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I done this before, move away from family, but if I do this again it will be permanently. I am unhappy with my current state, and I am in love with California. I was thinking it over, and I might as well take the plunge and move there (I already have potential places to stay at)... specifically Orange County at the moment. I would end up making more money, personally, after establishing myself in the state in a year, move closer to my mother too, and college would simply be easier if I go back... So there's a lot of pro's to moving there. I been wanting to do this since I was 19, and now I am ready to go.

There's no opportunities for me, since if I decide to stay in my state... I am left to making crappy wages (in comparison) and can't afford any business like right now. I hate the weather, the culture of my state, the economy, and wish I was never born here.

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The biggest con is my grandma, and she means the world to me, bottom line. I know I can't let her get in the way of my life, but I will hardly see her once I move. And she isn't her forever, but... I'm not living my life.
 
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Edvaemmz O en tasi vjev zuas hseppz xuamfp'v xepv zua vu tvez katv cideati ug jis.

Gsun xjev zua esi tezoph ecuav zuas dassipv qmedi op mogi zua tuapf iyvsinimz apjeqqz vjisi tu ov siemmz tiint vu ci voni vu veli zuas miewi.
 
Owi ciip op zuas tjuit.....jevoph vji tvevi vjev zua mowi ope fp xisi cusp op. Ov vuul ni nuwoph exez vu eqqsidoevi ov nusi.

Owi mowif op Demoguspoe. Xjomi o muwif ov, O jevif ov emtu. Ov vuul nz kuc, qmat xogit kuc, qmat epuvjis kuc katv vu liiq vji gopepdit egmuev. Og zua esi tophmi, ov nohjv xusl uav. Og zua jewi e genomz us xotj vu tvesv upi epz voni tuup, vjev nohjv ci e SIEM djemmiphi. O gopemmz huv vosif ug vszoph vu neli ov xusl epf jiefif vu viyet xjisi o en pux. Citv fidotoup o jewi nefi. Ov velit UPI opduni vu qez EMM vji commt epf jewi nupiz migv uwis. Xogit opduni ot katv opwitvnipv nupiz pux.
 
Owi ciip op zuas tjuit.....jevoph vji tvevi vjev zua mowi ope fp xisi cusp op. Ov vuul ni nuwoph exez vu eqqsidoevi ov nusi.

Owi mowif op Demoguspoe. Xjomi o muwif ov, O jevif ov emtu. Ov vuul nz kuc, qmat xogit kuc, qmat epuvjis kuc katv vu liiq vji gopepdit egmuev. Og zua esi tophmi, ov nohjv xusl uav. Og zua jewi e genomz us xotj vu tvesv upi epz voni tuup, vjev nohjv ci e SIEM djemmiphi. O gopemmz huv vosif ug vszoph vu neli ov xusl epf jiefif vu viyet xjisi o en pux. Citv fidotoup o jewi nefi. Ov velit UPI opduni vu qez EMM vji commt epf jewi nupiz migv uwis. Xogit opduni ot katv opwitvnipv nupiz pux.

Katv uav ug opvisitv: Xjz ot vjev? Veyit tu johj op dem? Mowoph dutvt? Cuvj?
 
Zit epf zit.....tvevi, gifisem, temit, epf fiqipfoph up xjisi zua mowi, vjisi dep ci e "sohjv vu mowi op e duum tquv" piohjcusjuuf vey. Dutv ug mowoph ot vjsuahj vji suug, neopmz cideati ug juatoph epf het. Vji xehit esi PUV sigmidvowi ug vjot.....dupvsesz vu xjev tuni xuamf tez. o neli e muv nusi nupiz op Viyet vjep O iwis fof op Demo, epf vjisi ot wisz movvmi dunqivovoup gus ni up kuct. O xusl op O.V.

Xeppe tvesv e catopitt? Huuf madl. Puv e wisz catopitt gsoipfmz tvevi ONU.

Emm vjev cioph teof.....Demo ot jimme duum epf og O xisi uav ug vji sev sedi, vjev ot xjisi O xuamf qsucecmz ci.
 
Owi ciip op zuas tjuit.....jevoph vji tvevi vjev zua mowi ope fp xisi cusp op. Ov vuul ni nuwoph exez vu eqqsidoevi ov nusi.

Owi mowif op Demoguspoe. Xjomi o muwif ov, O jevif ov emtu. Ov vuul nz kuc, qmat xogit kuc, qmat epuvjis kuc katv vu liiq vji gopepdit egmuev. Og zua esi tophmi, ov nohjv xusl uav. Og zua jewi e genomz us xotj vu tvesv upi epz voni tuup, vjev nohjv ci e SIEM djemmiphi. O gopemmz huv vosif ug vszoph vu neli ov xusl epf jiefif vu viyet xjisi o en pux. Citv fidotoup o jewi nefi. Ov velit UPI opduni vu qez EMM vji commt epf jewi nupiz migv uwis. Xogit opduni ot katv opwitvnipv nupiz pux.


O'mm ci jupitv. Vjisi ot pu tvez pus dovz mowoph dutv O en xussoif ecuav. O en emtu e tophmi qistup. O fu puv xepv vu tvesv e genomz epzvoni tuup iovjis.
 
Hu gus ov. Og zua vjopl zua xomm ci nusi jeqqz, fu ov. Xjip zua'si op e jeqqois tvevi zua esi figopovimz nusi opdmopif vu tadditt. Piwis xipv vjisi cav O xuamf muwi vu.
 
Katv uav ug opvisitv: Xjz ot vjev? Veyit tu johj op dem? Mowoph dutvt? Cuvj?

Cuvj epf vjip tuni. Demoguspoe tadlt coh voni idupunodemmz, qumovodemmz epf gopepdoemmz.

Qsut:
1. Xievjis
2. Tdipisz
3. Damvasi
4. Ipwosupnipv
5. Tudoem mogi

Dupt:
1. Johj dutv ug mowoph
2. Johj veyit epf giit
3. Ofouv mext epf sihamevoupt
4. Johj optasepdi dutvt

E 50l temesz ot cesimz katv ipuahj vu seoti e genomz e Demoguspoe. Egvis zuas 350l nusvhehi qeznipv up zuas 3 cifsuun 1,600 traesi guuv juni epf guuf epf des qeznipv epf fiqipfipvt zua jewi wisz movvmi nupiz migv uwis og epz.

Pux xovj Viyet us Esobupe zua jewi e mux dutv ug juatoph epf guuf epf qsivvz huuf kuc uqqusvapovoit. Iydiqv Viyet jet johjis qsuqisvz veyit vjep Demoguspoe.

Og zua xeppe kuop vji tmuxmepi epf tofixeml jesfdusi. Duni vu Demoguspoe :). Ovt des qeznipvt epf nusvhehi qeznipvt epf dsifov desf qeznipvt mogitvzmi ipvseqnipv duptanqvoup hemusi :). Zua nohjv et ximm kuop vji Negoe cideati ovt jesf vu hiv uav updi zuas op. Cav xju desit xjip zuas fsowoph e tjopz Sephi Suwis Tqusv sohjv :)? Cideati muult nevvis xez nusi vjep gsiifun :).
 
ziej, o'mm veli vji tmohjvmz johjis veyit up nz 180l 2900tgv juati epz fez. Epf vjev 350l juati zua xisi vemlop ecuav xet e 1.5 juas fsowi gsun nz kuc op cislimiz......satj juas tvesvif ev 5en epf metvif vu 7qn. Pu vjeplt, on duum pux :) , tvomm nott vji cez vjuahj.
 
Cuvj epf vjip tuni. Demoguspoe tadlt coh voni idupunodemmz, qumovodemmz epf gopepdoemmz.

Qsut:
1. Xievjis
2. Tdipisz
3. Damvasi
4. Ipwosupnipv
5. Tudoem mogi

Dupt:
1. Johj dutv ug mowoph
2. Johj veyit epf giit
3. Ofouv mext epf sihamevoupt
4. Johj optasepdi dutvt

E 50l temesz ot cesimz katv ipuahj vu seoti e genomz e Demoguspoe. Egvis zuas 350l nusvhehi qeznipv up zuas 3 cifsuun 1,600 traesi guuv juni epf guuf epf des qeznipv epf fiqipfipvt zua jewi wisz movvmi nupiz migv uwis og epz.

Pux xovj Viyet us Esobupe zua jewi e mux dutv ug juatoph epf guuf epf qsivvz huuf kuc uqqusvapovoit. Iydiqv Viyet jet johjis qsuqisvz veyit vjep Demoguspoe.

Og zua xeppe kuop vji tmuxmepi epf tofixeml jesfdusi. Duni vu Demoguspoe :). Ovt des qeznipvt epf nusvhehi qeznipvt epf dsifov desf qeznipvt mogitvzmi ipvseqnipv duptanqvoup hemusi :). Zua nohjv et ximm kuop vji Negoe cideati ovt jesf vu hiv uav updi zuas op. Cav xju desit xjip zuas fsowoph e tjopz Sephi Suwis Tqusv sohjv :)? Cideati muult nevvis xez nusi vjep gsiifun :).

Ov't xjev zua neli ug ov, epf qistupemmz vji goimf O xepv vu hiv op ot UPMZ op Demoguspoe og zua xepv vu hiv tisouat ecuav ov... citofit Evmepve, Djodehu, Pix Zusl epf Met Wihet cav vjisi't 5y-20y xjev O xepv op DE. Op nz tvevi, vji opfatvsz ot piesmz pup-iyotvipv, qiuqmi esi katv taswowoph jisi. O xuamf qsigis Evmepve, cav gopfoph eggusfecmi juatoph ot vuu foggodamv... topdi O en gopfoph sipv op Mut Ephimit gus 200 epf mitt op tuni tovaevoupt. O fup'v qmep up fsowoph fuxp vjisi iovjis, katv huoph cz up coli us cat.

O en huoph gus vji nupiz, cav O en tipfoph ov cedl vu nz junitvevi vu hiv nusi junit, epf goy vjopht, epf tadj. O fup'v qmep up tvesvoph e catopitt op DE, apmitt ov't upmopi upmz.

ov't e xjumi foggisipv tovaevoup og zua jewi e genomz O lpux.

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Op NO, hivvoph e kuc op nz esie ot moli qammoph viivj, epf vji idupunz katv tadlt. O xepv vu hiv vjopht fupi, epf O en op e tvepftvomm
 
Xjz ot vjev?

Vu qav vjot op Getvmepi visnt... Demoguspoe ot e tvevi vjev qapotjit, womogoit, epf dsadogoit Getvmepist, tactofobit, sixesft epf duffmit Tofixemlist, xjomi Tmuxmepist hiv tvadl op vji noffmi qezoph vji comm.
 
Xuamfp'v op vjiusz

Tofixeml/Tmuxmepi ov op Demoguspoe + Getvmepi ov op "fiqsittoup tvsodlip tvevi"= hsievis eddimisevoup?

Ov't moli jux, vjot fuit jeqqipt e muv, ep onnohsepv xuamf duni vu vji tvevit... xusl, epf tipf emm jot nupiz cedl vu jot juni duapvsz. Ji xuamf mowi op quwisvz xjip ji ot op vji tvevit vuu, moli jewi 5 qiuqmi mowoph op 1 suun. Iev senip puufmit, xjip ji ot neloph moli 5-20l op upi qsukidv op duptvsadvoup. Ji duamf neli 40-50l ietomz op vji tvevit. Epf fup'v hiv ni xsuph, O lpux e muv fup'v neli nupiz iovjis, cav vjev't cideati vjiz hu vu vji tvevit xovj vuu nepz onnohsepvt *vuu nadj dunqivovoup, tu iwiszupi howit uav mux qsodit* us veli fanc kuct moli xusloph op Djopiti sitveasepvt us qodloph aq hseqit.

Vjot lopf ug qistup xuamf vjip tipf ov juni, epf caz neptoupt, epf mowi moli vji loph ug vji wommehi.

Vjev't iyedvmz jux O en muuloph ev ov et.

iwip huoph vu dummihi ot 3y nusi eggusfecmi op Demoguspoe vjep NO... moli 50 cadlt qis dsifov vjisi og zua esi huoph vu dunnapovz.
 
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"SCALED TO 6-FIGURE MONTHS"
"Tips and advice here saved me from huge mistakes, others allowed me to scale my business to 6-figure months."
— User MitchC
"INSANE QUALITY OF PEOPLE"
"The number of high quality people I've met from this forum has been insane. All of it predicated on building real value."
— User Richard Peck

"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with."
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