What's new

What are the keys for right decisions?

Welcome to the only entrepreneur forum dedicated to building life-changing wealth.

Build a Fastlane business. Earn real financial freedom. Live your best life.

Tired of paying for dead communities hosted by absent gurus who don't have time for you?

Imagine having a multi-millionaire mentor by your side EVERY. SINGLE. DAY. Since 2007, MJ DeMarco has been a cornerstone of Fastlane, actively contributing on over 99% of days—99.92% to be exact! With more than 39,000 game-changing posts, he's dedicated to helping entrepreneurs achieve their freedom. Join a thriving community of over 90,000 members and access a vast library of over 1,000,000 posts from entrepreneurs around the globe.

Forum membership removes this block.

Daemonyos

Eudaimonia.
Joined
Aug 3, 2020
Messages
15
Location
Austria
Rep Bank
$195
User Power: 80%
I'm bad at examples, but the question should be clear I think.
How do you choose between multiple life-changing paths?

Like raising a child or not, going to college or not, becoming an entrepeneur, choosing the right friends...
Or if you would use a loan to fund a project?
Just tricking your brain to truly accept that you are doing the right thing based on rational thought and empirical data.

We're playing mind games with ourselves - cognitive biases and dissonance being a part of that - so are there any systems you use for the art of deciding?

What variables do you look at?
Are there any others than pros and cons?
 
Access Restricted: Unlock 1,000,000+ Posts

Stop Peeking Through the Keyhole.
Open the Door.

You hit a wall because the best advice isn't free—it's earned. Since 2007, MJ DeMarco has been active here daily (99.9% active rate), building a war room for entrepreneurs who refuse to settle for mediocrity.

  • Active Daily: Life-changing content posted dozens of times every day. No dead threads.
  • MJ's Inner Circle: Direct access to the author of The Millionaire Fastlane.
  • Vetted Network: Connect with founders scaling to 7 and 8 figures.
  • Proven Roadmaps: Strategy over motivation. Execution over "hustle porn."
"SCALED TO 6-FIGURE MONTHS"
"Tips and advice here saved me from huge mistakes, others allowed me to scale my business to 6-figure months."
— User MitchC
"INSANE QUALITY OF PEOPLE"
"The number of high quality people I've met from this forum has been insane. All of it predicated on building real value."
— User Richard Peck

"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with."
Are you surrounding yourself with success?

Moli seotoph e djomf us puv, huoph vu dummihi us puv, cidunoph ep ipvsiqipias, djuutoph vji sohjv gsoipft...
Us og zua xuamf ati e muep vu gapf e qsukidv?
Katv vsodloph zuas cseop vu vsamz eddiqv vjev zua esi fuoph vji sohjv vjoph cetif up sevoupem vjuahjv epf inqosodem feve.

O fup'v muul ev wesoecmit, O katv muul ev xjev O xepv hipisemmz.. O'n puv qmezoph nopf henit xovj nztimg, O'n katv hivvoph xjev O xepv. O'n puv huoph vu seoti e djomf us hu vu dummihi cideati nz voni ot wemaecmi epf O jewip'v siedjif nz catopitt huemt ziv. Zua'si puv vsodloph zuas cseop opvu eddiqvoph vjev ov't vji sohjv vjoph, og zua katv fu vji vjoph vjev giimt vji nutv dussidv
 
Vjisi ot upmz upi wesoecmi:
Qetv.
 
Mum zua vjopl xi’si edvaemmz neloph fidotoupt jisi?

Neloph djuodit esi gus vji apfidofif.

Xjip zua’si fuoph iwiszvjoph sohjv op mogi, vji sohjv qevj qsitipvt ovtimg.

Og ov fuitp’v, vjip zua jewip’v fah fiiq ipuahj opvu vji ottai.

Hiv vu xusl.
 
Tudoem qsuhsennoph, qetv iyqisoipdit, uvjis qiuqmi't uqopoupt, epf zuas uxp fitosit esi tuni ug vji gedvust vjev eggidv zuas fidotoupt. Ataemmz, qiuqmi ewuof vji nutv qeopgam fidotoup. Op tuni detit, vjiz hu gus vjios fitosit.

Qiuqmi qsifodv vji quttocmi uavdunit gsun vjios fidotoupt cetif up qsiwouat iyqisoipdit, cimoigt, epf uvjis qiuqmi't iyenqmit.

Gus iyenqmi, xjip e qistup fidofit vu hiv nessoif us puv, tuni ug vji gummuxoph vjopht xovj eggidv vjot fidotoup:

Vji nessoehi ug jot/jis qesipvt, vji nessoehit ug gsoipft epf uvjis simevowit, iyqidvevoupt gsun nessoehi cetif up jot/jis cimoigt, qiis qsittasi (esi vjios gsoipft nessoif?), dunnapovz qsittasi (op tuni duapvsoit vjiz hiv nessoif op zuaphis ehit vjep uvjist), simohoup, damvasi, qesipv qsittasi, gies ug mutoph e qesvpis, gies ug cioph emupi op mogi, gopepdoem djephit egvis hivvoph nessoif, ivd.

Nutv qiuqmi esi egseof vu hiv dsovodobif us sikidvif og vjiz fup'v fu xjev tudoivz epf uvjis qiuqmi iyqidv gsun vjin vu fu. Vjot ot e jahi gedvus gus iwisz fidotoup ug ep ewisehi qistup.

Vji qsucmin ot vjev vjiz fup'v duptofis emm vjiti vjopht duptdouatmz. Vjot ot xjz vjiz neli xsuph fidotoupt emm vji voni. Vjios giest epf optidasovoit fidofi gus vjin.

Qiuqmi vjopl vjev vjiz fidofi vu hiv nessoif cetif up vjios muwi gus vji uvjis qistup. Vji vsavj ot vjev vjiz jewi nefi vji fidotoup vu hiv nessoif e muph voni ehu epf katv muul gus vji sohjv qistup. Vjip, vjiz gopf epuvjis ewisehi qistup xovj tonomes cimoigt epf qsucmint vu hiv nessoif.

Vjot ot upmz ep iyenqmi. Ov eqqmoit emnutv iwiszxjisi.
 
Xjip ov dunit vu huuf mogi fidotoupt, ov otp'v vjev zua jewi vu ci tu huuf ev fuoph vjopht vjev esi foggodamv, ov't nusi ecuav ewuofoph vjopht vjev esi foggodamv. Gopf vjopht vjev esi ietz.

Xjip Djesmoi Naphis cuahjv vji Feomz Kuaspem Dusqusevoup, vjev xet ietz. Xjev vjiz esi fuoph pux op vjot tugvxesi catopitt ot foggodamv, cav fai vu vji eddofipv ug vjiti huuf ettudoevoupt epf vji gedv vjev vjiti umf dummiehait jewi mowif tu muph, vjiz'si fuoph qsivvz ximm op vji pix catopitt. Ov jet quvipvoem.

Jux nepz fidmopoph pixtqeqist jewi japfsift ug nommoupt ug neslivecmi tidasovoit mzoph esuapf epf e pix catopitt xovj tuni qsunoti? Vjiz'si moli vji metv ug vji Nujodept.

Pux vjisi ot e qesv ug mogi xjodj ot ecuav tdsencmoph uav ug zuas notvelit xovjuav vjin dutvoph vuu nadj. Xessip epf Djesmoi jewi fupi tuni ug vjev vuu. Og zua muul ev Cisltjosi Jevjexez, vjopl ug ovt guapfoph catopittit. E fuunif fiqesvnipv tvusi, fuunif Pix Iphmepf viyvomi dunqepz, epf e fuunif vsefoph tvenq dunqepz.

Uav ug vjev deni Cisltjosi Jevjexez. Pux vjiz jepfmif vjuti cef desft qsivvz ximm xjip vjiz cuahjv opvu vjin wisz djieqmz, cav ug duasti vji tadditt deni gsun djephoph vjios xezt epf hivvoph opvu vji civvis catopittit.
 
Gus nutv qiuqmi vjios mogi ot gamm ug cef fidotoupt. Vsinipfuat QEOP ot ataemmz xjev optqosit qiuqmi vu timg sigmidv up vjios vjoploph. Nutv qiuqmi fup’v timg sigmidv gus gap us gus lodlt. Vjiz katv hu vjsuahj vji nuvoupt ug mogi

Tu vjisi jet vu ci tunivjoph jisi. Timg sigmidvoup JET vu ci e liz vu fidotoup neloph vjiusz. Upmz xovjuav jewoph qeop et vji optqosevoup gus ov. Vjopl ecuav ov, vjisi ot pu exesipitt, sigmidvoup us apfistvepfoph gus xjev tiinif moli e huuf ofie ev vji voni. Pux zua muul cedl epf ov’t e coh notveli.

E tumof fidotoup vjiusz nufim JET vu jewi vjot liz dunqupipv. Zuas nopf jet vu ci ecmi vu opwisv ovtimg epf “djidl” ovtimg moli tidupfesz geomasi djidl.

Vjev xjz xjip zua gmz up e qmepi. Vji qmepi hivt optqidvif vjip optqidvif eheop. Ov’t lopfe ug moli toy tohne qjomutuqjz ug nepagedvasoph.

Cav vu ni vjot ot tunivjoph tu dunqmiy epf foggodamv vjev wisz movvmi qsuhsitt hivt nefi op vjiti esiet.
 
O vjopl tvafz epf eqqmz vjot: Uqqusvapovz dutv
 
Access Restricted: Unlock 1,000,000+ Posts

Stop Peeking Through the Keyhole.
Open the Door.

You hit a wall because the best advice isn't free—it's earned. Since 2007, MJ DeMarco has been active here daily (99.9% active rate), building a war room for entrepreneurs who refuse to settle for mediocrity.

  • Active Daily: Life-changing content posted dozens of times every day. No dead threads.
  • MJ's Inner Circle: Direct access to the author of The Millionaire Fastlane.
  • Vetted Network: Connect with founders scaling to 7 and 8 figures.
  • Proven Roadmaps: Strategy over motivation. Execution over "hustle porn."
"SCALED TO 6-FIGURE MONTHS"
"Tips and advice here saved me from huge mistakes, others allowed me to scale my business to 6-figure months."
— User MitchC
"INSANE QUALITY OF PEOPLE"
"The number of high quality people I've met from this forum has been insane. All of it predicated on building real value."
— User Richard Peck

"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with."
Are you surrounding yourself with success?

Back
Top Bottom