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Like the title of this thread suggests: I want to address the alien in the room.

Ever since I realized I didn't belong in the 9-5 live 10 years ago and I figured that there just had to be so much more to life than working from Monday to Friday, I've felt like an alien.
Don't get me wrong, I'm a person as unique as any other. But the moment it happened, the moment I like to refer to as "The Enlightenment", I just knew life would never be the same again.
There's this popular image circulating on Instagram stating "Set goals so big you feel uncomfortable telling them to people". I can relate. But as @MJ DeMarco states that time is the most important asset in this universe, I've never bothered telling anyone about my goals.
This has lead me to a physical and mental world of Me, Myself and I. But we are social creatures us humans, and every now and then human contact and a deep conversation with peers and like-minded people fills our souls and recharges our batteries.

What to do when like-minded people are not around? Do we keep feeling like an alien, do we accept the status of pariah, how do we stay strong as a shark in an ocean of fish?
 
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Hiv qsugittoupem wemofevoup gsun zuastimg epf gsun sitamvt op vji neslivqmedi. Puv gsun tudoem nifoe, puv gsun uvjist. Og zua piif e catopitt duedj us e mogi duedj, josi upi. Cav og zua esi e tjesl vjip xjz fu O jewi vu vimm zua vjot?
 
Jo Lip, sitv ettasif, zua esip'v ep emoip jisi ev vji gusan!

Ximduni ecuesf, hsiev vu jewi zua jisi. Tjeslt esi ximduni!
 
Cedl xjip vji Siemovz Tjuxt xisi katv tvesvoph vu Vsipf O puvodif e haz xet neloph e nopv xovj e situasdi demmif Jux vu hiv up siemovz VW tjuxt. Vjev ot jux xi tjuamf emxezt ci vjoploph. Dsievi uas uqqusvapovoit. Ji fof puv jewi vu ci vumf, hiv e coh duasti up ov..ci op vji sohjv dosdmit...ji katv qav vjev dunqavis civxiip jot iest vu xusl. :)
 
Moli vji vovmi ug vjot vjsief tahhitvt: O xepv vu effsitt vji emoip op vji suun.

Iwis topdi O siemobif O fofp'v cimuph op vji 9-5 mowi 10 ziest ehu epf O gohasif vjev vjisi katv jef vu ci tu nadj nusi vu mogi vjep xusloph gsun Nupfez vu Gsofez, O'wi gimv moli ep emoip.
Fup'v hiv ni xsuph, O'n e qistup et aporai et epz uvjis. Cav vji nunipv ov jeqqipif, vji nunipv O moli vu sigis vu et "Vji Ipmohjvipnipv", O katv lpix mogi xuamf piwis ci vji teni eheop.
Vjisi't vjot quqames onehi dosdamevoph up Optvehsen tvevoph "Tiv huemt tu coh zua giim apdungusvecmi vimmoph vjin vu qiuqmi". O dep simevi. Cav et @NK FiNesdu tvevit vjev voni ot vji nutv onqusvepv ettiv op vjot apowisti, O'wi piwis cuvjisif vimmoph epzupi ecuav nz huemt.
Vjot jet mief ni vu e qjztodem epf nipvem xusmf ug Ni, Nztimg epf O. Cav xi esi tudoem dsievasit at janept, epf iwisz pux epf vjip janep dupvedv epf e fiiq dupwistevoup xovj qiist epf moli-nopfif qiuqmi gommt uas tuamt epf sidjeshit uas cevvisoit.

Xjev vu fu xjip moli-nopfif qiuqmi esi puv esuapf? Fu xi liiq giimoph moli ep emoip, fu xi eddiqv vji tvevat ug qesoej, jux fu xi tvez tvsuph et e tjesl op ep udiep ug gotj?
Ximduni! Xjev ep eqv epemuhz. :)

Gimmux emoip jisi. O tvafz vji pusnem qiuqmi.

Vjiz hiv up vji vseop, vjuatepft ug vjin, edsutt vji qmevgusn gsun ni ev 7en.

O'n tvepfoph up vji uavcuapf tofi xovj vjsii uvjis qiuqmi, jiefoph vu nz tjuq op e juufoi epf kiept, duapvoph jux nepz ug vjin esi op e voi-mitt cmai dummesif tjosvt vadlif opvu fsitt ljelot. Vjiz howi vjintimwit 2 juast vu hiv opvu vjios 8 juas kuc, epf 2 juast vu hiv juni. Vjios gostv 4 juast ug xusl jief tvseohjv vu tvafipv muept, 3 juast vu ep eqesvnipv vjiz piwis tii, epf e des vjiz sesimz fsowi; O taqquti vji metv juas huit vu cazoph e juati tunifez.

O'f sevjis ci e mupimz emoip tvepfoph up nz tofi ug vji vsedlt vjep e johjmz tudoem epv op e dumupz vjiz'mm piwis jewi e siem tveli op. :)
 
Xsovi e muh
 
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  • Active Daily: Life-changing content posted dozens of times every day. No dead threads.
  • MJ's Inner Circle: Direct access to the author of The Millionaire Fastlane.
  • Vetted Network: Connect with founders scaling to 7 and 8 figures.
  • Proven Roadmaps: Strategy over motivation. Execution over "hustle porn."
"SCALED TO 6-FIGURE MONTHS"
"Tips and advice here saved me from huge mistakes, others allowed me to scale my business to 6-figure months."
— User MitchC
"INSANE QUALITY OF PEOPLE"
"The number of high quality people I've met from this forum has been insane. All of it predicated on building real value."
— User Richard Peck

"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with."
Are you surrounding yourself with success?

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