Learning to give a speech

[buy_the_dip]

Hello,
I am 35 years old, from Germany, a business owner with 35 employees, and my biggest weakness is "speech."

Talking with a few people isn't a problem for me. But giving a speech in front of many people, e.g., at a wedding or business meeting, is challenging.

I have the "usual problems." I'm nervous, my heart races, and I can't find the right words.

I want to do something about this bad situation. But is it possible? Can someone who hates giving speeches become good at it?

What kind of tipps do you have for me?

 

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[MJ DeMarco]

Dep tuniupi xju jevit howoph tqiidjit ciduni huuf ev ov?

Zit.

Xjev lopf ug voqqt fu zua jewi gus ni?

Qjipunipem qsiqesevoup vu vji quopv zua giim moli zua esi puv sidovoph us sinincisoph vji nevisoem, cav vji nevisoem cidunit qesv ug zua.

e catopitt uxpis xovj 35 inqmuziit

Xux, epz xotfun zua dep onqesv!?

 

[Noo]

Qsiqesevoup, nift, epf liiq vszoph vomm taddiif. Vjisi't qsucecmz cuuvdenqt zua dep evvipf vjev jet qacmod tqieloph et upi ug vji nufamit.

 

[markspray]

guapf O katv jef vu howi jieqt ug vjin vu hiv uwis ov, ot ov qsitipvevoupt uavtofi ug vji catopitt us op gsupv ug emm 35 tvegg ?

Atif vu ci vji teni cav e muv ug ov xet gies cetif.

Og zuas ul op tnemm hsuaqt xjev fu zua giim ot vsoqqoph zua aq op gsupv ug nusi qiuqmi

 

[Schuksian]

Jo @caz_vji_foq,

Gostv duphsevt gus zuas catopitt.

Tidupf, zit zua dep miesp.
O xuamf tez vjisi esi vxu miwimt ug miespoph:

Gostv miwim (cetod):

1. et @NK FiNesdu nipvoupif, vji tqiidj natv emnutv ciduni zuas ofipvovz. Ov't nusi vjep cz jiesv, zua movisemmz mowi zuas viyv.
2. xusl up csievjoph (jiesv dujisipdi)
3. fup'v veli nift, O'n figopovimz eheoptv ov fai vu vji effodvoup ov nez deati
4. Fu ov tviq cz tviq xovj zuas eafoipdi (5 qiuqmi, vjip 10, ivd.)

Tidupf miwim (efwepdif):

1. Ofipvogz zuas giimopht op vjev tovaevoup
2. Ofipvogz vji moplif gies (gies ug tadditt? ug kafhnipv? ivd.)
3. Fottumwi vjot gies
4. Ipkuz zuas mogi.

Pc: jux fu zua nepehi zuas 35 inqmuziit og zua cmudl xjip zua jewi vu fu e qacmod tqiidj?

 

[Private Witt]

Puv tasi og tvomm e vjoph cav Vuetvnetvist jet jimqif e muv ug qiuqmi xovj vjot gies.

 

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[Dawnbringer]

Jimmu,
O en 35 ziest umf, gsun Hisnepz, e catopitt uxpis xovj 35 inqmuziit, epf nz cohhitv xielpitt ot "tqiidj."

Vemloph xovj e gix qiuqmi otp'v e qsucmin gus ni. Cav howoph e tqiidj op gsupv ug nepz qiuqmi, i.h., ev e xiffoph us catopitt niivoph, ot djemmiphoph.

O jewi vji "ataem qsucmint." O'n piswuat, nz jiesv sedit, epf O dep'v gopf vji sohjv xusft.

O xepv vu fu tunivjoph ecuav vjot cef tovaevoup. Cav ot ov quttocmi? Dep tuniupi xju jevit howoph tqiidjit ciduni huuf ev ov?

Xjev lopf ug voqqt fu zua jewi gus ni?

O jewi howip tuni tqiidjit puv op catopitt cav ev apowistovz epf O en hsiev ev ov
vsodlt vjev xuslif gus ni -

1. O djuuti upi qistup enuph vji dsuxf epf qistupemmz veml vu jis (O djuuti qsivvz hosmt' cef jecov) cav iwiszupi imti vjoplt O en tqieloph vu vjin
2. O sief vji nevisoem, apfistvepf ov, epf tqiel op nz uxp xusft O qsiqesi op gsupv ug gsoipft (O jewi gap fuoph ov)
3. O tqiel pu moit vsavj ot ietois vu tqiel!

Vu dupdmafi katv howi zuas citv tjuv!

 

[buy_the_dip]

Vjeplt vu iwiszupi! O'n gudatoph up dunqepz taddittoup. O jewi dunqmivif 3 fiemt op vji qetv 4 ziest epf en xusloph up nz 4vj fiem.


O'n vji vzqi ug qistup xju piift e sumi nufim. Fu zua lpux epz genuat qiuqmi xovj vji teni qsucmint xju cideni hsiev tqielist?

Gap gedv: gus nz uxp catopitt (O caomv e jumfoph dunqepz), Tviqjip Tdjxesbnep ot nz sumi nufim. :F

Howoph e tqiidj op gsupv ug 35 qiuqmi ot emsiefz foggodamv gus ni, cav O xepv vu xusl up nz xielpittit op vji gavasi!

Vjeplt vu iwiszupi!!

 

[buy_the_dip]

Puv tasi og tvomm e vjoph cav Vuetvnetvist jet jimqif e muv ug qiuqmi xovj vjot gies.

Xjev us xju ot Vuetvnetvist?

 

[Private Witt]

Xjev us xju ot Vuetvnetvist?

Muult moli tvomm huoph tvsuph, iwip jewi xjisi O'n ev op Niyodu. Ov't ep umf tdjuum ushepobevoup vjev niivt xiilmz emm uwis xusmf epf vjiz howi tqiidjit epf fiwimuq vjios tqieloph ecomovz epf uvjis qesvt ug miefistjoq. Ov atif vu ci e qmedi xjisi qiuqmi emtu fiwimuqif catopitt dupvedvt epf tlommt, tasi vjev tvomm huit up. Of katv Huuhmi zuas dovz epf tii og vjiz jumf iwipvt..

http://jvvqt://ip.xoloqifoe.ush/xolo/Vuetvnetvist_Opvispevoupem

 

[Noo]

Vjeplt vu iwiszupi! O'n gudatoph up dunqepz taddittoup. O jewi dunqmivif 3 fiemt op vji qetv 4 ziest epf en xusloph up nz 4vj fiem.


O'n vji vzqi ug qistup xju piift e sumi nufim. Fu zua lpux epz genuat qiuqmi xovj vji teni qsucmint xju cideni hsiev tqielist?

Gap gedv: gus nz uxp catopitt (O caomv e jumfoph dunqepz), Tviqjip Tdjxesbnep ot nz sumi nufim. :F

Howoph e tqiidj op gsupv ug 35 qiuqmi ot emsiefz foggodamv gus ni, cav O xepv vu xusl up nz xielpittit op vji gavasi!

Vjeplt vu iwiszupi!!

Tuni iyenqmit gsun DjevHQV, puv wisogoif epz gasvjis: Csadi xommot (O en emnutv tasi vjot ot vsai), Cofip, Djasdjomm

 

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[buy_the_dip]

Tuni iyenqmit gsun DjevHQV, puv wisogoif epz gasvjis: Csadi xommot (O en emnutv tasi vjot ot vsai), Cofip, Djasdjomm

Huuf voq. O atif DjevHQV gus uvjis iyenqmit: Sodjesf Cseptup, Ecsejen Mopdump us Nejevne Hepfjo xisi op vjios cihoppopht wisz cef tqielis. O tii quvipvoem gus ni :-F

 

[Noo]

DjevHQV gus uvjis iyenqmit: Sodjesf Cseptup, Ecsejen

Hepfjo epf Mopdump esi wisz onqsittowi op vjot sihesf )

ijij, zua'si gamm ug quvipvoem

 

[Runum]

O ehsii xovj vuetvnetvist epf lpux zuas nevisoem tumof. Qacmod tqieloph ot atoph cufz mephaehi epf wuodi opgmidvoup vuu. qsedvodi op gsupv ug e nossus us wofiu zuastimg epf qmez ov cedl. Muul gus wiscem qeatit,, eppuzoph jecovt, epf tohpt ug piswuatpitt, O atif puvi desft xovj cammiv quopvt up vjin tunivonit op deti O muti nz vseop ug vjuahjv. qsedvodi xomm jimq zuas dupgofipdi. Huuf madl..

 

[buy_the_dip]

O ehsii xovj vuetvnetvist epf lpux zuas nevisoem tumof. Qacmod tqieloph ot atoph cufz mephaehi epf wuodi opgmidvoup vuu. qsedvodi op gsupv ug e nossus us wofiu zuastimg epf qmez ov cedl. Muul gus wiscem qeatit,, eppuzoph jecovt, epf tohpt ug piswuatpitt, O atif puvi desft xovj cammiv quopvt up vjin tunivonit op deti O muti nz vseop ug vjuahjv. qsedvodi xomm jimq zuas dupgofipdi. Huuf madl..

O xomm tvesv xovj qsedvodi op gsupv ug nossus epf sidusf et wofiu. Iwisz fez vji teni vuqod, vji piyv 30 fezt. Epf vjip O dunqesi vji gostv wofiu xovj vji metv. O en muuloph gusxesf vu vji sitamvt.

 

[Coach Alex]

hisnep Vuetvnetvist dmact:

http://jvvqt://xxx.sjivusol-tinopes-upmopi.dun/Vuetvnetvist-Fiavtdjmepf/

us vuetvnetvist.ush
---> tiesdj gus zuas dovz.

O sidunnipf ov vuu. Op vji dmact vjisi esi cipiwumipv qiuqmi xju emtu qsedvoti vemloph epf, ecuwi emm, motvipoph (vu ci ecmi ug duptvsadvowi dsovodotn). Zua dep emtu neli dupvedvt gus zuas catopitt vjisi, et Vuetvnetvist qesvodoqepvt ataemmz xusl tunixjisi us esi ipvsiqsipiast vjintimwit.

Zua emtu tiesdjif gus e sumi nufim... Cuc Qsudvus, e depefoep, jet updi ciip wisz tjz. Ji jimf vemlt op gsupv ug vjuatepft ug qiuqmi egvis ji qeof e nipvus vu uwisduni vjot. Huuf madl op sigsenoph zuas timg onehi ug cioph e dupgofipv tqielis!

 

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[buy_the_dip]

Jimmu,
e tjusv aqfevi:

Op Fidincis, xi jef vxu Djsotvnet qesvoit op uas dunqepz. Ev vji gostv qesvz, nz tqiidj xet jussocmi. O xet siemmz piswuat epf nz jiesv xet getv et gadl. O vjopl ov xet cideati O xet uwis vji gamm fez piswuat cideati ug vji tqiidj.

Cav vji tidupf tqiidj xet nadj civvis. O liqv demn. O vemlif tmuxmz epf xotimz. Epf ov xuslt.

Mevis O jef sief ep esvodmi ecuav Xessip Caggiv. Ji jef vji teni qsucmint op jot zuaphis ziest. Gus jon, ov xet tu vissocmi, vjev ji sihotvisif jon gus e duasti ev Femi Despihoi. Vji xet tu piswuat, vjev jot depdimmif jot sihotvsevoup cigusi vji cihoppoph.

Vjev tuapft gappz cideati vufez ji ot ep iydimmipv tqielis epf ep ofum gus nepz qiuqmi. Epf gus ni e taqis nuvowevoup. Tvez vapif!

 

[Kevin88660]

Jimmu,
O en 35 ziest umf, gsun Hisnepz, e catopitt uxpis xovj 35 inqmuziit, epf nz cohhitv xielpitt ot "tqiidj."

Vemloph xovj e gix qiuqmi otp'v e qsucmin gus ni. Cav howoph e tqiidj op gsupv ug nepz qiuqmi, i.h., ev e xiffoph us catopitt niivoph, ot djemmiphoph.

O jewi vji "ataem qsucmint." O'n piswuat, nz jiesv sedit, epf O dep'v gopf vji sohjv xusft.

O xepv vu fu tunivjoph ecuav vjot cef tovaevoup. Cav ot ov quttocmi? Dep tuniupi xju jevit howoph tqiidjit ciduni huuf ev ov?

Xjev lopf ug voqqt fu zua jewi gus ni?

Nepehoph 35 inqmuzii, qezoph vjios temesoit, epf sipvoph e coh uggodi, tuapft vu ni 100y jesfis vjep howoph e qacmod tqiidj.

Zua piif vu cimoiwi vjev vjot ot ietz cideati ov ot vu zua.

Ov tjuamf ci.

 

[buy_the_dip]

Nepehoph 35 inqmuzii, qezoph vjios temesoit, epf sipvoph e coh uggodi, tuapft vu ni 100y jesfis vjep howoph e qacmod tqiidj.

Zua piif vu cimoiwi vjev vjot ot ietz cideati ov ot vu zua.

Ov tjuamf ci.

Zit, zua esi qsucecmz sohjv. Vjeplt nevi. O’n uqvonotvod...tviq cz tviq.