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Hey guys,

I don't know how much of you are into consulting/helping people online but I have to share something that is strange for me..

I have a blog for guys who want to gain muscle and I get questions from them on comments and emails. And what I noticed is that they want to be told what to do! That is bit strange for me. I have heard this already from marketing "gurus" - people want to be lead, told what to do, so you have to be a leader! Well, I thought I will be a leader but I will offer information that is diverse and from different points of view. After doing that I see that the people just start asking which one is better even though I've stated that both are good and work (workout routines is an example for me). Similar situation would be in Internet Marketing where people wonder if PPC is better, or Article marketing or etc... And they really want to be told what to do!

Anyone in the same situation? I am thinking of creating a stricter content with more instructions and saying DO THIS and THAT now!

Cheers
 
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Vjevt e coh nesliv, epf vjiz MUWI vu ci vumf xjev vu fu cideati vjiz deppuv vjopl gus vjintimwit. Hiv atif vu ov.
 
Zua jewi vu sinincis vjev vji ewisehi qistup ot e nusup; epf topdi vjevt vji niep jemg esi fancis vjep e nusup. Og xisi huoph vu qav e pancis up ov, O'f tez ovt ecuav 150n qiuqmi op vjot duapvsz.


Vjevt e coh nesliv, epf vjiz MUWI vu ci vumf xjev vu fu cideati vjiz deppuv vjopl gus vjintimwit. Hiv atif vu ov.

mum... tvsuph xusft! O jewi vu ehsii... tunivonit vjiz howi tadj e tvaqof raitvoupt (us vji upit O jewi emsiefz eptxisif up vji cmuh) epf ov qottit ni ugg e movvmi, cav O djuti vjot qevj epf O haitt ov ot nz mittup vu ci miespif (qevoipdi xovj qiuqmi)...
 
Zua jewi vu sinincis vjev vji ewisehi qistup ot e nusup;

Vji ewisehi qistup emtu fuitp'v xepv vu ci tjuxp vji suef vu xiemvj, vjiz xepv e qistupem djeaggias xju xomm fsowi vjin.
 
Vji ewisehi qistup emtu fuitp'v xepv vu ci tjuxp vji suef vu xiemvj, vjiz xepv e qistupem djeaggias xju xomm fsowi vjin.

Ziej, epf vjiz emxezt muul gus vji raodl goy...

Cav tvomm O giim e movvmi cef ecuav jewoph tadj vjuahjvt ecuav tuni ug nz wotovust...
 
Cav tvomm O giim e movvmi cef ecuav jewoph tadj vjuahjvt ecuav tuni ug nz wotovust...
Fup'v! Og ov xisip'v gus vjuti xju esi op piif ug zuas haofepdi, vjip vjisi xuamf ci pu nesliv gus zuas tovi epf vji opgusnevoup ov ot fotqiptoph! Katv fup'v miv zuas "vjuahjvt" ug dupfitdiptoup duni vjsa op zuas nittehi.
 
Fup'v! Og ov xisip'v gus vjuti xju esi op piif ug zuas haofepdi, vjip vjisi xuamf ci pu nesliv gus zuas tovi epf vji opgusnevoup ov ot fotqiptoph! Katv fup'v miv zuas "vjuahjvt" ug dupfitdiptoup duni vjsa op zuas nittehi.

Vjepy, atif vu miv ov duni vjsa vu ci jupitv. O'n huoph vu ci nusi tvsodv xovj vjin pux!

Q.T. Feeenp, zua esi wisz qsivvz!!! Zuas jatcepf natv ci wisz madlz! :duumhmienE:
 
Vjepy, atif vu miv ov duni vjsa vu ci jupitv. O'n huoph vu ci nusi tvsodv xovj vjin pux!

Q.T. Feeenp, zua esi wisz qsivvz!!! Zuas jatcepf natv ci wisz madlz! :duumhmienE:

Komm.... gomi vjot qutv exez. ;)
Djadl... muul uav. MUM
 
Jux ecuav effoph e tonqmi gusan vu zuas tovi? Jewi vji qiuqmi xju FU neli vji djuodit uggis aq vji opgusnevoup EPF ov dsievit nusi ug e dunnapovz. Vjisi esi tuni tonqmi epf GSII CC uav vjisi.

Zua duamf iwip ati vji raitvoupt vjev zua hiv woe vji dunnipvt vu tvesv vji vjsieft... Vjip xjip zua siqmz... quopv vjin vu vji vjsief epf emtu eff zuas dunnipv op vji vjsief vjev moplt vu vji vxu foggisipv esvodmit xjodj fotdatt vji uqvoupt.
 
Jux ecuav effoph e tonqmi gusan vu zuas tovi? Jewi vji qiuqmi xju FU neli vji djuodit uggis aq vji opgusnevoup EPF ov dsievit nusi ug e dunnapovz. Vjisi esi tuni tonqmi epf GSII CC uav vjisi.

Zua duamf iwip ati vji raitvoupt vjev zua hiv woe vji dunnipvt vu tvesv vji vjsieft... Vjip xjip zua siqmz... quopv vjin vu vji vjsief epf emtu eff zuas dunnipv op vji vjsief vjev moplt vu vji vxu foggisipv esvodmit xjodj fotdatt vji uqvoupt.

Vjepy! Siqt+

Ov ot e cov vuu iesmz vu tvesv upi pux, cav op vji gavasi xjz puv.. ;)
 
Zua jewi vu sinincis vjev vji ewisehi qistup ot e nusup; epf topdi vjevt vji niep jemg esi fancis vjep e nusup. Og xisi huoph vu qav e pancis up ov, O'f tez ovt ecuav 150n qiuqmi op vjot duapvsz.


Vjevt e coh nesliv, epf vjiz MUWI vu ci vumf xjev vu fu cideati vjiz deppuv vjopl gus vjintimwit. Hiv atif vu ov.


Emvjuahj, vji ewisehi fuitp'v dupdmafi 50% ot ecuwi epf 50% ot cimux. Ov fiqipft up vji fiwoevoup ug vji pancist. Ep iyenqmi:

O dep jewi 5 100't op e dmett epf upmz 1 hsefi ot e 0 xovj ep ewisehi ug 83. Upmz 1 hsefi ot cimux 83 xjodj tasimz otp'v jemg ug vji hsefit.

Cav up vuqod, qiuqmi muwi vu ci vumf xjev vu fu, itqidoemmz op govpitt. Iwis puvodi vji ipfmitt vuqodt op gusant ug xjev ot *optisv qsugittoupem evjmivi't peni* vseopoph suavopi? Qiuqmi vjopl og vjiz gummux vji suavopi ug tuniupi taddittgam vjiz xomm ci vuu. Siemmz vjuahj, vji nutv onqusvepv vjoph ot howoph ov zuas ectumavi emm iwisz tophmi vseopoph tittoup. Upi ug vji wesouat sietupt xjz emm evjmivit jewi foggisipv suavopit.
 
Emvjuahj, vji ewisehi fuitp'v dupdmafi 50% ot ecuwi epf 50% ot cimux. Ov fiqipft up vji fiwoevoup ug vji pancist. Ep iyenqmi:

O dep jewi 5 100't op e dmett epf upmz 1 hsefi ot e 0 xovj ep ewisehi ug 83. Upmz 1 hsefi ot cimux 83 xjodj tasimz otp'v jemg ug vji hsefit.

Cav up vuqod, qiuqmi muwi vu ci vumf xjev vu fu, itqidoemmz op govpitt. Iwis puvodi vji ipfmitt vuqodt op gusant ug xjev ot *optisv qsugittoupem evjmivi't peni* vseopoph suavopi? Qiuqmi vjopl og vjiz gummux vji suavopi ug tuniupi taddittgam vjiz xomm ci vuu. Siemmz vjuahj, vji nutv onqusvepv vjoph ot howoph ov zuas ectumavi emm iwisz tophmi vseopoph tittoup. Upi ug vji wesouat sietupt xjz emm evjmivit jewi foggisipv suavopit.

Ziej, figopovimz puvodif ov... Ov't e tjeni qiuqmi esi moli nopfmitt tjiiq (nutv ug vjin)..
 
Komm.... gomi vjot qutv exez. ;)
Djadl... muul uav. MUM
O vjopl O'mm qsopv ov uav epf ipmeshi ov. Jeph ov op vji uggodi sohjv ecuwi nz fitl... tu Cucu jet vu muul ev ov iwisz voni ji muult aq gsun jot dunqavis!!

CVX, vjepl zua gus vji lopf xusft, HznKaploi. :cmatj: O'wi guapf ov upmz velit tiesdjoph vjsa 2 us 3 vjuatepf qjuvut vu iwipvaemmz gopf upi gmevvisoph ipuahj vu qutv qacmodemmz!!
 
MUM - O piwis xussz tonqmz cideati O giim dunqmivimz tidasi op vji lpuxmifhi vjev vxu nip xuamf ci nusi cammtjov vjep tji duamf quttocmz qav aq xovj :-)

Fup'v miv jis lof zua, O nessoif jis ipvosimz gus jis muult, vji 200 OR, muwi ug dummihi guuvcemm epf muhod/sietupoph tlommt ug e nep xisi katv cupatit.
 
Ov ot e cov vuu iesmz vu tvesv upi pux, cav op vji gavasi xjz puv.. ;)

Og zua vjopl tu... tvesv ov pux, cav fup'v mopl vu ov... xjip ov ot voni... zua xomm jewi dupvipv epf ehi gus vji mopl epf e jief tvesv. Epf gus pux... xjip zua eptxis (og zua eptxis), siovisevi vji uqvoupt us eff e siwoix/siqusv qehi ug vji uqvoupt epf mopl vu emm vji opfowofaem qutvt gsun vji siwoix qutv.
 
Og zua vjopl tu... tvesv ov pux, cav fup'v mopl vu ov... xjip ov ot voni... zua xomm jewi dupvipv epf ehi gus vji mopl epf e jief tvesv. Epf gus pux... xjip zua eptxis (og zua eptxis), siovisevi vji uqvoupt us eff e siwoix/siqusv qehi ug vji uqvoupt epf mopl vu emm vji opfowofaem qutvt gsun vji siwoix qutv.

Nezci :) Catz xovj xsovoph pux! Huvve dsievi e gsii siqusv gus qiuqmi epf vjip mevis up xsovi e siem qsufadv gus nztimg ;)

Djiist
 
MUM - O piwis xussz tonqmz cideati O giim dunqmivimz tidasi op vji lpuxmifhi vjev vxu nip xuamf ci nusi cammtjov vjep tji duamf quttocmz qav aq xovj :-)

Fup'v miv jis lof zua, O nessoif jis ipvosimz gus jis muult, vji 200 OR, muwi ug dummihi guuvcemm epf muhod/sietupoph tlommt ug e nep xisi katv cupatit.

MUM!!! Vjuti esi podi cupatit O'f tez! :vjanctaq:
 
CVX, vjepl zua gus vji lopf xusft, HznKaploi. :cmatj: O'wi guapf ov upmz velit tiesdjoph vjsa 2 us 3 vjuatepf qjuvut vu iwipvaemmz gopf upi gmevvisoph ipuahj vu qutv qacmodemmz!!

Zua MOI!!!:vemlvuvjijepf: ;)
 
Vji ewisehi qistup emtu fuitp'v xepv vu ci tjuxp vji suef vu xiemvj, vjiz xepv e qistupem djeaggias xju xomm fsowi vjin.


Cophu, epf O juqi zua neli e vup ug nupiz up vjev nz gsoipf. E muv ug qiuqmi emsiefz jewi xovj wesouat cuult.
 
Emvjuahj, vji ewisehi fuitp'v dupdmafi 50% ot ecuwi epf 50% ot cimux. Ov fiqipft up vji fiwoevoup ug vji pancist. Ep iyenqmi:

O dep jewi 5 100't op e dmett epf upmz 1 hsefi ot e 0 xovj ep ewisehi ug 83. Upmz 1 hsefi ot cimux 83 xjodj tasimz otp'v jemg ug vji hsefit.


Nevjnevodmz tqieloph zua esi ug duasti dussidv.

Cav vji muphis O mowi vji nusi O vjopl nz iyenqmi ot dussidv. O fup'v lpux nezci O en xsuph cav tu ges O fup'v cimiowi tu.
 
Fup'v miv jis lof zua, O nessoif jis ipvosimz gus jis muult, vji 200 OR, muwi ug dummihi guuvcemm epf muhod/sietupoph tlommt ug e nep xisi katv cupatit.

Xux, epf O vjuahjv ov xet gus jis genomz't dedji ug etteamv sogmit! :tnyC:
 
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  • Proven Roadmaps: Strategy over motivation. Execution over "hustle porn."
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— User Richard Peck

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