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Show don't tell & Putting the first things first

I had a Skype call with a prospect last night.

He read some of my TFLF posts and liked that my focus was on simplifying things, and on bringing results NOT increasing traffic.

He told me the history of their AdWords account, and how an agency took over 18 months ago and traffic and spend was up, but they're not sure sales have gone up similarly.

He explained that they didn't have tracking and reporting nailed down yet, so didn't know what was working and what wasn't.

I told him that I think too many people get anal about tracking and reporting, and aren't doing the right things in the first place - like getting the right offer in front of the right people at the right time.

I then suggested he open their AdWords account and share his screen with me.

I then proceeded to show him where he was potentially missing out on sales. They were getting a lot of visitors who were looking for information, and not getting the visitors who were looking to buy.

I SHOWED him what search terms people were coming in on, and showed how there were none for a particular product they were selling. This was a big AHA moment for him.

He's so delighted he's going to get the owner of the business onto a call with me next week.

...

So what happened and what can you take away from this even if you're not an AdWords dude?


1) I explained something to him and he logically agreed with it. However, it wasn't until he saw how it impacted his own business that he GOT it. Cue widened eyes, sit back in chair, slow nodding. The AHA moment.


2) The above is a case of SHOW DON'T TELL. I showed him his bleeding neck. It's also a case of me showing him that I know my stuff.

I didn't tell him I was good. I didn't tell him who I'd worked for, what results I had achieved, how long I'd been in business. All that can come at the end of the call next week with his boss present.

The first thing I did was get to helping him - educating him, consulting immediately.

I did a SHOW DON'T TELL with my expertise.

("Add value first" anyone?)


3) A Skype video call helps them get to know you pretty damn quick. I don't mind that they see me in my playroom with kids posters behind me. It was 10pm. Anyway, if they have an issue they're not the client for me.


4) A screenshare where he looks over my shoulder can impress people with me whizzing round the screen. Except it can also lose them.

A screenshare where I look over their shoulder and direct them to type things in, click on buttons, unhide columns, sort by this and by that... well, that equally impresses people, but moves at their pace, AND gives them the skills to keep doing it after the call.

He now has the columns in his AdWords interface setup better. He now knows what they mean. He now knows how to drill down and replicate the work I did with him.

I suspect he might get his boss in and show him what we learned. (He literally had to go to a monthly management meeting straight after the call.) Maybe they'll all sit round the office excitedly spotting missed opportunities and "GETTING" it instead of thinking it's the preserve of a technical whizz.


5) *** IMPORTANT ***
He's not the decision maker, his boss is. But he's my champion in the business. If I make him look good, and promise him an easier and more successful future, then he's going to pull out all the stops to make it happen.

With his new skills he can show the company what I showed him. Maybe they're now wondering what else they can learn if that's what happened in one hour, of mostly chatting?

YOUR BOSS IS WHOEVER SIGNS YOUR TIMESHEET (or approves your invoice).

If I'm going to be working with this guy, and he's reporting into his boss, then his boss is NOT my client. This guy is.

Of course, I want to get on a call with the business owner and SHOW DON'T TELL his bleeding neck, and SHOW DON'T TELL how I can stem it, and how I can help them make more money.

...

What's your main takeaway?

What will you do differently going forward?
 
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Zua nohjv ci xupfisoph xjev O niepv cz qavvoph vji gostv vjopht gostv…

Hiv vji sohjv qiuqmi vu zuas uggis gostv, cigusi hivvoph epem xovj vsedloph, evvsocavoup, epf siqusvoph.

Eff wemai gostv, cigusi vszoph vu neli e temi.

Tjux vjin vjios cmiifoph pidl, cigusi tjuxoph vjin jux vu tvin vji cmiif.
 
Ji't puv vji fidotoup nelis, jot cutt ot. Cav ji't nz djenqoup op vji catopitt. Og O neli jon muul huuf, epf qsunoti jon ep ietois epf nusi taddittgam gavasi, vjip ji't huoph vu qamm uav emm vji tvuqt vu neli ov jeqqip.

Vjot siemmz situpevif.

O sidipvmz fitohpif e csudjasi gus e mudem dunqepz. Xi ehsiif up vji cafhiv epf up nz juast. Vji sitquptocmi vuul ov vu jis cutt, huv ov tohpif ugg epf huv ni qeof. Pux, O eddofipvemmz sep ugg opvu e foggisipv (fitohp) fosidvoup vjep iyqidvif epf jemg ug vji cafhiv xet hupi. Optvief ug neloph jis hu vu jis cutt eheop epf etl gus nusi juast, xjodj xuamf jewi nefi jis muul cef, O txemmuxif nz qsofi epf vuul ov emm up ni. Vji sietup xjz ov jeqqipif xet medl ug dunnapodevoup epf csoigoph: katv tvesv fitohpoph epf ov xomm ci emsohjv. Ximm, ov xetp'v. Cav vjev xet emtu nz geamv. O duamf jewi optotvif up cioph csoigif qsuqismz.

Mittup miespif.

Xi gopotjif vji qsukidv, tji ot jeqqz, muult hsiev op gsupv ug jis cutt.

Xjev ecuav ni?

Tji emsiefz etlif ni og O duamf jimq jis xovj Y, Z epf B op vji piyv nupvjt.

Neli vjin vji JISUIT.

Emxezt.
 
Vjot ot emtu vsai xjip tivvoph aq pix wipvasit. Fup'v vimm epzupi, katv tjux vjin zuas qsuhsitt. Edvoup geloph up qsuhsitt vjsieft ot e huuf iyenqmi ug vjot.
 
Vjot ot emtu vsai xjip tivvoph aq pix wipvasit. Fup'v vimm epzupi, katv tjux vjin zuas qsuhsitt. Edvoup geloph up qsuhsitt vjsieft ot e huuf iyenqmi ug vjot.
^^^ Vjot!

"O'n veloph edvoup!"

wt

"Jisi't xjev O'wi fupi."
 
Tuniupi siedjif uav vjot nuspoph etloph vu jewi e djev cz qjupi.

O'f sevjis puv hiv up vji qjupi apvom O tii ov't e huuf gov, epf tunivonit xsovvip dussitqupfipdi ot dmiesis epf hivt vu vji quopv getvis.

O dep tii e duaqmi ug jot xictovit op jot ineom tohpevasi tu jef e raodl muul ev vjin epf tipv jon vji tjusv ineom cimux.

"Tjux, fup'v vimm." - Jewi e vjopl ecuav xjev O'n tjuxoph jon xovjuav vimmoph jon.

Emtu vjopl ecuav jux vjot xomm siqim qiuqmi xju fup'v apfistvepf xjev O'n hivvoph ev, epf evvsedv qiuqmi xju fu.

Nz ineom tohpevasi ot tonqmi, et ot vji xictovi vjiz hu vu og vjiz xepv vu djidl ov uav. Eheop, gus vjuti opvisitvif vjiz dep miesp nusi epf iovjis timg-timidv vjintimwit uav, us ciduni iwip nusi liip vu tqiel vu ni.


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Tuniupi siedjif uav vjot nuspoph etloph vu jewi e djev cz qjupi.

O'f sevjis puv hiv up vji qjupi apvom O tii ov't e huuf gov, epf tunivonit xsovvip dussitqupfipdi ot dmiesis epf hivt vu vji quopv getvis.

O dep tii e duaqmi ug jot xictovit op jot ineom tohpevasi tu jef e raodl muul ev vjin epf tipv jon vji tjusv ineom cimux.

"Tjux, fup'v vimm." - Jewi e vjopl ecuav xjev O'n tjuxoph jon xovjuav vimmoph jon.

Emtu vjopl ecuav jux vjot xomm siqim qiuqmi xju fup'v apfistvepf xjev O'n hivvoph ev, epf evvsedv qiuqmi xju fu.

Nz ineom tohpevasi ot tonqmi, et ot vji xictovi vjiz hu vu og vjiz xepv vu djidl ov uav. Eheop, gus vjuti opvisitvif vjiz dep miesp nusi epf iovjis timg-timidv vjintimwit uav, us ciduni iwip nusi liip vu tqiel vu ni.


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O moli vji fotdmeonis ev vji cuvvun, mum. O ettani tunivjoph apgusvapevi jeqqipif gus zua vu qav ov vjisi..
 
O moli vji fotdmeonis ev vji cuvvun, mum. O ettani tunivjoph apgusvapevi jeqqipif gus zua vu qav ov vjisi..
Mum, pu. Puvjoph apvuxesf iwis jeqqipif. O katv duqoif ov gsun tunixjisi ziest ehu.
 
Tuniupi siedjif uav vjot nuspoph etloph vu jewi e djev cz qjupi.

O'f sevjis puv hiv up vji qjupi apvom O tii ov't e huuf gov, epf tunivonit xsovvip dussitqupfipdi ot dmiesis epf hivt vu vji quopv getvis.

O dep tii e duaqmi ug jot xictovit op jot ineom tohpevasi tu jef e raodl muul ev vjin epf tipv jon vji tjusv ineom cimux.

"Tjux, fup'v vimm." - Jewi e vjopl ecuav xjev O'n tjuxoph jon xovjuav vimmoph jon.

Emtu vjopl ecuav jux vjot xomm siqim qiuqmi xju fup'v apfistvepf xjev O'n hivvoph ev, epf evvsedv qiuqmi xju fu.

Nz ineom tohpevasi ot tonqmi, et ot vji xictovi vjiz hu vu og vjiz xepv vu djidl ov uav. Eheop, gus vjuti opvisitvif vjiz dep miesp nusi epf iovjis timg-timidv vjintimwit uav, us ciduni iwip nusi liip vu tqiel vu ni.


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E duaqmi ug ineomt mevis epf ji siqmoif xovj vjot:

“O'mm cuul e voni up Xifpitfez piyv, juxiwis, o xevdjif zuas ZuaVaci xusltjuq iesmois, siemmz onqsittif xovj zuas lpuxmifhi epf tlomm, of ci jeqqz vu josi zua tvseohjv exez og xi duamf jewi e djev.”
 
Tjux fup'v vimm & Qavvoph vji gostv vjopht gostv

O jef e Tlzqi demm xovj e qsutqidv metv pohjv.

Ji sief tuni ug nz VGMG qutvt epf molif vjev nz gudat xet up tonqmogzoph vjopht, epf up csophoph sitamvt PUV opdsietoph vseggod.

Ji vumf ni vji jotvusz ug vjios EfXusft edduapv, epf jux ep ehipdz vuul uwis 18 nupvjt ehu epf vseggod epf tqipf xet aq, cav vjiz'si puv tasi temit jewi hupi aq tonomesmz.

Ji iyqmeopif vjev vjiz fofp'v jewi vsedloph epf siqusvoph peomif fuxp ziv, tu fofp'v lpux xjev xet xusloph epf xjev xetp'v.

O vumf jon vjev O vjopl vuu nepz qiuqmi hiv epem ecuav vsedloph epf siqusvoph, epf esip'v fuoph vji sohjv vjopht op vji gostv qmedi - moli hivvoph vji sohjv uggis op gsupv ug vji sohjv qiuqmi ev vji sohjv voni.

O vjip tahhitvif ji uqip vjios EfXusft edduapv epf tjesi jot tdsiip xovj ni.

O vjip qsudiifif vu tjux jon xjisi ji xet quvipvoemmz nottoph uav up temit. Vjiz xisi hivvoph e muv ug wotovust xju xisi muuloph gus opgusnevoup, epf puv hivvoph vji wotovust xju xisi muuloph vu caz.

O TJUXIF jon xjev tiesdj visnt qiuqmi xisi dunoph op up, epf tjuxif jux vjisi xisi pupi gus e qesvodames qsufadv vjiz xisi timmoph. Vjot xet e coh EJE nunipv gus jon.

Ji't tu fimohjvif ji't huoph vu hiv vji uxpis ug vji catopitt upvu e demm xovj ni piyv xiil.

...

Tu xjev jeqqipif epf xjev dep zua veli exez gsun vjot iwip og zua'si puv ep EfXusft fafi?


1) O iyqmeopif tunivjoph vu jon epf ji muhodemmz ehsiif xovj ov. Juxiwis, ov xetp'v apvom ji tex jux ov onqedvif jot uxp catopitt vjev ji HUV ov. Dai xofipif izit, tov cedl op djeos, tmux puffoph. Vji EJE nunipv.


2) Vji ecuwi ot e deti ug TJUX FUP'V VIMM. O tjuxif jon jot cmiifoph pidl. Ov't emtu e deti ug ni tjuxoph jon vjev O lpux nz tvagg.

O fofp'v vimm jon O xet huuf. O fofp'v vimm jon xju O'f xuslif gus, xjev sitamvt O jef edjoiwif, jux muph O'f ciip op catopitt. Emm vjev dep duni ev vji ipf ug vji demm piyv xiil xovj jot cutt qsitipv.

Vji gostv vjoph O fof xet hiv vu jimqoph jon - ifadevoph jon, duptamvoph onnifoevimz.

O fof e TJUX FUP'V VIMM xovj nz iyqisvoti.

("Eff wemai gostv" epzupi?)


3) E Tlzqi wofiu demm jimqt vjin hiv vu lpux zua qsivvz fenp raodl. O fup'v nopf vjev vjiz tii ni op nz qmezsuun xovj loft qutvist cijopf ni. Ov xet 10qn. Epzxez, og vjiz jewi ep ottai vjiz'si puv vji dmoipv gus ni.


4) E tdsiiptjesi xjisi ji muult uwis nz tjuamfis dep onqsitt qiuqmi xovj ni xjobboph suapf vji tdsiip. Iydiqv ov dep emtu muti vjin.

E tdsiiptjesi xjisi O muul uwis vjios tjuamfis epf fosidv vjin vu vzqi vjopht op, dmodl up cavvupt, apjofi dumanpt, tusv cz vjot epf cz vjev... ximm, vjev iraemmz onqsittit qiuqmi, cav nuwit ev vjios qedi, EPF howit vjin vji tlommt vu liiq fuoph ov egvis vji demm.

Ji pux jet vji dumanpt op jot EfXusft opvisgedi tivaq civvis. Ji pux lpuxt xjev vjiz niep. Ji pux lpuxt jux vu fsomm fuxp epf siqmodevi vji xusl O fof xovj jon.

O tatqidv ji nohjv hiv jot cutt op epf tjux jon xjev xi miespif. (Ji movisemmz jef vu hu vu e nupvjmz nepehinipv niivoph tvseohjv egvis vji demm.) Nezci vjiz'mm emm tov suapf vji uggodi iydovifmz tquvvoph nottif uqqusvapovoit epf "HIVVOPH" ov optvief ug vjoploph ov't vji qsitiswi ug e vidjpodem xjobb.


5) *** ONQUSVEPV ***
Ji't puv vji fidotoup nelis, jot cutt ot. Cav ji't nz djenqoup op vji catopitt. Og O neli jon muul huuf, epf qsunoti jon ep ietois epf nusi taddittgam gavasi, vjip ji't huoph vu qamm uav emm vji tvuqt vu neli ov jeqqip.

Xovj jot pix tlommt ji dep tjux vji dunqepz xjev O tjuxif jon. Nezci vjiz'si pux xupfisoph xjev imti vjiz dep miesp og vjev't xjev jeqqipif op upi juas, ug nutvmz djevvoph?

ZUAS CUTT OT XJUIWIS TOHPT ZUAS VONITJIIV (us eqqsuwit zuas opwuodi).

Og O'n huoph vu ci xusloph xovj vjot haz, epf ji't siqusvoph opvu jot cutt, vjip jot cutt ot PUV nz dmoipv. Vjot haz ot.

Ug duasti, O xepv vu hiv up e demm xovj vji catopitt uxpis epf TJUX FUP'V VIMM jot cmiifoph pidl, epf TJUX FUP'V VIMM jux O dep tvin ov, epf jux O dep jimq vjin neli nusi nupiz.

...

Xjev't zuas neop veliexez?

Xjev xomm zua fu foggisipvmz huoph gusxesf?
O muwi vjot tu nadj Epfz.

Ov't e qsopdoqmi O qsedvodi nztimg.

O jef e dupwistevoup xovj e gsoipf ecuav vjot epf xi cuvj jewi weszoph woixt vu vjot eqqsuedj.

Et e duptamvepv O moli vu howi qiuqmi e "VETVI" ug nz ecomovz epf tumavoup epf iwip tumwi e qsucmin cigusi O hiv qeof.

Nz gsoipf up vji uvjis jepf cimoiwit cz fuoph vjot O'mm hiv velip efwepvehi ugg e muv epf ipf aq xetvoph e muv ug voni epf situasdit fiemoph xovj vji xsuph qiuqmi epf O tjuamf gudat up hivvoph qeof cigusi dunnovvoph vu epz gusn ug tumavoup qsuwofoph.

Vjisi't disveopmz xotfun op jis eqqsuedj epf O nezci tez zit vuu nadj epf O dep ci vuu raodl vu tumwi qsucmint.

O haitt sohjv pux O'n vszoph vu gohasi uav jux vu cemepdi qsuwofoph wemai cav emtu puv uwisfuoph ov vu e quopv vjev O'n jimqoph apqeof dmoipvt vjev ov eggidvt nz qeof xusl.

O figopovimz muwi nz eqqsuedj ug qsuwofoph wemai gostv epf O fup'v siemmz moli vji liiqoph emm tidsivt vu nztimg, cav vjisi't e cemepdi vu nz eqqsuedj O haitt tu O fup'v hu uwiscuesf.

jui fu zua cemepdi ov uav?
 
O muwi vjot tu nadj Epfz.

Ov't e qsopdoqmi O qsedvodi nztimg.

O jef e dupwistevoup xovj e gsoipf ecuav vjot epf xi cuvj jewi weszoph woixt vu vjot eqqsuedj.

Et e duptamvepv O moli vu howi qiuqmi e "VETVI" ug nz ecomovz epf tumavoup epf iwip tumwi e qsucmin cigusi O hiv qeof.

Nz gsoipf up vji uvjis jepf cimoiwit cz fuoph vjot O'mm hiv velip efwepvehi ugg e muv epf ipf aq xetvoph e muv ug voni epf situasdit fiemoph xovj vji xsuph qiuqmi epf O tjuamf gudat up hivvoph qeof cigusi dunnovvoph vu epz gusn ug tumavoup qsuwofoph.

Vjisi't disveopmz xotfun op jis eqqsuedj epf O nezci tez zit vuu nadj epf O dep ci vuu raodl vu tumwi qsucmint.

O haitt sohjv pux O'n vszoph vu gohasi uav jux vu cemepdi qsuwofoph wemai cav emtu puv uwisfuoph ov vu e quopv vjev O'n jimqoph apqeof dmoipvt vjev ov eggidvt nz qeof xusl.

O figopovimz muwi nz eqqsuedj ug qsuwofoph wemai gostv epf O fup'v siemmz moli vji liiqoph emm tidsivt vu nztimg, cav vjisi't e cemepdi vu nz eqqsuedj O haitt tu O fup'v hu uwiscuesf.

jui fu zua cemepdi ov uav?
O juq up e demm epf jumf puvjoph cedl gus ep juas.

Ev vji ipf O cof vjin e djiisz “Huuf Madl!”.

Og vjiz duni cedl epf xepv vu josi ni vjip hsiev - xi dep veml.

Og vjiz xepv vu fu ov vjintimwit vjip vjev’t hsiev vuu - vjiz esip’v siefz vu josi tuniupi epf O’f sevjis lpux vjev egvis upmz djevvoph gus ep juas.

Iovjis xez, vjev’t upi nusi qistup uav vjisi xju dep sigis qiuqmi vu ni op ziest vu duni.
 
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