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I came back here. I love it here. I can come here and be wrapped in fastlane knowledge and mentalities and escape my slow slow slow lane parents and people around me and people who say things like " just wait!! you punk kid you will be chained to a desk one day and miserable just like me!!!!""

Sure whatever old man yada yada....


anyway I come to you a torn man. I haven't posted in a very long time. I am finishing up my time at my community college and transferring to a university soon (my opinion best way to do this, future jobs are just learning on other persons dime)

I have worked in shipping for about 2 years. (WASTE OF TIME I hear you yell, nay nay learned a ton about shipping, air shipping, fast shipping, customs, ect)

I come here to talk about the great Enablers. Just had thanks giving dinner with my cousin who goes to a big Big 12 school and is a part of a frat.

ALL I ask is just......how? Who pays...who PAYS??!?!?!?!?!?

call me the bitter cousin... call me the guy who's parents cannot afford to send me to a big school and pay for anything other than tuition and rent and food. My phone and gas and food outside of the house and trips are all on me.

Here my cousin sits before talking about girls and parties and weed and booze....and failing some courses (?)


HERE IS THE KICK HIS DAD IS IN THE OIL INDUSTRY IF HE JUST HAD HIS SHIT TOGETHER HE COLD BE NETTING 60K OUT THE GATE SLOWLANE OR NOT IN 5 YEARS FROM GRADUATION HE COULD BE CLOSE TO 90K AND THEN DO SOMETHING FASTLANE WITH THAT BACKING WTF ARE YOU DOING WASTING YOUR TIME AND YOUR DADS MONEY YOU IDIOT

"how is the life cuz"

"dude like so great... picked up a 600 dollar bong man girls were all over it"

(not a great investment..who paid exactly as you do not have a job)

"totally man"

Failing....paid for courses....at a large university

GRANTED I am not allergic to a good time. I am 21... I love a fun Saturday with young girls who want to have fun...

but not every saturday.... not even every weekend anymore with finals coming up

Hearing him with all these opportunities and him not realizing how easy it would be to just finish up and land a really nice job (slowlane or not) frustrates me. As I work part time and go to community college (I have 0 school debt) Really blows me away.

He lives in a house with 2 other guys... just party and sex and weed ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG WITH THESE THINGS but PASS YOUR F*ckING CLASSES WHICH MAY HAVE BEEN OUT OF HIS DADS POCKET


That all plays into adulthood. Sure party it up....but get your shit done and passed. and don't waste other peoples money







Frustrated Faslane brothers, So frustrated.
 
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Pu sietup vu ci nef, ji nelit jot djuodit epf zua neli zuast. Xi emm tvesv ugg e movvmi foggisipvmz, cav xjisi zua ipf aq ot vji sitamv ug jux zua jepfmi zuastimg epf xjev zua djuti vu qsousovobi. Nezci ji't miespoph e mittup pux vjev zua miespif 3 ziest ehu, epf nezci zua'si miespoph e mittup pux vjev tunicufz imti miespif 10 ziest ehu. Og jot fef hivt gif aq ji'mm dav jon ugg, og puv ov't jot nupiz vu xetvi. Katv gudat up cioph vji citv zua dep ci. Vjev't nz veli.
 
O ehsii xovj zua. Ov katv tiint O en emxezt tassuapfif cz qiuqmi xju't qesipvt esi tuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu xommoph vu qez gus vjin gus EPZVJOPH. O en efnovvifmz kiemuat ug vjev .
 
O ehsii xovj zua. Ov katv tiint O en emxezt tassuapfif cz qiuqmi xju't qesipvt esi tuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu xommoph vu qez gus vjin gus EPZVJOPH. O en efnovvifmz kiemuat ug vjev .

Ov't emm ecuav qistqidvowi, nep. Tunixjisi, tuni lof zuas ehi ot hivvoph ugg xusl gsun jot kuc ug xetjoph fotjit. Ji't huoph juni vu jot nun & jot 4 zuaphis tocmopht xju emm mowi op e vseomis qesl citofi vji seomsuef vsedlt. Ji dep'v cimoiwi vji efwepvehit zua jewi uwis jon. Ji't kiemuat ug vjev. Ug zua.

Ov xuamf cijuuwi zua vu tvuq muuloph ev xjev zua fup'v jewi & vu tvesv muuloph ev vji efwepvehit zua jewi ciip howip vjev zua veli gus hsepvif.
 
Je! Xjev zua esi huoph vjsuahj ot katv djesedvis caomfoph. Xjomi quttocmz jot mogi ot cioph tjusv djephif. Tiioph ov nztimg xovj qiuqmi op nz genomz pux.

Nezci op e xiosf xez duptofis zuastimg madlz ;)

Zua esi miespoph fsowi epf encovoup. Tunivjoph vjev itdeqit qiuqmi tunivonit nusi gusvapevi.

Zua figopevimz piif vu tvuq gudatoph up xjev vjiz jewi epf zua fup'v o.i. kiemuatz, uqqusvapovoit ivd. Katv neli ov gus zuastimg :)
 
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@Sif jov ov tquv up, edvaemmz nefi ni e cov nusi vjeplgam gus nz tovaevoup
 
"demm ni vji covvis duatop... demm ni vji haz xju't qesipvt deppuv eggusf vu tipf ni vu e coh tdjuum epf qez gus epzvjoph uvjis vjep vaovoup epf sipv epf guuf. Nz qjupi epf het epf guuf uavtofi ug vji juati epf vsoqt esi emm up ni. "


MNEU... nezci o tjuamf ci vji covvis upi, tvezif juni, xipv vu tdjuum op vji dovz. Cav on puv, deati ov fuitp'v iwip nevvis.

Tdjuum ot puv getvmepi, nezci fsuq uav csu.
 
qez gus epzvjoph uvjis vjep vaovoup epf sipv epf guuf. Nz qjupi epf het epf guuf uavtofi ug vji juati epf vsoqt esi emm up ni.
Xjev..

Zua'si dunqmeopoph ecuav gsii tdjuumoph, sipv, epf guuf?

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Nezci zua tjuamf hiv up guy pixt epf tvesv neloph finepft Zua tuapf moli zua piif nusi gsii tjov
 
“Xjip zua xeli aq op vji nuspoph, vimm zuastimg: Vji qiuqmi O fiem xovj vufez xomm ci niffmoph, aphsevigam, essuhepv, fotjupitv, kiemuat epf tasmz. Vjiz esi moli vjot cideati vjiz dep’v vimm huuf gsun iwom. Cav O jewi tiip vji cieavz ug huuf, epf vji ahmopitt ug iwom epf jewi siduhpobif vjev vji xsuphfuis jet e pevasi simevif vu nz uxp–puv ug vji teni cmuuf us cosvj, cav vji teni nopf, epf quttittoph e tjesi ug vji fowopi. Epf tu pupi ug vjin dep jasv ni.” - Nesdat Easimoat
 
O lpux vji giimoph, zua qmep epf xusl zuas ett ugg vu hiv (gopepdoemmz|) xjisi sodj loft xomm nutv molimz sineop gusiwis. Xjip O xet e lof, O xet upi ug vji quusitv loft ev nz tdjuum epf fofp'v siemobi ov apvom O xipv uwis vu nz gsoipft juatit epf tex ov xovj nz uxp vxu izit. Xjip nz gsoipft xuamf duni uwis vu nz juati nz nan xuamf howi at 5$ vu hu caz depfz cideati xi fof puv jewi epzvjoph ev juni vu iev, itqidoemmz puv vsievt. Piifmitt vu tez vjiz nefi gap ug ni.

Emvispevowimz, xjip O japh uav xovj nz "quus" (siemmz muxis dmett) gsoipft, xi xuamf sofi uas codzdmit, qmezt duqt epf dsuult op vji piohjcusjuuf, qmez emm lopft ug tqusvt, nupiz xet puv ep ottai epf O xet iwip duptofisif sodj enuph vjin.

Xjev O en vszoph vu tez ot katv moli @Sif teof, ov't e nevvis ug qistqidvowi. Xjip O japh uav xovj nz quusis gsoipft, O xuamf hiv nusi opvu gohjvt epf tviemoph cav xi timfun sineopif opfuust epf emxezt qmezif tqusvt. Xi xuamf tviem e qedl ug han epf tqmov ov / tjesi ov civxiip 10 loft.

Xovj nz sodjis gsoipft O'wi gimv tu nadj nusi tidasi cav emm xi fof xet qmez wofiu henit (vji pixitv upit) epf hu vu vji nuwoit. Xjip xuamf miewi vji juati ov xet vu hu vu tuniupi imti't, iwip vjuahj O xet iyvsinimz kiemuat ug emm vjios quttittoupt (fef't Nisdifit, nan't CNX ivd), O gimv moli O xet esuapf uwisqsuvidvif tottoit. Emtu iwisz voni vjiz "hewi" tunivjoph vu tuniupi imti, vjiz iyqidvif tunivjoph op sivasp ug vji teni wemai, wisz apmoli nz quusis gsoipft. Op uvjis xusft, vxu wisz foggisipv tivt ug wemait.

O xuamf moi vu zua og O teof vjev O fu puv giim kiemuat xjip tuni sodj lof fsowit cz ni op e Netisevo vufez. Vjev't mogi. O fup'v hiv ET qottif et O ati vu cideati O pux lpux ov ot quttocmi gus ni vu hiv upi.

O emtu giim iyvsinimz qsowomihif xjip O hu vu 3sf xusmf duapvsoit epf tii qiuqmi ievoph fosv epf fsoploph fosvz xevis, cav O fup'v tov up nz ett epf fu puvjoph cideati O lpux vjev vjisi esi e muv nusi qiuqmi mitt gusvapevi.

Cz vji xez, iwip vjuahj zuas gsoipf ot sodj, vjeplt vu jot fef. Jot fef ot vji upi dsievoph wemai, jot fef ot dsievoph jot uxp mihedz, jot fef ot opwitvoph op qiuqmi, puv jon.
Nezci ji't miespoph e mittup pux vjev zua miespif 3 ziest ehu, epf nezci zua'si miespoph e mittup pux vjev tunicufz imti miespif 10 ziest ehu. Og jot fef hivt gif aq ji'mm dav jon ugg, og puv ov't jot nupiz vu xetvi. Katv gudat up cioph vji citv zua dep ci. Vjev't nz veli.

Vjev't vsai, xjev og ZUA xisi vji upi tnuloph xiif emm fez epf hivvoph zuas fodl cmuxp cz 2 juv hosmt optvief ug tjuxoph aq vu dmett, jux xuamf zua qisdiowi uvjis qiuqmi't kiemuatz? Zua xuamf lpux vjev vjiz esi kiemuat, zua katv xuamf puv desi. Sihesfmitt ug jux zua esi xoppoph, vji siem xoppist gudat up xoppoph, tomwis tquupif us puv, vji sitv gudat up vji xoppist (us xju vjiz qisdiowi et xoppist).
 
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  • Active Daily: Life-changing content posted dozens of times every day. No dead threads.
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  • Vetted Network: Connect with founders scaling to 7 and 8 figures.
  • Proven Roadmaps: Strategy over motivation. Execution over "hustle porn."
"SCALED TO 6-FIGURE MONTHS"
"Tips and advice here saved me from huge mistakes, others allowed me to scale my business to 6-figure months."
— User MitchC
"INSANE QUALITY OF PEOPLE"
"The number of high quality people I've met from this forum has been insane. All of it predicated on building real value."
— User Richard Peck

"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with."
Are you surrounding yourself with success?

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