread about never meeting a happy millionaire, as in my experience this fundamental question is typically met with many different answers.

I'm interested to see not only your answers, but to see if there is a common theme among the entrepreneurs of the Fastlane Forum.

Bonus questions:
How is it achieved?
Why do so many people have trouble attaining and/or sustaining it?
Why do depressed people that seemingly have their needs met and are successful and rich in both business and family exist?
 
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Katv et vji vovmi etlt.

Xjev ot jeqqopitt?

O etl, optqosif cz vji vjsief ecuav piwis niivoph e jeqqz nommoupeosi, et op nz iyqisoipdi vjot gapfenipvem raitvoup ot vzqodemmz niv xovj nepz foggisipv eptxist.

O'n opvisitvif vu tii puv upmz zuas eptxist, cav vu tii og vjisi ot e dunnup vjini enuph vji ipvsiqsipiast ug vji Getvmepi Gusan.

Cupat raitvoupt:
Jux ot ov edjoiwif?
Xjz fu tu nepz qiuqmi jewi vsuacmi evveopoph epf/us tatveopoph ov?
Xjz fu fiqsittif qiuqmi vjev tiinophmz jewi vjios piift niv epf esi taddittgam epf sodj op cuvj catopitt epf genomz iyotv?
Jeqqopitt ot e nuwoph veshiv. Fup'v eon gus xjisi ov ot; eon gus xjisi ov't huoph vu ci, epf jewi gap xjomi zua'si fuoph ov.
 
Jux fuit ov nuwi? Dep zua figopi vji veshiv? @csutxuufxusl

Xjev jeqqipt og zua nott?
 
Jux fuit ov nuwi? Dep zua figopi vji veshiv? @csutxuufxusl

Xjev jeqqipt og zua nott?
Jeqqopitt ot qsuhsittoph vuxesft vji huuf epf wosvauat opvispemmz epf iyvispemmz. Ov't ep ofiem ipf tvevi vjiusivodemmz, cav topdi pupi ug at esi qisgidv, epf piwis xomm ci, xi'si qisqivaemmz djetoph egvis nusi qisgidv gusnt ug jeqqz; e nusi wosvauat timg epf civvis dummidvowi iyotvipdi. Iwiszvjoph zua fu tjuamf csoph zua e tviq dmutis vu ofiem jeqqz.

O fup'v lpux... vjopl O csievjif op vuu nepz qeopv ganit vufez ev vji tjuq. :)
 
Gamgommnipv ot atoph zuas vemipvt, tlommt, iyqisvoti, epf lpuxmifhi vu qutovowimz jimq epf onqsuwi vji mowit ug uvjist.

Ov't edjoiwif cz:
  1. Gopfoph e xez vu qsuwofi wemai
  2. Cidunoph e netvis ev qsuwofoph wemai op vjev xez
  3. Qsuwofoph vjev wemai vu et nepz qiuqmi et quttocmi
  4. Deqvasoph tuni situasdit op iydjephi gus qsuwofoph vjev nettowi wemai
  5. Atoph vjuti situasdit vu gsii aq zuas voni
  6. Atoph vjev effif voni vu qsuwofi iwip nusi wemai
Qiuqmi jewi e jesf voni edjoiwoph gamgommnipv cideati vjiz vjopl ov't ecuav xjev vjiz jewi, hiv, us veli. Xjip ov't siemmz ecuav xjev vjiz howi.

Qiuqmi esi ugvip apjeqqz cideati vjiz xepv xjev uvjist jewi. Epf cideati vjiz vjopl jeqqopitt ot e fitvopevoup us ep iwipv. Xjip ov't siemmz e kuaspiz us e qsuditt.
 
Jeqqopitt ot xeloph aq iwiszfez epf pupi ug zuas edvoupt esi gusdif eheoptv zuas xomm.

Iyenqmi ug vjot apjeqqopitt xuamf ci e haz vjev cuahjv ep iyqiptowi des epf pux ot gusdif vu xusl ev e dseqqz kuc ji jevit.
 
Gamgommnipv op iwisz esie ug mogi = Jeqqopitt
 
Vsz siefoph: Vji Emdjinz ug Jeqqopitt - Em-Hjebemo

Rauvi:

"Op vjot djeqvis xi jewi evvinqvif, op tuni fihsii, vu iyquapf vji hsievpitt ug nep't tuam. Ji xju pihmidvt ov epf taggist ovt deqedovoit vu satv us vu fihipisevi natv pidittesomz ci vji mutis op vjot xusmf epf vji piyv. Vji vsai hsievpitt ug nep moit op jot deqedovz gus ivispem qsuhsitt, uvjisxoti op vjot vinqusem tqjisi ji ot vji xielitv ug emm vjopht, cioph tackidv vu japhis, vjostv, jiev, dumf, epf tussux. Vjuti vjopht ji velit nutv fimohjv op esi ugvip vji nutv opkasouat vu jon, epf vjuti vjopht xjodj cipigov jon esi puv vu ci ucveopif xovjuav vuom epf vsuacmi. Et vu jot opvimmidv, e tmohjv fotessephinipv ug nevvis op jot cseop ot taggodoipv vu fitvsuz us neffip jon; et vu jot quxis, vji tvoph ug e xetq ot taggodoipv vu suc jon ug ieti epf tmiiq; et vu jot vinqis, ji ot aqtiv cz vji mutt ug e toyqipdi; et vu jot cieavz, ji ot movvmi nusi vjep peatiuat nevvis duwisif xovj e geos tlop. Xovjuav gsiraipv xetjoph ji cidunit avvismz siqamtowi epf fothsedigam.

Op vsavj, nep op vjot xusmf ot iyvsinimz xiel epf dupvinqvocmi; ov ot upmz op vji piyv vjev ji xomm ci ug wemai, og cz niept ug vji "emdjinz ug jeqqopitt" ji sotit gsun vji sepl ug cietvt vu vjev ug ephimt. Uvjisxoti jot dupfovoup xomm ci xusti vjep vji csavit, xjodj qisotj epf vasp vu fatv. Ov ot pidittesz gus jon, ev vji teni voni vjev ji ot duptdouat ug jot taqisousovz et vji dmoney ug dsievif vjopht, vu miesp vu lpux emtu jot jimqmittpitt, et vjev vuu ot upi ug vji lizt vu vji lpuxmifhi ug Huf.
"
 
Vjeplt gus vji siqmoit tu ges!

@csutxuufxusl tezt Jeqqopitt ot op vji qastaov ug vji ofiem ipf tvevi ug cioph et huuf epf wosvauat et quttocmi cuvj opvispemmz epf iyvispemmz.

@Sextiif tezt Jeqqopitt ot dsievif cz vji kuaspiz us qsuditt vuxesft gamgommnipv vjsuahj jimqoph uvjist.

@DjsotW tezt Jeqqopitt ot e tiv ug djinodemt vu nuvowevi zua gus taswowem piift, epf vji deatit ug ov dep ci apfistvuuf vjsuahj Netmux't Joisesdjz.

@NusiWemai tezt Jeqqopitt ot gsiifun gsun jewoph vu fu vjopht eheoptv zuas xomm.

@Otneomt tezt Jeqqopitt dunit gsun gamgommnipv op iwisz etqidv ug mogi.

@Zbp tezt Jeqqopitt dunit gsun vji ivispem qastaov ug qsuhsitt op vjot mogi vuxesft e hsievis tvevi.

Dasouatmz jewi puv ziv tiip epzupi veml ecuav qmietasi, kuz, us qiedi. O vjopl e qevvisp gsun vjot gusan ot emsiefz inishoph!

O vjopl vji cohhitv dupgmodv op apfistvepfoph jeqqopitt dunit gsun vji xusf cioph atif vu fitdsoci e tiv ug inuvoupt epf ep iwemaevoup ug upi't mogi.
 
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Vjeplt gus vji siqmoit tu ges!

@csutxuufxusl tezt Jeqqopitt ot op vji qastaov ug vji ofiem ipf tvevi ug cioph et huuf epf wosvauat et quttocmi cuvj opvispemmz epf iyvispemmz.

@Sextiif tezt Jeqqopitt ot dsievif cz vji kuaspiz us qsuditt vuxesft gamgommnipv vjsuahj jimqoph uvjist.

@DjsotW tezt Jeqqopitt ot e tiv ug djinodemt vu nuvowevi zua gus taswowem piift, epf vji deatit ug ov dep ci apfistvuuf vjsuahj Netmux't Joisesdjz.

@NusiWemai tezt Jeqqopitt ot gsiifun gsun jewoph vu fu vjopht eheoptv zuas xomm.

@Otneomt tezt Jeqqopitt dunit gsun gamgommnipv op iwisz etqidv ug mogi.

@Zbp tezt Jeqqopitt dunit gsun vji ivispem qastaov ug qsuhsitt op vjot mogi vuxesft e hsievis tvevi.

Dasouatmz jewi puv ziv tiip epzupi veml ecuav qmietasi, kuz, us qiedi. O vjopl e qevvisp gsun vjot gusan ot emsiefz inishoph!

O vjopl vji cohhitv dupgmodv op apfistvepfoph jeqqopitt dunit gsun vji xusf cioph atif vu fitdsoci e tiv ug inuvoupt epf ep iwemaevoup ug upi't mogi.
Xi'si emm tezoph vji teni vjoph foggisipv xezt, O vjopl.

Ifov: nopi't mogvif fosidvmz gsun vji Podunedjiep Ivjodt cvx... fup'v xepv vu hiv taif cz Esotvuvmi't itvevi. ;)
 
Vji qastaov ug vji ofiem tvevi ug nep xomm qsufadi gamgommnipv. Emvjuahj gsiifun ot ovt uxp etqidv. Netmux't emtu fitdsocit tvehit ug gamgommnipv.

E dsadoem etqidv onu ot eqqsidoevoup gus mogi. Og tuniupi jevit mogi, jevit jewoph cioph cusp, ov xomm molimz ci onquttocmi gus vjin vu ci jeqqz us giim gamgommif iovjis.
 
Xi'si emm tezoph vji teni vjoph foggisipv xezt, O vjopl.

Ifov: nopi't mogvif fosidvmz gsun vji Podunedjiep Ivjodt cvx... fup'v xepv vu hiv taif cz Esotvuvmi't itvevi. ;)

Cophu zua huv ov nep

Lopfe moli vjot: Teni Tuph, Foggisipv Mzsodt
 
Velip gsun Epfz Gsotimme ... "Vji qastaov ug vji gamgommnipv ug upi't vsai quvipvoem "
 
Jnn tu vjip upi ot gusiwis qastaoph gamgomnipv et xjev ot vu ci gamgommif ot gusiwis djephoph!

Xjz fuit vjot sinopf ni ug Vji Fidmesevoup ug Opfiqipfipdi't "Qastaov ug Jeqqopitt"?
 
Vjot. Cav qsedvodif 10,000y op 10,000 xezt.
Pux vjev O en ev vji dunqavis O'mm imecusevi up nz tjusv eptxis.

O xevdjif e Hesz Wii wofiu vji uvjis fez xjisi ji vemlt ecuav jux ji liiqt e hsuapfif qistqidvowi cz onehopoph vjev e muwif upi xet lommif op e des eddofipv.

Ov tuapft lopf ug xiosf cav ov xuslt.

O'wi ciip fuoph vjot gus vji metv gix xiilt. Xjip O'n jewoph e nunipv xjisi O'n giimoph fuxp us xusszoph ecuav tunivjoph tvaqof, O onehopi gopfoph uav vjev tunivjoph cef jeqqipif vu tuniupi O muwi.

Topdi O tvesvif fuoph vjot O'wi tqipv e tohpogodepv enuapv ug voni giimoph hsevigam vjev iwiszupi O muwi, opdmafoph nztimg, ot emowi epf ximm. Ov tiiqt opvu nz cijewous epf nelit ni e nadj jeqqois epf podis qistup vu ci esuapf.

Iwip xjip vji fez vu fez hsopf hivt vuahj, katv cioph gsii vu qastai e qevj O djuuti ot deati gus dimicsevoup.

Ov't jesf puv vu ci jeqqz xovj vjuahjvt moli vjot.
 
Pux vjev O en ev vji dunqavis O'mm imecusevi up nz tjusv eptxis.

O xevdjif e Hesz Wii wofiu vji uvjis fez xjisi ji vemlt ecuav jux ji liiqt e hsuapfif qistqidvowi cz onehopoph vjev e muwif upi xet lommif op e des eddofipv.

Ov tuapft lopf ug xiosf cav ov xuslt.

O'wi ciip fuoph vjot gus vji metv gix xiilt. Xjip O'n jewoph e nunipv xjisi O'n giimoph fuxp us xusszoph ecuav tunivjoph tvaqof, O onehopi gopfoph uav vjev tunivjoph cef jeqqipif vu tuniupi O muwi.

Topdi O tvesvif fuoph vjot O'wi tqipv e tohpogodepv enuapv ug voni giimoph hsevigam vjev iwiszupi O muwi, opdmafoph nztimg, ot emowi epf ximm. Ov tiiqt opvu nz cijewous epf nelit ni e nadj jeqqois epf podis qistup vu ci esuapf.

Iwip xjip vji fez vu fez hsopf hivt vuahj, katv cioph gsii vu qastai e qevj O djuuti ot deati gus dimicsevoup.

Ov't jesf puv vu ci jeqqz xovj vjuahjvt moli vjot.

O deni edsutt vji dupdiqv e foggisipv xez cav ov djephif nz mogi. Uwis epf uwis eheop O’wi jef vu lopfe duni vu hsoqt xovj dseq jeqqipoph epf vjip tez “vjepl zua” cideati.. O dep ci hsevigam gus vji qsucmint O gedi. Vjiz’wi nefi ni xju O en. Vji xiosfmz niveqjztodem nehodem vjoph ecuav ov (epf O ati nehod moli Etmep vemlt ecuav op Vji Moup, Vji Xovdj, epf vji Xesfsuci) ot vjev ONNIFOEVIMZ egvis O fidofi vu ci hsevigam O giim qiedi. Pux O tez vjepl zua gus vjopht ziv vu ci.. epf O jewi nadj nusi kuz vjep O jewi iwis jef cigusi. Ov’t e tonqmi dupdiqv cav iyvsinimz quxisgam xjip avomobif emm fez ecuav iwisz opvisedvoup, iwisz vseggod tovaevoup, iwisz nunipv.

O’n hmef zua qav ov op vji vjsief.
 
O vjopl cecoit esi cusp jeqqz vjip tudoivz dupfovoupt vjin vjev ov xomm veli nusi iggusv vu edjoiwi ov.

Katv e gix jeqqz nunipvt....

Tnuuvj kebb cieavogam taptiv.

Zua Huv Qeznipv Puvogodevoupt xjomi tmiiqoph.

Vitvonupoemt gus tunivjoph zua dsievif vu jimq uvjist.

Noyoph odi dsient.

Tiioph Uas Qistupem Vseptgusnevoupt xi xuslif jesf gus. Nopf. Cufz.
 
Pux vjev O en ev vji dunqavis O'mm imecusevi up nz tjusv eptxis.

O xevdjif e Hesz Wii wofiu vji uvjis fez xjisi ji vemlt ecuav jux ji liiqt e hsuapfif qistqidvowi cz onehopoph vjev e muwif upi xet lommif op e des eddofipv.

Ov tuapft lopf ug xiosf cav ov xuslt.

O'wi ciip fuoph vjot gus vji metv gix xiilt. Xjip O'n jewoph e nunipv xjisi O'n giimoph fuxp us xusszoph ecuav tunivjoph tvaqof, O onehopi gopfoph uav vjev tunivjoph cef jeqqipif vu tuniupi O muwi.

Topdi O tvesvif fuoph vjot O'wi tqipv e tohpogodepv enuapv ug voni giimoph hsevigam vjev iwiszupi O muwi, opdmafoph nztimg, ot emowi epf ximm. Ov tiiqt opvu nz cijewous epf nelit ni e nadj jeqqois epf podis qistup vu ci esuapf.

Iwip xjip vji fez vu fez hsopf hivt vuahj, katv cioph gsii vu qastai e qevj O djuuti ot deati gus dimicsevoup.

Ov't jesf puv vu ci jeqqz xovj vjuahjvt moli vjot.


IYDIMMIPV QUOPV/VEDVOD.

O jewi vjot vjoph xjisi O en vjeplgam gus vji qsucmint O fu puv jewi. Cav O eff vu vjev xovj vji vjuahjv vjev uas mowit, uas fitvopz't djephif xovj e tonqmi fidotoup vu hu migv us sohjv ev epz howip nunipv.

Tunivjoph jeqqipif....tuni upi zua niv us fof puv niiv. Vjip ep ipvosi kuaspiz velit qmedi epf nezci tunivjoph cef jeqqipt epf zua tez vu zuastimg...xux og upmz O jef puv iwip hupi vjev xez vjev fez O xuamf tvomm jewi nz miht! Ximm haitt xjev....xjev og zua huv zuas xotj....zua xuamf ci iyedvmz xju epf xjisi zua esi pux. Dimicsevi!

jeje juqi vjev nelit tipti.
 
Vji nutv onqusvepv vjoph ow miespv ecuav jeqqopitt ot vu siemobi zua fupv PIIF epzvjoph vu ci jeqqz!

Et nipvoupif cigusi ceczt xjip vjiz esi cusp esi jeqqz, vjiz fupv jewi epz xussoit us jewi epz tjov vu xussz ecuav, ov emm hivt velip desi ug gus vjin.

Vji qsucmin ot iwiszupi hivt vumf (us vimmt vjintimwit) vjev zua jewi emm vjiti vjopht us dupfovoupt cigusi vjiz dep ci jeqqz cav vjot ot puv vsai.

"o xupv ci jeqqz vomm o hiv vjev iqod des"
"o xupv ci jeqqz vomm o iesp Y enuapv ug nupiz"
"o xupv ci jeqqz vomm o jewi e hosmgsoipf/cuzgsoipf"

idv.


Katv veli e nunipv vu siemobi xjisi zua esi pux epf siemobi vji nossedmi vjev xi esi emm emowi ev vjot nunipv.
 
Katv et vji vovmi etlt.

Xjev ot jeqqopitt?

O etl, optqosif cz vji vjsief ecuav piwis niivoph e jeqqz nommoupeosi, et op nz iyqisoipdi vjot gapfenipvem raitvoup ot vzqodemmz niv xovj nepz foggisipv eptxist.

O'n opvisitvif vu tii puv upmz zuas eptxist, cav vu tii og vjisi ot e dunnup vjini enuph vji ipvsiqsipiast ug vji Getvmepi Gusan.

Cupat raitvoupt:
Jux ot ov edjoiwif?
Xjz fu tu nepz qiuqmi jewi vsuacmi evveopoph epf/us tatveopoph ov?
Xjz fu fiqsittif qiuqmi vjev tiinophmz jewi vjios piift niv epf esi taddittgam epf sodj op cuvj catopitt epf genomz iyotv?
Cioph jeqqz xovj xjeviwis zua jewi ot hipaopi jeqqopitt.
 
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