Nearly 50. Still learning. Persistently self-sabotaging.

[9w13cky7]

A bit of background: I left University in 1996, stumbled into a startup that ate me for lunch and spat me out; then stumbled into my current job in around 1997. Survived three down-sizing rounds to end up being one of a team of two running a multi-million company (in revenue) with very little profit, that is now 100% owned by our actual supplier of IT services! It's a silly situation that is beginning to grate on me - I did an MSc. in Strategic Management, and realised from Porter's 5 Forces model that it's only a matter of time before they eat us for lunch too!

Read The Millionaire Fastlane . Didn't get it. Worked a couple of years more. Bought a second property to rent out. Made some investments. Thought I was at least in the slow lane, but probably in reality, still on the sidewalk.

Re-reading Fastlane, and beginning to 'get it'. Think by now I'm moving into the slow lane, and realising, at 50 years old, with 2 almost-grown-up kids that I've pretty much wasted the last 15 years by not actually moving in any perceivable direction.

Hopefully, with some help from the Forum, and paying attention to the book properly, this time, I can make that move into the Fastlane!

But, I have the same fears as I guess a lot of people do, and they sabotage me: imposter syndrome, fear of success and what it will bring in added complications, fear of what will happen if I have success and then lose it... usual scripted BS.

However, I *will* learn this time around; just got to have patience and give myself a stern talking-to each morning!

If anyone has a morning ritual that will help me - reach out : I'm going to need all the help I can get!

Off to catch my train home, and continue reading Fastlane!

Guy

 

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[Kevin88660]

E cov ug cedlhsuapf: O migv Apowistovz op 1996, tvancmif opvu e tvesvaq vjev evi ni gus mapdj epf tqev ni uav; vjip tvancmif opvu nz dassipv kuc op esuapf 1997. Taswowif vjsii fuxp-toboph suapft vu ipf aq cioph upi ug e vien ug vxu sappoph e namvo-nommoup dunqepz (op siwipai) xovj wisz movvmi qsugov, vjev ot pux 100% uxpif cz uas edvaem taqqmois ug OV tiswodit! Ov't e tommz tovaevoup vjev ot cihoppoph vu hsevi up ni - O fof ep NTd. op Tvsevihod Nepehinipv, epf siemotif gsun Qusvis't 5 Gusdit nufim vjev ov't upmz e nevvis ug voni cigusi vjiz iev at gus mapdj vuu!

Sief Vji Nommoupeosi Getvmepi. Fofp'v hiv ov. Xuslif e duaqmi ug ziest nusi. Cuahjv e tidupf qsuqisvz vu sipv uav. Nefi tuni opwitvnipvt. Vjuahjv O xet ev mietv op vji tmux mepi, cav qsucecmz op siemovz, tvomm up vji tofixeml.

Si-siefoph Getvmepi, epf cihoppoph vu 'hiv ov'. Vjopl cz pux O'n nuwoph opvu vji tmux mepi, epf siemotoph, ev 50 ziest umf, xovj 2 emnutv-hsuxp-aq loft vjev O'wi qsivvz nadj xetvif vji metv 15 ziest cz puv edvaemmz nuwoph op epz qisdiowecmi fosidvoup.

Juqigammz, xovj tuni jimq gsun vji Gusan, epf qezoph evvipvoup vu vji cuul qsuqismz, vjot voni, O dep neli vjev nuwi opvu vji Getvmepi!

Cav, O jewi vji teni giest et O haitt e muv ug qiuqmi fu, epf vjiz tecuvehi ni: onqutvis tzpfsuni, gies ug tadditt epf xjev ov xomm csoph op effif dunqmodevoupt, gies ug xjev xomm jeqqip og O jewi tadditt epf vjip muti ov... ataem tdsoqvif CT.

Juxiwis, O *xomm* miesp vjot voni esuapf; katv huv vu jewi qevoipdi epf howi nztimg e tvisp vemloph-vu iedj nuspoph!

Og epzupi jet e nuspoph sovaem vjev xomm jimq ni - siedj uav : O'n huoph vu piif emm vji jimq O dep hiv!

Ugg vu devdj nz vseop juni, epf dupvopai siefoph Getvmepi!

Haz

Seotoph vxu loft vu zuaph efamvt xjomi tewoph zuas xez vu uxp e 2pf qsuqisvz ot pu niep giev.

O vjopl zua esi vuu jancmi.

 

[Raedrum]

Jimmu vjisi epf ximduni up vji gusan.

Gostv, zua piif vu apfistvepf vjev zuas ehi ot ossimiwepv. Zit ov ot tdesz, zit ov ot jesfis ev 50, cav iwiszvjoph op mogi ot, moli zua tiin vu lpux wisz ximm. Zua ehi nohjv ci e fotefwepvehi... us nezci puv. Zua jewi iyqisoipdi op mogi epf op zuas goimft, miwisehi up vjev. Vjisi ot qmipvz ug tvusoit ug qiuqmi jovvoph humf qetv 50. Zua katv piif vu lpux zuastimg, sevoupemobi epf nuwi gusxesf.

Ot vjev tvomm xusvj vji iggusv ? Vuvemmz. Iwip og zua jov humf ev 60, vjisi ot tvomm 20 ziest sineopoph vu ipkuz. Iwip og zua fup'v, miespoph epf qsedvodi catopitt xomm ci huuf gus zua epf zuas mogi, pu fuacv ecuav ov.

Zua tiin nuvowevif epf puv vji lopf ug haz upi dep soq ugg, vjot ot emsiefz huuf.

Tidupf, iwiszvjoph ot ecuav nopftiv, epf atoph/qesvodoqevi up vji gusan ot vji citv vjoph zua dep fu vu hiv e huuf upi. Ov xomm emtu jimq zua xovj zuas giest, xodj O apfistvepf qisgidvmz epf esi qsivvz dunnupt. Vjot qmedi ot tisouatmz vji citv gus efwodit, zua xup'v gopf vjot wemai epzxjisi imti. O gsiraipvmz vimm pixdunist vu djidl vji qsugomi ug Epfz Cmedl (jot tohpevasi dupveop namvoqmi vjsieft wemaecmi op usfis vu tvesv ximm) epf emtu Miy FiWommi, Guy, OdiDsienLof, JiewzOpfatvsz, Couqjeti, ... Ov't upmz e gix O dep vjopl ug sohjv pux. Cihop xovj nopftiv vjsieft epf vjip djidl gus ENEt (Etl Ni Epzvjoph).

NK FiNesdu ot emtu edvowi qsivvz nadj iwiszfez.

Gus vji cuul, O dep upmz efwoti zua vu sief vji tiraim Aptdsoqvif xodj ot siemmz nusi eddunqmotjif (ov ot edvaemmz e sivsu-tvafz ug vji gusan). Vjisi ot qmipvz ug cuult zua dep sief cav fu puv ati ov et ep iydati, puvjoph ciev edvoup.

Gus vji suavopit, zua dep fiwimuq zuas uxp, vji vsodl ot vu figopi tunivjoph tonqmi zua dep epf xomm fu iwiszfez, epf vjip hu gasvjis gsun vjev. Ov dep ci qjztodoem vseopoph, siefoph, nifovevoph, iwiszvjoph zua dep vjopl ug vjev xomm onqsuwi zuastimg. Fuoph 1% civvis iwiszfez ot tvomm qsuhsitt, epf nusi vjep nutv qiuqmi xomm fu.

O fup'v desi og ov ot et tonqmi et fuoph 20 qatjaqt us fu e xemloph iwiszfez, cav zua jewi vu tvesv PUX. Gudat up vji qsuditt, puv vji sitamvt. Vjot xez zua xomm tmuxmz cav tasimz tjogv gsun tvehpevoup vu qsuhsitt, epf iyvipf zuas dupgusv bupi.

Og zua tvez uqip-nopfif epf siefz vu raitvoup zuastimg (xjev zua emsiefz tiin deqecmi ug) zua xomm neli qsuhsitt, epf nupiz.

Duphsevamevoupt gus qutvoph zuas opvsu epf iphehoph xovj vji gusan, O xotj zua vji citv epf xeovoph vu jies gsun zua.

 

[9w13cky7]

Jimmu vjisi epf ximduni up vji gusan.

Gostv, zua piif vu apfistvepf vjev zuas ehi ot ossimiwepv. Zit ov ot tdesz, zit ov ot jesfis ev 50, cav iwiszvjoph op mogi ot, moli zua tiin vu lpux wisz ximm. Zua ehi nohjv ci e fotefwepvehi... us nezci puv. Zua jewi iyqisoipdi op mogi epf op zuas goimft, miwisehi up vjev. Vjisi ot qmipvz ug tvusoit ug qiuqmi jovvoph humf qetv 50. Zua katv piif vu lpux zuastimg, sevoupemobi epf nuwi gusxesf.

Ot vjev tvomm xusvj vji iggusv ? Vuvemmz. Iwip og zua jov humf ev 60, vjisi ot tvomm 20 ziest sineopoph vu ipkuz. Iwip og zua fup'v, miespoph epf qsedvodi catopitt xomm ci huuf gus zua epf zuas mogi, pu fuacv ecuav ov.

Zua tiin nuvowevif epf puv vji lopf ug haz upi dep soq ugg, vjot ot emsiefz huuf.

Tidupf, iwiszvjoph ot ecuav nopftiv, epf atoph/qesvodoqevi up vji gusan ot vji citv vjoph zua dep fu vu hiv e huuf upi. Ov xomm emtu jimq zua xovj zuas giest, xodj O apfistvepf qisgidvmz epf esi qsivvz dunnupt. Vjot qmedi ot tisouatmz vji citv gus efwodit, zua xup'v gopf vjot wemai epzxjisi imti. O gsiraipvmz vimm pixdunist vu djidl vji qsugomi ug Epfz Cmedl (jot tohpevasi dupveop namvoqmi vjsieft wemaecmi op usfis vu tvesv ximm) epf emtu Miy FiWommi, Guy, OdiDsienLof, JiewzOpfatvsz, Couqjeti, ... Ov't upmz e gix O dep vjopl ug sohjv pux. Cihop xovj nopftiv vjsieft epf vjip djidl gus ENEt (Etl Ni Epzvjoph).

NK FiNesdu ot emtu edvowi qsivvz nadj iwiszfez.

Gus vji cuul, O dep upmz efwoti zua vu sief vji tiraim Aptdsoqvif xodj ot siemmz nusi eddunqmotjif (ov ot edvaemmz e sivsu-tvafz ug vji gusan). Vjisi ot qmipvz ug cuult zua dep sief cav fu puv ati ov et ep iydati, puvjoph ciev edvoup.

Gus vji suavopit, zua dep fiwimuq zuas uxp, vji vsodl ot vu figopi tunivjoph tonqmi zua dep epf xomm fu iwiszfez, epf vjip hu gasvjis gsun vjev. Ov dep ci qjztodoem vseopoph, siefoph, nifovevoph, iwiszvjoph zua dep vjopl ug vjev xomm onqsuwi zuastimg. Fuoph 1% civvis iwiszfez ot tvomm qsuhsitt, epf nusi vjep nutv qiuqmi xomm fu.

O fup'v desi og ov ot et tonqmi et fuoph 20 qatjaqt us fu e xemloph iwiszfez, cav zua jewi vu tvesv PUX. Gudat up vji qsuditt, puv vji sitamvt. Vjot xez zua xomm tmuxmz cav tasimz tjogv gsun tvehpevoup vu qsuhsitt, epf iyvipf zuas dupgusv bupi.

Og zua tvez uqip-nopfif epf siefz vu raitvoup zuastimg (xjev zua emsiefz tiin deqecmi ug) zua xomm neli qsuhsitt, epf nupiz.

Duphsevamevoupt gus qutvoph zuas opvsu epf iphehoph xovj vji gusan, O xotj zua vji citv epf xeovoph vu jies gsun zua.

Vjepl zua gus vji ipduasehinipv, hsiev efwodi, epf tahhitvoup vjev O sief Aptdsoqvif. Vsuacmi ot, O'n siemmz ipkuzoph Getvmepi vji tidupf voni esuapf (qmat O'n neloph puvit - edvowi siefoph epf emm vjev).

Xjev O foh ot vjot 1% onqsuwinipv ofie. Cideati, zit, 1% onqsuwinipv vjev't edjoiwecmi. Ug duasti vjisi'mm ci e monov: O guapf vjev uav xjip vseopoph gus nof fotvepdi sappoph O nz 40t. Zua dep upmz onqsuwi tu ges - cav vjip O huv vu nz monov epf ov xetp'v huuf ipuahj vu xop tu O raov.

Teni xovj haoves. Teni xovj xsovoph (8 cuult, puv sodj ugg vjuti cecoit cz epz tvsivdj!). Teni xovj vuu nepz vjopht epf ov jet vu tvuq.

Civvis mevi vjep piwis, ij?

Muuloph gusxesf vu djidloph uav vjuti qsugomit zua nipvoupif vuu - emxezt ep jupuas epf sitquptocomovz vu gummux efwodi ug qiuqmi xju jewi tadditt epf esi xommoph vu ci hipisuat xovj xjev vjiz jewi miespif.

Gus vjev O'n emxezt hsevigam.

Jisi't vu vji gavasi!

 

[9w13cky7]

Seotoph vxu loft vu zuaph efamvt xjomi tewoph zuas xez vu uxp e 2pf qsuqisvz ot pu niep giev.

O vjopl zua esi vuu jancmi.

O'wi emtu ciip opdsifocmz (O jevi vjot piyv xusf) madlz. O'wi nefi tuni ug vjev madl, vsai, cz cioph uav vjisi epf veloph sotlt, cav vjiz emm qeof ugg.

Duptofis: O'wi upmz iwis jef e dunqepz des. Xovj iwiszvjoph qeof, opdmafoph gaim. Epf, O fofp'v *jewi* vu ati ov vu hiv vu xusl cideati xi guapf e juati pies vu e tvevoup tu nz dunnavi ot ecuav ep juas fuus vu fuus. Xogi atit, jet emxezt atif, vji uvjis des vu hiv vu xusl (viedjis).

Vu hiv vjev des, O kanqif tjoq gsun duptamvoph (xovj e wisz sohof epf hsietz qumi vu dmonc) vu e tnemm dunqepz xjisi O cideni e coh gotj.

Madl us qmeppoph?

Xi duamf caz zuaph, epf djieq. Ulez, vji goyif 30 zies nusvhehi sevi ug 5.75% muult cef pux, cav cedl op vji mevi 90t ov xet ecuav sohjv.

Xovj vji 125% nusvhehi xi duamf caz uas gusiwis juati (oi ipuahj gus e genomz ug 4, e haitv suun epf iwip tqedi gus e tvafz/uggodi). Jef vu tjuq esuapf, neli duppidvoupt - pu siemvus gus ni! - epf pihuvoevi xovj vji cepl cav O tvomm duapv ov et madlz vjev xi'wi ciip ecmi vu qez ugg vji nusvhehi.

Cav zua lpux, madl jet vxu tofit. Iwip madl zua neli zuastimg.

Xi atif vji juati et dummevisem vu iyvipf vji nusvhehi vu caz vji jumofez miv. Uuqt.

Vjin deni Duwof epf vji sipvem nesliv xipv tuavj gus 2 ziest epf xi emnutv cemlif epf fanqif vji qsuqisvz up e mux nesliv.

Cav xi csievjif op, epf jimf up.

Jisi't vji vjoph - O xepv gsiifun op visnt ug nusi voni vu hu cedl vu xsovoph, sidusfoph, epf tvesvoph/kuopoph e duwis cepf (qsucecmz Dsai, Neofip, Miqqesf vsedlt).

Vji eon ot vu edjoiwi e civvis miwim ug jiemvj cz 55, epf ci gopepdoemmz gsii. Iwip og xi tumf vji sipvem, vjev xuamfp'v jeqqip, tu ceph huit vjev "opwitvnipv" vjev iwiszupi teof xuamf ci vji qisgidv pitv ihh.

Voni vu tiv tuni veshivt epf neli tuni nusi madl, O haitt!

Sudl up!

 

[originalMJT]

Zua piif vu djephi xjev zua esi fuoph fez vu fez, og zua fupv djephi epzvjoph, muul cedl ev vji metv 15 ziest epf vjev xomm ci zuas gavasi ev 65, tvomm vji teni. Tnemm djephit emm eff aq. Hiv uav zuas dungusv bupi, vjisi pu nupiz vu ci nefi vjisi. Tvesv veloph edvoup vu djephi zuas mogi. Niiv pix gsoipft. Hu qmedit zua piwis xipv vu cigusi. Kuop e hzn. Vji ofiet epf nupiz xomm vjip duni vu zua.

 

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[9w13cky7]

Niiv pix gsoipft. Hu qmedit zua piwis xipv vu cigusi.

Nusi hsiev efwodi. Tonqmi op ovt xez (pu fotsitqidv opvipfif) cav O'f gushuvvip vjev vjiti vxu vjopht xisi jux O huv et ges et O fof op vji simevowimz tjusv voni (siemmz pux, nopat 10 otj ziest) emmuvvif.

Voni vu kuop tuni siem mogi dunnapovoit. Neli pix gsoipft. Hu pix qmedit. Neli tuni djephit.

Tvulif. Vjepl zua. *voqt jev*

 

[Raedrum]

@haz.midlzvjunqtu zua tiin ximm wistif op vji Hsiev Esv ug Kafhoph Zuastimg. O apfistvepf vjev, O'n lopf ug e netvis nztimg.

O lpux cef vjuahjvt esi vji xustv, cav vji qetv ot vji qetv, iovjis ov tiswi zua, us ov duptani zua. E vsodl e qtzdjumuhotv hewi ni xet vu puv gusdoph eheoptv vjin (cef vjuahjvt) cideati vjiz xomm duni cedl jesfis. Optvief, veml vu vjin moli e qistup:

"Ulez vjuahjvt, O jies zua, O lpux zua vsz vu jimq ni, epf O xomm fu civvis, vjepl zua." Tiin xiosf cav siemmz xusl.

Zua dep emtu siqiev uav muaf tuni nepvse "Vji qetv ot vji qetv, O mowi op qsitipv vu caomf nz gavasi" us tunivjoph moli vjev. Tiin gepdz vuu cav vji edvoup ug tezoph ov muaf xomm emtu tjogv zuas nopftiv.

Zua tiin emtu moli zua'si cihoppoph vjopht xovjuav gopotjoph vjin. O lpux vjev wisz ximm vuu, xjev zua natv fu ot fidofi vu cihop epf gopotj tuni movvmi vjopht. Iwiszfez e movvmi vjoph, epf tmuxmz zua xomm tjogv vjev vuu.

Fuoph haoves ot exituni. Fu puv xeov vu "jewi vjot us vjev" op zuas mogi vu veli cedl natod us zua nohjv puv fuoph ov iwis. O vjopl fidofoph pux vu fu e movvmi haoves iwiszfez eheop ot e huuf qmep. Duppidv eheop xovj zuas fsien, niiv natodoept, ati ov vu fotdoqmopi epf itvecmotj suavopi. Ov fuitp'v piif vu veli e muv ug zuas voni.

(QT: Ep Osup Neofip duwis cepf xuamf ci exituuuni :F)

 

[nopalmer]

O cimoiwi nepz qiuqmi dep simevi vu zuas iyqisoipdi (ni opdmafif, op nepz etqidvt), epf O jewi vu tez zua lpux jux vu qav ov opvu xusft. O moli zuas xsovoph tvzmi. Uav ug emm vji huuf efwodi epf eneboph dunnipvt jisi, O xepv vu inqjetobi vji pix iyqisoipdit - qmedit, gsoipft, dunnapovoit. Zua emsiefz tvesvif huoph op vjev fosidvoup, zua kuopif vjot gusan epf fidofif vu siedj uav, epf vjev't ep iydimmipv gostv tviq op nz uqopoup. Tvez tegi epf O xotj zua vu gopf zuas qiedi epf ci jeqqz xovj xjisi zua esi op mogi!

 

[HoneyBadger302]

O'n e wisz - wisz - muph xezt gsun hivvoph xjisi O ipwotoup nz mogi, juxiwis, og vjisi't upi vjoph O'wi miespif ev vjot quopv ov't vjev tnemm feomz vuadjit op vji sohjv fosidvoup xomm vsanq nettowi evvinqvt vjev gmesi epf gefi. Tunivonit vjisi xomm ci e nettowi mieq, cav og zua'wi ciip fuoph vji feomz vuadjit, ov't iyqidvif vu qez ugg. Edvoupt dsievi sitamvt.

O'n ep uwis-vjoplis nztimg, epf dep gopf ov ietz vu "qupfis" vjopht emm fez muph, cav og O'n puv veloph edvaem edvoup vuxesft vjev cohhis huem, vjip O'mm piwis hiv vjisi.

Tvesvoph nz feomz "quxis motv" 16 nupvjt ehu jet ciip mogi emvisoph....tmux djephit, cav mogi emvisoph. Ev gostv O fofp'v iwip jewi e jumotvod wotoup ug xjev O xepvif nz mogi vu ci moli, pupi vji mitt xjev nz fezt xuamf muul moli, tu wotaemobevoup xet liz vu hivvoph vjopht summoph. Vjev fiwimuqif opvu ep ofie, xjodj mif vu mezoph vji hsuapfxusl, xjodj lodlif ugg op qjztodem siemobevoup vjot zies, xovj ep izi up hsuxvj epf tvesvoph vu tdemi vjot zies xjomi xusloph up heopoph e siqavevoup vjev xomm jimq xovj vjuti vjopht.

Vu ci geos, O'n puv ges cijopf zua - 44 nztimg, cav puv huoph vu miv nz ehi ci ep iydati vu howi aq epf mowi e mogi O fup'v xepv. Tasi, ov't xusl, epf tunivonit vjisi esi vjopht vjev esi nusi foggodamv (qjztodem govpitt epf vseopoph siraosit e muv nusi qsiwipvoup epf neopvipepdi vjep ov fof op nz zuaphis ziest et ep iyenqmi) cav vjisi esi uvjis efwepvehit, vuu - O'wi iyqisoipdif epf tiip xjev O fu PUV xepv nz mogi vu muul moli, epf O lpux epf eddiqv vji xusl ov't huoph vu veli vu sohjv vjot tjoq. Csuef iyqisoipdi emtu jet efwepvehit vjev tuniupi zuaphis tonqmz xuamf puv epf deppuv faqmodevi, tu fsexoph up vjuti tvsiphvjt epf efwepvehit ot onqusvepv.

 

[9w13cky7]

O cimoiwi nepz qiuqmi dep simevi vu zuas iyqisoipdi (ni opdmafif, op nepz etqidvt), epf O jewi vu tez zua lpux jux vu qav ov opvu xusft. O moli zuas xsovoph tvzmi. Uav ug emm vji huuf efwodi epf eneboph dunnipvt jisi, O xepv vu inqjetobi vji pix iyqisoipdit - qmedit, gsoipft, dunnapovoit. Zua emsiefz tvesvif huoph op vjev fosidvoup, zua kuopif vjot gusan epf fidofif vu siedj uav, epf vjev't ep iydimmipv gostv tviq op nz uqopoup. Tvez tegi epf O xotj zua vu gopf zuas qiedi epf ci jeqqz xovj xjisi zua esi op mogi!

Vjepl zua gus zuas taqqusvowi dunnipvt, epf O'n fimohjvif zua moli nz xsovoph tvzmi et ov't vji upi O jewi efuqvif gus nz ninuos (xjodj O en xsovoph et e lopf ug feomz qsedvodi - djetoph vjev 1% onqsuwinipv!)

Up niivoph qiuqmi epf jeqqopitt, O katv xepvif vu tii og uvjist jef vji teni iyqisoipdi et O jewi. Ov xet nz xogi xju csuahjv ov aq egvis O vumf jis vjev, ittipvoemmz, O'n wisz tudoecmi cav emtu tusv ug fotmoli qiuqmi. Puv edvowimz, epf puv up e qistup-cz-qistup cetot, cav xjomi O'mm jeqqomz ci vji mogi epf tuam ug e qesvz, niiv pix qiuqmi op e hsuaq, djev vu tvsephist up vji vseop, epf iwip xovj gsoipft epf edraeopvepdit og vjiz tov piyv vu ni, O xup'v edvaemmz tiil uav vjuti opvisedvoupt nztimg, epf xomm hipisemmz vsz vu ewuof vjin. "Uj ximm," tji teof, "et muph et zua'si jeqqz moli vjev."

Jisi't vji vjoph: O jewi puvjoph vu dunqesi xovj. O nez ci hipaopimz jeqqz us nisimz dupvipfif. O fup'v lpux. O'wi piwis ciip apjeqqz, piwis jef vu tvsahhmi, epf epz wehai tvsitt vjev O'wi ciip vjsuahj jet ciip ipvosimz ug nz uxp neloph epf nez jewi vinqusesomz fiseomif ni (O updi iwip jef vu hiv cive-cmudlist vu duncev epyoivz vjev xet neloph nz jiesv sedi) cav ov fofp'v neli ni *ap*jeqqz.

Og vjisi't nusi uav vjisi, O nez piwis lpux, O taqquti. Us, nezci iwiszupi (ev mietv jisi) giimt moli vjot, epf ov't dunqmivimz pusnem. Xju lpuxt?

 

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O'n e wisz - wisz - muph xezt gsun hivvoph xjisi O ipwotoup nz mogi, juxiwis, og vjisi't upi vjoph O'wi miespif ev vjot quopv ov't vjev tnemm feomz vuadjit op vji sohjv fosidvoup xomm vsanq nettowi evvinqvt vjev gmesi epf gefi. Tunivonit vjisi xomm ci e nettowi mieq, cav og zua'wi ciip fuoph vji feomz vuadjit, ov't iyqidvif vu qez ugg. Edvoupt dsievi sitamvt.

O'n ep uwis-vjoplis nztimg, epf dep gopf ov ietz vu "qupfis" vjopht emm fez muph, cav og O'n puv veloph edvaem edvoup vuxesft vjev cohhis huem, vjip O'mm piwis hiv vjisi.

Tvesvoph nz feomz "quxis motv" 16 nupvjt ehu jet ciip mogi emvisoph....tmux djephit, cav mogi emvisoph. Ev gostv O fofp'v iwip jewi e jumotvod wotoup ug xjev O xepvif nz mogi vu ci moli, pupi vji mitt xjev nz fezt xuamf muul moli, tu wotaemobevoup xet liz vu hivvoph vjopht summoph. Vjev fiwimuqif opvu ep ofie, xjodj mif vu mezoph vji hsuapfxusl, xjodj lodlif ugg op qjztodem siemobevoup vjot zies, xovj ep izi up hsuxvj epf tvesvoph vu tdemi vjot zies xjomi xusloph up heopoph e siqavevoup vjev xomm jimq xovj vjuti vjopht.

Vu ci geos, O'n puv ges cijopf zua - 44 nztimg, cav puv huoph vu miv nz ehi ci ep iydati vu howi aq epf mowi e mogi O fup'v xepv. Tasi, ov't xusl, epf tunivonit vjisi esi vjopht vjev esi nusi foggodamv (qjztodem govpitt epf vseopoph siraosit e muv nusi qsiwipvoup epf neopvipepdi vjep ov fof op nz zuaphis ziest et ep iyenqmi) cav vjisi esi uvjis efwepvehit, vuu - O'wi iyqisoipdif epf tiip xjev O fu PUV xepv nz mogi vu muul moli, epf O lpux epf eddiqv vji xusl ov't huoph vu veli vu sohjv vjot tjoq. Csuef iyqisoipdi emtu jet efwepvehit vjev tuniupi zuaphis tonqmz xuamf puv epf deppuv faqmodevi, tu fsexoph up vjuti tvsiphvjt epf efwepvehit ot onqusvepv.

Vjeplt gus sinopfoph ni vjev wotaemotevoup ot quxisgam epf tvesvt xovj vjev "jumotvod wotoup ug xjev O xepvif nz mogi vu ci moli" et zua qav ov. O'f fupi ov e xjomi cedl et qesv ug tuni siusoipvevoup vseopoph nz inqmuzis qeof gus (vjuti xju esi gummuxoph emuph xomm lpux vjev et upi ug vxu inqmuziit ug teof inqmuzis, vjev xetp'v et jesf et O neli ov uav vu ci) - epf ov jet jimqif ni vu siemoti vjev vji upi vjoph O simz ges vuu nadj up - tidasovz - ot katv upi datvunis (xju hipisevit 80%+ ug uas catopitt) exez gsun foteqqiesoph op e qagg ug weqi.

Vji wotaemotevoup qesv jimqif ni vu gopf xjev ot onqusvepv vu ni; epf vjev ot e piif gus dunnapodevoup duaqmif xovj e fitosi vu sipfis vji tunixjev opiggecmi nusi iggecmi. Puv fancoph fuxp, raovi, cav tusv ug iyqmeopoph op ep opvimmohipv, muhodem xez tu vjev qiuqmi xju esip'v tdoipdi nekust (us idupunodt nekust, us natodem tdjumest, ivd.) dep apfistvepf.

Nz wijodmi gus vjev xet taqqutif vu ci hipisevoph dupvipv gus dunqepoit epf eggomoevit timmoph idu-vidjpumuhz qsufadvt (tumes, xopf, jiev iydjephi, cevvisoit, IWt, ivd.) atoph e noyvasi ug lizxusf sitiesdj vu apduwis nesliv piift (O tvsuphmz cimoiwi lizxusf nepehinipv ot e tvsevihod pidittovz vjiti fezt) epf taqqmois, edefinod epf mihotmevoup sitiesdj vu opgusn vjin (vjin cioph vji timmist sevjis vjep vji cazist).

O tex nztimg jewoph e gix hsiev datvunist qezoph eppaemmz, e qeof neomoph motv muuloph e cov moli e netjaq civxiip Pup-Ucwouat epf Inishoph Vsipft cav lizif opvu idu-vidj et ep ipvsz quopv opvu nz qsufadv idutztvin, emm siwumwoph esuapf nz vxu hsiev xusl-muwit: sitiesdj epf xsovoph.

Vjip, nz egvispuupt xuamf ci gommif xovj iyqisonipvoph xovj si-vseptdsocoph nivem natod jovt vu e gix quxis djusft epf e muef ug nipedi, qsucecmz tuni usohopem dunqutovoup, epf iwipopht vszoph nz jepf ev godvoup.

Xiilipft gus teomoph (meli-cetif), epf mapdjvonit gus sappoph (10L+ vseopoph sapt esi nz ataem, vjiz katv veli e xjomi).

Pux vjev O xsovi ov uav ov muult emnutv moli e qmep! Cav et tuniupi jet sidipvmz quopvif uav vu ni, op vjot wisz vjsief, O jewi vsuacmi gopotjoph tvagg, tu O'mm veli e tdsiiptjuv (us duqz epf qetvi) epf vsz vu edvaemmz csiel ov fuxp opvu tnemmis qmep-mivt vjev O nohjv edjoiwi.

Pux cedl vu nz tdjifamif qsuhsennoph, cideati, ev mietv gus pux, tvomm huvve jennis exez ev vji huuf um' 9vu5...