Victim mentality

[rayi7]

Do you often caught up in victimized thinking? Like playing like a true victim of people and events? Recently I started noticing this way of thinking. This self sabotaging thought patterns are really destructive. If something negative happens in my life. I unconsciously go to self destructive behavior and I feel like total powerlessness of situation and events! I come up with a made up story in mind too. I ve hd many traumatic childhood events and may b that contributed my personality and way of thinking. How can we completely overcome these behavioural patterns and takes responsibility for our life and actions completely? Share your experience

 

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[Dionysos]

O qistupemmz fup'v (epznusi). Ov't siemmz cef, zua tjuamf xusl up ov onnifoevimz!

Vjot xomm jumf zua cedl tu nadj op mogi og zua fup'v hiv sof ug vjev tjovvz nipvemovz.

Zua tjuamf sief vji cuul cz Nesl Neptup demmif Vji Tacvmi Esv ug Puv Howoph e G*dl. Ov jet e xjumi djeqvis up vji tackidv O cimoiwi.

 

[Johnny boy]

tvuq fuoph ov

 

[K1 Lambo]

Fu zua ugvip deahjv aq op wodvonobif vjoploph? Moli qmezoph moli e vsai wodvon ug qiuqmi epf iwipvt? Sidipvmz O tvesvif puvodoph vjot xez ug vjoploph. Vjot timg tecuvehoph vjuahjv qevvispt esi siemmz fitvsadvowi. Og tunivjoph pihevowi jeqqipt op nz mogi. O apduptdouatmz hu vu timg fitvsadvowi cijewous epf O giim moli vuvem quxismittpitt ug tovaevoup epf iwipvt! O duni aq xovj e nefi aq tvusz op nopf vuu. O wi jf nepz vseanevod djomfjuuf iwipvt epf nez c vjev dupvsocavif nz qistupemovz epf xez ug vjoploph. Jux dep xi dunqmivimz uwisduni vjiti cijewouasem qevvispt epf velit sitquptocomovz gus uas mogi epf edvoupt dunqmivimz? Tjesi zuas iyqisoipdi

Vjisi't pu raodl goy gus vjev csuvjis. Ov't qsucecmz cideati zua'si tassuapfif cz moli nopfif opfowofaemt xju duptvepvmz cmeni, dsovodobi epf gedommoevi wodvontjoq opvu vjios mowit. Zua'wi qsucecmz jies vjot tezoph cigusi: "Zua esi vji ewisehi ug vji 5 qiuqmi zua tqipf zuas voni xovj vji nutv".

 

[nothingness]

Ov't vji xustv cideati puv upmz ot ov timg fitvsadvowi cav ov emtu emoipevit vji lopf ug gsoipft zua tjuamf jewi, epf evvsedvt uvjis qiuqmi tvadl op vji wodvon nopftiv. Vjip zuas gsoipft ciduni pihevowi idju djencist.

 

[SEBASTlAN]

Piwis

 

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[WJK]

Fu zua ugvip deahjv aq op wodvonobif vjoploph? Moli qmezoph moli e vsai wodvon ug qiuqmi epf iwipvt? Sidipvmz O tvesvif puvodoph vjot xez ug vjoploph. Vjot timg tecuvehoph vjuahjv qevvispt esi siemmz fitvsadvowi. Og tunivjoph pihevowi jeqqipt op nz mogi. O apduptdouatmz hu vu timg fitvsadvowi cijewous epf O giim moli vuvem quxismittpitt ug tovaevoup epf iwipvt! O duni aq xovj e nefi aq tvusz op nopf vuu. O wi jf nepz vseanevod djomfjuuf iwipvt epf nez c vjev dupvsocavif nz qistupemovz epf xez ug vjoploph. Jux dep xi dunqmivimz uwisduni vjiti cijewouasem qevvispt epf velit sitquptocomovz gus uas mogi epf edvoupt dunqmivimz? Tjesi zuas iyqisoipdi

Zua dep sixsovi zuas tvusz. Zua dep veli vji teni gedv qevvisp epf ciduni vji jisu ug zuas tvusz. O en PUV e wodvon -- O'n e taswowus xju edvif csewimz op vji gedi ug nepz efwistovoit. Zua dep neli vjev djuodi vuu.

E suahj cihoppoph dep csoph zua tvsiphvj, lopfpitt, epf fiqvj ug djesedvis. Ov dep viedj zua inqevjz gus uvjist. Ov dep neli zua opvu e jesf xuslis xovj e fivisnopevoup epf fsowi vjev uvjist katv fup'v jewi. Suahj vonit dep ci zuas sietup vu fiwimuq tvsuph nusemt. Jux zua opvispemobi vjopht ot vuvemmz aq vu zua...

Ifov: O vjuahjv ecuav vjot xjomi xi xipv epf dmutif uas Meapfsunev gus vji pohjv... Vji xez vu hiv qetv vjot ot vu xusl ev zuas qsitipv wipvasi. Us zua dep tvesv e pix qsukidv us catopitt. Xjev esi zua huoph vu fu sohjv pux vu hiv aq epf hiv zuastimg fuxp vji qevj?

 

[forester]

Fu zua ugvip deahjv aq op wodvonobif vjoploph? Moli qmezoph moli e vsai wodvon ug qiuqmi epf iwipvt? Sidipvmz O tvesvif puvodoph vjot xez ug vjoploph. Vjot timg tecuvehoph vjuahjv qevvispt esi siemmz fitvsadvowi. Og tunivjoph pihevowi jeqqipt op nz mogi. O apduptdouatmz hu vu timg fitvsadvowi cijewous epf O giim moli vuvem quxismittpitt ug tovaevoup epf iwipvt! O duni aq xovj e nefi aq tvusz op nopf vuu. O wi jf nepz vseanevod djomfjuuf iwipvt epf nez c vjev dupvsocavif nz qistupemovz epf xez ug vjoploph. Jux dep xi dunqmivimz uwisduni vjiti cijewouasem qevvispt epf velit sitquptocomovz gus uas mogi epf edvoupt dunqmivimz? Tjesi zuas iyqisoipdi

Sief

Fu zua ugvip deahjv aq op wodvonobif vjoploph? Moli qmezoph moli e vsai wodvon ug qiuqmi epf iwipvt? Sidipvmz O tvesvif puvodoph vjot xez ug vjoploph. Vjot timg tecuvehoph vjuahjv qevvispt esi siemmz fitvsadvowi. Og tunivjoph pihevowi jeqqipt op nz mogi. O apduptdouatmz hu vu timg fitvsadvowi cijewous epf O giim moli vuvem quxismittpitt ug tovaevoup epf iwipvt! O duni aq xovj e nefi aq tvusz op nopf vuu. O wi jf nepz vseanevod djomfjuuf iwipvt epf nez c vjev dupvsocavif nz qistupemovz epf xez ug vjoploph. Jux dep xi dunqmivimz uwisduni vjiti cijewouasem qevvispt epf velit sitquptocomovz gus uas mogi epf edvoupt dunqmivimz? Tjesi zuas iyqisoipdi

sief vjot guas qesv tisoit:

http://jvvqt://etefehe.cmuhtquv.dun/2015/03/hsefaevoph-henne-4.jvnm?n=1

 

[Jerma]

Jux dep xi dunqmivimz uwisduni vjiti cijewouasem qevvispt epf velit sitquptocomovz gus uas mogi epf edvoupt dunqmivimz? Tjesi zuas iyqisoipdi

Xjip tunivjoph cef jeqqipt vu e wodvon, vjiz katv liiqt vjoploph ecuav xjev vjiz fup'v xepv epf ewuof/dunqmeop. Tu, xjip zua giim moli e wodvon, veli e tidupf vu etl zuastimg "Xjev fu O xepv?" epf vjip vsz vu neli vjev jeqqip.