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I know this isn't the place to discuss mental health problems, but I need help...
I just turned 18 and I had 3 business ideas which I had executed and they failed terribly. A few days back when I was grinding on my business the reason for my grind was my girlfriend, I loved her I wanted to give her every possible thing I could so that's the reason I started the business so that I can earn money and become stable. it didn't turn out well, I failed terribly and she left me I also have some health conditions some doctors say I couldn't become a father and I was so depressed I left everything and just became degenerate and also left my martial arts. I read a lot of books, but at the time I was reading "The Millionaires Fastlane", because of her leaving and my depression taking over me, I left reading the book. I don't want to feel anything, I just feel to bury my head in mud and not do anything.
Whenever I start researching business and trying to figure out how to make my idea come true, My gut says "YOU ARE YOUNG!! YOU NEED TO ENJOY DON'T WORRY just watch some anime, jak off, sleep, don't worry." Even if I listen to my gut I feel terrible and hate myself more than ever. After she left me I isolated myself and didn't talk to any of my friends which turned out no one ever texted me again and no one even cared I felt so alone. I really want to improve my situation, I've developed this fear of failing because I've failed 3 times in business and many times in life and my mind just says I am a loser, I hate the motivation I see on youtube, Insta, etc...
And most of all, what business should I get into? I'm really confused, hope someone can help me saying this on a forum was difficult for me, but i finally did it...
Who I am:
I just turned 18 and I had 3 business ideas which I had executed and they failed terribly. A few days back when I was grinding on my business the reason for my grind was my girlfriend, I loved her I wanted to give her every possible thing I could so that's the reason I started the business so that I can earn money and become stable. it didn't turn out well, I failed terribly and she left me I also have some health conditions some doctors say I couldn't become a father and I was so depressed I left everything and just became degenerate and also left my martial arts. I read a lot of books, but at the time I was reading "The Millionaires Fastlane", because of her leaving and my depression taking over me, I left reading the book. I don't want to feel anything, I just feel to bury my head in mud and not do anything.My problem:
Whenever I start researching business and trying to figure out how to make my idea come true, My gut says "YOU ARE YOUNG!! YOU NEED TO ENJOY DON'T WORRY just watch some anime, jak off, sleep, don't worry." Even if I listen to my gut I feel terrible and hate myself more than ever. After she left me I isolated myself and didn't talk to any of my friends which turned out no one ever texted me again and no one even cared I felt so alone. I really want to improve my situation, I've developed this fear of failing because I've failed 3 times in business and many times in life and my mind just says I am a loser, I hate the motivation I see on youtube, Insta, etc...And most of all, what business should I get into? I'm really confused, hope someone can help me saying this on a forum was difficult for me, but i finally did it...
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